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i don't get why this is the 'end' for you. you admitted here that you had an open relationship with caveats to tell the other 'when someone better comes along'. From my and i am assuming gfys understanding, he found no such thing.
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Yes we were open, but he wasn't honest and what made me so upset is that he's BRAGGING about keeping it from me on here. Not that I care what GFY thinks, but man, I feel like an idiot. I'm not blaming him cuz those are my own feelings. I know guys are dogs and it's hard to keep 'em on the porch. That's ok. But how does one misjudge character so completely? Someone like that I wouldn't even want to give the time of day to much less be friends with. And it doesn't matter if he ultimately got laid or not, the intent was there to have a relationship with her, not just bang her and go. If you have the intent for emotional attachment, then let me know dammit so I can deal with mine and we can be friends.
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According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.
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Exactly. I actually feel sorry for him that he DIDNT at least get laid and gods... the insecurity. I knew he had some but holy christ. I never saw that between he and I. She totally played him, but duh, she's a stripper. Apparently she's good at it. Definitely some instant karma going on there.
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Open relationships are usually based on sex with other people, not emotions for other people and it was pretty clear the guy thought he was in love with the stripper. That violates most rules of most open relationships. Banging her and forgetting her would have been a different thing.
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See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job :thumbsup Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the planet.
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well since he humiliated you in public spill the dirt on this guy. don't hold back Trayce.
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I have more class than that.
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so you think what Tracy is mad about is simply the fact the dude is somewhat of a nice guy, who doesn't abuse and use women?
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I thought he WAS a nice guy. Certainly it wouldn't have gone on between us for three years if I didnt think that. This is emotional abuse. I'll get over it because I dont subscribe to the victim mentality, but when you get hit, it's still going to hurt for a bit. I commend him for not taking most of y'alls advice about "raisin a pimp hand." LOL But I'm an idiot. I should've known the lying and sneaky shit wouldn't stop with him hiding me from his dance teacher since she's delusional about him just like he was delusional about Mindy. I just had no clue how bad the self esteem was. Geez, I thought I was HELPING him with that too. Guess I suck in more than one way.
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When things were starting to crash and burn, a $28 hidden camera was my friend.
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this is fucked up
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Tell me about it. I'm wondering how much footage he has of me. Put that together with the whole "when I'm mad at you I'll put all your photos and videos that I never asked permission to take on a web site under your name." Too bad some photographer in NY beat you to my domain when it became available john. Or is that really YOU Mr. Anderson? Ironic, no?
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I knew this thread had potential.
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Yeah, I thought long and hard (::snicker:: - c'mon, you know you have a bazillion jokes for that!) about fueling any fires by posting, but I feel like such an idiot for not figuring it out sooner that I had to post something just for my own satisfaction. Especially when he even SENT ME THE LINK to this post because he was pissed that she dumped him. I never searched for anything else before last night because I TRUSTED that this was the only link. Ran across the other link by accident. Who knew? I guess I know now.
