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DaddyHalbucks

11-07-2011 08:35 PM

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Jarmusch

11-07-2011 08:38 PM

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raymor

11-07-2011 10:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by munki (Post 18543221)

Give him a hug... nuff said.

Qft.

One thing to avoid, perhaps, is identifying him too much by his sexuality, either positively or negatively. I think being too "supportive" of your gay son could be almost as damaging as being real negative about your gay son. Instead, just talk to your son, not your "gay son".

He may being hanging out with people, reading literature, etc. that really focuses on "the gay lifestyle", "gay issues", etc., which separates a person from the rest of society by focusing on, and even inventing, differences. He's your son, he's a man, and a pre-med student, not your gay son, a gay man, and a gay student.

uno	11-07-2011 11:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marlboroack (Post 18543231)

Don't call him a fag and disown him and stop loving him.. Gay people are cool in my opinion. No homo.

Anyone who says "no homo" is clearly gay. I've never heard a more gay phrase in my life.

harvey

11-07-2011 11:11 PM

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cykoe6

11-07-2011 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tony286 (Post 18543217)

tell him you love him.

Quote:

Originally Posted by munki (Post 18543221)

Give him a hug... nuff said.

Quote:

Originally Posted by anexsia (Post 18543230)

As a mother, you should always support your son and be there for him...so if he's gay, respect his lifestyle no matter what.

Quote:

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 18543242)

You love him, support him and will always be there for him just as you always have been. Leave it at that unless he wants more.

Don't start prying. He will reveal more when he is comfortable enough.

Signed,
A Gay Son

This is all very good advice. :thumbsup

uno	11-07-2011 11:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SilentKnight (Post 18543547)

Has he enrolled in hairdressing school or interior design yet?

If he has, can you send him to my condo to redecorate and repaint?

Sarah_Jayne

11-08-2011 12:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ (Post 18543916)

You lost me on your post? Why should his father have to "prove" anything differently because his son made a lifestyle choice? Meaning, is it not a bit prejudiced to assume he'd treat his own son differently? Besides, most parents know their kids gay before the kid does.

It isn't specific to being gay (sort of hate the word 'choice' in association with sexuality but okay) but in this case, I meant that when parents say that sort of thing to a child that has come out that they then need to back it up and be the supportive parent they need. Certainly that is not exclusive to being the parents of an LGBT child but it the insecurity that often comes with the coming out period is something that does indeed involve the need for a different set of parenting skills.

epitome

11-08-2011 12:04 AM

Your son may have been fucking around on Facebook and now his Mom will always think he likes cock.

Does he wear tight Hollister shirts with shell necklaces? Usually a good indicator.

porno jew

11-08-2011 12:06 AM

solution = fixing cars, playing sports and big game hunting. gay problem solved.

epitome

11-08-2011 12:06 AM

Oh shit he's still 18.

PM me a picture and I may make him my next project. Mine is 22 now and I like to trade up before they hit five years of wear and tear.

epitome

11-08-2011 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 18543953)

solution = fixing cars, playing sports and big game hunting. gay problem solved.

Unless he does that in tight Hollister shirts, shell necklaces and a trucker hat. That is a country gay.

porno jew

11-08-2011 12:12 AM

donny long wore shell necklaces and he wasn't gay.

porno jew

11-08-2011 12:17 AM

epitome

11-08-2011 12:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 18543956)

donny long wore shell necklaces and he wasn't gay.

Donny Long is the only person that believed he wasn't gay.

Milfer

11-08-2011 12:55 AM

Never be bias on the basis of his sexuality. Just treat him and love him as you would if he was an straight.

Thomas007

11-08-2011 03:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Milfer (Post 18543990)

Never be bias on the basis of his sexuality. Just treat him and love him as you would if he was an straight.

I second that, and be nice to his boyfriends.

TubeSubmitters

11-08-2011 03:24 AM

Maybe cause his father is a tranny?

Jel	11-08-2011 03:39 AM

I'm stunned you would ask this, ask this on gfy, and use your real nick.

Emil	11-08-2011 03:39 AM

Ask him if he likes bears or twinks.

tabasco

11-08-2011 03:43 AM

it's just a phase, he'll grow out of it

Double trouble

11-08-2011 03:49 AM

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Oracle Porn

11-08-2011 03:54 AM

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John-ACWM

11-08-2011 04:03 AM

Support him, he needs his family.

Dirty F

11-08-2011 04:23 AM

Buy him a fruitcake.

Dirty F

11-08-2011 04:26 AM

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Lykos

11-08-2011 04:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18543677)

http://i.imgur.com/5v7M6.jpg

:thumbsup

Fabien

11-08-2011 05:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sabby (Post 18543370)

he doesnt look like me.

He's tall, dark, handsome, and smart,

Im short, blonde, cute, and dumb.

Sorry for the good-looking part I know that makes u feel inferrior and thus u must lash out at us. would it make u feel better if I told u just farted and it smelled bad???

Sabby:)

WELL I GUESS I LOVE short, blonde, cute and dumb girls :1orglaugh

Seriously, you ain't sure. He probably did this to shock or have fun. If not then, there's nothing you can do about it. Around 2% of the population are gay.
Reminds me of a shirt i saw on the street: "I'm gay, get over it" :1orglaugh

seeandsee

11-08-2011 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jarmusch (Post 18543682)

http://www.whoaorno.com/images/11.jpg

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh hahahaha hahahahha :upsidedow:upsidedow

scottybuzz

11-08-2011 05:42 AM

as a mother you should have worked it out by age 11-12 when the signs first start showing.

NetHorse

11-08-2011 05:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stocktrader23 (Post 18543218)

Dirty liberal scum.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Fucking hilarious.

I wouldn't know what to say either, possibly because there isn't anything to say.

BlackCrayon

11-08-2011 07:49 AM

get him a hooker just to be sure.

Chosen

11-08-2011 07:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jarmusch (Post 18543194)

If you're not homophobic, then you don't have to say anything.

:2 cents:

Chosen

11-08-2011 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jarmusch (Post 18543682)

http://www.whoaorno.com/images/11.jpg

:1orglaugh LMAO :1orglaugh

WTFBucks

11-08-2011 08:00 AM

Just act like nothing special has happened. Cause nothing has changed really except you know now he likes cock

Sarah_Jayne

11-08-2011 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ (Post 18544650)

See this is where/how it gets complicated. The son made a "choice" to tell his parents he's gay. That's where I'm lost because they might not approve/understand why he's gay or like it, but how could a true parent, just stop loving their child or not provide endless ancillary support, regardless?

Your post reads odd, like gay people who newly "come out" must have some type of handicap and need constant coddling like a newborn? If I had a kid and he said dad, I'm gay. I'd say so, why didn't you tell me earlier? Now go park the lawnmower and rearrange/organize my workbench. That's it.

Anyway, reading between the lines I understand your gay and feel you were born that way. What bugs me is how gay people politicize this to enforce straight people to be tolerant and understand as if you were handicap due to your root sexual preference.

I also understand public gay events to get people to "come out", but I just can't grasp the reason why people need this type of attention when these resources/events can better/identify the root cause of why people truly "hate" homosexuals.

I don't doubt for a second people are born gay as this is not the core cause of the hatred. It's the collateral damage caused by gay people who were born/made gay, who hate being gay. They'll live a lie to protect this secret at all costs even if it destroys lives, as they run the risk of destroying their own lives/families/careers/reputations.

Instead of helping, openly gay people enable them, causing a a nonstop cycle of destruction that creates even more hatred, as your main focus it to brand breeders, bigots if called anything derogatory about a homosexual preference.

In short, I find fanatical openly gay people to be hypocritical and purely self absorbed.

Or it is the case that any child that is going through anything that takes that amount of courage needs a support network. In this case, it happens to be because they came out as being gay. In any number of situations, there are parents who say they love and support their kids but then aren't actually backing those words up with that love and support. That is what I was saying. It could be a career choice, it could be dying their hair pink, whatever. In this case, it is being gay.

I find the term 'fanatical openly gay' fairly ridiculous. How many straight people do you know that are 'fanatical openly straight' and that is just fine?

Yeah, the kid made a choice - though it looks like in this case he was discovered rather than made the choice - and a brave one at that. Congrats to him.

TurboAngel

11-08-2011 11:51 AM

There's some good advice here.

DarkJedi

11-08-2011 12:17 PM

Teach him everything you know about sucking cawk.

harvey

11-08-2011 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkJedi (Post 18545389)

Teach him everything you know about sucking cawk.

Sally Rand sucks cawk? :helpme

Evil Chris

11-08-2011 01:39 PM

Where does the "son I am disappoint" come from... it's funny.

18teens

11-08-2011 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sabby (Post 18543183)

I just got hit with this. He turns 19 in jan.

What do you say or not say. Im not homophobic. I just dont know what to say.

Sabby:)

Don't change anything about what you would normally say or not say. In the grand scheme of things, nothing has changed. He's still your son and you still love him no matter what.

NewNick

11-08-2011 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 18teens (Post 18545661)

Don't change anything about what you would normally say or not say. In the grand scheme of things, nothing has changed. He's still your son and you still love him no matter what.

and the cawk ?

BlackCrayon

11-09-2011 09:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris (Post 18545581)

Where does the "son I am disappoint" come from... it's funny.

i'd like to know how did all those drawings..troll guy, forever alone, u no wanna guy.. etc.

porno jew

11-09-2011 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18547270)

i'd like to know how did all those drawings..troll guy, forever alone, u no wanna guy.. etc.

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epitome

11-09-2011 06:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fabien (Post 18544250)

2%? At the very least, 10% confirmed, many suspect closer to 30% if you factor in the people who are bi.

pornmasta

11-09-2011 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sabby (Post 18543183)

I just got hit with this. He turns 19 in jan.

What do you say or not say. Im not homophobic. I just dont know what to say.

Sabby:)

Now tell him that you work in porn :pimp :winkwink:

topwebmodels_chris

11-09-2011 06:54 PM

He is still your son regardless of his gender preferences. You should be understanding and supportive. Dont try to change his mind because he has already made that decision on his own.

papill0n

11-09-2011 08:46 PM

With an alcoholic lunatic as a mother being gay will be the least of his worries.

porno jew

11-09-2011 08:56 PM

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nakeddutch

11-09-2011 10:09 PM

It is interesting ... Hmmm... did he experience a lot of "gay dreams" ?

you may want to try to look into the thought - dream - aspect of this to better help you understand his lifestyle....

A good way is to "consciously dream" (that is, control what you dream to get 'answers' to questions you may have about this lifestyle)

Example: (how to do this) : you have to 'say out loud' your question, then hit the sack; and await a reply tonight via sleep.

like so:

(say out loud) "I wish to know the truth, how does my son's dreams work into this new lifestyle?"

then go to sleep and write down your reply when you wake up.

You are now doing 'spirit work' or dream work!

Cheers!

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