Oh and yeah. Mom died last March 14 at age 95. Then Lucky in the fall on Sept 16.

It was a tough year.

When your mother dies guys. When you watch your mother die and go down to 70LBs or less. A little piece of you dies too.

She was really my strength as was Lucky.

So lately I have felt closer to death.

Creepy story... the day she died my friend went up to help get her nursing home room cleaned out.

On the way back home on March 14, 2011 at 5:45pm between Freeport and Melrose Minnesota on I-94, me and my friend watched the grave digger pass us on the way back from digging my mom's grave.

Heading back to St Cloud or Minneapolis. Someone had to do it. It was the spookiest and hardest thing I ever seen.

Me and my friend at first were stunned but we both knew what it was.. A small little yellow cat sitting on a trailer.. a grave diggers catapillar.

When my mom died, I had gone to visit her in the nursing home where she was trying to recover from her stroke. We had a nice visit and I let her know I was looking for houses so we could move her home and get in-home care.

I drove to meet the realtor at the first house the next morning and she drove up waving her phone out the window for me. My brother had called her to say that mom had died. I guess he was afraid I might put an offer on a house. The timing and circumstances will always suck, but also I'm glad I got to visit her that last time.

Couple of years later I had my own heart attack and shit's been downhill really on the money side. But I've quit lots of bad habits and picked up good ones so again, there is good there.

You can't really go through life being angry and wanting revenge or holding grudges or regrets. Who was it that said holding a grudge is like swallowing poison and expecting someone else to get sick?

I was looking for the first cliff notes post so I didn't have to read walls of text. This is about an exterior light motion detector?

Then to top it off I go broke, dead broke last year. Anyone ever been down to $4.20 or in the hole. No credit. No cards.

Most people have been kind regarding that.

Yet the game is far from over. The race far from run. I am doing better. Never be an ass to someone who is down cause anyone can go down.

the road is long..



you have always been kind and I thank you

what happened to wehateporn?

Post 3 seriously :) I posted cliff notes.

No it is about a nut job I got tired of and thought I would share the story. I thought we were all friends. Dont friends share stories? :)

Didnt really come across perfectly tho I guess.

Oh and to the bill collectors... I am on Energy Assistance. By Minnesota State Law my money both wages and in the bank can not be touched. Period. I will be on Energy Assistance again next year too.

I have seen the forms.

So dont sue me yet. LOL You wont get shit. :)

I love Minnesota.



Of course you might want the default I suppose.

Cause I am going places LOL

I should educate the masses. I have been thinking of doing that.

Cash only baby.. ditching the bank for money orders just to avoid the fees in case you do a preliminary strike as they like to do in MN. I would file the form you MUST send me and get my money back by mentioning my EA number but I might have fees.

MN allows bank seizure BEFORE filing suit. Bad news for people who actually have money.

But MN is good news for folks who are honestly and legally broke.

So you are hereby fucked there too.

It is against the law for a bill collector to publicly acknowledge a debter. I would be glad to sue one if they would.

They wont commment but they read this shit.

So just thought I would have a one way conversation and give you the skinny so you can save the legal fees. :)

I have ONE advantage. I can live very cheaply and ALL my property is exempt by MN state law.

Fix't. But seriously...

Markham's been around since Adam & Eve, trying to hide behind a tree in a dirty brown mac raincoat with a Nikon the size of a city bus. I heard he got his big break in the 1500's & used to kick it with Henry VIII. His downfall came in the early 1900's when the concept of IQ came into play. He scored lower than a piece of toilet paper that Einstein wiped his ass on. :1orglaugh

So what are the qualifications for EA in MN you ask?

Good Q. :)

Single guy in my county $1890.

I can make up to $1890 and still qual for EA. Median income about $3300 a month.

Some of you would be fucked. But most could live very well and guess what.. you are debt free.

The bloodsuckers go bye bye.

How many of you make $1400, $1500, $1700 but are strapped with high cc bills and interest and are really struggling right now?

Dump em and move to MN. Start legally debt free. Protected by Minnesoat state law.

Cause in America the poor man is not meant to end up in the street and laws keep that from happening.

Other debter friendly states include Texas (No wage attachment), Michigan (also good with wages) and New York (up to $2500 in a bank can not be touched or seized no matter what).

Most states allow 120 times the fed min wage monthly exempt. Minnesota is 160 times the fed min wage or about $1280. But you would qualify for public assistance so in essence you can go up to $1890.

Same is given to someone leaving prison. For 6 months you can not touch someone leaving prison. The little guy is allowed to try and start over without the corporate and big banking thieves and lawyers bleeding you dry.

Why do I tell you this? Cause we are friends and someone out here can use this info.

And cause I dont particularily like to see people bled dry or WORRY due to bill collectors because they are ignorant of their rights as I was.



Basicly in MN around 2 Gs at least is safe from bloodsuckers. Not a ton but you wont starve either.

You can legally walk away from your debt.

Bankruptcy is not needed. Keep the money till they sue you. Then file for BR IF needed which prob is not even needed for most people. Anytime.. BR removes all judgements, liens and everything else.

BR is the debter's Joker in a game of 500. A guaranteed last trick. Unless you have stuff to lose above the exemption limits. Then you are fucked and they will fuck you over.

MN allows $2600 on a vehicle exempt. Not much. YOU would be fucked :) My car is worth a thousand bucks at best :) Yet I could drive to Cali tomorrow confident cause I know engines and cars.

I am going to start a site and fuck Big Banking and Corporate America in the ass. I am going to educate poor Americans who live in fear of not making a payment to the big banks.

I am going to show millions how to walk away from $1000s and $1000s of interest and principal legally.

Fuck with me, I fuck with you.

Such an honest straight up guy that anyone can rely on, that constantly needs loans and rides from other people, and apparently doesn't lean on anyone (??) with the exception of personal and government welfare. Oh yeah, and ducking bill collectors.

You have a problem. You could be a lot happier if you dealt with it.
Maybe one day ask yourself why this is your only outlet, trying to twist the couple non negative responses in here into your support group. All the while pumping up your ego on complete bullshit.

Perhaps your neighbours hate you. But if they do its in a general 'what a fucking loser and waste of oxygen' way.

I can only recommend you the reading of Seneca's De ira, my friend ...

good call ..

This is 100% a cash biz. There is no credit involved.

Constantly? Hardly.

You have all the charm of a BC by the way. A natural dickhead. Are you one?

bigluv = bigdickhead :)

Next time you pay the big banks think of me and then suck shit :) LOL



thanks CH :) maybe I will see what that is all about.

Cliff notes - the neighbors have a motion detector light that comes on when he walks around outside.

:D

I think you should seek some help because you seem like a disturbed individual.

Please, I am as sane and sober as anyone on this board. When your life falls apart (someday) we will see how you do. But thank you for the advice :)

keep your cat inside and the problem is solved

you do ramble on a fair bit man

Yeah that is it. Like I am that fucken stupid.

Whatever, i have addressed this about 3 times already. I dont care really about them anyhow.

My perogative.

You all ramble on too. Except I do it all in one thread. :)

As far as keeping the cat inside...

Keep your kid inside. Same deal.

who gives a fuck? grow up. feuding with your neighbors is for morons.

Checked google street view, it is indeed a motion detector light that the cat keeps initiating. Keep the cat inside and it won't be so disruptive to the neighborhood by triggering everyone's lights.

OK guys.. tell you what. I am going to go outside and see. It IS possible they put in a motion detector and if it's true I am big enuf man to admit it.. so we will see.

Hey I have no doubt having a tough time. I'm not trying to be mean here. It seems like your life has been turned upside down and losing your mother wsa probably very tough. Maybe talking to somebody would help you out. :2 cents:

PJ I am starting to think I have overrated your intelligence.

They are feuding with me. I am simply on the defense.

And yeah, my cat comes b4 anyone, like my child.

He runs and the world can suck my dick. That is how it is. Altho he does not go over there anyhow as he is a lil kitten who gets cold quick and wants to go in after 3 mins.

When they put their 3 year old on a leash and keep her from walking around the park, I will keep Buddy on a leash.

Not!

PS If you dont care kindly fuck off. Who cares about anyone's bullshit on this fucken board.



i found all i waited for and i could not ask for more

there is always two sides to every story. the fact that he already knocked you out hints there is more going on here than just a cat issue.

Bring on the hate. Let me feel it.

Let me know where I stand.

Show your true colors.

I dunno man just all seems a bit weird.

I swear on my mothers soul that there is nothing more to this. 100% the cat. My last cat Lucky.

You think I spent 16 hours on this board cause I wanted to make up stuff.

Like this is a game?

I wanted some real advice from friends. I got very little. Thanks.

thats fine you love your cat so much. i really like animals myself but you can never expect everyone else to feel the same way. If you like living how you are living then thats cool man. Keep on playin playa.

ahhh see now you are just sounding bitter

you got more help in a couple of threads than most people ever get here

danger Will Robinson! danger! reality approaching !!!

Ya know Pap, I like you. And thanks for your real advice that I sense is real.

It is a bit weird. That is the whole point. The guy has been an asshole over my cats for years.

I mainly want to avoid the 4th string of eviction notices from this asshole complaining about my cat. Or the future, if my cat runs over there again which someday he will.

But I will take one if it means Buddy runs free.

And for those who keep saying they dont care... then kindly FUCK OFF.

someone is serving a 70yo with 3 eviction notices because of his cat?

I am a bit bitter. Because everything I have said in this thread is 100% true yet noone believes me.

And Lazy we are still going out soon :)

I honestly hope I am wrong and it is just a motion detec.

i think you might be being stubborn here man lol

you know the expression 'dont bite your nose off yo spite your face right ' ?

why would a landlord be siding with some asshole complaining about an old guy and his cat - especially out in the bush where it is you live.

is there some sort of cat laws ? there's always many sides to the story

what actually is your cat doing over there ? shitting on their kitchen table ?

im gonna have to throw this out to judgejudy soon man , its a pretty big case and Im really not qualified

Correct. Although I was 47, 49, and 51 when the eviction notices came. I am double nickles now.

If anyone wants to put their money where their mouth is I will scan one notice in.

But I am not bothering for nothing. :)

They served me to shut him up. He was over to the office complaining EVERY fucken day. Some of the guys who work in the park told me so.

Back then.. no longer as Lucky was smart and went around his lot the last few years to get to the woods.

Very good q's...

Yes Lucky may have shit over there but I doubt it. I never seen that. He went thru the yard to get to the woods. The reason he knocked on my door at 9am and eventually got the better of me in the street was cause Lucky was in his lot and his two dogs startled lucky. He nipped one quick and ran...

Also I was feeding strays back then. I did not know he was seething over that as well. Not since 2006 when the last stray died.

He got pissed. That is the other side. So maybe he has a point. But then this is a HUGE mh park and animals cross yards all the time.

You want to keep cats out? Get out of the fucken mh park and get a piece of land you OWN.

Dont be a bitch who rents a mh lot then wants everyone to change how things work in a mh park.

Cats run in mh parks. Period.

where you could actually get help with...(....wait for it....)...business related things!

ah, those were the days.

Tom, Before I forget.. Thanks for your kind words about mom. You are a good man and I have long respected you.
I hope you are doing ok since losing your mom. My best wishes.

Right now the neighbors bulldog is out and barking.

Do I run and complain cause it is annoying? No cause this is a mh park and it is give and take.

Plus they are nice people who allow my cat to run and I allow their dog to bark a bit. We are both reasonable as EVERY other neighbor out here is EXCEPT the assholes.

Yes I have DEEP hate for them as I feel noone should be punched and threatened with eviction 3 times over a cat.

I have to live with this everyday. I have to feel the hate everyday and everytime I go outside.

Yes I hate them and yes I want to hurt them.

Thus, why I tried to get a grip and post this thread on dealing with anger.

BTW if they werent half fags and got REAL dogs it would solve the prob. Sorry my Cat Lucky kicked BOTH their little fag dog's ass LOL

Rejoice cat lovers! LOL

Waaaaah, his 8 LB cat keeps coming in my yard and beating up my half a fag dogs. Waaaaaah :)

OK we are going out now. Did you actually see the light go on and off Lazy? I hope so. We will see. :)

Thanks man. Consider us good friends.

When a man is down he finds out where he really stands.

The road is long and someday maybe you will lose your mom. (God forbid) You will lose your only pet of 12 years suddenly and watch him die on the way to the vet. And someday maybe you will go DEAD broke ALL within a few months and YOU will be forced to ask strangers (now good friends) on a board for a hand. For a mere few hundred. That was paid back.

Then someone like bigdickhead will come along and rub it into you.

Folks will call you irrational or mixed up or weird or a liar.

When that time comes. I will be there for you. (you in general)



Lucky died on the way as one last gift to me.

I was dead broke and even $300 vet bill to euthanize him would have broke my back THO I would have paid it somehow.

http://www.sqvirtual.com/img/lucky3.jpg