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Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 19193011)
I've consistently spoken up when the issue of violence against women has arisen.

I'm not on a crusade to shut you down, I simply voice my opinion from time to time, since so many here remain silent. I've spoken up about my disdain for Crackwhore Confessions and other similar sites that are specifically about abusing and degrading people as well.

With regards to you "reading a bunch of girls calling (me) out", I don't recall seeing that. Nice smear try though...

As I recall, Donkey was the only person that ever tried to make such an allegation, and he was promptly banned for it. I'm actually pretty mild mannered and always pay everyone, so any grievances anyone has had with me are generally small, few, and far in between, and certainly no model/performer has ever walked off a set in any of my productions.

ADG

1. that happens when you film emotionally heavy content.
2. I'm not going to get into detail about what I have heard over the years. If you want to have that convo we can have it discreetly ovet email. (see sig). Unlike others, I really do try my best to keep shit off the boards.
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Tofu 09-16-2012 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by baryl (Post 19192942)
I was more surprised at the $200 bit.

Sounds about right, to me.

rock-reed 09-16-2012 12:24 PM

Very interesting thread. Let's keep it rolling.

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by rock-reed (Post 19193086)
Very interesting thread. Let's keep it rolling.

agreed!!!!!
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Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by topsiteking (Post 19192197)
Honest question.I have been working in adult now for about 8 years but,I think if I was an "actor" on that shit or "filming" I would have killed myself already.

Talk about some mommy issues.:1orglaugh



[ http://porninthevalley.com/2012/04/1...rming-in-porn/ ]

but i missed your question. I sleep with my fiance, & my bulldog & two sphynx cats. The bulldog with his head on my chest snoring in my face, one sphynx cat under his belly, & the othe sphynx cat (a tiny shy female) between my fiance's tits to keep warm. I sleep good & with what matters most to me. I hope I answered your queston.
best,
Duke

Radical Bucks 09-16-2012 04:13 PM

Anyone who shoots degrading porn is piece of shit low life scum bag who has no respect for women or even his own mother.

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Radical Bucks (Post 19193353)
Anyone who shoots degrading porn is piece of shit low life scum bag who has no respect for women or even his own mother.

OG Captain Save A Ho. Maximum Respect!! :1orglaugh
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topsiteking 09-16-2012 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DukeSkywalker (Post 19193016)
1. that happens when you film emotionally heavy content.
2. I'm not going to get into detail about what I have heard over the years. If you want to have that convo we can have it discreetly ovet email. (see sig). Unlike others, I really do try my best to keep shit off the boards.
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Emotionally heavy content? is that what we call it now days?
:1orglaugh

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by topsiteking (Post 19193379)
Emotionally heavy content? is that what we call it now days?
:1orglaugh

no, what I mean is emotions run high. Some channel it & totally kick ass. Some get berated by their husbands & quit to mitigate damage because he's probably a cuckhold who just got a dose of reality, & you get what you got here today. I just find it funny how I never called her out for her unprofessionalism, but she posts bs pictures, sends us an apology letter telling us how sorry she was about the whole incident & then she makes a boo hoo blog post & you buy it head, shaft, and balls. We've been filming since 03. That's quite awhile. I know when it's bs & when it's not. Trust me. This is bs.
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mineistaken 09-16-2012 04:59 PM

I read on Leena Sky's blog about her experience doing facialabuse scene and she had only good things to say about the crew and actors. Look it up, OP.

CaptainHowdy 09-16-2012 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Radical Bucks (Post 19193353)
Anyone who shoots degrading porn is piece of shit low life scum bag who has no respect for women or even his own mother.

And again ...

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 19192706)
Are we talking seriously here ??


mineistaken 09-16-2012 05:02 PM

and lol at those white knights here. Those women want to film, nobody is making them film. So who are you to decide for them?

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 19193390)
I read on Leena Sky's blog about her experience doing facialabuse scene and she had only good things to say about the crew and actors. Look it up, OP.

That's the rule rather than the exception. Thumbs up
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Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 19193392)
And again ...

& again, yes we are
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Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 19193398)
and lol at those white knights here. Those women want to film, nobody is making them film. So who are you to decide for them?

the bottom line is everyone needs someome to blame. Just because porn whores decide to do something which they were fully briefed about & have to cause drama due to a jealous husband or a personality disorder, & I end up getting thrown under the bus like I run an illegal tube site or I am fucking bitches while knowingly having syphilis. The trolls need to priortize.
Best,
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Socks 09-16-2012 07:06 PM

Props to ADG for saying what he thinks, even if it's unpopular around here.

I myself have no problems promoting Facial Abuse or any other legal site really.

But I guess it's a pretty fine line. If someone I cared about decided to collect donations on the street by letting people spit in their face for $10, I'd think the person needed help and maybe shouldn't be allowed to do that.. However, it would go against some of my beliefs to tell someone they shouldn't be allowed to do something..

If they were, say, retarded.. Would it change? Should we let retarded people do degrading things for money - because they don't know any better? Or are we supposed to protect them with our superior intelligence? While protecting them, are we helping them find another way to make money, or are we just stopping what we find offensive and not providing an alternative? Is that worse?

So if a down on her luck whore whose likely addicted to something wants to do this to pay rent, should we "protect her" with our high and mighty beliefs? I dunno. I'd say no.

Duke, can you tell us where *you* draw the line? Have there been times where you refused to shoot a model? Why?

mineistaken 09-16-2012 07:11 PM

One more thing to the white knights:
what do you think about femdom sites where men are being humiliated and pissed on and stuff like that? They also do it voluntarily. There is no drama in such sites.

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Socks (Post 19193512)
Props to ADG for saying what he thinks, even if it's unpopular around here.

I myself have no problems promoting Facial Abuse or any other legal site really.

But I guess it's a pretty fine line. If someone I cared about decided to collect donations on the street by letting people spit in their face for $10, I'd think the person needed help and maybe shouldn't be allowed to do that.. However, it would go against some of my beliefs to tell someone they shouldn't be allowed to do something..

If they were, say, retarded.. Would it change? Should we let retarded people do degrading things for money - because they don't know any better? Or are we supposed to protect them with our superior intelligence? While protecting them, are we helping them find another way to make money, or are we just stopping what we find offensive and not providing an alternative? Is that worse?

So if a down on her luck whore whose likely addicted to something wants to do this to pay rent, should we "protect her" with our high and mighty beliefs? I dunno. I'd say no.

Duke, can you tell us where *you* draw the line? Have there been times where you refused to shoot a model? Why?

Of course. We wouldn't shoot anyone drunk or high. We have sent plenty home because of that. Sometimes you get girls who owe an agent money & they slip that out, we send them home. Sometimes you get a girl that is "off." For instance, a few times it was clear that a person might have had one of the more serious personality disorders etc, & she gets a cab home too. We also sniff any liquid to see if there is booze in there. All in all, we are vigilant. You have to be.
Duke

gleem 09-16-2012 08:08 PM

whatever the bitch's story is and what Duke version is, I think these sites are awful no matter how many girls "get through" the shoots, the guys that watch this shit and then do it to their GF's make the whole thing one big fucking bad idea.

Sure 99 out of 100 guys will just watch it as a train wreck type of video but that 1 guy that fucks up his GF, his date or whatever thinking this shit is ok with a woman makes would make me want to quit pushing the site & I did.

Same goes for those Brazzers choking scenes.. not cool.

And you wonder why the bible thumping assholes at MIM are able to win over people to their cause, it's because of scenes from Facial abuse.

That's my rant & fuck you if you don't agree with me cause you are a psychopath.

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193557)
whatever the bitch's story is and what Duke version is, I think these sites are awful no matter how many girls "get through" the shoots, the guys that watch this shit and then do it to their GF's make the whole thing one big fucking bad idea.

Sure 99 out of 100 guys will just watch it as a train wreck type of video but that 1 guy that fucks up his GF, his date or whatever thinking this shit is ok with a woman makes would make me want to quit pushing the site & I did.

Same goes for those Brazzers choking scenes.. not cool.

And you wonder why the bible thumping assholes at MIM are able to win over people to their cause, it's because of scenes from Facial abuse.

That's my rant & fuck you if you don't agree with me cause you are a psychopath.

yes it's all my fault. You're brilliant.
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The Heron 09-16-2012 08:16 PM

I make good sales with dukedollars. And I love the crew, always hospitable and going out of their way to be friendly and helpful. I love partying with em in nyc back in the day! It's a biz and they are selling a fantasy, they follow the rules and keep things legal so if you don't like it don't watch it and as for the models, it's all free will.

gleem 09-16-2012 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by DukeSkywalker (Post 19193568)
yes it's all my fault. You're brilliant.
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thank you, finally :thumbsup

gleem 09-16-2012 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by The Heron (Post 19193569)
I make good sales with dukedollars. And I love the crew, always hospitable and going out of their way to be friendly and helpful. I love partying with em in nyc back in the day! It's a biz and they are selling a fantasy, they follow the rules and keep things legal so if you don't like it don't watch it and as for the models, it's all free will.

it's one thing for people to do whatever they want to eachother behind closed doors if it's consenting, it's another thing to make money off the act and introduce idiots and retards to the practice that don't know wtf they are doing and will prolly hurt someone doing it.

Just because something is legal doesn't make it a good idea. Greed is a powerful thing.

Simple moral standard for greedy webmasters... would I care if this happened to my MOM/SIS/DAUGHTER (pick one you actually care about)... if yes, don't promote or produce it.

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193570)
thank you, finally :thumbsup

surely anyone who has gay sites like you do must be right.
Please forgive my rant.
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gleem 09-16-2012 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DukeSkywalker (Post 19193575)
surely anyone who has gay sites like you do must be right.
Please forgive my rant.
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Now something is wrong with Gay? Homophobia and woman hating don't mix, pick a team bro. :1orglaugh

shimmy2 09-16-2012 08:55 PM

some/many girls play rough so whats the big deal. $1500 is a lot of money for a scene.

gabe100 09-16-2012 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 19193398)
and lol at those white knights here. Those women want to film, nobody is making them film. So who are you to decide for them?

:2 cents:

Major (Tom) 09-16-2012 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193581)
Now something is wrong with Gay? Homophobia and woman hating don't mix, pick a team bro. :1orglaugh

I didn't mean gay as in man on man. I meant gay as in subpar. Like "That show is gay."
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Spunky 09-16-2012 10:01 PM

It isn't abuse if she agrees to it,many women dig it.personally It's not for me.2 girls one cup ruined me :(

BlackCrayon 09-17-2012 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193571)
would I care if this happened to my MOM/SIS/DAUGHTER (pick one you actually care about)... if yes, don't promote or produce it.

hahaha.. a day in the life of gleem...*checks out new paysite* hmm can i see my mom doing this...yes! yes i can. she'd love it. ok. i think i can promote this.

mineistaken 09-17-2012 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193557)
whatever the bitch's story is and what Duke version is, I think these sites are awful no matter how many girls "get through" the shoots, the guys that watch this shit and then do it to their GF's make the whole thing one big fucking bad idea.

Sure 99 out of 100 guys will just watch it as a train wreck type of video but that 1 guy that fucks up his GF, his date or whatever thinking this shit is ok with a woman makes would make me want to quit pushing the site & I did.

Same goes for those Brazzers choking scenes.. not cool.

And you wonder why the bible thumping assholes at MIM are able to win over people to their cause, it's because of scenes from Facial abuse.

That's my rant & fuck you if you don't agree with me cause you are a psychopath.

so what about sites like men in pain, men are slaves etc? You also think that 1 of 100 women will think that its normal to piss in her man's mouth etc? Similar logic, lol

The Porn Nerd 09-17-2012 08:50 AM

Bottom line: People have emotional and psychological problems in this world. People are addicted to drugs. People have been sexually and emotionally abused. And guess what? There are people and businesses willing and able to "help" these people out by providing all kinds of degarding things they could do for cash.

In other words, desperate people will do desperate things.

Is this 'wrong"? Yes. And no. That's why the debate continues...

As for me, I like affection, tenderness, love, pleasure and connection in my sex. Then again, I'm a freak. :D

CaptainHowdy 09-17-2012 11:54 AM

Looks like they sleep counting women's tears ...

The Heron 09-17-2012 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193571)
Simple moral standard for greedy webmasters... would I care if this happened to my MOM/SIS/DAUGHTER (pick one you actually care about)... if yes, don't promote or produce it.

haha You must not know any women, they do what the fuck they want not like you could stop your mom if she liked getting choked and slapped while fucking. Morality is a funny thing, good luck with that. Me I like money.
And if you are worried about people copying what they see, probably should ban violent video games or we'll have everyone running around with chainsaws cutting off heads... oh wait that's not how it works.

Major (Tom) 09-17-2012 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by VenusBlogger (Post 19194802)
I thought you were referring about the fact that facial Abuse owners buy BANNER ADS and SUPPORT extreme-board.com, one of the biggest illegal FORUMS...

Anything to say Duke LUKE SKYWALKER ?

How do they sleep at night, considering they support one of the biggest illegal PIRATE forum on the net?

:pimp

as I explained 100 times fuck nugget, I am not paying for advertising. I am paying to keep my shit off that board. I don't like it anymore than you do but my content remains, for the most part, off that board, & if it is there I can get it pulled. Sorry I thought of this before others did. I don't like being extorted, but it's a reasonable fee to keep my content off.
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Major (Tom) 09-17-2012 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 19194805)
Looks like they sleep counting women's tears ...

ok seriously stfu. You're as annoying as a cold sore on prom night.
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StickyGreen 09-17-2012 04:19 PM

I think it's pretty fucked up but it should be allowed in a free country. As stated already, the girls know what they're getting into beforehand.

shermo 09-17-2012 04:38 PM

While the opinions here aren't too shocking, some of the people voicing them are. To each their own.

For the record, I sleep quite well at night. Although I don't have a hand in the production, I have been a part of the company since just about day 1. I wouldn't be a part of this company if the goal was to harm individuals. Facial Abuse caters to the fantasies of both men and women. We produce it because nobody does it better than us, and we have a steady stream of talent coming in because the majority of females that have shot with us, had a great experience.

If by the logic some of you have, things were banned because they influence others to try to mimic actions in a less controlled environment, the world would be void of much great music, some incredible movies, many amazing video games and some brilliant literature.
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"Simple moral standard for greedy webmasters... would I care if this happened to my MOM/SIS/DAUGHTER (pick one you actually care about)... if yes, don't promote or produce it."
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Gleem: If this were the moral standard, it'd be safe to say that most of us wouldn't promote anything within this industry. :X

The Ghost 09-17-2012 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by gleem (Post 19193571)
it's one thing for people to do whatever they want to eachother behind closed doors if it's consenting, it's another thing to make money off the act and introduce idiots and retards to the practice that don't know wtf they are doing and will prolly hurt someone doing it.

Just because something is legal doesn't make it a good idea. Greed is a powerful thing.

Simple moral standard for greedy webmasters... would I care if this happened to my MOM/SIS/DAUGHTER (pick one you actually care about)... if yes, don't promote or produce it.

Catch you on a bad day gleem?

So by the statement above, you're down with your mom/sis/daughter on revengetv or bustedonfilm? Exploitation sites that parlay the fantasy of non consensual content. For the record I don't have a problem with your sites at all or Dukes. The fantasies are excellent and the whole reason for porn.

Just trying to figure where you're coming from.

Major (Tom) 09-17-2012 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by CamBoss (Post 19195480)
Duke is a Jew hating douchey midget. I have nothing bad to say about his program or his staff.

no I hate one jew, you.
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