Fitty Opt outs :pimp

I'm happy to be single.to each their own

To leave that to gays?

Yes it IS! :1orglaugh

I was married for 14 years and now been single for a year. I keep thinking my self every day why the fuck did I wait that long to get a divorce.

First few months of divorce is always a challenge, loneliness, learning to date / learning to pick up chicks but once you are over that bump all is good.

there are two types of guys that are married. the ones that love it and want to have a wife with a family and the ones that got suckered into it.

the ones that got suckered in are the ones that have no sex, no fun and no life. I have plenty of those guys as friends, they all complain about the same shit... "wife sucks," "i hate my life," etc.

of course if you don't try and keep your woman occupied and happy, she will stop putting out.. duh! thats why idiots that get married after dating for 6 months wonder why things go south... because SHES BORED! :1orglaugh

Keep things interesting and things will be good.

No on the other hand, you have crazy bitches that go full psycho after marriage, demanding kids, pushing their family on you, complaining because you work to much, they cant spend enough of your money, etc.

In that case... best to just RUN!

why the fuck should I retire my dick so that some soon-to-be-fat bitch can feel safe and special? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

seriously LOL I do not know what is up with some people...

my penis needs to be free...it needs to impale all kinds of pussy and asshole...crucifissio the impaler :1orglaugh

kids? LOL theres already enough of us...

Id rather spend my life being a pimp and travelling left and right and fucking whores with big tits and riding motorbikes and having tons of cash and no responsibility and fucking whores and going from beach to beach working on my tan and flying ultra light aircraft and waking up at 12am and fucking whores ect ect...

people who can have kids and fuck only one thing obviously adapt better to these conditions than I do...

Lol lol.

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I would add a third kind. The kind that are codependent and need to be with someone.

I have a friend that was married for about 7 years. the last 2-3 years of his marriage were miserable. His wife was batshit crazy and eventually made him choose between his friends and her. They end up getting divorced. Nine months later he is seeing a new woman and is talking about getting married. Here is the catch. He has never wanted kids. She not only has four kids of her own she has two others that are adopted special needs kids. She also has an ex-husband who does nothing but cause drama.

When my friend tells me he is going to ask her to marry him a couple of other friends and I sit him down to talk to him. We point out the situation he will be getting into and that it is likely to make him miserable. He agrees then says, "It is better than being alone."

I have a feeling there are a decent number of people out there that feel the same way.

One of the things I never really understood when I was younger was why a woman would want to date a 24 year old. I was young, fresh out of the US Marines, and highly motivated. At the same time I was working four jobs to make my crappy payment and rent on a crappy apartment with room mates, and my idea of a vacation was a single night in a crappy motel room at the beach because I afford more - no less the time off.

Why would any 22 year chick want date someone who is broke, when they can date a 35 year old with their own house, a nice car, and who can take her to Hawaii for a week?

probably because the ones that do aren't whores who are in it for what they can squeeze out of a guy?

I can think of several reasons.

Many women in their 20's think older guys are gross, or when they think of dating an older guy they think of George Clooney.

Many people in their 20's (and many beyond) are still stuck on looks. They might find a guy in his 20's hot while a guy 10 years old is not.

Many women want a project. They see you and see the potential. They envision that they can change how you dress, what you like to do, how you act etc. They want to mold you into their perfect guy.

Many women realize that they have less in common with older guys. If you are 24 and struggling to get a foothold in the world, the odds are they are too.

Many women in their 20's still like to go out and party, club, hang with friends and do the things people in their 20's do and many guys in their 30's are over that.

There is also the stigma that sometimes comes with dating an older guy. If a 23-year-old girl is dating a 37-year-old guy many people, even without knowing her, will assume she is a gold digger and they don't want that perception.

These are just a few off the top of my head.

Amen. Too many females these days be out fucking every tom, dick and harry scares the shit out of me wanting to get married. U find ur wife cheating then need to give her half ur shit. Fuck that might as well stay single and fuck every chick till my dick falls off.

Chris Rock said it best...

"You can be married and miserable or single and lonely"

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It is simple. When I look around me, there is no a single married person there that I would like to be on it's place. Maybe, I would get married that I am really rich and I don't give a fuck about anything, but then, idea that someone can take half of my stuff is frightening enough.

I totally understand those points. If I was a certain type, it would all sound good to me. I'm married to my best buddy and I LIKE staying home and watching a movie. We've had threesomes, so my itch gets scratched. We haven't done it in a while, but I honestly feel all set with that stuff.

I still have girls in their 20's (even teens) who check me out because I look younger than my age, but the last thing I want to do is be out in the world dealing with chick bullshit. It's the worst kind of bullshit to deal with.

Part of this might be a money thing. If you have a little extra, being single is amazing as girls are pretty much about the bling. I am in a relationship but it is not restrictive. She wants to stay in Friday? "Cool, see you in the AM." I see the biggest issue with getting married is having someone tell you what to do. I don't need someone to cook or to clean my house, and if she thinks she has a guy who likes to put together furniture or paint the garage on the weekends, well, we are both going to be unhappy.

I only care what happens with kids. If you were married twice and never had any kids you were not really married.

So funny yet so true... :1orglaugh

perhaps one who doesn't want their sole purpose to be a cum depository?

unless you can carry a conversation with a 22 year old..

i don't have any problems carrying on a convo with a 22 year old girl. in fact, most the girls i've hung with that are much younger than me carry a convo better than a gfyer.

Then there's some fun open minded women that are a joy to live with, take care of themselves, and make life better. I hope you each find one and live to be happy old men!

Nope!



And Nope!


Common Law Marriage is not a contract and not enforceable unless: During the whole relationship you are promising to marry and take care of the woman her whole life. Even then it cant be enforced unless, the woman "Relies on that promise to her detriment".

Meaning she drops out of school, quits her job to have kids and become a home maker. Without that, NOTHING!!


And even with all of the above happening, the woman cant sue under Common Law Marriage, she will be able to recover under "Palimony."


Keep in mind, Marriage is a contract and follows the same rules as a contract.


Palimony Came about as a result of, Marvin v. Marvin

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palimony


Law School really opened up my eyes to this shit. Especially my class on Community Property. OHHH Man! a whole class on dividing up a mans shit acquired during his marriage. LAME!


I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years and we have 2 kids. Happy and I don't see myself with anyone else.


But if I were to get sued for Palimony (Divorced), there is nobody out of our friends that can testify that I made any such promises that could tie me up.


My relationship is simple:Anyone can leave when ever they like. As a result of that simple rule, we both are always working on our relationship.


Sorry to get all attorney with you guys, but i wanted you guys to know what is really what with this subject, carry on.

Got to run and shoot my scene now.


Just Dave

they're changing those laws to reflect the decline of marriage

so yes, you are correct, you won't be for long

I'm traveling around new england at the moment and will head south by winter then out west before next summer.

After that no clue where is next.. Single.. Yep 8)

If women want equality in the workplace and the culture in general, the idiotic alimony laws need to be changed. A man or woman pays the bills for a non-working partner in return for support -- emotional, sexual, around the house, whatever is needed.

If you quit your regular job, you don't keep getting paid forever. Why should someone who quits her wife job keep getting paid indefinitely?

If someone stood by you to put you through school or whatever, alimony should last as long as it takes her to get to the same educational level. And that's it.

bump, interesting thread:2 cents:

I'm not sure which 20 something girls your talking about. I didn't get married until I was 43, and I had TONS of hot chicks in their 20s. From my mid 30s onward, I was dating pretty much every age group of girls from 20s to cougars, and everyone was having a great time. I had my game together, I knew how to keep them laughing, I knew how to party and I had the means to do it in style, I kept myself in good shape, I had convertable, boat, etc.... I had way more 20 something girls than I did when I was in my 20s.

Then I met my best friend in the whole world, and I wanted to have kids, etc, and now I just celebrated my 7th year married, my son is almost 2 years old, and I couldn't be happier. I feel no loss of freedom at all. You just need to find the person that has the same views on life and world as you do IMHO.




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Your last line says it all. It sounds like you and them still shared a similar lifestyle and had stuff in common. For some people it works, for others it doesn't.

Let me give you an example. A friend of mine was 28 and met a girl who was 18. She pressed hard to date him and eventually went out with her. A year later they got married. For the first two years of their marriage things were good. She was in college and he had a job. Then she turned 21. Now that she was of age she wanted to go out to bars and clubs with her friends. Sometimes he went with her, but if she wanted to go out on a Tuesday night to see a band or hang with her friends, he couldn't because he had to get up at 6am to get to work.

Eventually this drove them apart. She was living the active, fun, party life of a typical 21-year-old and he was a nearly 30-year-old guy with a job and not a lot of interest in partying. She had told him before they got married that she wasn't a party girl. As it turns out she didn't know she was because she never had, but once she was able to she enjoyed it.

It didn't take long before she started hanging out with guys that were "friend" but were her age and into more of the stuff she liked to do.

Had my friend been more into doing that or having that kind of life it might have worked out, but in this case it just didn't.

Currently I just turned 42 and my girlfriend is 33. We started date a little more than a year ago and things are great. had we met when I was 30 and she was 21 I think it still may have worked out because we are pretty like minded and when we look back on things, where we were at that time in our lives we still likely would have been compatible.

Oh, I should have said that I counsel my younger friends to NEVER consider marrying a girl under the age of about 28. In my experience, women go through huge changes between 21 and 28.... they become almost different people. I have three friends that married girls that were under 24, and they were all divorced within 5 or 6 years.



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I would argue that most people, guys and girls, go through a lot of changes during those years.

When I was 21 I was writing for a music magazine, I was living between two cities and was renting rooms in both. I was out every night watching and interviewing bands. My life was chaos. It was fun, but it was chaos.

By the time I was 30 a lot had changed. I was working for myself online, I had settled down and was focusing more on other parts of my life. I was much more stable.

Obviously, not everyone is like that, but many are.

One thing I am noticing now that is interesting is how women who had kids when they were young are now trying to live like they are 22. I know a few different women that are between 38-43 and all had kids when they were 18-20. Those kids are grown up now (and for those that had more than one kid the others are teenagers or close to it) so now they are going out and trying to catch up on the fun that they missed out on when they were younger.

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Thank you, interesting to know.

Yea, a lot of people have no clue. But what makes things worse is when a person who has no idea what he is talking about, and talks as if he knows.

I cant tell you how many people try and tell me shit about Common Law marriage.

My question is to them: Do you even know what "Common Law" Is? Or where "Common Law came from? How it was developed? So if you don't know, SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!


If your curious, here you go: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_law



Just Dave

When he said that, this should have been the reaction by you or one of your friends:

http://cdn.uproxx.com/wp-content/upl...7168o1_500.gif

Worth watching ?????. :thumbsup

As a married guy, I always find myself saying "I don't remember girls being this hot and abundant when I was single."

That's what family, friends and pets are for.