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dyna mo 06-24-2013 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19684493)
the guy didn't care about his marriage to her at all it seems. he supposedly said he wanted a divorce in a text message and hasn't spoken to her since.

they didn't seem to give a shit about each other at all, nevetheless, cali law and i can't recall a female celeb/public figure passing on her rightful part of a dissolution.

_Richard_ 06-24-2013 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by dyna mo (Post 19684492)
i noticed you passed up my earlier post re: my female cousin footing the bill for a deadbeat dude but you're here with one of your typical sneaky/snide opportunistic posts.

give it a rest richard.


http://i.imgur.com/x3mXvDf.gif

candyflip 06-24-2013 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexier (Post 19684482)
I thought asians had small dicks!! "happy married" women are looking for big cocks you know..

Who's asian? Surely not Tofu.

Scott McD 06-24-2013 12:11 PM

Been engaged for years, yet have no interest in getting married any time soon. If at all...

TheSquealer 06-24-2013 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19684277)
yeah it all depends on where you live. for example in british columbia its only 2 years and you are considered 'common law'. as for division of assets, i am not really sure but once kids come into the picture, which it does for most at some point, it changes a lot in regards to what happens when you split up. in this day and age most couples share bank accounts or both pay into rent/mortgage. its not very typical that you have a women who has contributed nothing to the relationship monetarily.

In most states, it's all heavily weighted against the male... Even more so when children are involved. Laws vary quite a bit from state to state in these areas

Tofu 06-24-2013 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexier (Post 19684482)
I thought asians had small dicks!! "happy married" women are looking for big cocks you know..

Quote:

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 19684488)

:upsidedow

J. Falcon 06-24-2013 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19684182)
well if you even live with a woman for a few years its considered 'common law' and you can lose all the same shit.

Exactly. I think here it's over 5 years. Or it could be 10.

Struggle4Bucks 06-24-2013 12:16 PM

They can all go fuck themselfs!

RyuLion 06-24-2013 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 19684230)
Yea I'm a slow learner sometimes. Just glad I had no children.

Amen to that!!

_Richard_ 06-24-2013 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Tofu (Post 19684522)
:upsidedow

fucking movie is an emotive-gif goldmine.

JFK 06-24-2013 12:19 PM

Fitty Opt outs :pimp

Spunky 06-24-2013 12:19 PM

I'm happy to be single.to each their own

globofun 06-24-2013 12:21 PM

To leave that to gays?

Tofu 06-24-2013 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 19684529)
fucking movie is an emotive-gif goldmine.

Yes it IS! :1orglaugh

jay23 06-24-2013 12:47 PM

I was married for 14 years and now been single for a year. I keep thinking my self every day why the fuck did I wait that long to get a divorce.

First few months of divorce is always a challenge, loneliness, learning to date / learning to pick up chicks but once you are over that bump all is good.

96ukssob 06-24-2013 01:06 PM

there are two types of guys that are married. the ones that love it and want to have a wife with a family and the ones that got suckered into it.

the ones that got suckered in are the ones that have no sex, no fun and no life. I have plenty of those guys as friends, they all complain about the same shit... "wife sucks," "i hate my life," etc.

of course if you don't try and keep your woman occupied and happy, she will stop putting out.. duh! thats why idiots that get married after dating for 6 months wonder why things go south... because SHES BORED! :1orglaugh

Keep things interesting and things will be good.

No on the other hand, you have crazy bitches that go full psycho after marriage, demanding kids, pushing their family on you, complaining because you work to much, they cant spend enough of your money, etc.

In that case... best to just RUN!

pimpmaster9000 06-24-2013 01:09 PM

why the fuck should I retire my dick so that some soon-to-be-fat bitch can feel safe and special? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

seriously LOL I do not know what is up with some people...

my penis needs to be free...it needs to impale all kinds of pussy and asshole...crucifissio the impaler :1orglaugh

kids? LOL theres already enough of us...

Id rather spend my life being a pimp and travelling left and right and fucking whores with big tits and riding motorbikes and having tons of cash and no responsibility and fucking whores and going from beach to beach working on my tan and flying ultra light aircraft and waking up at 12am and fucking whores ect ect...

people who can have kids and fuck only one thing obviously adapt better to these conditions than I do...

L-Pink 06-24-2013 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by crucifissio (Post 19684620)
crucifissio the impaler .

Lol lol.

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2MuchMark 06-24-2013 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by marcop (Post 19684373)

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

kane 06-24-2013 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 19684612)
there are two types of guys that are married. the ones that love it and want to have a wife with a family and the ones that got suckered into it.

the ones that got suckered in are the ones that have no sex, no fun and no life. I have plenty of those guys as friends, they all complain about the same shit... "wife sucks," "i hate my life," etc.

of course if you don't try and keep your woman occupied and happy, she will stop putting out.. duh! thats why idiots that get married after dating for 6 months wonder why things go south... because SHES BORED! :1orglaugh

Keep things interesting and things will be good.

No on the other hand, you have crazy bitches that go full psycho after marriage, demanding kids, pushing their family on you, complaining because you work to much, they cant spend enough of your money, etc.

In that case... best to just RUN!

I would add a third kind. The kind that are codependent and need to be with someone.

I have a friend that was married for about 7 years. the last 2-3 years of his marriage were miserable. His wife was batshit crazy and eventually made him choose between his friends and her. They end up getting divorced. Nine months later he is seeing a new woman and is talking about getting married. Here is the catch. He has never wanted kids. She not only has four kids of her own she has two others that are adopted special needs kids. She also has an ex-husband who does nothing but cause drama.

When my friend tells me he is going to ask her to marry him a couple of other friends and I sit him down to talk to him. We point out the situation he will be getting into and that it is likely to make him miserable. He agrees then says, "It is better than being alone."

I have a feeling there are a decent number of people out there that feel the same way.

Rochard 06-24-2013 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by marcop (Post 19684265)
I beg to differ. I'm no Don Juan, but I often date women 15-20 years younger than me, and the last real girlfriend I had was almost 30 years younger. It must run in the family--my dad's second wife was 24 years his junior. Younger women often tell me how dumb/stupid/asshole-like young guys are, and how they prefer dating older men who generally know how to treat a women well.

As for the loneliness... well, that's part of the human condition. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

One of the things I never really understood when I was younger was why a woman would want to date a 24 year old. I was young, fresh out of the US Marines, and highly motivated. At the same time I was working four jobs to make my crappy payment and rent on a crappy apartment with room mates, and my idea of a vacation was a single night in a crappy motel room at the beach because I afford more - no less the time off.

Why would any 22 year chick want date someone who is broke, when they can date a 35 year old with their own house, a nice car, and who can take her to Hawaii for a week?

BlackCrayon 06-24-2013 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard (Post 19684682)
One of the things I never really understood when I was younger was why a woman would want to date a 24 year old. I was young, fresh out of the US Marines, and highly motivated. At the same time I was working four jobs to make my crappy payment and rent on a crappy apartment with room mates, and my idea of a vacation was a single night in a crappy motel room at the beach because I afford more - no less the time off.

Why would any 22 year chick want date someone who is broke, when they can date a 35 year old with their own house, a nice car, and who can take her to Hawaii for a week?

probably because the ones that do aren't whores who are in it for what they can squeeze out of a guy?

kane 06-24-2013 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard (Post 19684682)
One of the things I never really understood when I was younger was why a woman would want to date a 24 year old. I was young, fresh out of the US Marines, and highly motivated. At the same time I was working four jobs to make my crappy payment and rent on a crappy apartment with room mates, and my idea of a vacation was a single night in a crappy motel room at the beach because I afford more - no less the time off.

Why would any 22 year chick want date someone who is broke, when they can date a 35 year old with their own house, a nice car, and who can take her to Hawaii for a week?

I can think of several reasons.

Many women in their 20's think older guys are gross, or when they think of dating an older guy they think of George Clooney.

Many people in their 20's (and many beyond) are still stuck on looks. They might find a guy in his 20's hot while a guy 10 years old is not.

Many women want a project. They see you and see the potential. They envision that they can change how you dress, what you like to do, how you act etc. They want to mold you into their perfect guy.

Many women realize that they have less in common with older guys. If you are 24 and struggling to get a foothold in the world, the odds are they are too.

Many women in their 20's still like to go out and party, club, hang with friends and do the things people in their 20's do and many guys in their 30's are over that.

There is also the stigma that sometimes comes with dating an older guy. If a 23-year-old girl is dating a 37-year-old guy many people, even without knowing her, will assume she is a gold digger and they don't want that perception.

These are just a few off the top of my head.

jack-exploitedbabysitters 06-25-2013 04:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Tofu (Post 19684331)
I learned my lesson. Now, I look at marriage as a type of castration. Plus, I think people of today get married for all the wrong reasons. I'll run out of fingers and toes, counting the number of "happily married" women who bootycall/bootytext me and willingly cheat on their husbands. They favor him for financial support and me for the sexual fulfillment. It's fucked up, but it happens quite often.

The simple fact that I have to bend over for the state of California to fuck me out of 1/2 my paycheck, has convinced me to remain single for the rest of my life. Yeah, it gets lonely sometimes, but the rotation of women in and out of my bed keeps that loneliness at bay. Even if temporary.

Amen. Too many females these days be out fucking every tom, dick and harry scares the shit out of me wanting to get married. U find ur wife cheating then need to give her half ur shit. Fuck that might as well stay single and fuck every chick till my dick falls off.

Paul 06-25-2013 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19684187)
the only downside really is, unless you are really good with the ladies and can pull different ones consistently, as they years pass on, it gets a bit lonely.

Chris Rock said it best...

"You can be married and miserable or single and lonely"

:pimp

femdomdestiny 06-25-2013 05:32 AM

It is simple. When I look around me, there is no a single married person there that I would like to be on it's place. Maybe, I would get married that I am really rich and I don't give a fuck about anything, but then, idea that someone can take half of my stuff is frightening enough.

bronco67 06-25-2013 05:34 AM

I totally understand those points. If I was a certain type, it would all sound good to me. I'm married to my best buddy and I LIKE staying home and watching a movie. We've had threesomes, so my itch gets scratched. We haven't done it in a while, but I honestly feel all set with that stuff.

I still have girls in their 20's (even teens) who check me out because I look younger than my age, but the last thing I want to do is be out in the world dealing with chick bullshit. It's the worst kind of bullshit to deal with.

slapass 06-25-2013 06:05 AM

Part of this might be a money thing. If you have a little extra, being single is amazing as girls are pretty much about the bling. I am in a relationship but it is not restrictive. She wants to stay in Friday? "Cool, see you in the AM." I see the biggest issue with getting married is having someone tell you what to do. I don't need someone to cook or to clean my house, and if she thinks she has a guy who likes to put together furniture or paint the garage on the weekends, well, we are both going to be unhappy.

Sid70 06-25-2013 06:51 AM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 19684197)
I had to give up half my shit twice. The second time to a woman with an MBA from Wharton. Like she couldn't get a good job on her own.

I only care what happens with kids. If you were married twice and never had any kids you were not really married.

Scott McD 06-25-2013 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by crucifissio (Post 19684620)
why the fuck should I retire my dick so that some soon-to-be-fat bitch can feel safe and special? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

seriously LOL I do not know what is up with some.

So funny yet so true... :1orglaugh

_Richard_ 06-25-2013 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Rochard (Post 19684682)
One of the things I never really understood when I was younger was why a woman would want to date a 24 year old. I was young, fresh out of the US Marines, and highly motivated. At the same time I was working four jobs to make my crappy payment and rent on a crappy apartment with room mates, and my idea of a vacation was a single night in a crappy motel room at the beach because I afford more - no less the time off.

Why would any 22 year chick want date someone who is broke, when they can date a 35 year old with their own house, a nice car, and who can take her to Hawaii for a week?

perhaps one who doesn't want their sole purpose to be a cum depository?

unless you can carry a conversation with a 22 year old..

dyna mo 06-25-2013 08:48 AM

i don't have any problems carrying on a convo with a 22 year old girl. in fact, most the girls i've hung with that are much younger than me carry a convo better than a gfyer.

scubadiver626 06-25-2013 09:13 AM

Then there's some fun open minded women that are a joy to live with, take care of themselves, and make life better. I hope you each find one and live to be happy old men!

JustDaveXxx 06-25-2013 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19684182)
well if you even live with a woman for a few years its considered 'common law' and you can lose all the same shit.

Nope!


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Originally Posted by J. Falcon (Post 19684525)
Exactly. I think here it's over 5 years. Or it could be 10.


And Nope!


Common Law Marriage is not a contract and not enforceable unless: During the whole relationship you are promising to marry and take care of the woman her whole life. Even then it cant be enforced unless, the woman "Relies on that promise to her detriment".

Meaning she drops out of school, quits her job to have kids and become a home maker. Without that, NOTHING!!


And even with all of the above happening, the woman cant sue under Common Law Marriage, she will be able to recover under "Palimony."


Keep in mind, Marriage is a contract and follows the same rules as a contract.


Palimony Came about as a result of, Marvin v. Marvin

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palimony


Law School really opened up my eyes to this shit. Especially my class on Community Property. OHHH Man! a whole class on dividing up a mans shit acquired during his marriage. LAME!


I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years and we have 2 kids. Happy and I don't see myself with anyone else.


But if I were to get sued for Palimony (Divorced), there is nobody out of our friends that can testify that I made any such promises that could tie me up.


My relationship is simple:Anyone can leave when ever they like. As a result of that simple rule, we both are always working on our relationship.


Sorry to get all attorney with you guys, but i wanted you guys to know what is really what with this subject, carry on.

Got to run and shoot my scene now.


Just Dave

_Richard_ 06-25-2013 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by JustDaveXxx (Post 19685997)
Nope!





And Nope!


Common Law Marriage is not a contract and not enforceable unless: During the whole relationship you are promising to marry and take care of the woman her whole life. Even then it cant be enforced unless, the woman "Relies on that promise to her detriment".

Meaning she drops out of school, quits her job to have kids and become a home maker. Without that, NOTHING!!


And even with all of the above happening, the woman cant sue under Common Law Marriage, she will be able to recover under "Palimony."


Keep in mind, Marriage is a contract and follows the same rules as a contract.


Palimony Came about as a result of, Marvin v. Marvin

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palimony


Law School really opened up my eyes to this shit. Especially my class on Community Property. OHHH Man! a whole class on dividing up a mans shit acquired during his marriage. LAME!


I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years and we have 2 kids. Happy and I don't see myself with anyone else.


But if I were to get sued for Palimony (Divorced), there is nobody out of our friends that can testify that I made any such promises that could tie me up.


My relationship is simple:Anyone can leave when ever they like. As a result of that simple rule, we both are always working on our relationship.


Sorry to get all attorney with you guys, but i wanted you guys to know what is really what with this subject, carry on.

Got to run and shoot my scene now.


Just Dave

they're changing those laws to reflect the decline of marriage

so yes, you are correct, you won't be for long

crockett 06-25-2013 01:41 PM

I'm traveling around new england at the moment and will head south by winter then out west before next summer.

After that no clue where is next.. Single.. Yep 8)

xNetworx 06-25-2013 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crucifissio (Post 19684620)
why the fuck should I retire my dick so that some soon-to-be-fat bitch can feel safe and special? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

seriously LOL I do not know what is up with some people...

my penis needs to be free...it needs to impale all kinds of pussy and asshole...crucifissio the impaler :1orglaugh

kids? LOL theres already enough of us...

Id rather spend my life being a pimp and travelling left and right and fucking whores with big tits and riding motorbikes and having tons of cash and no responsibility and fucking whores and going from beach to beach working on my tan and flying ultra light aircraft and waking up at 12am and fucking whores ect ect...

people who can have kids and fuck only one thing obviously adapt better to these conditions than I do...

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-u9T_cwssk_...TrA/s600/1.jpg

AmeliaG 06-25-2013 04:20 PM

If women want equality in the workplace and the culture in general, the idiotic alimony laws need to be changed. A man or woman pays the bills for a non-working partner in return for support -- emotional, sexual, around the house, whatever is needed.

If you quit your regular job, you don't keep getting paid forever. Why should someone who quits her wife job keep getting paid indefinitely?

If someone stood by you to put you through school or whatever, alimony should last as long as it takes her to get to the same educational level. And that's it.

xNetworx 06-26-2013 12:56 AM

bump, interesting thread:2 cents:

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