He's not well. It's impossible to tell if there's a sincere word in anything he writes. He tries ultra hard, too hard, to confess what a terrible person he was in his prior life as a pornographer but it never rings true. It always reads like he's looking for adulation, the self effacing words are empty, it always sounds like the middle aged failure reliving his days as a high school football hero.

Whatever the true story is about the model 'Mindy' if she's as messed up as he describes her porn didn't cause her problems. Not one of the solo site models I've worked with are tortured drug or alcohol abusers. Do some regret doing it? Absolutely. Society is filled with hypocrites, the biggest usually are the religionists. Secular society merely calls them sluts and trash, religion lays a much more profound shame on them. He should be questioning the power of Christ, who grants forgiveness to sinners, this girl he writes about goes to church, yet she continues to suffer. That's some Savior. There's always an answer or excuse for why the Lord fails, it's never the Lord's fault.

Took a second to go through some of those texts, sounds pretty pathetic, phony and intrusive to me - can't figure out why would anyone feel the need to do this, unless it's just a way to get socially accepted the hard way among biggots that will "feel" for you when you accept their biggotry. Any of this won't do good to anybody.

It would be better if it was the other way around, imagine a die-hard Christian exploring the glory of porn and enjoying every single minute of it.

yep, and it wasn't the little balding stocky fellow :1orglaugh funny how 'love', something women are full of, transforms into 'shallow' with a flick of a switch :1orglaugh

A christian turned to pornographer blog wouldn't be that profitable...or maybe it would. "From Jesus to Jenna: A Journey from Christ to Cuckold" - that's a good working title. Or "From Christ to Cum: How Porn Saved My Life".

No need to imagine, there are plenty out there who do just that. The confessionals are full of them every Sunday.

No need for nukes when there's enough hypocrisy on both sides of the Christian vs Porn issue to destroy the world a thousand times over.

sHow it works is you start a "ministry" and that is tax deducible. You travel around and visit churches and get a speaking fee and I think they sometimes take a special offering. I have met another person who was a daughter of a famous minister and had been a Madam for several years. She made good money once she "came back to christ" yet she still bragged just like Donny about how much money she used to make pimping girls. She was an opportunist who had also suffered a traumatic event in her life and then started a ministry as a new career.

and to think that it's mostly these narcissistic psychological trainwrecks who act as an example & leader figure amongst those sheep. Gives a good idea how rotten those cults are, the members eat up shit that completely insane and unstable people are telling them. Good foundation for your faith. :Oh crap

Donny has black

I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

LOL:1orglaugh

Here searching for more source material, Donny? You can write an article about me and how GFY fucked up my life. How working on porn websites and posting on GFY has turned me into a mole-like hermit that only leaves the house to go to the convenience store to pick up beer and snacks.

P.S. That article you wrote about Mindy was the most vain and conceited story written by a supercilious person looking to thump their own chest I've ever had the displeasure of reading. After reading it, I didn't feel bad for the girl and her poor life decisions. It sounded more like a press release of your previous career. A) How much money you made B) How much money you made for her C) How you were living a privileged lifestyle (nice house, vacation photos on display), D) Your career with Playboy E) How much power and influence you had over people (which seems like you've now turned to a flock of people who are much easier to influence and manipulate) and F) How you manipulated, and continued to manipulate her until her only escape was drugs.

I don't feel bad for the girl, she made her own bed. I feel bad that you're now exploiting her story to polarize the sheeple of your temple.

You must not have felt THAT bad for completely and absolutely DESTROYING her life with porn. This is from the article you wrote: Mighty christian thing of you to do -- refuse to help someone that you just, as your article stated, destroyed by getting into porn. There could have been a happy ending. You could have adopted the kids, helped Mindy with rehab, and taken responsibility for all of the "evil" actions you explained about in your article. If you felt so bad for destroying her life, you would have done a lot more than to write an article about her. :2 cents:

Good luck in your new career.

You should have added that to your list of achievements in the article. "And long after I saw she was being destroyed by porn, and no longer in the business, I would invite buddies over to grimy motel rooms where we'd shish-ka-bob her. I destroyed her life with porn, now I was destroying any shred of self respect this young girl had left by turning her into a toll free cum dumpster for my friends and I. I despised myself after every thrust until I would orgasm in shame."

Donny why does Christ fail this girl? She reaches out to him yet remains tormented.

Porn doesn't break girls, porn does attract broken girls.

Nobody worries about males in porn, you never hear Donny or anybody else say 'that's somebody's son'. Why? Because of almost 2000 years of sexist guilt trips put on females by the church which still pervades modern society. Boys and men can do porn and walk away unscathed but a female? She HAS to be damaged, because that's the narrative they have pre-written.

The original story actually included something very similar to that. The editor removed it. The original is posted elsewhere if you'd like to see it.

Ricky Gervais best quotes on religion lol

http://inktank.fi/the-10-smartest-ri...bout-religion/

It's easy to say a person on earth who has a crappy life has been failed when one doesn't believe there's anything after this life. From an eternal perspective, the things we encounter here are really quite momentary, aren't they? Have you ever known a parent who keeps telling their kids to stay away from something hot, yet the kid keeps repeatedly wanting to touch, until finally the parent let's them, knowing that the momentary pain of the heat will be outlived by the lessons learned by that pain? I don't think God wishes any of us to live crappy lives, but we have free will to do whatever we want to do, He allows it to happen, and when we're ready to return to Him, He'll use our crappy experiences for good.

It does both, Mutt. I've seen girls come into the business who were already messed up people, and I've see daddy's perfect little girl enter the business who doesn't think there's anything wrong with porn because society says so, yet she ends up learning otherwise and is broken down by it.


I actually say, "That's somebody's son" quite often, especially when speaking to audiences that are overwhelmingly female. The whole purpose of saying "That's somebody's son" or "That's somebody's daughter" is to move the audience to an emotional place where they identify. When an audience is mixed, it's more psychologically powerful to use the female illustration of, "That's someone's daughter."

Also, porn does indeed damage the males just as much, yet fewer of them are willing to share what's going on inside. Many males just prefer to suck it up and get mad if anyone tries to get them to talk about their feelings. That anger is nearly always an expression of pain.

If I tried to get YOU to talk, for instance, about what motivates you to stay in porn, I doubt you'd open up or tell the truth to me or even to yourself. But I guarantee you, it's not because you're truly healthy inside.

Mindy's been in rehab many times, actually. And I did consider adopting her kids. But I'm 40 years old and not home much. Her son is 8 and her daughter just turned 6. A single male, who happens to be a former producer of pornography, is not the right person to adopt two kids that age, and I doubt such a thing would be approved anyway. Any intelligent person can look at the situation and realize that's probably not going to happen: "Hey, Ms. Social worker, I found someone to adopt my kids! The guy who helped destroy my life and turned me into a porn star! He's 40 and single. Perfect choice, right?"

Doesn't take a rocket scientists to see that probably won't fly. However, by writing that article and telling Mindy's story, there have been several people who have contacted me offering to adopt them. We'll see what happens.

and being arrested for interfering with a child didn't help the adoption much either :2 cents:

What an attention whore asshole LOL

Wouldn't hurt anything either. Anybody can be accused by a random crack head of "annoying" a minor. In my case, she retaliated to me turning her in to her probation officer by saying I gave her daughter alcohol and porn. But once the DA's office reviewed the case it was dropped, as it should be. Because the accusations were BS intended to take away attention from the fact that a crack head was violating her probation and threatening my family with a gun.

Now on the other hand, there's much I could say that's true about lots of people around here, including you. But contrary to what Siccone implied, I don't throw anyone under the bus. When I share stories of things that happened, those who did things they shouldn't are kept anonymous.

Nice try at taking that pot shot though, Bmb.

you've done much worse than I have Donny and the stuff you accuse me of, you made the fuck up... and honestly... I've always wonder WTF is wrong with you for a attacking a guy that only helped you .. you just a piece of miserable shit? or do you have deeper issues...?

The things I confronted you about were things I saw myself or things some of my models brought to my attention. I made nothing up. Is it possible the girls lied? Of course. Anything is possible. I tended to believe them because they'd been working with me for a long time. But again, those things aren't made up. And the only reason you can claim I've done worse is because I'm honest with myself and am willing to admit to what I've done.

I've got many deep issues, yes. Fortunately, the amount of time that's needed to deal with them with my psychiatrist gets shorter all the time. I deal with such things, learn and move on.

And, yes, you did indeed help me a lot. And I will always appreciate your heart. Sometimes you put it out on your sleeve, and it's beautiful.

FYI: I was just talking about you on the fourth of July. It was positive. Something I respected very much. I am very capable of letting the huge positives outweigh the few negatives. You're a good man who has more to offer the world than porn production.

obsessed with your life in porn still. And still making money off of it. Maybe you should move on. The money is probably too good & easy though. Weirdo.

Exactly how much money do you assume I'm making from speaking or writing? I support myself by doing internet marketing and website management for auto dealers. I'm not rich by any means, but I do crack six figures - barely - each year.

Am I flown all over the world to speak? Yes. Do I like it? Well, I hate the travel and time away from home, but I do love seeing new places once I'm there. Am I paid to speak? Yes. But I donate the VAST majority of my honorariums to single moms and/or their kids. Have I ever purchased an iPad with the money I'm paid? Sure. But that's rare. Almost all of the money I'm paid to speak is given away.

I really do speak out because someone needs to. And those of you in porn really should start paying attention to what porn does to people. I'm not just blowing smoke here... there are an enormous amount of peer-reviewed, scientific studies that show it does nothing positive, but is overwhelmingly negative.

I pray all the time that God will allow me to see people through HIS eyes. That said, I'm not trying to call any particular people out. Everyone is one of God's kids, who He wants to drag out of the gutters they've made of their lives so that they can have the best life possible. I don't consider anyone in porn to be an enemy, which is why I write articles like this one, here:

http://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/wh...as-i-the-enemy

But I DO think porn harms people. Period. So I try to educate others on how it impacts people. How it impacts our sons and daughters. My goal is to diminish the demand for pornography. THAT is why I speak.

if there wasn't porn and prostitutes there would be ALOT more rape. And porn is actually a very efficient way of doing one sex act that makes thousands to even millions of people release their sexual needs with that one scene.

Imagine if porn would be gone. Prostitution would blow up because thousands of women take the place of that one scene. Supply and demand: The demand for sex will NEVER be gone, it's nature, when people can't fulfill their needs with porn because it doesn't exist, the market demand for prostitutes explodes.

Now imagine if prostitution would be gone as well. Where would all these people with sexual needs go, who don't have a gf or wife? Their natural need for sex will build up and huge, huge groups of people will be completely sexually frustrated. Rape will explode.

In the times of the cavemen, rape was normal, they'd club a women and fuck. In the times after that where people became more civilized, what happened? Prostitution was invented. It's not for nothing the oldest profession in the world. History shows that as far back as the 18th century BC it already existed.

And here you come in. You must be some sort of god yourself if you actually think you can change how the world has worked for the last 4000 years. That's some task you've given yourself. Let's say you are some sort of superhero with magic powers and are able to stop it all - congratulations, you've sent us back to the caveman ways. 'Let's go clubbing' will be something people will still say to each other every weekend - what they mean by that has changed though. Well done!

Keep telling yourself all that, Nico. Science says otherwise.

Donny is obsessed with others men's dicks... hence the game... being a 'born again' anti-porn crusader allows Donny the opportunity to stay focused on 'the dick' :2 cents:

science opposing the facts of 4000 years of history with prostitution? What science is that, a time machine with Jack the Ripper? :1orglaugh

Science which shows pornography affects the brain in the same way as a heroin addiction and which shows no correlation between porn use and increase or decrease in rape.

just look at the levels of rape in countries where women are kept behind closed doors and sexual freedom is something that doesn't exist.

Certainly, the fact that women have no value whatsoever in such countries has nothing to do with the levels of rape, right? Contrary to scientific, peer reviewed studies, it simply MUST be the lack of porn, right?

And what is responsible for that? Largely religion. All religious texts have men being superior to women. This porn study you keep referring to has little to do with the thousands of years previous to porn where women were still objectified, considered as property, raped and disposed of.

I suppose now that anyone whom you can make a credible claim of either knowing or having had dealings with can anticipate having their dirty laundry (real or otherwise) aired here by you.

The word "contemptible" doesn't even begin to describe your methodology.

Here's a free clue Je$u$ Boy. Don't invite other men to fuck your woman and maybe, just maybe, your life won't come unglued at the seams.

I get the feeling you're a certified genius. Since when are such things considered "dirty laundry"? A porn producer had sex with a model? Next you're going to tell me Kenny regularly dies on Southpark, that french fries aren't actually French, and that honey badgers don't give a crap.

Donny, let's not deal with or even acknowledge the weaknesses, propensities for addiction and obsession, or even the basic desires and fantasies that people have that prompts them to seek out porn. And not all of that is bad Donny. There are plenty of people who view porn from time to time who aren't ruining their lives, just as there are plenty of people IN porn who treat it like a business and aren't making a mess of their lives.

Are there problems with this or any other vice? Of course there are. But are those problems due to the availability or wrongness of the vice, or are they more centered in the people themselves? Where is the true blame and source of the problem Donny? Porn itself and the existence of it, or humans themselves with human failings and weaknesses?

Personally I think it's the latter. Thus, the focus of your crusade is misdirected. You'll argue the point no doubt, but I think deep down you know I'm right.

Porn isn't going anywhere. The USA isn't going to outright outlaw porn across the board anytime soon, you know this. You also know that there was probably a better way that some of your past models could have been handled and treated by YOU so that their time in porn wasn't so traumatic for them.

But no, it's just easier to blame porn, right reverend? :D

You want porn gone. Porn is never going away. Neither is your paycheque, for as long as porn exists you've got something to crow for pay about. Let's close down every casino as well while we're at it. I mean gambling ruins some people's lives too right? No, it doesn't Donny. Human weakness and urges that some people can't control is the root of it. Do you really believe for a second that such weak addictive people wouldn't find something else to obsess on and ruin their lives over?

You people who blame the vice rather than take any responsibility for your own actions are as bad and annoying as those who call their own weakness and failings "a disease". Alcolholism, same thing. "oh it's a disease"... Yeah, it's anything but your own inability to control yourself and govern your own actions. It's as pathetic as your (Donny's) inability or unwillingness to listen to anyone here or be open to adjusting your take on things in any way. You've been offered some pretty sound advice before on these boards, by many here including myself. Rarely if ever do I see you take it much less acknowlege it as being worth considering. You come off like you've got it all figured out when you so don't, and everyone else is wrong, especially all the 'dirty pornographers' here. We get it, you were one of us and now you have utter disdain for us.

But tell me, why isn't your Christian fan base rallying to your former porn girl's cause? Why haven't I seen any mention in your articles about what's being done to help that girl, or how the flock is being asked to open their hearts and wallets? Is she no longer worth saving? Certainly I've seen dozens of such causes on the adult (porn) industry forums over the years were hundreds of us contributed to help one of our own. Some of those causes were even legitimate.

Surely there's some responsibility there on your part Donny, no? This girl's time in porn didn't have to be a path down into a pit of living hell did it? If not for hooking up with some people who used and abused her would there not be a chance that she might have actually come away from this with at least something positive? If you, the guy who 'brought her in' had've handled her differently....? Donny, if you can admit that YOU had a major part in her downfall then how can 'porn' in general be the sole scapegoat here?

Donny how can you not see any hypocrisy with your position here when I and others can see so much of it?

Don't react, think on it.

Link to just three, peer reviewed papers in scientific journals that show porn is "overwhelmingly negative" please.

I've seen some pseudo scientific, non peer reviewed bollocks that say it is awful, but nothing in a scientific journal, nor any peer reviewed ones.

Edjumacate me!

very good stuff... as someone that knew Donny personally... the dude is a total creep and memorizing passages out of a book hasn't changed that one bit :2 cents:

Donny FYI none of that concerns you in anyway... I would say from personal experience that women have no value to you other than as props in your great adventure...

I'm sure brainwashing and religion have the same effect or worse?

Religious Experiences Shrink Part of the Brain

http://www.scientificamerican.com/ar...part-of-brain/

Alright. You asked for it. I'll link to both peer reviewed papers as well as related articles. This might take awhile. There's a ton of information to consider. I have literally more than 80 different academic studies alone, and dozens upon dozens of articles. Would you like them posted one at a time? I'll start with a rather "soft" study:

Citation Information:

A Love That Doesn't Last: Pornography Consumption and Weakened Commitment to

One's Romantic Partner

Nathaniel M. Lambert, Sesen Negash, Tyler F. Stillman, Spencer B. Olmstead, and Frank

D. Fincham

Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 2012 31:4, 410-438


We examined whether the consumption of pornography affects romantic relationships,

with the expectation that higher levels of pornography consumption would correspond

to weakened commitment in young adult romantic relationships. Study 1 (n = 367)

found that higher pornography consumption was related to lower commitment,

and Study 2 (n = 34) replicated this finding using observational data. Study 3 (n = 20)

participants were randomly assigned to either refrain from viewing pornography or

to a self-control task. Those who continued using pornography reported lower levels

of commitment than control participants. In Study 4 (n = 67), participants consuming

higher levels of pornography flirted more with an extradyadic partner during an online

chat. Study 5 (n = 240) found that pornography consumption was positively related

to infidelity and this association was mediated by commitment. Overall, a consistent

pattern of results was found using a variety of approaches including cross-sectional

(Study 1), observational (Study 2), experimental (Study 3), and behavioral (Studies 4 and

5) data.


Read More: http://guilfordjournals.com/doi/abs/....2012.31.4.410

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Does Viewing Explain Doing? Assessing the Association Between Sexually Explicit

Materials Use and Sexual Behaviors in a Large Sample of Dutch Adolescents and Young

Adults

Gert Martin Hald PhD1,*, Lisette Kuyper PhD2, Philippe C.G. Adam PhD3,4 andJohn B.F.

de Wit PhD3,5

Article first published online: 26 APR 2013

DOI: 10.1111/jsm.12157

© 2013 International Society for Sexual Medicine

Issue The Journal of Sexual Medicine

The Journal of Sexual Medicine

Volume 10, Issue 12, pages 2986?2995, December 2013

Abstract

Introduction

Concerns have been voiced that the use of sexually explicit materials (SEMs) may

adversely affect sexual behaviors, particularly in young people. Previous studies have

generally found significant associations between SEM consumption and the sexual

behaviors investigated. However, most of these studies have focused on sexual

behaviors related to sexually transmitted infections or sexual aggression and/or

failed to adequately control for relevant covariates. Thus, research more thoroughly

investigating the association between SEM consumption and a broader range of sexual

behaviors is needed.

Aims

The study aims to investigate SEM consumption patterns of young people, and to

assess the strength of the association between SEM consumption and a range of sexual

behaviors, controlling for a comprehensive array of variables previously shown to

affect these relationships.

Methods

Online cross-sectional survey study of 4,600 young people, 15?25 years of age, in The

Netherlands was performed.

Main Outcomes Measures

The main outcome measures were self-reported SEM consumption and sexual

practices.

Results

The study found that 88% of men and 45% of women had consumed SEM in the past

12 months. Using hierarchical multiple regression analyses to control for other factors,

the association between SEM consumption and a variety of sexual behaviors was found

to be significant, accounting for between 0.3% and 4% of the total explained variance

in investigated sexual behaviors.

Conclusions

This study suggests that, when controlling for important other factors, SEM

consumption influences sexual behaviors. The small to moderate associations that

emerged between SEM consumption and sexual behavior after controlling for other

variables suggest that SEM is just one factor among many that may influence youth

sexual behaviors. These findings contribute novel information to the ongoing debates

on the role of SEM consumption in sexual behaviors and risk, and provide appropriate

guidance to policy makers and program developers concerned with sexual education

and sexual health promotion for young people. Hald GM, Kuyper L, Adam PCG, and

de Wit JBF. Does viewing explain doing? Assessing the association between sexually

explicit materials use and sexual behaviors in a large sample of Dutch adolescents and

young adults. J Sex Med 2013;10:2986?2995.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...t-look-does-it

"The Result: The people who eliminated or significantly reduced their viewing of

pornographic material were significantly more committed to their relationships than

those who continued to view the material. These results held true for both men and

women."

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/.../effects-porn-
adolescent-boys

Between the ages of 12 and 20, the human brain undergoes a period of great

neuroplasticity. The brain is in a malleable phase during which billions of new synaptic

connections are made. This leaves us vulnerable to the influence of our surroundings

and leads our brains to be "wired" around the experiences and information that we

receive during that time period.

When an adolescent boy compulsively views pornography, his brain chemistry can

become shaped around the attitudes and situations that he is watching. Sadly,

pornography paints an unrealistic picture of sexuality and relationships that can create

an expectation for real-life experiences that will never be fulfilled.