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Grapesoda 07-11-2014 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob (Post 20154091)
Apparently he found Jesus.

fuck!!! jesus was lost again.... that fuckin guy :mad:

Grapesoda 07-11-2014 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob (Post 20154249)
It's odd that you say that, nico-t - and a very valid point. A guy I knew raped the shit out of a girl during our Sr. year in high school. I'm talking straight up tied the girl up, gagged her, and raped her multiple times while her parents were out of town. There was a "technicality" in the case and it was eventually dismissed. He's now a minister and his focus; female abuse and empowerment through Christ. Um....something tells me the monster still lives within, he's just masking it with a Jesus-cloak of righteousness.

yeah or the cat is seeking easier victims with a better scam :2 cents:

Grapesoda 07-11-2014 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by VikingMan (Post 20154634)
Great post. I grew up in a Christian family and they are good people but it seems the mainstream Christianity that exists today is so enabling that it just gives an excuse for people to act badly. They can do whatever they want and then ask forgiveness. Their favorite line is "We are all sinners".

there are many good Christians, they just aren't in the spotlight seeking the glory... worked with an Iron worker one time.. we spent all day fuck you this, fuck you that, blah blah blah... normal guy bullshit.... then after the job he tells us a story about how he smuggles bibles into china. ... that guy is one bad ass mother fucker for sure :thumbsup

ruff 07-11-2014 07:53 AM

Sounds like this guy is working all of the angles.

CDSmith 07-11-2014 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny Pauling (article)
When I was growing up, ?Jesus? was a list of rules and regulations. ?Following Jesus? meant I couldn?t go to the movies, watch television or spend the night with friends because their parents might allow such ?sinful activities.?

That right there is the root and start of Donny's problems, not porn. Having a set of parents who themselves have egregious misconceptions about what true Christianity is, who then inflict those misconceptions onto their children is the cause of a lot of people's messed up minds, not just Donny's.

It's easier to blame porn though.

MrBottomTooth 07-11-2014 09:37 AM

Donnys problems all stemmed from him sitting in the corner jacking off while he watched another man fuck his hot wife. How did he expect that to end?

L-Pink 07-11-2014 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by MrBottomTooth (Post 20155119)
Donnys problems all stemmed from him sitting in the corner jacking off while he watched another man fuck his hot wife. How did he expect that to end?

:Oh crap ??. seriously?

MrBottomTooth 07-11-2014 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 20155128)
:Oh crap ??. seriously?

Ya, he called it "the game."

There used to be a creepy post about it on his blog. Apparently she decided she liked the stud better than the cuckold. (See picture posted by candyflip)

CDSmith 07-11-2014 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by MrBottomTooth (Post 20155119)
Donnys problems all stemmed from him sitting in the corner jacking off while he watched another man fuck his hot wife. How did he expect that to end?

That was a symtom manifesting itself that stemmed from problems that occured long before in his life. But you're right, that was something that definitely sparked a lot more trouble for him later on. Trouble that he seems to continue to struggle with letting go of to this day in spite of mine and others' many attempts to get him to just drop it.

CyberHustler 07-11-2014 10:12 AM

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She fucked both them niggas, only one got to keep the prize tho...

Mutt 07-11-2014 10:59 AM

He's not well. It's impossible to tell if there's a sincere word in anything he writes. He tries ultra hard, too hard, to confess what a terrible person he was in his prior life as a pornographer but it never rings true. It always reads like he's looking for adulation, the self effacing words are empty, it always sounds like the middle aged failure reliving his days as a high school football hero.

Whatever the true story is about the model 'Mindy' if she's as messed up as he describes her porn didn't cause her problems. Not one of the solo site models I've worked with are tortured drug or alcohol abusers. Do some regret doing it? Absolutely. Society is filled with hypocrites, the biggest usually are the religionists. Secular society merely calls them sluts and trash, religion lays a much more profound shame on them. He should be questioning the power of Christ, who grants forgiveness to sinners, this girl he writes about goes to church, yet she continues to suffer. That's some Savior. There's always an answer or excuse for why the Lord fails, it's never the Lord's fault.

CarlosTheGaucho 07-11-2014 02:39 PM

Took a second to go through some of those texts, sounds pretty pathetic, phony and intrusive to me - can't figure out why would anyone feel the need to do this, unless it's just a way to get socially accepted the hard way among biggots that will "feel" for you when you accept their biggotry. Any of this won't do good to anybody.

It would be better if it was the other way around, imagine a die-hard Christian exploring the glory of porn and enjoying every single minute of it.

nico-t 07-11-2014 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by CyberHustler (Post 20155162)
http://lifesite-cache.s3.amazonaws.c...0_500_s_c1.jpg

She fucked both them niggas, only one got to keep the prize tho...

yep, and it wasn't the little balding stocky fellow :1orglaugh funny how 'love', something women are full of, transforms into 'shallow' with a flick of a switch :1orglaugh

Rob 07-11-2014 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by CarlosTheGaucho (Post 20155395)
It would be better if it was the other way around, imagine a die-hard Christian exploring the glory of porn and enjoying every single minute of it.

A christian turned to pornographer blog wouldn't be that profitable...or maybe it would. "From Jesus to Jenna: A Journey from Christ to Cuckold" - that's a good working title. Or "From Christ to Cum: How Porn Saved My Life".

CDSmith 07-11-2014 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by CarlosTheGaucho (Post 20155395)
imagine a die-hard Christian exploring the glory of porn and enjoying every single minute of it.

No need to imagine, there are plenty out there who do just that. The confessionals are full of them every Sunday.

No need for nukes when there's enough hypocrisy on both sides of the Christian vs Porn issue to destroy the world a thousand times over.

VikingMan 07-11-2014 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob (Post 20155521)
A christian turned to pornographer blog wouldn't be that profitable...or maybe it would. "From Jesus to Jenna: A Journey from Christ to Cuckold" - that's a good working title. Or "From Christ to Cum: How Porn Saved My Life".

How it works is you start a "ministry" and that is tax deducible. You travel around and visit churches and get a speaking fee and I think they sometimes take a special offering. I have met another person who was a daughter of a famous minister and had been a Madam for several years. She made good money once she "came back to christ" yet she still bragged just like Donny about how much money she used to make pimping girls. She was an opportunist who had also suffered a traumatic event in her life and then started a ministry as a new career.

nico-t 07-12-2014 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by VikingMan (Post 20155653)
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How it works is you start a "ministry" and that is tax deducible. You travel around and visit churches and get a speaking fee and I think they sometimes take a special offering. I have met another person who was a daughter of a famous minister and had been a Madam for several years. She made good money once she "came back to christ" yet she still bragged just like Donny about how much money she used to make pimping girls. She was an opportunist who had also suffered a traumatic event in her life and then started a ministry as a new career.

and to think that it's mostly these narcissistic psychological trainwrecks who act as an example & leader figure amongst those sheep. Gives a good idea how rotten those cults are, the members eat up shit that completely insane and unstable people are telling them. Good foundation for your faith. :Oh crap

Juicy D. Links 07-12-2014 04:15 AM

Donny has black

Donny 07-12-2014 09:23 PM

I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

OneHungLo 07-12-2014 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156479)
I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

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sonofsam 07-13-2014 12:19 AM

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

sonofsam 07-13-2014 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156479)
I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

LOL:1orglaugh

Rob 07-13-2014 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156479)
I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

Here searching for more source material, Donny? You can write an article about me and how GFY fucked up my life. How working on porn websites and posting on GFY has turned me into a mole-like hermit that only leaves the house to go to the convenience store to pick up beer and snacks.

P.S. That article you wrote about Mindy was the most vain and conceited story written by a supercilious person looking to thump their own chest I've ever had the displeasure of reading. After reading it, I didn't feel bad for the girl and her poor life decisions. It sounded more like a press release of your previous career. A) How much money you made B) How much money you made for her C) How you were living a privileged lifestyle (nice house, vacation photos on display), D) Your career with Playboy E) How much power and influence you had over people (which seems like you've now turned to a flock of people who are much easier to influence and manipulate) and F) How you manipulated, and continued to manipulate her until her only escape was drugs.

I don't feel bad for the girl, she made her own bed. I feel bad that you're now exploiting her story to polarize the sheeple of your temple.

You must not have felt THAT bad for completely and absolutely DESTROYING her life with porn. This is from the article you wrote:
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I wish there was a happy ending to Mindy’s story, but there’s not. Not many months ago, she called in tears, begging me to adopt her two kids. The state had taken them one too many times, and she was no longer eligible to have them returned to her. Her social worker had informed her that a close friend or family member could be given priority, and she wondered if I would be willing, as the rest of her family was not. I gave it thought and prayer, but realized I’m not equipped to take them on.
Mighty christian thing of you to do -- refuse to help someone that you just, as your article stated, destroyed by getting into porn. There could have been a happy ending. You could have adopted the kids, helped Mindy with rehab, and taken responsibility for all of the "evil" actions you explained about in your article. If you felt so bad for destroying her life, you would have done a lot more than to write an article about her. :2 cents:

Good luck in your new career.

Rob 07-13-2014 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156479)
You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

You should have added that to your list of achievements in the article. "And long after I saw she was being destroyed by porn, and no longer in the business, I would invite buddies over to grimy motel rooms where we'd shish-ka-bob her. I destroyed her life with porn, now I was destroying any shred of self respect this young girl had left by turning her into a toll free cum dumpster for my friends and I. I despised myself after every thrust until I would orgasm in shame."

Mutt 07-13-2014 07:55 AM

Donny why does Christ fail this girl? She reaches out to him yet remains tormented.

Porn doesn't break girls, porn does attract broken girls.

Nobody worries about males in porn, you never hear Donny or anybody else say 'that's somebody's son'. Why? Because of almost 2000 years of sexist guilt trips put on females by the church which still pervades modern society. Boys and men can do porn and walk away unscathed but a female? She HAS to be damaged, because that's the narrative they have pre-written.

Donny 07-13-2014 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob (Post 20156688)
You should have added that to your list of achievements in the article. "And long after I saw she was being destroyed by porn, and no longer in the business, I would invite buddies over to grimy motel rooms where we'd shish-ka-bob her. I destroyed her life with porn, now I was destroying any shred of self respect this young girl had left by turning her into a toll free cum dumpster for my friends and I. I despised myself after every thrust until I would orgasm in shame."

The original story actually included something very similar to that. The editor removed it. The original is posted elsewhere if you'd like to see it.

Bryan G 07-13-2014 08:20 AM

Ricky Gervais best quotes on religion lol

http://inktank.fi/the-10-smartest-ri...bout-religion/

Donny 07-13-2014 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 20156696)
Donny why does Christ fail this girl? She reaches out to him yet remains tormented.

It's easy to say a person on earth who has a crappy life has been failed when one doesn't believe there's anything after this life. From an eternal perspective, the things we encounter here are really quite momentary, aren't they? Have you ever known a parent who keeps telling their kids to stay away from something hot, yet the kid keeps repeatedly wanting to touch, until finally the parent let's them, knowing that the momentary pain of the heat will be outlived by the lessons learned by that pain? I don't think God wishes any of us to live crappy lives, but we have free will to do whatever we want to do, He allows it to happen, and when we're ready to return to Him, He'll use our crappy experiences for good.

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 20156696)
Porn doesn't break girls, porn does attract broken girls.

It does both, Mutt. I've seen girls come into the business who were already messed up people, and I've see daddy's perfect little girl enter the business who doesn't think there's anything wrong with porn because society says so, yet she ends up learning otherwise and is broken down by it.


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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 20156696)
Nobody worries about males in porn, you never hear Donny or anybody else say 'that's somebody's son'. Why? Because of almost 2000 years of sexist guilt trips put on females by the church which still pervades modern society. Boys and men can do porn and walk away unscathed but a female? She HAS to be damaged, because that's the narrative they have pre-written.

I actually say, "That's somebody's son" quite often, especially when speaking to audiences that are overwhelmingly female. The whole purpose of saying "That's somebody's son" or "That's somebody's daughter" is to move the audience to an emotional place where they identify. When an audience is mixed, it's more psychologically powerful to use the female illustration of, "That's someone's daughter."

Also, porn does indeed damage the males just as much, yet fewer of them are willing to share what's going on inside. Many males just prefer to suck it up and get mad if anyone tries to get them to talk about their feelings. That anger is nearly always an expression of pain.

If I tried to get YOU to talk, for instance, about what motivates you to stay in porn, I doubt you'd open up or tell the truth to me or even to yourself. But I guarantee you, it's not because you're truly healthy inside.

Donny 07-13-2014 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob (Post 20156681)
Mighty christian thing of you to do -- refuse to help someone that you just, as your article stated, destroyed by getting into porn. There could have been a happy ending. You could have adopted the kids, helped Mindy with rehab, and taken responsibility for all of the "evil" actions you explained about in your article.

Mindy's been in rehab many times, actually. And I did consider adopting her kids. But I'm 40 years old and not home much. Her son is 8 and her daughter just turned 6. A single male, who happens to be a former producer of pornography, is not the right person to adopt two kids that age, and I doubt such a thing would be approved anyway. Any intelligent person can look at the situation and realize that's probably not going to happen: "Hey, Ms. Social worker, I found someone to adopt my kids! The guy who helped destroy my life and turned me into a porn star! He's 40 and single. Perfect choice, right?"

Doesn't take a rocket scientists to see that probably won't fly. However, by writing that article and telling Mindy's story, there have been several people who have contacted me offering to adopt them. We'll see what happens.

Grapesoda 07-13-2014 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156727)
Mindy's been in rehab many times, actually. And I did consider adopting her kids. But I'm 40 years old and not home much. Her son is 8 and her daughter just turned 6. A single male, who happens to be a former producer of pornography, is not the right person to adopt two kids that age, and I doubt such a thing would be approved anyway. Any intelligent person can look at the situation and realize that's probably not going to happen: "Hey, Ms. Social worker, I found someone to adopt my kids! The guy who helped destroy my life and turned me into a porn star! He's 40 and single. Perfect choice, right?"

Doesn't take a rocket scientists to see that probably won't fly. However, by writing that article and telling Mindy's story, there have been several people who have contacted me offering to adopt them. We'll see what happens.

and being arrested for interfering with a child didn't help the adoption much either :2 cents:

Jman 07-13-2014 11:15 AM

What an attention whore asshole LOL

BareBacked 07-13-2014 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156479)
I'm just wondering if it make ya'll feel good to sit on a dying message board taking pots shots at me?

By the way, AaronM, by the time you met Mindy she was no longer actively working. You and I had sex with her in a grimey hotel room after shooting another model all day. Your experiences with her back up my story, rather than detract from it. Every word in the article about her is true.

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OneHungLo 07-13-2014 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Grapesoda (Post 20156793)
and being arrested for interfering with a child didn't help the adoption much either :2 cents:

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Donny 07-13-2014 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Grapesoda (Post 20156793)
and being arrested for interfering with a child didn't help the adoption much either :2 cents:

Wouldn't hurt anything either. Anybody can be accused by a random crack head of "annoying" a minor. In my case, she retaliated to me turning her in to her probation officer by saying I gave her daughter alcohol and porn. But once the DA's office reviewed the case it was dropped, as it should be. Because the accusations were BS intended to take away attention from the fact that a crack head was violating her probation and threatening my family with a gun.

Now on the other hand, there's much I could say that's true about lots of people around here, including you. But contrary to what Siccone implied, I don't throw anyone under the bus. When I share stories of things that happened, those who did things they shouldn't are kept anonymous.

Nice try at taking that pot shot though, Bmb.

Grapesoda 07-13-2014 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 20156858)
Wouldn't hurt anything either. Anybody can be accused by a random crack head of "annoying" a minor. In my case, she retaliated to me turning her in to her probation officer by saying I gave her daughter alcohol and porn. But once the DA's office reviewed the case it was dropped, as it should be. Because the accusations were BS intended to take away attention from the fact that a crack head was violating her probation and threatening my family with a gun.

Now on the other hand, there's much I could say that's true about lots of people around here, including you. But contrary to what Siccone implied, I don't throw anyone under the bus. When I share stories of things that happened, those who did things they shouldn't are kept anonymous.

Nice try at taking that pot shot though, Bmb.

you've done much worse than I have Donny and the stuff you accuse me of, you made the fuck up... and honestly... I've always wonder WTF is wrong with you for a attacking a guy that only helped you .. you just a piece of miserable shit? or do you have deeper issues...?

Donny 07-13-2014 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Grapesoda (Post 20156889)
you've done much worse than I have Donny and the stuff you accuse me of, you made the fuck up... and honestly... I've always wonder WTF is wrong with you for a attacking a guy that only helped you .. you just a piece of miserable shit? or do you have deeper issues...?

The things I confronted you about were things I saw myself or things some of my models brought to my attention. I made nothing up. Is it possible the girls lied? Of course. Anything is possible. I tended to believe them because they'd been working with me for a long time. But again, those things aren't made up. And the only reason you can claim I've done worse is because I'm honest with myself and am willing to admit to what I've done.

I've got many deep issues, yes. Fortunately, the amount of time that's needed to deal with them with my psychiatrist gets shorter all the time. I deal with such things, learn and move on.

And, yes, you did indeed help me a lot. And I will always appreciate your heart. Sometimes you put it out on your sleeve, and it's beautiful.

FYI: I was just talking about you on the fourth of July. It was positive. Something I respected very much. I am very capable of letting the huge positives outweigh the few negatives. You're a good man who has more to offer the world than porn production.

nico-t 07-13-2014 01:58 PM

obsessed with your life in porn still. And still making money off of it. Maybe you should move on. The money is probably too good & easy though. Weirdo.

Donny 07-13-2014 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 20156999)
obsessed with your life in porn still. And still making money off of it. Maybe you should move on. The money is probably too good & easy though. Weirdo.

Exactly how much money do you assume I'm making from speaking or writing? I support myself by doing internet marketing and website management for auto dealers. I'm not rich by any means, but I do crack six figures - barely - each year.

Am I flown all over the world to speak? Yes. Do I like it? Well, I hate the travel and time away from home, but I do love seeing new places once I'm there. Am I paid to speak? Yes. But I donate the VAST majority of my honorariums to single moms and/or their kids. Have I ever purchased an iPad with the money I'm paid? Sure. But that's rare. Almost all of the money I'm paid to speak is given away.

I really do speak out because someone needs to. And those of you in porn really should start paying attention to what porn does to people. I'm not just blowing smoke here... there are an enormous amount of peer-reviewed, scientific studies that show it does nothing positive, but is overwhelmingly negative.

I pray all the time that God will allow me to see people through HIS eyes. That said, I'm not trying to call any particular people out. Everyone is one of God's kids, who He wants to drag out of the gutters they've made of their lives so that they can have the best life possible. I don't consider anyone in porn to be an enemy, which is why I write articles like this one, here:

http://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/wh...as-i-the-enemy

But I DO think porn harms people. Period. So I try to educate others on how it impacts people. How it impacts our sons and daughters. My goal is to diminish the demand for pornography. THAT is why I speak.

nico-t 07-13-2014 04:09 PM

if there wasn't porn and prostitutes there would be ALOT more rape. And porn is actually a very efficient way of doing one sex act that makes thousands to even millions of people release their sexual needs with that one scene.

Imagine if porn would be gone. Prostitution would blow up because thousands of women take the place of that one scene. Supply and demand: The demand for sex will NEVER be gone, it's nature, when people can't fulfill their needs with porn because it doesn't exist, the market demand for prostitutes explodes.

Now imagine if prostitution would be gone as well. Where would all these people with sexual needs go, who don't have a gf or wife? Their natural need for sex will build up and huge, huge groups of people will be completely sexually frustrated. Rape will explode.

In the times of the cavemen, rape was normal, they'd club a women and fuck. In the times after that where people became more civilized, what happened? Prostitution was invented. It's not for nothing the oldest profession in the world. History shows that as far back as the 18th century BC it already existed.

And here you come in. You must be some sort of god yourself if you actually think you can change how the world has worked for the last 4000 years. That's some task you've given yourself. Let's say you are some sort of superhero with magic powers and are able to stop it all - congratulations, you've sent us back to the caveman ways. 'Let's go clubbing' will be something people will still say to each other every weekend - what they mean by that has changed though. Well done!

Donny 07-13-2014 04:13 PM

Keep telling yourself all that, Nico. Science says otherwise.


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