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takethebluepill 02-23-2015 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401510)
Sorry but that's never going to happen. This industry cannibalized itself. Tubes / Torrents completely destroyed it, and the only people left are the few people who bought out every other program + own the tubes, and bang cards 3 times+ each with xsales etc.

Agreed, GFY has been helpful in pointing out some of the 'players' whose business strategy is to scam the customer out of their money. We could see it coming in the late 90's, when one particular member on this board was largely responsible for the majority of malware being delivered across the net. Same idiot now runs one of the programs that specializes in xsale crap. It was and is people like him that set the bar so low, where scamming was and is considered an admirable business trait in this industry
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JFK 02-23-2015 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by k0nr4d (Post 20401381)
There are some other forums, but the really good business oriented ones ones aren't public and seek you out if they want you...

:2 cents::thumbsup

mineistaken 02-23-2015 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401510)
I'm not whining since I don't work in adult, but coming back from this will be near impossible. How will this industry recover, when you could just move to mainstream and apply the same tactics and make money 100x easier?

It is not that easy in adult anymore. After penguin and panda that is. If you disagree - post your advice.

JFK 02-23-2015 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401510)
Sorry but that's never going to happen. This industry cannibalized itself. Tubes / Torrents completely destroyed it, and the only people left are the few people who bought out every other program + own the tubes, and bang cards 3 times+ each with xsales etc.

I'm not whining since I don't work in adult, but coming back from this will be near impossible. How will this industry recover, when you could just move to mainstream and apply the same tactics and make money 100x easier?

If you dont work in Adult, why are you here ?

takethebluepill 02-23-2015 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by JFK (Post 20401537)
If you dont work in Adult, why are you here ?

He may not work in Adult, but his post was one of the most insightful of the entire thread.

blackmonsters 02-23-2015 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401252)
Okay... here goes:

He has a good point. 99% of people here are broke and don't even make money in adult.

:1orglaugh

ITraffic 02-23-2015 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JFK (Post 20401537)
If you dont work in Adult, why are you here ?

for the food and craft beer pictures.

RandyRandy 02-23-2015 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 20401429)
Clearly you do not make more than me if you think I was pulling numbers out of my ass. One of those numbers applies to me, and to many others on GFY.

Having said that, there are many, many places in the US (and the world) where you can live quite nicely for $40k a year. Even less in some places. This means someone can work full-time as an Adult Webmaster with Adult being their only job. In fact, most of my employees work full-time for $150 a week and are quite happy (and this is their only job).

So who's talking out of their ass here? You sound like a fool if you think 99% of GFY-ers are hobbyists.

1. I would love to know who makes their only revenue thru adult and what that revenue is, but we all know we're never going to get those figures on GFY.

2. I define "real income" as six figures (US$) and above. For some it might be less, but that's what I come up with.

3. I think there are plenty of people on GFY who crack 6 figures solely in Adult. And some may be trolls. And some may have very high post counts. But I bet most don't.

4. For full disclosure I made $1,800 last year in Adult Income, solely from a clips4sale store that I did not update AT ALL in 2014. I did make 6 figures in my other business, working an average of 70 hours a week. I'd like to think if I worked the same amount of hours on clips4sale (shooting new content and posting everyday) and cams (a great source of content if you set it up right with shows) I would have approached the same six figures. In the end, it's all work. The more you put in, the more you get out.

5. Porn Nerd: Your employees are happy with $7,800 a year, or is that a typo? Bangladeshis in Malaysia aren't happy with $7,800 a year.

6. Plenty of useful information on GFY, especially if you use the search function.

7. Better information on clips4sale and the like on the Stripper site, but GFY is much more entertaining.

Congrats to all the winners!

nosey 02-23-2015 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Squirtit (Post 20401367)

:1orglaugh

anexsia 02-23-2015 07:06 PM

GFY is actually a great source and you can find a lot of good information on here, it's also a great way to learn about new programs and you can usually get in contact with someone just by posting a thread.

nosey 02-23-2015 07:07 PM

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mineistaken 02-23-2015 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyRandy (Post 20401556)
2. I define "real income" as six figures (US$) and above. For some it might be less, but that's what I come up with.

I define "real income" as the average salary in said country. That means said person can live solely off adult just as any other person working "for real" at any regular job.

mineistaken 02-23-2015 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyRandy (Post 20401556)
5. Porn Nerd: Your employees are happy with $7,800 a year, or is that a typo? Bangladeshis in Malaysia aren't happy with $7,800 a year.

Millions of Europeans earn +- that (or even lower) in EU. And Bangladeshis are not happy? Give me a break :1orglaugh
Well that being said - nobody of blue collar is "happy" with their salary, but come on :)

sonofsam 02-23-2015 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by JFK (Post 20401537)
If you dont work in Adult, why are you here ?

The same reason 99% of the other non adult people are here. Pay attention, Yosemite Sam

sonofsam 02-23-2015 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JFK (Post 20401537)
If you dont work in Adult, why are you here ?

P.S. In a couple of years when nobody has money to pay for fubar advertising, I could ask you the same thing :2 cents:

edit: nm, looking at FUBAR Webmasters :: FUBAR Advertising and the availability, it may be sooner than 2 years. This is exactly the type of thing I've been talking about. 10 years ago, would you have that many ad spots unpurchased?

RandyRandy 02-23-2015 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 20401633)
Millions of Europeans earn +- that (or even lower) in EU. And Bangladeshis are not happy? Give me a break :1orglaugh
Well that being said - nobody of blue collar is "happy" with their salary, but come on :)

The dollar has shot up over the past few months, so @ 3.60 Malaysian Ringgits to the US$, the monthly salary at $150 a week works out to 2,340 rm. This is what we pay monthly:

Dishwasher (right off the boat, no English): 1,500rm a month
Food Runner (Good appearance, English): 1,700rm a month
POS (Good appearance, English): 1,800rm a month
Kitchen Helper: 1,800rm a month
Pizza Man: 2,200rm a month
Top Pizza Man: 2,400rm a month
Manager: 2,200rm a month

This is based on a 9 - 10 hour work day, 6 days a week. We also pay for medical.

They all think they are underpaid and I think they are all overpaid (except for 2-3 key employees, who are awesome by any standards).

All a matter of perspective, I guess - but they are always complaining about salary - especially the guys at the top end of the pay scale.:2 cents:

RandyRandy 02-23-2015 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 20401631)
I define "real income" as the average salary in said country. That means said person can live solely off adult just as any other person working "for real" at any regular job.

OK, that's a totally different definition than mine. I was interpreting the word "real" as in "substantial", not "average".

takethebluepill 02-23-2015 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyRandy (Post 20401654)
The dollar has shot up over the past few months, so @ 3.60 Malaysian Ringgits to the US$, the monthly salary at $150 a week works out to 2,340 rm. This is what we pay monthly:

Dishwasher (right off the boat, no English): 1,500rm a month
Food Runner (Good appearance, English): 1,700rm a month
POS (Good appearance, English): 1,800rm a month
Kitchen Helper: 1,800rm a month
Pizza Man: 2,200rm a month
Top Pizza Man: 2,400rm a month
Manager: 2,200rm a month

Curious...how much does a person have to make to live comfortably in Malaysia? And by comfortable, I mean a decent roof over their heads with a comfortable living space...ability to eat well...and have money left over for basic luxuries, such as fashionable clothing, perhaps a vehicle and other discretionary items.

JesseQuinn 02-23-2015 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401344)
Take a look at the active username here.. Do you think more than 1% of them have any real income in adult? This forum is primarily made up of people who maybe maybe a side income
In adult 5 years ago, and now just post because they like posting here and because they have become accustomed to it.
Not saying there is anything wrong with that, but the original poster of this thread has a good and valid point.

I wonder if part of your perception might be confirmation bias? as in, you left adult for greener fields, ergo the industry has died and everyone must be struggling?

don't get me wrong, there are a ton of surfers here too, but for a place called 'the zoo' I've done some great business here and received some amazing assistance along the way. All from people who run far larger businesses than my own. Even though through adult work I'm able to live a lifestyle I never could have even imagined otherwise, I'm still pretty small time compared to most of the peeps with whom I interact

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 20401444)
My position is not that "everyone" here at GFY makes their primary living in Adult. I think many are surfers. But I think a reasonable % would be around a 70/30 split, with 70% people being "in the Industry" to some capacity

I'd guess around the same. I think it looks higher cuz some of the surfers hyper-post so they're all over the forum

to the OP though: it's not the venue, it's how you use it

NETbilling 02-23-2015 09:21 PM

We (NETbilling) actually do pretty well with business referrals that we receive from GFY. Yes there is a lot of amusement here but also some great business threads and posts.

Mitch

mineistaken 02-23-2015 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by NETbilling (Post 20401678)
We (NETbilling) actually do pretty well with business referrals that we receive from GFY. Yes there is a lot of amusement here but also some great business threads and posts.

Mitch

Whatever somebody says - most of the "real" players still lurk at GFY from time to time :)

Bladewire 02-23-2015 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn (Post 20401676)
...to the OP though: it's not the venue, it's how you use it

Or how the venue uses you.

We can evolve GFY to have verified users which will eliminate a lot of the headache here.

Loka 02-23-2015 09:40 PM

He just got pissed up with so many lions around here.

takethebluepill 02-23-2015 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Squirtit (Post 20401687)
Or how the venue uses you.

We can evolve GFY to have verified users which will eliminate a lot of the headache here.

Sign me up... Although perhaps there already is a 'members only' section. There was a forum back in the early 2000's that had a members section and then a 'don't talk about the secret members, invite only' section, where a lot of real business happened.

MakeMeGrrrrowl 02-23-2015 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vendzilla (Post 20401208)
I couldn't have said it better

GFY is full of professional webmasters, but we are Adult Webmasters, get a fucking clue when you log into a forum called Go Fuck Yourself and the main forum is Fucking Around and program discussion. We talk about what matters to US! A lot of us have been in the business over 10 years and those that post here and fucking around are here to socialize. If we have a question, we post that too!

Pretty much. :thumbsup

JesseQuinn 02-23-2015 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Squirtit (Post 20401687)
Or how the venue uses you.

We can evolve GFY to have verified users which will eliminate a lot of the headache here.

the thing about that though is that if bar to entrance is raised too high overall activity decreases.

Besides, as some peeps above have pointed out, some use 'fucking around' as a social space and enjoy the chaos. For those who don't wish to partake, just ignore the non-biz threads. I read gfy almost every day and I skip a ton of ish that doesn't interest me; it's not that hard to ignore.

so yeah, I think we have far more agency over our experience of something than does the venue itself. like anything gfy is what we each of us choose to make of it, and with the right focus every environment offers a chance to learn new things.

RandyRandy 02-23-2015 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by takethebluepill (Post 20401666)
Curious...how much does a person have to make to live comfortably in Malaysia? And by comfortable, I mean a decent roof over their heads with a comfortable living space...ability to eat well...and have money left over for basic luxuries, such as fashionable clothing, perhaps a vehicle and other discretionary items.

I would put the over/under for VERY comfortable living at $1,000 a week. But comfort is so arbitrary and relative. At that salary, you're living in a 3 bedroom/3 bathroom condo with 5 day a week maid service. You're eating at good restaurants 3 times a week, you take car service or taxi everywhere you go (they have a great public transport system that I've never taken, and you have drinks out twice a week (expensive).

If you want to buy a Malaysian-made car, it's cheap: $10k - 20k. Foreign cars are taxed at 100% list value new.

You're also going away once a month for 3-4 days to Bali or Phuket. Air travel is very cheap here.

Most people live on far less, but I draw a salary of 15,000rm a month, appx $1k a week, and that's how I live and with money left over at the end of the month. Haven't even touched the profit-sharing cash - no need to.

Decent living in Kuala Lumpur if you've got some cash and like it hot.

Harmonizer 02-23-2015 10:11 PM

Doesn't seem like too many ballers. I have found the best advices tucked into dirty cold places.

lol at comfortably making 1K per week and comparing to average gfy poster.

The Porn Nerd 02-23-2015 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyRandy (Post 20401556)
5. Porn Nerd: Your employees are happy with $7,800 a year, or is that a typo? Bangladeshis in Malaysia aren't happy with $7,800 a year.

My employees are mostly in The Phillipines, and yes they are quite happy. I know this because every once in awhile I have to lay someone off and hire a new person. The employee I just fired will bug me for months BEGGING to get their job back. And when I post a job on ODesk I get, literally, hundreds of apps within an hour. Hundreds.

Also, the examples you stated? A manager at a fast food restuarant gets less than what I pay and they work longer hours (my employees are capped at 40 hours weekly). Now I do not use Indians as I do not trust them AND they tend to charge double what the Filipinos charge (and do shittier work).

But basically we are talking about working in Adult full-time or working part-time (or not at all) and I contend there are places in this world, even within the good ol' USA, where you can work full-time in Adult and make way less than six figures.

Bladewire 02-23-2015 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn (Post 20401714)
the thing about that though is that if bar to entrance is raised too high....

Yet we have a prolific poster actively posting on 5+ nicks and nothing done.

Yes it's The Zoo but core members have evolved and usually post here according to community standards. Up the standards and quality over quantity always wins :2 cents:

sonofsam 02-23-2015 10:28 PM

To reiterate what I've been saying, since it seems to be lost on some people. I'm talking about ACTIVE users. I'm sure there are a ton of millionaire webmasters on gfy, but are they engaged and actively posting and discussing meaningful things? No. That is precisely the reason the original poster of this thread has a very valid point.

Why would the successful webmasters post here and have meaningful discussions? Take a look at the main forum threads. They probably lurk and read the threads, but the original poster is looking for quality discussions as opposed to 30 news threads per hour on topics from the isreal/palestine conflict to people kicking dogs.

True business, as k0nrad said, happens on smaller/private forums or via direct messaging.. It's not happening on the average gfy thread.. and that's okay, it is what it is. Just don't dismiss the original thread creators opinion, because he's right.

RandyRandy 02-23-2015 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 20401722)
My employees are mostly in The Phillipines, and yes they are quite happy. I know this because every once in awhile I have to lay someone off and hire a new person. The employee I just fired will bug me for months BEGGING to get their job back. And when I post a job on ODesk I get, literally, hundreds of apps within an hour. Hundreds.

Also, the examples you stated? A manager at a fast food restuarant gets less than what I pay and they work longer hours (my employees are capped at 40 hours weekly). Now I do not use Indians as I do not trust them AND they tend to charge double what the Filipinos charge (and do shittier work).

But basically we are talking about working in Adult full-time or working part-time (or not at all) and I contend there are places in this world, even within the good ol' USA, where you can work full-time in Adult and make way less than six figures.

If you are using Phillipinos who work from their homes, then that's a great rate for them. The thing with foreign workers here is they're displaced from family and familiar culture, so all they do is work and send home money. Add to that they live in usually crappy conditions, have to pay a high fee for a working visa and consistently get harassed by the local police, and they generally are not happy.

Sounds like your deal is better than my deal, hence the happiness factor.

Bladewire 02-23-2015 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam (Post 20401731)
To reiterate what I've been saying, since it seems to be lost on some people. I'm talking about ACTIVE users. I'm sure there are a ton of millionaire webmasters on gfy, but are they engaged and actively posting and discussing meaningful things? No. That is precisely the reason the original poster of this thread has a very valid point.

Why would they when people like you could be 5 other identities pushing the same negative agenda? Waste of time so GFY stays gfy for the most part

The Porn Nerd 02-23-2015 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyRandy (Post 20401732)
If you are using Phillipinos who work from their homes, then that's a great rate for them. The thing with foreign workers here is they're displaced from family and familiar culture, so all they do is work and send home money. Add to that they live in usually crappy conditions, have to pay a high fee for a working visa and consistently get harassed by the local police, and they generally are not happy.

Sounds like your deal is better than my deal, hence the happiness factor.

Well I guess that is indeed my point. I believe anyone working from home is generally happier than working a shitty job. LOL

At this point Adult has evolved into a few large companies and many, many individual smaller businesses where most people work from their home. In fact, that's the greatest thing about the Internet and teleconferencing technology. You can work from anywhere.

As I always say when people use a general term like "Adult": what do they MEAN? Cams? Dating? Paysites? Content shooters? Media buyers? Affiliates? On and on. I think, in the end, everyone THINKS they know what "working in Adult" means but they always compare what THEY do and assume this applies to everyone.

The Porn Nerd 02-23-2015 10:55 PM

But let's examine the OP's point and see if it is valid. Someone with more Internet skill (I am too lazy) can go to the Wayback Machine and give us a screenshot of the front page of GFY from 5 years ago and 10 years ago. Let's see how many relevant business threads are on those screenshots. I am betting the ratio is probably about the same as today. Maybe not. Let's find out.

MakeMeGrrrrowl 02-23-2015 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 20401743)
As I always say when people use a general term like "Adult": what do they MEAN?

I think it's just easy to say instead of elaborating on all the things they do. You know?

MakeMeGrrrrowl 02-23-2015 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd (Post 20401744)
But let's examine the OP's point and see if it is valid. Someone with more Internet skill (I am too lazy) can go to the Wayback Machine and give us a screenshot of the front page of GFY from 5 years ago and 10 years ago. Let's see how many relevant business threads are on those screenshots. I am betting the ratio is probably about the same as today. Maybe not. Let's find out.

I think a lot of the active company at that time were more fun. There were a lot of guys at the height of their business, or working super hard all night and day as much as they could to build business. So they were here, and very active, still a shitload of drama and some god damn ANGRY drama, but lots of good stuff too. I saw some become very rich and disappear, I see some who were very rich and now seem to not be so and I see some who I think. Who fucking cares. =)

This crowd is a bit different but still informative when you need to get shit done. :2 cents:

The Porn Nerd 02-23-2015 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl (Post 20401746)
I think a lot of the active company at that time were more fun. I there were a lot of guys at the height of their business, or working super hard all night and day as much as they could to build business. So they were here, and very active, still a shitload of drama and some god damn ANGRY drama, but lots of good stuff too. I saw some become very rich and disappear, I see some who were very rich and now seem to not be so and I see some who I think. Who fucking cares. =)

This crowd is a bit different but still informative when you need to get shit done. :2 cents:

I post business threads ALL the time here on GFY. Sure I post some stupid shit but generally do not start useless threads. But sometimes I do because it's fun, and it's called FUCKING AROUND. And I don't think that should change here on GFY in any way. :)

What I am interested in tho, and more to the OP's original overall point, is the ratio between "business threads" and "fucking around" (in which you could put all the drama llama threads I suppose).

I joined in 2009 so going on 6 years here, and I remember lots of drama and fucking around threads when I joined. Plus lots of business threads. Maybe it was differant 10 years ago but I doubt it.

OP doesn't like the fucking around threads fine but do not assume this equates to 99% of GFYers being broke-ass trolls. Just sayin'.

MakeMeGrrrrowl 02-23-2015 11:08 PM

No one has to be here for the social aspect. Almost any question anyone could possibly ask is somewhere in the search function.

I have learned a LOT over the past month and my website traffic proves it. =)

takethebluepill 02-23-2015 11:28 PM

Lot's of interesting comments in here. Proof positive that sweet honey doesn't always attract the bees. Sometimes you have to stir up the hive a bit.


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