on collarspace you will find more fake profiles and prostitutes than on fetlife. So the 1 to a 100 may hold here.

But fetlife is like the 'facebook of kink'. The best way to meet is to join groups near you on fetlife and go to a munch.
And then you have to go to a few different ones normally to find a decent partner.

Who are we to question why. Some men like having their balls kicked. You just can't explain it.

Cuckolding originally was a wife fucking some other man without the husband knowing. The meaning has been subverted now with humiliation, femdom and submission. When the husband is aware, it becomes more of a hot wife type of relationship. Some men, myself included, love watching other men fuck their wives. We love watching, participating or sharing. My wife loves it. She does not have any desire to see me humiliated, wear nylons and panties, suck cock and take an assfucking. Some men love this aspect of it and that is more femdom than cuckolding. My wife does not want me fucking other women so we are not swingers. I'm not cuckolded because I know who she fucks. She is now a size queen and loves men that can fuck her hard for a couple of hours. Not a lot of husbands can do that after 10 or 15 years of marriage. It's hard to explain the attraction to those that don't get it. It works for us, because there is no cheating, no hiding, and no lying. We've been married a long time and our sex life is more dynamic and alive now than it was 15 years ago. We literally cannot keep our hands off of one another. It makes things very, very interesting and as they say, happy wife, happy life.

It's mainly fantasy. Most couples that swing, cuckold or bring others into their relationship, sexually, are happily married & have a great sex life between themselves :2 cents:

isn't cockole a brand of canned chicken?

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Everyone is so lost on this fetish... I'll start with your question Mark. Yes enjoying seeing your wife/girlfriend auto makes you into the fetish. People are always taking things to it's extreme level and thinking that's what it's all about. Cuckold has nothing to do with being humiliated, being cheated on, the other persons race, their size, being gay, or cleaning the woman up after. These are just things added to it. Cuckold is nothing more than enjoying seeing your partner with others.


I didn't read everything before I posted, but will :)

Just to interject a bit of controversy here.
Everyone does know that fetlife has allows user uploads and that ALL of the videos uploaded are behind a paywall.

There are a lot of different people and they all like different things... :) So, nothing can't be weird to anyone... :) :thumbsup

that is an amazing perspective!

wittols? How did that word come about? Is it an acronym or something?

That'd be my guess too

Its been over a year now and I can finally say that I now understand cuckolding...

Its all about the 2016 US election. Thanks GFY :)