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Jel 03-16-2015 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Bladewire (Post 20419577)
You don't understand this fetish at all as the above is a very small subset of cuckold and not the norm. And while racial cuckold gets a lot of attention in the U.S. it's nothe the basis of the fetish.

:2 cents:

It's like listening to people try to explain what cfnm 'is' when all they have seen is a handful of clips with the word cfnm in the title

mineistaken 03-16-2015 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl (Post 20419734)
Most of my cuckold customers aren't into "BBC" cuckolding. It's more of....

Mmmm he makes me feel so much better than you do. He knows how to satisfy me so much more. For a lot of them it's not even about watching her get fucked, it's just KNOWING that she did while she was out "shopping" with her "friends" or at the gym working out with her hot trainer etc. Inspecting her panties when she comes home only to see and smell the cum from god knows how many men.

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Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 20419642)
I fuck a few wives who's husbands are like this. I don't get the humiliation part and usually opt out of participating in that aspect. But damn, these woman can be brutal and the husbands seem to enjoy it. So, who the fuck am I to judge?

Thanks for letting me fuck your wife.

And holy fuck, DV Times has contributed what is probably the best way to easily explain it to someone.

So where do you guys meet so many wifes like that? I want in :1orglaugh

MakeMeGrrrrowl 03-16-2015 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 20419924)
So where do you guys meet so many wifes like that? I want in :1orglaugh

Craigslist? lol

seeandsee 03-16-2015 01:24 PM

why do you fins this so interesting?

mineistaken 03-16-2015 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl (Post 20419929)
Craigslist? lol

You mean you find specific ads where it is said that "hubby will watch"? Or you look for regular ads and you find out cuckold thing after/during the meeting? :winkwink:

MakeMeGrrrrowl 03-16-2015 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 20419941)
You mean you find specific ads where it is said that "hubby will watch"? Or you look for regular ads and you find out cuckold thing after/during the meeting? :winkwink:

Man I don't know. I'm not even a guy. I just do phone sex.

But if you're really looking maybe try fetlife.com

PornoPlopedia 03-16-2015 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken (Post 20419924)
So where do you guys meet so many wifes like that? I want in :1orglaugh

if you are serious there are two major venues:

1- collarspace.com
2- fetlife.com

The men are called wittols or cuckolds
Have fun :thumbsup

RyuLion 03-16-2015 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by CurrentlySober (Post 20419517)
thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't make sense to me.

It doesn't make sense to you because it's not your fetish. Everyone has different tastes..:2 cents:

mineistaken 03-16-2015 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by PornoPlopedia (Post 20419974)
if you are serious there are two major venues:

1- collarspace.com
2- fetlife.com

The men are called wittols or cuckolds
Have fun :thumbsup

I assume (like everywhere on the "adult" sites) there are like 100 single guys for each female/cuckold couple and it is not that easy to get meets? :)

PornoMonster 03-16-2015 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by k0nr4d (Post 20419478)
I think you have it wrong - it's not the wife doing it to be heartless, it's the wife doing it to appease the husband. She's doing it FOR him, not TO him. It's one of many fetishes I don't understand - I don't understand coprofilia or adult baby fetish either...

Exactly right.

Some men enjoy seeing the female have an orgasm at any cost.
The ones I have seen do this, the male also usually has a very small penis.

PornoPlopedia 03-16-2015 02:11 PM

on collarspace you will find more fake profiles and prostitutes than on fetlife. So the 1 to a 100 may hold here.

But fetlife is like the 'facebook of kink'. The best way to meet is to join groups near you on fetlife and go to a munch.
And then you have to go to a few different ones normally to find a decent partner.

Rochard 03-16-2015 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by CurrentlySober (Post 20419430)
why would anybody get off on being embarrased???

Who are we to question why. Some men like having their balls kicked. You just can't explain it.

ruff 03-16-2015 08:17 PM

Cuckolding originally was a wife fucking some other man without the husband knowing. The meaning has been subverted now with humiliation, femdom and submission. When the husband is aware, it becomes more of a hot wife type of relationship. Some men, myself included, love watching other men fuck their wives. We love watching, participating or sharing. My wife loves it. She does not have any desire to see me humiliated, wear nylons and panties, suck cock and take an assfucking. Some men love this aspect of it and that is more femdom than cuckolding. My wife does not want me fucking other women so we are not swingers. I'm not cuckolded because I know who she fucks. She is now a size queen and loves men that can fuck her hard for a couple of hours. Not a lot of husbands can do that after 10 or 15 years of marriage. It's hard to explain the attraction to those that don't get it. It works for us, because there is no cheating, no hiding, and no lying. We've been married a long time and our sex life is more dynamic and alive now than it was 15 years ago. We literally cannot keep our hands off of one another. It makes things very, very interesting and as they say, happy wife, happy life.

NatalieK 03-16-2015 08:36 PM

It's mainly fantasy. Most couples that swing, cuckold or bring others into their relationship, sexually, are happily married & have a great sex life between themselves :2 cents:

420 03-16-2015 08:42 PM

isn't cockole a brand of canned chicken?

http://i.imgur.com/fleSxdP.gif

SmutHammer 03-16-2015 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ********** (Post 20419690)
I don't quite understand cuckold either but for a different reason. What if you're a wife swapper and you like watching your wife get fucked. Does that make you a cuckold? Or is cuckold only about black guys? or about humiliation? Aare these niches completely different or do they overlap?

Everyone is so lost on this fetish... I'll start with your question Mark. Yes enjoying seeing your wife/girlfriend auto makes you into the fetish. People are always taking things to it's extreme level and thinking that's what it's all about. Cuckold has nothing to do with being humiliated, being cheated on, the other persons race, their size, being gay, or cleaning the woman up after. These are just things added to it. Cuckold is nothing more than enjoying seeing your partner with others.


I didn't read everything before I posted, but will :)

shoot twice 03-16-2015 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by PornoPlopedia (Post 20419994)
on collarspace you will find more fake profiles and prostitutes than on fetlife. So the 1 to a 100 may hold here.

But fetlife is like the 'facebook of kink'. The best way to meet is to join groups near you on fetlife and go to a munch.
And then you have to go to a few different ones normally to find a decent partner.

Just to interject a bit of controversy here.
Everyone does know that fetlife has allows user uploads and that ALL of the videos uploaded are behind a paywall.

EngineCash 03-17-2015 02:42 AM

There are a lot of different people and they all like different things... :) So, nothing can't be weird to anyone... :) :thumbsup

bizgoddess69 03-17-2015 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by ruff (Post 20420344)
Cuckolding originally was a wife fucking some other man without the husband knowing. The meaning has been subverted now with humiliation, femdom and submission. When the husband is aware, it becomes more of a hot wife type of relationship. Some men, myself included, love watching other men fuck their wives. We love watching, participating or sharing. My wife loves it. She does not have any desire to see me humiliated, wear nylons and panties, suck cock and take an assfucking. Some men love this aspect of it and that is more femdom than cuckolding. My wife does not want me fucking other women so we are not swingers. I'm not cuckolded because I know who she fucks. She is now a size queen and loves men that can fuck her hard for a couple of hours. Not a lot of husbands can do that after 10 or 15 years of marriage. It's hard to explain the attraction to those that don't get it. It works for us, because there is no cheating, no hiding, and no lying. We've been married a long time and our sex life is more dynamic and alive now than it was 15 years ago. We literally cannot keep our hands off of one another. It makes things very, very interesting and as they say, happy wife, happy life.

that is an amazing perspective!

rogueteens 03-17-2015 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by PornoPlopedia (Post 20419974)
if you are serious there are two major venues:

1- collarspace.com
2- fetlife.com

The men are called wittols or cuckolds
Have fun :thumbsup

wittols? How did that word come about? Is it an acronym or something?

Antonio 03-17-2015 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by slapass (Post 20419450)
Some people get off on humiliation..

That'd be my guess too

CurrentlySober 10-23-2016 05:24 AM

Its been over a year now and I can finally say that I now understand cuckolding...

Its all about the 2016 US election. Thanks GFY :)


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