Thank You. I wanted to make a point of how fucked up things are that they are giving illegal aliens drivers licenses and the cost of doing that! I'm mad about it.

Life right now is surreal.

Thanx Buddy

When I go I don't want a funeral. I want a Hawaiian Sea Burial. Not kidding. Take my ashes, paddle out to sea, and dump me overboard. My father died when I was a baby and his grave site was a horrible place for me, only to be visited in my darkest hours. If my kid needs to visit me when I'm gone, she go to swimming at Waikiki beach

Sorry to hear about your loss Brett.

Good one!! LOL

Sorry for your loss Vinny!! *muah*

Actually Illegal Immigrants started WAY before that, you know The Romans, The English, The Mongolians etc.. But I think worldly and about all of mankind, not just bandwagons and US government pawn shit!! :glugglug

Normally I'd stay away from something like this, but it's clear Vendzilla us using his friend's death to flaunt his political agenda..

So it's not ok for people to question your motives.. Yet it's ok to turn it into a political agenda? He's complaing about one group of criminals while standing around with groups like hell's angles whom have murdered countless people and spread drugs all over this country.. It's called fucking Karma..

I sure hope you tell the news crew how money money you have collected for Hillary's campaign...

I had a grandmother that we spread her ashes over trinity forest from a plane. I don't want my ashes at sea, it reminds me of feeding my fish.

Thanks for the condolences

This guy came here and put citizens at risk, driving with no license, therefore no insurance.

In fiscal year 2013, 777,416 individuals were naturalized, and in fiscal year 2014, 654,949 people were naturalized.

I'm not against that immigration (Legal Immigration), but giving drivers licenses to illegal aliens is wrong. If he were to make bond, he would just leave the country back to whatever country he came from. This guy was cited 3 times for not having a license.

Politicians want to call them undocumented, well in California, they are documented becuse we are giving them drivers licenses, they are still illegal aliens

coming from the guy who thinks drinking and driving is no issue.

Sorry for their loss though.

Sorry for your loss but as I guy who's got friends with bikes and patches I do not think they'd be thrilled to see those pics and this thread that as a flaunting political issue.

Maybe you should send this to a few HA's who are in the pics... Ya Know???

What!? Are you suggesting that his inappropriate histrionic attention seeking behavior and post hoc rationalization of performing a public service by posting pics of patched bikers showing he was nowhere near the service of his "best friend" being laid to rest and taking about his ride and the road conditions, might not be an authentic and sincere expression of grief and loss?

Would've been so much better if it was american Hells Angels with alcohol level of 1.8 .

bro you may have earned green light from this statement. :(

Sorry to hear

Lot of criminals in those pics.

So, what kind of mafia shootout this was anyways?

Not only wrong it's moronic.

Much condolences V. I've been to a few funerals in the past 15 years or so that were upbeat and more of a celebration of the person's life rather than a sad sombre crying affair. A cousin of mine in particular died fairly young back in the late 90's, she was a mother of three little kids to boot. Her funeral was sizeable, not as big as this one of course, but big, and pictures of the gathering were not only welcome but encouraged. A lot of people who hadn't seen each other in years were there commiserating and catching up with one another. Her death was sad but she got the funeral she certainly would have wanted.

A turnout like your friend's had deserves a few pics to commemorate it.

Sorry to hear man...

Sorry about your cousin, I've been lucky, all my cousins are still with us and I got to see a few of them for the first time in 10 years at my wedding.

In my circle, if someone dies, we aim towards celebrating their life. Not the mourning of the loss. There was a lot of hugging, hand shakes and phone numbers exchanged. My friend was a catalyst of friendship, which is why he had so many friends.

The orange bike in the second photo is my bike. The black trunk on the back was actually from my friends bike. I'm going to have it painted to color match my bike and put his name on it. Keep that as long as I own the bike, which may be a long time since I really love that bike.

And yes, taking pictures for those that couldn't make it or just wanted to remember the event is always encouraged.

Condolences to the loss of your friend.

Had he posted a pic of him next to the coffin you would have ripped him for that as well right? Most likely worst. I have Vend on FB and this is real, his friend is dead enough already dude.

Pic from the after party at Vendzilla's.

http://www.thisisthewhat.com/wp-cont...1/1660_680.jpg

Crying about illegal aliens while glorifying criminal organizations? Fucking hypocrite.

Some of you are really displaying your .... I want to say ignorance, but I think it is probably lack of experience. That and perhaps you think customs are the same around the world.

As far as who would take photos of a funeral? I have been paid to do just that.

We would all be so lucky....Death sucks....

Anyone who casts a vote in an election these days is supporting a criminal organization.

Just sayin'...

My concolences my friend

Bryan, when i was in the 10th grade, I was walking off the bus and one of my dickhead friends made a remark that i flipped off the bus driver. Just screwing around like the shitheads we were and running their mouths. The next morning, I was called into the principles office and was told I was suspended. I argued but there was no point to it.

When I got home, my mother was really upset at me. Being at that age, for the first time ever, talked back to my mother because I believed I did nothing wrong. I don't remember exactly what I said, it wasn't anything big but more of a "look, i didn't do anything wrong and what you are doing is wrong" kind of thing. Regardless, i felt horrible about it.

The next morning, I went to school with a friend and was feeling really terrible about the day before. I really don't like anyone in my family as they are mostly just bizarre, inbred Jerry Springer types from the deep south, who can't stop talking about others, getting into other peoples business, trying to hurt each other and so on. My father, was just an abusive asshole. I lived in constant terror of him. I grew up trying to stay well out of arms reach of him because there was no way to know when I would get hit or for what. This argument with my mother really bothered me. Making it worse, it was her birthday. I sat at school all day long thinking about what a horrible child I was and what I would say to her and how I wanted to giver her my present and tell her i loved her and that I was sorry.

I got home from school, did all my chores and was just sitting there in the living room, expecting her any minute.

She didn't come home. I didn't know why or what was going on but assumed it was some birthday thing with coworkers or something.

At about 8pm, the phone rang. It was a close friend of hers, asking if she was home. It was odd. I sensed immediately that something was off. She finally told me that she passed a car wreck on her way home that looked like my moms SUV.

As I set the phone down, an aunt pulled into the driveway. She came to our house maybe 1 time in 10 years in spite of living right down the street, so now i knew something was wrong. As she opened the door, the interior light of her truck came on and I could see the tears in her eyes. Now I knew something was really really wrong.

She came to me and told me that my mother was killed in a car accident.

The guy who hit my mother on the way home from her own birthday party had been drinking all day long. He couldn't even stand up according to the last witnesses... yet everyone around him had no issues letting him get into his MOTORHOME and drive off.

His headlights were off.

He was doing about 80mph.

It was night.

He was in the wrong lane.

He hit my mothers car head on, killing her instantly.

The even more tragic part was that it was his 3rd time involved in hitting someone and killing them while drunk and driving. Later, we learned that he had previously killed a mother and her 2 children.

He was sentenced to 5 years in a minimum security prison.

He was out in 2.

One thing I will never forget in my life was going to the funeral. I felt like if i didn't go. If i didn't see the coffin, if i didn't see that box knowing she was in it, then i could keep telling myself it wasn't real... that it didn't happen. I could still tell myself that she'd be home when i got there. That somehow it could all be undone and things could be back to normal. I felt like i'd still have time to figure things out and make everything OK, before it was too late.

As they lowered her body into the ground, i collapsed. I lost it at that moment, i think because I knew that point that it was all real. It happened. She was gone. I'd never see her again. I'd never get to tell her I was sorry. I'd never get to give her the present i'd got her which was still sitting at home in the living room.

There are tears in my eyes as I write this and even think about it, though it was long ago.

One thing is for certain, when you lose someone close to you... someone that you really love. You are thinking a lot of things. None of them good. None of them positive. None of them happy. Not in that moment. Definitely not in that moment. As you watch that body get lowered into the ground, you aren't thinking "this is a moment to remember and celebrate" unless you are a typical anti-social personality, psychopath or sociopath. And we don't "grieve in different ways" which is why there are 5 stages of grief... not "2-41 possible stages of grief". There are those who don't experience the same emotions in the same ways or even at all. They have mental disorders and miswired brains.

There are a few things you are DEFINITELY not thinking when you've lost someone you love and are at their funeral, they are being laid to rest in the gound and IF you are not a typical anti-social personality, psychopath or sociopath.

1) "Where can i take great pics as the body of a person I really love is being lowered into the ground.... i think i'll try to be about 50 yards away from the service and friends and family - after all, why be around everyone that loved him, as I did and say a final goodbye"
2) "How can I include as many patched bikers and motorcycles in the pics"
3) "How do i describe riding with a bunch of bikers back to their club house to hang out with them so i look cool"
4) "How fast can i get these online to show complete strangers that I hung out with a bunch of bad ass bikers as per my usual, recurring theme on a forum full of pornographers, 99% of whom i do not even know"

^^^^^^^^^ very interesting post ^^^^^^^^^^^

Ah yes, people have forgotten about the timeless tradition in California of paying your respects to the dead by taking pictures of random gang members at a distance

the ultimate tribute to their life and soul

I usually just ignore you, but I'm going to answer this

1)I wanted to show the size of the crowd, then moved a lot closer to the grave site. I didn't take any pics at that point.

2) Didn't really care about patches, if I did, I would have one.

3) Just one of the things I was thinking about, if you think I looked cool, where's the pics of me with friends? I took zero pics at the club house. If I was looking to impress anyone with pics, it would have been pics from that location.

4) The funeral was over hours before I posted and I knew a lot of the people there.


You see, you are just speculating, thinking you know everything. I was in the second row during the service. You are here trying to put me down for losing a friend, what kind of person does that make you? I'm sorry you lost your mother at a young age, I'm grateful both my parents are both alive. 72 and 76 and both pretty healthy.

I'm not trying to put you down, just pointing out that trolls that regularly attack anything I post have attacked me when I said I got married and when I lost my best friend. If you want to judge my character, then please judge yourself first. This is GFY and this kind of behavior is expected. I don't let this bother me anymore, just focus on the positive things.

In other words that is "Dindo nuffin" funeral with much dindo nuffins hanging out in the funeral.

oh man... Oh crap . op ruthless

http://images.dailystar.co.uk/dynami...0000/78320.jpg

Yes, we get it. Your "best friend" and "best man" is being put into the ground and you had to find a good vantage point, 50 yards away from him, friends and family to take pics of bikers to update your Twitter feed right away because that is exactly what grief stricken people watching them go into the ground do.

You literally used someone's death and funeral and the sympathy and emotions of others as an opportunity to say "look at me" and that makes you one of the most disgusting people to walk this earth. Why? It's what sociopaths do, as they have no appropriate, genuine emotions to guide conscience based decisions and behaviors.

So you are attacking me because I lost a friend and you judge me disgusting, you have no call to judge anyone till you can judge yourself. I never asked for sympathy, I did want to point out how he was killed.

BTW I haven't updated my twitter feed since last October, I checked

Well this is why on gfy like in life you are on ignore for so many people, you should think about that. Being bitter over your mom or whatever your problem is, you might want to consider seeing someone about it. Ok, well back on ignore. I have no time for people with so much negativity in their hearts. I'm not attacking you, but you feel the need to attack myself and others all the time. You might want to think about professional help!

I'm clearly not making anyone for "losing a friend". It might feel like that when you're insane and can't understand what is inappropriate in your behavior and why people respond to you the way they do.

Of course... you're always a victim and you don't know why. And of course, that has NOTHING to do with YOU and of course, that repeated little play for pity and sympathy used again and again by you is just by coincidence consistent with sociopathic behavior.... as the number one trait of a sociopath is the persistent use of pity as a tool to manipulate.

Which is it by the way? Bad ass biker with bad ass friends that loves to fight? Or helpless pussy that's always picked on? Pick a lane.

Clearly, did you by chance catch the title on this thread? You should learn to read before posting again. I have friends to visit, try not to feel jealously

The thread title has nothing to do with any point I've made. But I get it. You are always a victim, all the time, picked on and attacked for absolutely no reason at all. I get it. No matter what you do or say,... Or don't, you're a victim. Sucks to be you. Must be a confusing existence for sure.

i don't think he's a sociopath, i just think he is extremely stupid. He doesn't understand anything and keeps on yapping about little details. I have no idea why he posted about road conditions, it's like he's talking about a trip to the grocery store.

I'll explain it to you.

Something is horribly wrong with his emotional processing and also with his ability to understand the emotions and emotional states of others. He has a grandiose sense of self, wants to be seen as a bad ass and tough guy and posts about it all the time.

His intent with this thread was manipulation. His intent was to get everyone to say "oh, poor Vendzilla".

He literally saw a funeral as opportunity. He then took steps at the funeral to maximize the potential rewards of that opportunity and then came here, to create a thread and to reap the rewards.

Think about this for a moment....

What better way to do that than to post about a funeral? Who is going to say anything or even challenge the behavior? You will get pity and sympathy and ANYONE who challenges that is instantly branded a cocksucker. It's a serial manipulators wet dream.

But in trying to capitalize on this event, his personality disorder also caused him to show himself standing at his "best friends" funeral, 50 yards off as the actual service is going on, taking pics of bikes and patched Hells Angels (i.e. hardcore criminals). Hardly the move of a grief stricken "best friend", not to mention incredibly inappropriate and inconsiderate to other family/friends to not be there as they are saying their final words, standing over the grave. He is acting like this because he likely has no sense of guilt, shame, remorse, regret and or is incredibly deficient in these conscience based emotions which guide most of the actions of you and i. If you had no sense of shame or guilt or remorse? What stops you from lying? From using others? From exploiting others? What stops you from saying anything at all? Nothing.

Why the details about the road conditions like he was driving to the grocery store?

Again, easy answer.

He is telling a story about himself with pics and words.

He is not expressing genuine and authentic grief about the loss of another.

He is telling an "i'm cool and look at my bad ass friends - I got to ride with a bunch of fucking hardcore criminals and they even let me come back with them to their home base and hang out" story.

Because he is deficient in the processing of conscience based emotions and empathy, he has no way to really know where the boundaries are unless its from actual experience. He has no way to accurately understand how others perceive what he is saying and doing.

He clearly has issues with empathy as he clearly doesn't understand how any of this might be inappropriate or be interpreted as inappropriate. He thinks he's under constant attack... because think about it. If you have no way to understand why you are being attacked? How your actions and words affect others... How do you understand being attacked? All you can do is reason that people are mean to you for no reason at all because you have no way to connect your behaviors to the responses of others.


Do me one small favor

Imagine this for a moment.

Imagine someone you really love in life, someone close to you was just murdered.

Imagine all the emotions, the overwhelming grief, imagine being crushed emotionally and having your world shattered and trying to make sense of the loss and trying to deal with this at a funeral. Everyone around you is in tears and you can't hold it together either.

Now imagine you post your story online....

Someone says "you are 100% full of shit and using this event to manipulate others and you are a shameless piece of shit"

Think about this for a second.

What is your response?
What do you feel?

A normal person would feel anger and rage. They'd fucking lose it.

How does someone whose true intent is to exploit and manipulate others for pity, sympathy and to work on shaping others perception of him being a "bad ass"?

Well, look at the thread. You keep working on the story. You keep correcting the story. You keep tweaking the story. You keep adding details to the story. You keep working on other peoples understanding of the story. His only real thought and his only real source of frustration is in "why isn't this story working?"...

Would any normal person say anything beyond "i hope you burn to death motherfucker!"

Of course not.

Me? I would have instantly threw my computer through the wall and got in my car and started driving to California.

Him? Well,... something is clearly off in his behavior as he went to his "best friends" funeral and instinctively used it as a tool to manipulate others.

Innocent deny.
Liars explain.

If nothing I said was true, there'd be nothing to say in response.

By the way; around here these mafiosos have harem of ass lickers consisting of women and men. These hang out in the "club rooms", etc. Too bad some of these get killed or injured yearly basis as dealing with mafia is not that safe. For example one "lately" sentence came from killing and cutting a man into pieces in the club room because of debts. He was part of these mafiosos harem.

Fucking spineless pussies hanging out with career criminals. I don't know which one is worse human type; these organized career criminals aka mafia or the people sympathizing them and licking those asses.

How do you feel about people with multiple alcohol related driving offenses being allowed to have driver's licenses?

I think it sucks people can't learn from their mistakes

My condolences to you Brett. Losing a friend is difficult.

Should they be allowed to drive?

Thanx Sarah. Yeah it is.

According to the law, they lose their licenses. So I don't understand your question.

Unchecked migration always leads to displacement of the locals. Sorry for your loss Vendzilla.

So driving drunk ist a mistake?