^^^^^^^^^ very interesting post ^^^^^^^^^^^

Ah yes, people have forgotten about the timeless tradition in California of paying your respects to the dead by taking pictures of random gang members at a distance

the ultimate tribute to their life and soul

I usually just ignore you, but I'm going to answer this

1)I wanted to show the size of the crowd, then moved a lot closer to the grave site. I didn't take any pics at that point.

2) Didn't really care about patches, if I did, I would have one.

3) Just one of the things I was thinking about, if you think I looked cool, where's the pics of me with friends? I took zero pics at the club house. If I was looking to impress anyone with pics, it would have been pics from that location.

4) The funeral was over hours before I posted and I knew a lot of the people there.


You see, you are just speculating, thinking you know everything. I was in the second row during the service. You are here trying to put me down for losing a friend, what kind of person does that make you? I'm sorry you lost your mother at a young age, I'm grateful both my parents are both alive. 72 and 76 and both pretty healthy.

I'm not trying to put you down, just pointing out that trolls that regularly attack anything I post have attacked me when I said I got married and when I lost my best friend. If you want to judge my character, then please judge yourself first. This is GFY and this kind of behavior is expected. I don't let this bother me anymore, just focus on the positive things.

In other words that is "Dindo nuffin" funeral with much dindo nuffins hanging out in the funeral.

oh man... Oh crap . op ruthless

http://images.dailystar.co.uk/dynami...0000/78320.jpg

Yes, we get it. Your "best friend" and "best man" is being put into the ground and you had to find a good vantage point, 50 yards away from him, friends and family to take pics of bikers to update your Twitter feed right away because that is exactly what grief stricken people watching them go into the ground do.

You literally used someone's death and funeral and the sympathy and emotions of others as an opportunity to say "look at me" and that makes you one of the most disgusting people to walk this earth. Why? It's what sociopaths do, as they have no appropriate, genuine emotions to guide conscience based decisions and behaviors.

So you are attacking me because I lost a friend and you judge me disgusting, you have no call to judge anyone till you can judge yourself. I never asked for sympathy, I did want to point out how he was killed.

BTW I haven't updated my twitter feed since last October, I checked

Well this is why on gfy like in life you are on ignore for so many people, you should think about that. Being bitter over your mom or whatever your problem is, you might want to consider seeing someone about it. Ok, well back on ignore. I have no time for people with so much negativity in their hearts. I'm not attacking you, but you feel the need to attack myself and others all the time. You might want to think about professional help!

I'm clearly not making anyone for "losing a friend". It might feel like that when you're insane and can't understand what is inappropriate in your behavior and why people respond to you the way they do.

Of course... you're always a victim and you don't know why. And of course, that has NOTHING to do with YOU and of course, that repeated little play for pity and sympathy used again and again by you is just by coincidence consistent with sociopathic behavior.... as the number one trait of a sociopath is the persistent use of pity as a tool to manipulate.

Which is it by the way? Bad ass biker with bad ass friends that loves to fight? Or helpless pussy that's always picked on? Pick a lane.

Clearly, did you by chance catch the title on this thread? You should learn to read before posting again. I have friends to visit, try not to feel jealously

The thread title has nothing to do with any point I've made. But I get it. You are always a victim, all the time, picked on and attacked for absolutely no reason at all. I get it. No matter what you do or say,... Or don't, you're a victim. Sucks to be you. Must be a confusing existence for sure.

i don't think he's a sociopath, i just think he is extremely stupid. He doesn't understand anything and keeps on yapping about little details. I have no idea why he posted about road conditions, it's like he's talking about a trip to the grocery store.

I'll explain it to you.

Something is horribly wrong with his emotional processing and also with his ability to understand the emotions and emotional states of others. He has a grandiose sense of self, wants to be seen as a bad ass and tough guy and posts about it all the time.

His intent with this thread was manipulation. His intent was to get everyone to say "oh, poor Vendzilla".

He literally saw a funeral as opportunity. He then took steps at the funeral to maximize the potential rewards of that opportunity and then came here, to create a thread and to reap the rewards.

Think about this for a moment....

What better way to do that than to post about a funeral? Who is going to say anything or even challenge the behavior? You will get pity and sympathy and ANYONE who challenges that is instantly branded a cocksucker. It's a serial manipulators wet dream.

But in trying to capitalize on this event, his personality disorder also caused him to show himself standing at his "best friends" funeral, 50 yards off as the actual service is going on, taking pics of bikes and patched Hells Angels (i.e. hardcore criminals). Hardly the move of a grief stricken "best friend", not to mention incredibly inappropriate and inconsiderate to other family/friends to not be there as they are saying their final words, standing over the grave. He is acting like this because he likely has no sense of guilt, shame, remorse, regret and or is incredibly deficient in these conscience based emotions which guide most of the actions of you and i. If you had no sense of shame or guilt or remorse? What stops you from lying? From using others? From exploiting others? What stops you from saying anything at all? Nothing.

Why the details about the road conditions like he was driving to the grocery store?

Again, easy answer.

He is telling a story about himself with pics and words.

He is not expressing genuine and authentic grief about the loss of another.

He is telling an "i'm cool and look at my bad ass friends - I got to ride with a bunch of fucking hardcore criminals and they even let me come back with them to their home base and hang out" story.

Because he is deficient in the processing of conscience based emotions and empathy, he has no way to really know where the boundaries are unless its from actual experience. He has no way to accurately understand how others perceive what he is saying and doing.

He clearly has issues with empathy as he clearly doesn't understand how any of this might be inappropriate or be interpreted as inappropriate. He thinks he's under constant attack... because think about it. If you have no way to understand why you are being attacked? How your actions and words affect others... How do you understand being attacked? All you can do is reason that people are mean to you for no reason at all because you have no way to connect your behaviors to the responses of others.


Do me one small favor

Imagine this for a moment.

Imagine someone you really love in life, someone close to you was just murdered.

Imagine all the emotions, the overwhelming grief, imagine being crushed emotionally and having your world shattered and trying to make sense of the loss and trying to deal with this at a funeral. Everyone around you is in tears and you can't hold it together either.

Now imagine you post your story online....

Someone says "you are 100% full of shit and using this event to manipulate others and you are a shameless piece of shit"

Think about this for a second.

What is your response?
What do you feel?

A normal person would feel anger and rage. They'd fucking lose it.

How does someone whose true intent is to exploit and manipulate others for pity, sympathy and to work on shaping others perception of him being a "bad ass"?

Well, look at the thread. You keep working on the story. You keep correcting the story. You keep tweaking the story. You keep adding details to the story. You keep working on other peoples understanding of the story. His only real thought and his only real source of frustration is in "why isn't this story working?"...

Would any normal person say anything beyond "i hope you burn to death motherfucker!"

Of course not.

Me? I would have instantly threw my computer through the wall and got in my car and started driving to California.

Him? Well,... something is clearly off in his behavior as he went to his "best friends" funeral and instinctively used it as a tool to manipulate others.

Innocent deny.
Liars explain.

If nothing I said was true, there'd be nothing to say in response.

By the way; around here these mafiosos have harem of ass lickers consisting of women and men. These hang out in the "club rooms", etc. Too bad some of these get killed or injured yearly basis as dealing with mafia is not that safe. For example one "lately" sentence came from killing and cutting a man into pieces in the club room because of debts. He was part of these mafiosos harem.

Fucking spineless pussies hanging out with career criminals. I don't know which one is worse human type; these organized career criminals aka mafia or the people sympathizing them and licking those asses.

How do you feel about people with multiple alcohol related driving offenses being allowed to have driver's licenses?

I think it sucks people can't learn from their mistakes

My condolences to you Brett. Losing a friend is difficult.

Should they be allowed to drive?

Thanx Sarah. Yeah it is.

According to the law, they lose their licenses. So I don't understand your question.

Unchecked migration always leads to displacement of the locals. Sorry for your loss Vendzilla.

So driving drunk ist a mistake?

That's sad - Sorry to hear...

No cupcakes?

no but they get these

http://ww3.hdnux.com/photos/24/37/12.../3/960x540.jpg

What else would you call it? Given the north American culture of promoting drinking on one hand and slapping you on the wrist with the other, I'm amazed it doesn't happen more often.

What other law do you know of where if you do something a little, it's OK. But if you do it just a little too much, it becomes a criminal offense.

Well, I totally agree with you, let's hear what Vendzilla says

You are beyond delusional

man, you are messing with a 1% op mafioso :(

Who would you rather see with a driver's license, a habitual drunk driver or an illegal alien? Understand that question?

So you're saying this is exclusive to North America?

Obviously drunk driving is not, but admittedly I haven't been exposed to much foreign advertising, so I don't know if other countries have commercials about supersized drinks or with a bunch of 20 year olds drinking coors lite surrounded by bikini babes, followed by MADD commercials with annoying babies crying because the parent didn't make it home alive that night.

Most other countries are more relaxed about alcohol with some having no age limit for people to be able to drink, or with the limit at 14 years old, etc.

WTF is wrong with you?

Seriously? Dude, you need help.

The guy killed someone and you want me to condemn having a beer after work?

Some people can handle having a drink or two and drive just fine. Others can't see straight after a visit to a friends house. That's why they have legal limits to drive. In California it's .08% blood alcohol level. If you are drifting out of your lane, then I would say you are way above that. From what I heard, this guy was not that big, so he didn't have to drink too much to get drunk.

Here's some charts, it's actually less for women http://www.brad21.org/bac_charts.html

Doesn't matter anymore. He made bail, I doubt he will show up for court

I don't like drunk drivers as much as you don't like illegal aliens. Why don't you answer my question?

3-4 drinks with dinner = average night for me.

The sober girl texting next to me with her eyes off the road for 75 yards at a time is my only concern.

My point isn't advocating driving impaired ... but that for some/me it's the norm to have a few drinks and the effects are minimal at the most.

Let's not forget Vendzilla is the guy that bragged here on GFy about beating up a guy while he was at a bar.. How often does Vendzilla drive with a buzz or after drinking a few...

vendzilla sorry your buddy died to a dipshit scum that dont belong here.

with that said, you are a fake toughguy asshat. one comment in here hit it spot on - what are you gonna do about it? that shit you posted is clownshoes. like when black people yell at bernie sanders & think they accomplished something.

put your money where your mouth is, round up some of your ruffian buddies, put on your shit kickers & kick some mexican shit. then come back here & post pics on GFY. otherwise your nothing but a fat beer drinking fake tough guy, like when your band NKOTB sings hangin tough.

here play this song when you go to city council & "do something" about the illegals. :)

What is the question?