Look at those complexions. Look at the country. Look at what else they're doing (mass shooting their own kind daily, suicides daily, anti-vaxxing).

Its happening...

50 endangered species. See sig.

You should have just come out and said that you're screwed up instead of trying to get me to read your attempts at a doctoral thesis about life. I would have just ignored you as I eventually do with all the other lunatics.

At least back in the 60s I was using drugs and hippies stank worse than their annoying attempts to be philosophical.


I sincerely hope that in the 60s I was never as annoying and out of touch with reality as this newest hippie generation obviously is.

just logged in to post a song and saw this

how exactly did I screw up? I'm happy despite my flaws and faults, with a life filled with people and kittens and work (that supports the lifestyle and goals I have set) that all actually mean something to me. my life feels like a gift to me

with issues for sure like all people but have never regretted anything. for real you're perfect? with no issues whatsoever? if so high five but...no one is perfect

I'd struggle with food whether I had kids or not. at least no child of mine would ever have to see that, to download my personal database of crap into their lives.

I actually give really good advice to young girls I know who struggle with body image as I've been there so deep and know what they need to hear. and make a deliberate effort to eat around them (since they sometimes comment that I'm pretty and thin as if the two co-relate). I don't pretend to enjoy it (kids are smart so I don't even try to lie) but as a "this is a part of life" thing that is necessary and you are not defined by your shape as you see it in your head. now let's chill and digest and then go actively play

even if it doesn't resonate immediately I plant a seed, you know?

I used to babysit a very beautiful energetic young child when I was in my teens when her parents had nights out, and her mom had an eating disorder. her name began with an H so let's call her 'Helen'.

Helen was given a dinner menu for me to prepare that was less calories than what I fed my at the time very young iguana. so I'd order pizza and carry a stash of chocolate for dessert for her, every time. H was terrified her mom would find out but I always stashed the evidence next door to bring home after I left. I moved out of the neighbourhood by the time she was six but what do you think her future was when it came to food? or her sense of self outside of how she perceived her body?

'Helen' died of anorexia before she saw 30

do you think that wealthy stay at home mom doing everything you think is best was equipped to raise that child?

and what doctoral thesis? I was just writing what was in my head

stay in your lane of comfort if it's safe for you, just saying there's a lot more out there

Wonder how they came up with this 30% number?

Oh that's right, it's bunch of bullshit.

I've seen it happen many times. It's innate in women. You're denying reality and what you're here to do - make babies.

When you hit about 45 and you're single with no kids, you'll end up needing a handful of ssri's to get out of bed.

an odd post. I'm not single (not that this really means anything other than that I was lucky to find someone I could not NOT love, if not I would be happily single and having fun anyways) and surrounded by kids

and can just go for run or work/read/write/think/swim/nap whenever I want

no hate for real, how bout I hit you up in 4 years with my deep regrets and apologies for my wayward self =)

being real though I don't and have never felt I was born into this world with a specific purpose (procreating or otherwise). just trying to have fun, make enough money so I never have to rely on anyone but me, not let myself get in my way, do some good and hopefully leave this planet better than I found it

if you feel that way then a serious sincere question: what is yours?

Maybe you're the rare genetic outlier. You do agree right that it's usually innate in women to want children? If it wasn't we wouldn't be here.

Onehung is a wahhabi in a red hat.

And you're a reverse klansman in a dashiki.

I don't think I'm an outlier in this regard but tbh I have no idea. just know I have personally never wanted to be a mother. 2 of my three aunts never wanted kids either, and didn't. not a fair example though as why would they? they have/had me

seriously though native fams have a bit of a different structure when it comes to raising kids. it's not a mother/father/kids kind of paradigm

going back to outside my own experience I'm not in the head of every woman on the planet so to try to perform an analysis of their innate needs would be impossible

so yeah. dunno

you didn't answer my question though: if most women feel an innate need to make babies then what is yours? not what you want, what you like, what you want your life to be, I'm talking genetic urge. and don't say sex as that's all of us

That makes no sense. If I was a reverse klansman my kids wouldnt be half white.

Just cause I dont like racist people doesn't mean I dont like white people.

Learn the difference, and stop bullying females you coward.

Oh please dude. I don't give a fuck what your kids are you, rail against whites here 24/7.

It's pretty obvious what we're here to do. We're just organisms. It's innate in us to want to procreate. Are you denying that?

Are their illegitimacy rates high like here in the US?

not denying anything, just speaking to my experiences and asking questions. so from the above can I discern you feel an innate need to be a dad? totally cool if so, just wondering what your take is on the male side of this 'reason to exist' thing


lol, I was born 'illegitimate' (as if any child could be, that language is seriously fucked)

my parents were together for several years unmarried and I came along. born in October and they got married in December of that year as in the 70's my dad's name couldn't be on the birth certificate without being married to my mom. then they endured a very long and unhappy marriage until they divorced, took some time apart and have now been living together as happy friends and companions for years and years

but yes, I was born a proud bastardess and had the misfortune of my mom, my Nanny/grandmother, 3 aunts, 2 uncles, lots of non-bio/deep fam friends and my dad who wasn't legally recognized as my father when I was born to look out for me

it's so weird to me that relationships have to be codified in law to mean something. not talking taxes/benefits etc etc etc, just recognition of people belonging without a bunch of legal hurdles to jump to 'prove' a family exists on Eurocentric terms. not ours.

so you're here on this planet to be a dad? if so cool, I am just curious and you're not answering directly although I suspect you did in your last post

if so that's awesome. just be a good one

No, I rail against racists. Especially the ones in denial like you.

I dont have a real problem with a racist person who's honest about it. I'll disagree, but respect the honesty.

You tho, you're just a bonafide coward. Scared of your reality.

they counted all the republicans :thumbsup

notinmybackyard, do you realize that your judgment is based on a huge amount of generalizations and stereotypes which you call experience? Not all women are attracted to the alpha male type you described. It is also true that not all women are attracted to, say, men with a sense of humor. It's odd that way - we're all different, like and enjoy different things and that's sort of the beauty of it.

I don't know why you and OneHungLo are bashing Jesse. There's nothing wrong about her choice to not have children. Yes, most representatives of a species (male and female), will have an urge to procreate, and that's fine, but there is always going to be some that don't have the same urge, and that's totally fine too. You do what you want, Jesse. It's your life and your body and your time.

As to incels, sounds like they need help. Heaps of psychological trauma and self-loathing on top of fueling each other's anger isn't a sign of a healthy society or interest club. It doesn't sound like sex is what they need, they need therapy.

It seems like there is a trend of rejected Incels and misogynistic men that can't deal with strong women.

Here is were notinmybackyard and OneHungLo spend all their time. It is just jaw dropping shit.

https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-p...0-damaged.html

I wasn't bashing her... I like her, and I wasn't really directing what I said at her, but it's true - women can claim they don't want kids but it will backfire on them. My GF has these mid 30 something childless friends and they've turned into basket cases. It's like a 20 yr old male saying he doesn't feel the need to have sex. You can't deny nature.

I don't spend anytime on anything like that because I've been in a monogynous relationship for over 15 yrs. But prior to that, I lost count after a few hundred women in my early 20s, so I've been with and around a lot of women and everything this guy says is true.

You're like one of those male feminist, huh?

https://i.imgur.com/Brf5Q6P.jpg

Maybe you need some trt?

The woman in the first video would be an incel if she was a guy.

She did a similar report on Charlottesville. She has Asperger's or something.

She doesn't see that she's the same as the incels. A symbol of an anti-fertility culture.

https://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_...put-quality=90

I’m all for women’s rights. I’m also pro-choice. I’m just not a liar.

I don't believe you. You hate White Women. Shame Shame Shame Shame #Stop the Hate