Never say never . . .

Hah, NO! Even Lawyers don't represent themselves in court.

That is a blanket statement. I dated an attorney and I would advise her friends on how to handle things like speeding tickets and DUIs.

Besides, I was never an attorney. This thread has brought up memories, like the time State Farm Insurance paid me to help their California clients in a lawsuit that had a New York insurance company for the opposition. That was pretty fun TBH.

And if you are in Latin America ...

Pff...i would without any problems marry a women with kids if she offers me what i need (every human has different needs, marriage is like a exchange of needs)...i would even be happy to give the kid a family and offer support...

Half of the people here are pussy whipped mofos

divorced women (while at least more respectable for not creating illegitimate children) are not ideal partners because the fact they ended up divorced reveals that they have both poor judgement and overall inadequate life skills...

Sure they can learn from their mistake but most do not – but of the rare ones that do, it usually takes them several years and by that time they have lost their youthful glows and are then too old to matter anymore anyway to men that have any value.

men can have standards

How's my dick taste?

The one which are pro or con ? :upsidedow

Or they have just an ex husband of this kind.

Jesus Konrad, why'd you have to do that. Now every time I give my husband a bj I'll have to think about where his penis has been. You may have just ruined a man's life.


I felt similarly when I was younger - never date a guy with kids, why'd he leave his baby mommy, that was wrong of him. I don't date now that I'm married but never judge my friends for their choices. Hypothetically, I don't think I'd have a problem with someone who's a parent, maybe actually the opposite. As a rule, more responsible, less childish bullshit from someone who's a parent vs. childless.

It sounds like it was pretty amiable, if its a war representing yourself is a very very bad idea.

No way I would raise another man's child IF HE WAS ALIVE. If she was married and he died in Iraq or something.....maybe. But that's the only scenario. Former father has gotta be dead.

And I thought that women were all over our bullshit like flies on crap :/ . . .

Neither date nor marry.

I made the mistake of dating a few women with kids, should have learnt after the first one it was a bad idea, No matter how cute they, are no matter what they tell you, you will always come last in their list priorities. But i wish anyone who wants to try good luck, you will need it !

elsewhere

Bingo.

Do not waste a woman with a child's time by not being into her kid as much as you are her. It's a package deal.

Some of you all need to sack the fuck up and stop being such little bitches.

You missed the part where I said it took more than 2 years. Nothing amicable about it.

The dude who should have sacked up is the loser she married or opened her legs for.
But heaven forbid a woman in today's world takes RESPONSIBILITY for her own bad choices, right?

Of course, unless we are talking about a Beta Cuck who is desperate and so tired of being an InCel that he will settle for damaged goods with another man's kid. Thanks for picking up the expense idiot!!

Besides, if all the single moms got married with fathers to raise their kids where would all the prostitutes come from? :D

While I would never not date someone that has kids I might date them longer before getting married. If I dated someone my own age then most likely their kids would be fully grown and would be no big deal.

But if I dated a younger girl in her 20s or 30s and she had smaller kids then it gets more complicated. I'd date her np but I'd date her for several years before I would want to move in together.

I have a 27 year old kid and I'll be 49 this weekend so I'm not looking to raise someone else's kid or teen but I wouldn't not date a nice lady cause she has kids. And if the right lady came along I might be willing to accept her kids down the road. I wouldn't avoid meeting her kids just don't want to be a manly/father figure til I knew she was the one I wanted to marry.

All the reasons I've seen not to, have been bitch ass reasons.

You could just not want to without the extras.

Plotwist: even when you have your own kids, you still end up a last priority :1orglaugh

The grey nickname is for being GFY’s éminence grise ??

Took you a while to notice :1orglaugh

money over pussy

I have one :))

Single mothers are bad news, dating a single mother is a waste of time and money, pussy is not so scarce that men should waste their time with a single mother.

I bet you get all the women swooning over you with that piss poor attitude.

Not everyone enjoys bullshit, but I suppose there's always CurrentlySober

depends if the kids are cool and their relationship with the kids father :2 cents:

Actually I do. :thumbsup

Women HATE and have NO RESPECT for Beta males (pussies) who march with them at feminist rallies and share their feelings like a gay friend. They are not attracted to them. Who would be? Other pussy males maybe?

I am an ALPHA male and women, when they meet me, know it instantly and fall at my feet.

Do you believe your own bullshit? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

I don't have to. Only chicks have to.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Yea prob 9+ mph speeding tickets. Go do something like double the speed limit and see how representing yourself vs a lawyer works out.

What do you think would happen? Cops don't give tickets for 9+ MPH here.

One of the tix I took to the appellate level was over 100MPH

What do you say to the woman who finds herself in a physically abusive marriage, wants to get herself and children out of the situation...and finds a good benevolent man willing to help her take the abuser out of the picture.

My wife was in this scenario 25 years ago.

You're an asshole...with a very narrow view of life.

:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Hey I am happy your wife got out of that situation but she married the dude in the first place, right? She didn't see the signs he was abusive before? He just suddenly, mysteriously SNAPPED and became abusive out of nowhere? Doubtful.

I am sorry your wife went through that but where is her responsibility for marrying that asshole in the first place? And while you stepped up to the plate what about that abusive asshole who is still, legally, their father? Does he have visitation rights? Is he still abusive? Are you happy that YOU have to deal with all that baggage and fallout from her past mistakes?

Not an asshole. Just saying some of us would not want to deal with ANY of that shit. You did so good for you and your family but that's not for everyone.

closest I have come to that is in 2016 moving in with a casual partner who had a minor age son. I was terrified (I thought I didn't know how to speak to kids) but he became my shadow, we just got along and I was not responsible for his upbringing. he got close with my husband too, tickle and dunk underwater kenpo to the death in the pool to wake the neighborhood as if they were not already awake. and he spoke to my boy about guy stuff that was between them and I loved seeing them doing that

absolutely a sugar donut and some fries will solve your tantrum, or we can just talk as we spar in the kitchen. he always chose the latter. coolest kid ever. his mom wasn't sure how I'd react to his presence and he was just a delight every day that made it ok for her too.

if I ever adopt a kid (years from now) T will be why. he's still a part of my life and knows his uni tuition is covered

most people end up having kids, if not right for someone totally cool but there's nothing alpha or beta about being someone who absorbs life's gifts even if they do not contain your DNA

Females are like Drugs basically.. They cost too much and inevitably ruin your life.


:1orglaugh

I have twice.

First one, not so great, but had nothing to do with the kids (Alcohol and drugs are bad M'kay) Lasted 10 years (dating and marriage)

Second one is still working out pretty well, 22 years and still going (Although I am really surprised she has not killed me yet)

Seems this conversation moved to 9gag lol : https://9gag.com/gag/a3R1zme

:2 cents::2 cents::thumbsup

It is an ancient discussion: https://www.gfy.com/fucking-around-a...ingle-mom.html . . .