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2MuchMark 11-09-2024 01:12 PM

Hi Huggles,

Sorry to hear about your predicament. I gave you some advice last time which you kinda threw back at me, but I'll repeatit here and hope you re consider it.

1. Spend less than you make. Cut everything unessary like Booze, cigs, drugs, etc. YesI get they can be addictive but thats a weak excuse.

2. Spend less time on GFY, especially the Political thread. It can be toxic. Spend less time on other social media like Facebook and Twitter. They are addictive.

3. You are in Adult. You are smart. You made money once before, and you can do it again. If the old way of making money in Adult won't work for you anymore, try something new. I moved from building websites, to making content, to making technology. It's ok to move around in a field that you enjoy.

4. Start. Just start. I started in adult when I was less than broke - I was $20k in debt. It took years but I made a shit-ton of cash and now live with a very comfortable home and a couple of cars, all paid in full, with lots left over in the bank. If I can do it, anyone can.

Pick your ass up off the ground.

And also if you want, I would be willing to help you out with some free coding and hosting if you want. No strings attached. PM me.

Cheers.

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shimmy2 11-09-2024 04:17 PM

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sarettah 11-09-2024 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Huggles
What's it like having money?

It is kind of like not having money except opposite.

Ironhorse 11-09-2024 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by King Mark (Post 23318846)
You are quite the professional victim, respectfully. You're great at it, like a method actor.

Monetize that.

Some fiction writers made their mark on history that way =)

Look Chang 11-09-2024 09:40 PM

I would like to be a sexy girl ! They don't have this kind of problem . . . :2 cents:

https://th.bing.com/th/id/R.1d9c0ab1...pid=ImgRaw&r=0

webgurl 11-10-2024 01:39 AM

Is this post serious or joke? Huggles you still in Vancouver or where are you? Are you on Skype still hit me up, I haven't heard from you in over a decade lets catchup. I live in Germany btw.

Killswitch 11-10-2024 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by V_RocKs (Post 23322521)
Having money is nice because you don't have to waste time wondering where your next gig will come from. You also get more time to reflect and chill. But you also have larger responsibilities and higher expectations of yourself. So do those around you. But, overall, it's nice.

I built my largest company when I was broke. Talking $44 per day to start. I was 43 years old. Being broke at 43 sucked. It sucked so bad that I got very motivated to do better.

By years end I got it doing $320 per day.
The next year I ended doing $1556 per day.

And it just keeps growing.

Don't smoke pot except to turn your mind off after the day is done. Don't drink regularly. Though, some of my best content was written while drinking. But you know yourself better than anyone else does. So if you know drinking isn't going to help, don't do it.

In those first 2 to 3 years I worked 10 to 18 hour days. I rarely took a day off. I latched on to one idea and ran with it. I also partnered with somebody who complimented my weaknesses.

I hate dotting I's and crossing T's. I hate lots of things about my business. He loves them. I am an artist who needs somebody to refocus me. He's a straight up kind of guy who needs somebody to ask, "What if? And why not?" To break the rules once in awhile. To fuck around and find out.

Is GFY a place of business? I wouldn't have known him without it. So, yeah. It is.

Great fucking reply and very validating for me as I'm in the same boat.

I was doing great, making quarter million a year from client work, spent $70k traveling in 2022 alone, accepted a $200k investment into my business, quit all client work and put $150k of my own into it, made a bunch of bad business decisions that ended up costing a lot of money, depression set in from a toxic relationship and basically wasted the last 2 years and $350k and now I'm literally living on credit cards while I bounce back. I am confident I will bounce back, but I did the same thing. I quit drinking, I stopped pittying myself and am getting my shit together and build my business back up. Found another client to pay bills and grow.

Won't ever quit weed though, like you said, it helps me unwind and shake the stress off at the end of the day, but I did scale it back to only after I'm done working for the day.

I'm putting in 10-16 hour days every day and don't let up unless it's a day I have my kid because she's a high enough priority to be able to do that.

If you want to change your situation then only you can do it and you gotta give up the shit that is holding you back and get your ass in gear.

Lets go Huggles. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps.

mechanicvirus 11-10-2024 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Killswitch (Post 23323160)
Great fucking reply and very validating for me as I'm in the same boat.

I was doing great, making quarter million a year from client work, spent $70k traveling in 2022 alone, accepted a $200k investment into my business, quit all client work and put $150k of my own into it, made a bunch of bad business decisions that ended up costing a lot of money, depression set in from a toxic relationship and basically wasted the last 2 years and $350k and now I'm literally living on credit cards while I bounce back. I am confident I will bounce back, but I did the same thing. I quit drinking, I stopped pittying myself and am getting my shit together and build my business back up. Found another client to pay bills and grow.

Won't ever quit weed though, like you said, it helps me unwind and shake the stress off at the end of the day, but I did scale it back to only after I'm done working for the day.

I'm putting in 10-16 hour days every day and don't let up unless it's a day I have my kid because she's a high enough priority to be able to do that.

If you want to change your situation then only you can do it and you gotta give up the shit that is holding you back and get your ass in gear.

Lets go Huggles. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps.

I didn't know this bro, i'm glad to hear you are working your way up again. You always had that hustle in you.

OneHungLo 11-10-2024 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Killswitch (Post 23323160)
Great fucking reply and very validating for me as I'm in the same boat.

I was doing great, making quarter million a year from client work, spent $70k traveling in 2022 alone, accepted a $200k investment into my business, quit all client work and put $150k of my own into it, made a bunch of bad business decisions that ended up costing a lot of money, depression set in from a toxic relationship and basically wasted the last 2 years and $350k and now I'm literally living on credit cards while I bounce back. I am confident I will bounce back, but I did the same thing. I quit drinking, I stopped pittying myself and am getting my shit together and build my business back up. Found another client to pay bills and grow.

Won't ever quit weed though, like you said, it helps me unwind and shake the stress off at the end of the day, but I did scale it back to only after I'm done working for the day.

I'm putting in 10-16 hour days every day and don't let up unless it's a day I have my kid because she's a high enough priority to be able to do that.

If you want to change your situation then only you can do it and you gotta give up the shit that is holding you back and get your ass in gear.

Lets go Huggles. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps.

You seem like a smart dude and you're willing to take risks. You'll definitely make it.

OneHungLo 11-10-2024 05:58 PM

Huggles what did you do with that G I sent you?

Killswitch 11-10-2024 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by mechanicvirus (Post 23323220)
I didn't know this bro, i'm glad to hear you are working your way up again. You always had that hustle in you.

Not a lot of people know, not even close friends. Mainly because it's my own doing and I know I can get out of it, just gotta put my head down and get back to work.

eric_wahlberg 11-11-2024 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Huggles (Post 23318804)
I can make some great video edits and compilations.

Maybe I need to make and show off a porn music video on here, I haven't tried to do that yet.

What is Porn Music? Never heard of this.

eric_wahlberg 11-11-2024 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Look Chang (Post 23322993)
I would like to be a sexy girl ! They don't have this kind of problem . . . :2 cents:

https://th.bing.com/th/id/R.1d9c0ab1...pid=ImgRaw&r=0

Advantage of a rich dad girl

1) You can do shopping.
2) Travel to Europe.
3) Can meet the rich and handsome guys from all over the world.


Disadvantage

1) You will be surrounded with Papparazzi.
2) Most of the people around you(apart from your family) would be for your money. Not for you.
3) You start living in cocoon.

CaptainHowdy 11-11-2024 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by eric_wahlberg (Post 23323332)
Advantage of a rich dad girl

1) You can do shopping.
2) Travel to Europe.
3) Can meet the rich and handsome guys from all over the world.


Disadvantage

1) You will be surrounded with Papparazzi.
2) Most of the people around you(apart from your family) would be for your money. Not for you.
3) You start living in cocoon.

That woman portrayed in the picture is a pornstar with the best rack on the industry . . .

2MuchMark 11-11-2024 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by eric_wahlberg (Post 23323332)
Advantage of a rich dad girl

1) You can do shopping.
2) Travel to Europe.
3) Can meet the rich and handsome guys from all over the world.


Disadvantage

1) You will be surrounded with Papparazzi.
2) Most of the people around you(apart from your family) would be for your money. Not for you.
3) You start living in cocoon.


One of my first girlfriends was a rich girl. I was 17 and didn't have my drivers license yet. She was 18 and drove a Jaguar. I don't remember the model but it was more of a luxury car and not a sports car. Her parents were cool and stoned most of the time and mostly left us alone. They had security at the gate to their house, at their doors, etc. One night we went out security followed us around, through a restaurant, through a bar, etc. It didn't last. (I was too cool for her... sigh...)

INever 11-12-2024 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by 2MuchMark (Post 23323654)
One of my first girlfriends was a rich girl. I was 17 and didn't have my drivers license yet. She was 18 and drove a Jaguar. I don't remember the model but it was more of a luxury car and not a sports car.

I taught my ATF to drive her merc. I was old and she was young. Dem wuz the days.

CurrentlySober 11-12-2024 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by eric_wahlberg (Post 23323332)
Disadvantage

3) You start living in cocoon.

https://i.imgur.com/NjyMRuG.jpg

Oh i dunno... Sounds like a really nice resort from what I hear - Always wanted to visit Mexico - I wouldn't mind living there! :thumbsup


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