What a snake.. Nysus next time I see you I'm going to have Hungryman sit on you and I'm going to shave off that fucking eyebrow of yours..haha..

you forgot a period there.

:winkwink:

now I see why webmasters parties encourage drinks...to get all the great ideas through liquor...wheres my tinfoil hat!

Wow. I take a nap and all this. Hold please while I respond to everyone. Thanks to most of you for your responses.

Cheers,
Matt

Is there a condensed version?

how old is that thread... ?

BTW if Nysus is a thief ( of ideas ), then I no more trust anyone here :mad:

fuck, why is that url banned ?!?

Lensman bans anything that competes with him.
Get used to it. Talk about AP etc or talk about nothing. lol

:eek2 :eek7

ah when I met drinking hard it was 4 in the morning I was piss drunk and with my friends,

when he walked over his was with jeff and nysus,

nysus, was good with me ,and jeff too,

they both seemed liek nice guys a bit nervous and real fans of my site and respected me,

and I imediatly liked them and talked with them

I agreed to list there gallerys better and even took nysus drinking the next night when I saw him in the lobby,

as for DH, he walked up to me all smooth with a big chat all cool, kissing my ass,

I was not in the mood to be played and bullshited, so I acted like a big shot, saying I love meeting fans, and I introduced my friend as my personal dentist, because hes in dentist school,

shit like that,

DH was fonny with me talking about how great he is and shows, he was drunk so was I, I agreed to link his galleries better and increase my trade with his site throat pockers,

now when nysus told me how DH pissed on him,

well I dont know if nysus stole anything but I think its obious DH is the big dog, and doing the barking, and I always like to stick up for the little guy,

and what he told me about DH talking trash shit about me in the car,

thats fine, haters are everywhere, I dont know what shit talk he said or how disrespectful I was not there,

Ill tak with DH, and depending on how pissed I am, well see,

but its probably not that big a deal,

so I dont know what this sily thread is about, but I think people should leave nysus alone,

and DH, I look forward to hearing from you,

later

:eyecrazy

Seems to me there's been a pretty big misunderstanding. Nysus doesn't always present his statements in a way everyone can understand what he's thinking, but he has the best intentions and I'm sure he'd never try to rip anyone off. HOpe you guys get things resolved, DH, you're a cool dude and I'm sure it'll work out.

DH, quit teasing and give up the goods! :thumbsup

I LOVE YOU JASON, POST MY GALLERIES when i learn to make them. :Graucho

ok if I list your galleries better,

we you call me a arogant shit behind my back???

if you promise to tell people my shit smells like rose, Ill list you near the top

deal?

I don't think I've seen serious negative posts/claims here about nysus besides DH's post and even that I predict (As Nysus said) is a byproduct of misunderstanding, minor behavior flop or some alcohol related fuckup ;)

I am waiting for DH's version but only to see how two people can see the same story totally different :D It's like a movie with two different camera angles :thumbsup

First of all if Nysus didn't reg the domain, how can anyone in their right mind think he intended to steal it?

Second of all - unless I'm missing something here - I'd be afraid to ever do biz with DH if the guy is going to try to crucify someone for simply asking permission on something. Who wants to cut deals with someone who might fly off the handle at the slightest misperception. Ya' give people the benefit of the doubt... especially people like Nysus who always go out of their way to treat people well.

Just about everyone else in this biz would have just regged the domain and said fuck it. Nysus calls the guy to ask because he's a good guy and he gets this shit? What a load of crap.

There are a few things people aren't realizing:

First,
It was on the car ride home that the ideas and gossip were flowing, no alcohol was involved, though I still likely had a bit of blood in my alcohol stream from the 12 or so hours of drinking.

Second,
That thread on hahahahahahaha was started on 04-14-2002 08:34 PM which is well over a year ago. I have realized after that that I do not have the portfolio or background for someone to drop that kind of money on a 20 year old, and am building myself up for this project myself.

Socks - I agree with you, you are right. I must add now though that I wasn't in as good of a state of mind as the time went on and my emotions took over. DrinkingHard truly did say some hurtful and nasty things.

I am tempted to post the logs, though the only reason I am not is because it won't make DrinkingHard look too great, and I know that if the situation was how he thought it was then I would have reacted the same way - minus the hurtful comments.

DrinkingHard - I'm afraid I'm likely taking away your glory, I know Jason talked to Cameron and he likely talked to you. I have no clue what else you might have 'up your sleeve' so I am likely going to post the logs because that is all there is unless you somehow found some dirt on me I don't remember about, or that I started lurking in this industry 5 years ago when I was only 15, I'm not worried about that - I know many people who have started post 18 years of age.

XXXManager,

Thank you for your reply. You are dead on, as LadyMischief said.

I should have thought my initial question message through more thoroughly, as I stated above, it was more of a "Can I register the domain?" as opposed to "Are you using the domain?" I did not expect DrinkingHard to react the way he did.

His reaction was part my fault but the purposely hurtful things he said weren't cool.

Also, Ron, my response for Socks can also be part of my reply for you. If I hadn't felt so horrible of things DrinkingHard said I perhaps would have not told Jason what went on and let things fly.

LadyMischief - Thank you. I do have a bouncy thought stream.

I am going to hold off from posting the ICQ logs, however it would prove my point (for anyone that knows how sensitive I am) that it would have fucked up my emotions and made me feel hurt.

Thanks for anyone who has read and responded.

Cheers,
Matt

Dont judge DH on this thread.He is also a very good guy as well and we only really got one side of the story so far.It probably is a misunderstanding which was fueled by Booze and lack of sleep.Give the guy a break and not judge him based on this :2 cents:

Fair enough, but what does it say about a guy that has a problem with someone and then doesn't:

a) work it out with them first and,
b) starts all this shit without actually saying anything? It's the worst of the worst of GFY's bad Jerry Springer shit from what I could see.

Perhaps he is a cool guy and he was totally misreading or there is more to it as you say. So I will follow my own advice and give the benefit of the doubt. I'm just reacting to the facts that I see.

XXXManager - I really don't know what else DrinkingHard could post other than the log history, which would only make him look bad in my opinion. It is bothering me and making me really anxious too waiting for him to post what he wants to say, and that is only because I want for him to understand and for things to be right.

Mark Tiarra - Thanks for your reply. I think a few people were also thinking that I registered the domain. I didn't. I didn't call him however, just to point that out, though I initially wanted to. I guess I am glad so I can have the ICQ logs to refer back to.

spunky1 - I do agree with giving him a chance, though people can be a good person to a certain level. I truly was and still am hurt about what DrinkingHard said. And I can only hope in defense if he does post the logs that he doesn't continue the same level of immaturity that he did initially. It could have, and probably was all first reaction rage, though I personally think things through before I react - I try my hardest anyways.

Cheers,
Matt

I wouldn't go that far mate :)
I saw so many Labret posts that are so much worse and hateful
So far only a vauge accusation was throwen in the air.. Nothing too bad was said yet.
Maybe if we all close our eyes for a while it will all pass ;)

Btw - Nysus. Do NOT post private logs of conversations you had with people. I think you are doing again a mistake by letting other people know what you were talking to people in private. (again - my opinion).

Yes, I agree, that is why I have not. I would only if it would come to that after much more discussion. I still would have preferred this be worked out privately, though DrinkingHard wouldn't listen to me so I guess it is for the best.

Cheers,
Matt

If he posts private chat logs with you he will prove himself to be an idiot - no matter how tired he may be. I want to believe like people say here that he is a good guy and its all just a misunderstanding.

Private chat logs are just that - private. Only in a case where you quote some chat where noone knows who you quoted OR its a chat with a company's rep and the ones you show the chat are his/her managers - I would say its OK.

He can say what he want. You don't need to worry too much.
Worst case - he says something valid that you did wrong - you apologize and shake hands. Unless I am missing something crucial - it will all pass without a trace.

Okay, you're right. There has been MUCH worse at GFY. =]

I agree about posting logs being uncool too. Have to say.

Who else here besides me doesn't bother to keep logs? I had the jack booted federal thugs in my office one too many times to keep logs that might get one of my clients hurt. People say all kinds of shit ya know and half the time it looks 100 times worse than it is or someone outside wouldn't understand what's a joke and what's not.

Anyway I digress...

a good Labret flame CANNOT be compared to accusing someone of stealing ideas.

try again homie.

false accusations are lame, flames are good.

:thumbsup

hehe.

Are all adult webmaster a bunch of fucking tea drinking ladies that have nothing to do but gossip?

Listen you fucking fuck! I don't drink tea!

=]

Dont you have some machines to fill with chips and candies?

Where is that flapping hand picture when you need it ;)
Anyway
I never found anything that Labret said as "good".
You may find some of his hate mongering posts as ammusing if you are not in the group he slanders.
But to say his posts are good?
Whatever.

Anyway - Can we take chocolate milk instead of tea? :)

I'm still having a hard time believing anyone could get angry at Nysus. Oh well, good luck getting along everyone.

Brad

If you want getting along I could recommend a few other WM boards to you. =]

Yeah think Nysus may have screwed up a bit but so did DH. Man! It's always wise to keep some of your thoughts to yourself specially if those thoughts are not too pure.. UNLESS you people are just all a buncha sissies. If you can't keep your mouth shut how can you expect others do the same? :2 cents:

Hey ladies!

Nysus is a cool guy... Dont start thread because one told Jason about your gossiping...


Btw, ImJason, whats the story about giving higher gallery ranking? What about helping out a fellow montrealer? Im also an underdog!! Can you hook me up!? :Graucho :thumbsup

Nysus in my opinion you are the lowest of the low Mark spoke to you in private and in confidence whatever he had to say to you in the car was between you and him!
You are in the wrong to share that conversation with anyone but to share it with Jason was just plain malicious,
I don't know what the fuck went on with the domain but he told you that also in confidence
The only thing Mark has done wrong was trusting you!
If I was to share some of the things other webmasters have told me in Confidence all war would break lose!
Nysus I have lost a lot of respect for you today

I'd agree with that.

Ugh, I probably shouldn't get involved in this, but I'm drunk :)
Nysus, you seem like a cool guy, going by all your posts to date. Don't post those logs.
Mark, you have an impeccable reputation on GFY, and I know from our prior dealings that you're one of the sanest people here. Don't blow that, solve this in private, for your own sake. heh, I sound like a meddling aunt :)

me too