Where is the love?

Sending the guy cash might not buy you Karma points......making
fun of his situation and making fun of the death of his parents
however will at some point fire back at you......if you don't believe
it don't pay and move on......what's there to gain by making his
situation worse by bashing him or making poor jokes about his
drama?

DynaMite

blah blah blah haters haters haters blah blah blah im jealous look at me blah blah blah i think he is lieing blah blah blah blah ... that is all i see ... dont hate just cuz people helped him out and not you k ?

I am not making fun of this guys situation and certainly not making fun of the death of his parents. The death of anyone's parents or loved ones is tragic. The harsh reality of life is that we all lose our parents and loved ones at times in our lives. I've lost loved ones. Most of us on this board have lost loved ones. But this should not be justification for begging for a handout. This guy is a grown adult, not a young child. What I find deplorable is that this guy is using his parents death as an excuse to freeload off of others. What I find laughable is that so many people, albeit with good intentions, are encouraging this guys deplorable behaviour by sending him money. Maybe I am cold hearted son of a bitch, but I really think people shouldn't be on this board or any webmaster forum pleading .... my parents died, send me money

Its so easy to have life all figured out. I congratulate you.

Last I knew folks can do as they please.

RESPECT those that excercise their rights.

If you would like others to RESPECT yours.

Sending money to help will come back 10 fold, sending words of encouragement will come back 10 fold.

Debating against the desire to help will come back as esophageal reflux ultimately.

Whatever happened to dignity, self-respect and working for a living. Of course this guy has the right to come on this board and plead for a handout and everyone else has the right to send this guy money. At the same time I have the right to complain that giving this guy money is folly, without the inference that I am earning bad Karma by complaining.

What I dread is the day where begging through the internet is commonplace. I have already started getting emails like "I am poor russian widow with 2 small children, no job, no food to feed my children, please send me money". I am sure some people sent money with good intentions. Did that buy them Karma? How is that this woman could afford internet access and has the skills to send out so many emails yet can't afford to feed her children. I doubt her story was real but just another well conceived scam.

Now I see for the first time someone on a webmaster forum begging for money. I wonder whats next. If you think its cool for some recent college grad asking for a handout on a webmaster forum then power to you.

cheating or mistreat? :helpme

I understand what your saying Randy, and its clear this avenue is one you would not take. But when there is an activity thread with positive response, why come in as a right wing "Nay" person.

I guess I am not sensitive to what the web has become as far as charity cases go, but believe its entitled to "its" space to work or not work on a case by case basis.

I could never come forward and do as this gent has done, its a pride thing, but he has come forward and folks have reached out, and I just cannot make this into a "bad" thing, and I DO wish him well.

Its not for me to judge the bad or the good, those relationships will be judged between the those that need and those that give.

So the whinner is at it again :1orglaugh

first he whines about Russian webmasters fucking him up the butt with his "more than one" TGP and now he wants to whine because others want to help Brad. If anyone's a sucker and a dumb fuck it's you by posting such an idiotic line like this.

Hey but don't worry about it because you have just set the wheels in motion for yourself. It's called karma :thumbsup

Wrong! your still a sad story :1orglaugh

Bumpity bump bump... babump.

(teach a man to fish, abridged version)


Almost all churches will give you food and/or money and sometimes even hotel vouchers.

Raising your kid brother would surely qualify you for some kind of government aid, ie: food stamps, housing, daycare expenses, education/retraining (at employment office) etc..

A lawnmower to cut lawns with for extra money can be purchased at a garage sale for $50 or less.

You can install peep holes in peoples doors in about 3 minutes or less for under $3 and you can charge $10 - $15

A simple stencil kit at Wal-Mart and some outdoor paint and you can be painting house numbers on curbs the same day.

Most places have a "labor" place where you show up early in the morning and they send you out to work and you get paid daily.

Not too hard to find a roommate, at least until you can get on your feet.



(I admit I didn't read this WHOLE thread so maybe some of this has been covered. I've been down before, WAY down and Ilearned how to take of myself at an early age. Everything above I know to be true because I've used every single one of them.)


Good luck

Who doesn't have a peephole in their door? :)

Believe it or not, lots don't. I made a killing in Houston, Tx quite a few years ago when homicides were at their highest. That is when they weren't too afraid to open the door. lol

Just some "hopefully" helpful suggestions. The money being sent will help with today, tomorrow and maybe even next month but it will run out. You gotta learn how to survive!

So any updates on your situation?

Bumping so more GFYers can donate to this guy!! LOL!! :thumbsup

Hrmm ... This guys receive few hundread bucks from here (if not thousands) and he's not even telling the peep here how he's going lol

Yeah, that kind of blows.. A little update would have been nice. Oh well.

Bump

Funny thread so people really believe that a desperate guy like this one will come on GFY to ask for some money holy shit.
I'm pretty sure all of you have been scammed. He's not even posting anymore :1orglaugh.

Damn some people are too naive here.

I'm 99% sure this shit is like the Nigerian scam.

you can take your Swoit signature and shove it up your ass!

How old are you ? 13 probably ?

But you're probably still smelling Pipi at your age to insult like that so next time take your own advice. Shove up your dirty fat ass and don't respond it's gonna be better for you. I respect opinions of others so respect mine scumbag. I'm not going to fight with a kid anyway because you're a waste of time .:2 cents:.

If you bother to read the whole thread maybe you will see he maynot have internet connection *shrugs* FUCK if anyone was scammed at least there is a 50/50 chance they really helped, you don't know how many times I wanted to come to this board and beg to get enough work just to get food for my kids cause I made ot much to get food stamps even though what i made was enough to pay house, somebills and servers that was a 2.5 years ago, When I first started out HELL last jan I took the money i had that i was going ot go to vegas with and gave my kids the best xmas, somone else here started a thread and raiesed enough money to get me there :)

I got over my head and somone sent me some money to get my cable turned back on so i can make enough money to buy this and that, and you know what if it wasnt for the kind people here that wanted to help I would of lost my kids, lost my house and would of kept hearing daddy im hungry daddy i want icecream..


I still feel ashamed of begging and asking but shit happens and I wont forget them either, If anyone can come to a board and beg for money and lie about it just to get money then they will get theirs at the end, Ive been suckered before so who knows only time will tell..

TOM

You've been suckered. Quit kidding yourself otherwise. Get "theirs" in the end? It's believing in that crap that made you give up the cash and paypal it to him. He's a recent college GRADUATE, of course he needs money! Who doesn't need freakin money in this world? You want to contribute so you can feel better? Contribute to those poor souls posting all day with their swoit sigs trying to reel in a few dollars a month! By the way, you want to see how he's doing? Go talk to him on his site: http://www.hornetsreport.com/ If you do, refresh his memory about where GFY is on the net.

Actually I'm 14!

I'm rubber you're glue......

bumping this

Why? The guy hasn't posted in almost 10 years.

He's jumping on coat tails of old posts... That's all.. If he keeps it up Eric will come through like Thor...