And do you think your expectations of her were reasonable before you knew the truth? :)

I don't see how it could be jealousy though, I mean this happened before we were dating.

Hehehe, that's rough man. It's just something that I must agree with the majority of people on the board with. It's not something that needs to be discussed in detail. Though I totally understand where you are coming from. Just try to keep in mind that it was the past (possibly well before she knew you)

yes? lol... well I'm too tired to remember if I posted this earlier, but she actually TOLD me earlier in the relationship that she never had any sort of relations with anyone else. It just hit me pretty hard becuase it's almost like I see her as a totally different person now.

BTW you're a hottie :winkwink: . Are you related to someone who happens to work in an advertising agency by any chance? You kinda look like someone I used to work with :)

Not if you still think about it every second!

Thanks :) No, I'm not related to anyone in advertising.

Ah, so she told a little white lie at first, and now she's come clean. Well, is the deception bad enough to leave? That is pretty harsh, but it doesn't change who she is, just who you think she is.

I dont think that feeling will ever go away. It shall haunt you unless of course you decide you don't give a damn about her past and start thinking about your future together!

its natural

Jealous :)
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I hear my sisters talking about having sex. It kind of makes me want to kill the guy but then I remember it is their life.

Accept it. You leave in the world of double standards!

Don't forget females lie and some will say they haven't done this or haven't done anything blah blah

I've said it before and I'll say it again: "the more things change, the more they stay the same".

*yeah, I bumped a nine year old thread, fucking sue me! :thefinger

Never ask about the "Property of Hell's Angels" tattoo on her ass.

That was only my first mistake!

did you break up after 9 years or are you still together?

grow some nuts and fly to DR, CR, PI, or Thailand. Teenage sluts will drain your nutsack several times a day for $12-$24 and you'll quickly forget whatshername with her high mileage. yo girl symptoms sounds like a salvage rebuildable title car from copart you ain't even scratch the surface yet then you gonna find out the floorboard under the carpet is rusted cause it was underwater for 3 days in hurricane charlie. leave that bitch and make room for some new ones man she occupy toomuch of your brainpower

Jealous much ?

Gif image on sexymojo com is throwing a malicious URL warning in my virus scanner. I think it's in Ironhorse's sig? Good luck.

several reasons, you're in love, your instincts are afraid of 'issues', etc

go buy her favourite colour of lingere, book a nice hotel, feel better in the morning

the trick is to never ask questions that you dont want to know the answer to.

I've spent the past five years in and out of Panama/CR. I got them hoes on lock, homie :)

Both parties come in knowing exactly what to expect, we agree on what we want, wham bam thank you mam nothing more to think about. Such a simpler way of life.

I think it might be time for a permanent move.

I gotta go kind of off topic here.

I know this is a really old thread and all (9 years) but I was really surprised to see you actually got some good advice from the crowd here. 9 times out of 10 they will eat you alive for posting such a personal and sensitive issue. Maybe it was better like that in the old days.