name the guy so other girls don't get the heart broken by this.. dog...

:angel

i cant believe you are outing me on the boards like this

gheesh


lol

jk


dont worry..a dime a dozen remember:)

I hear ya sister...I am way to nice and get shitted on by way to often! I have taken some steps to change things for me

1. Got FAT..If they like me , they truely like me
2. instead of trusting first i assume that you are lying to me until
you prove me wrong!

THATS FUNNY YOU LITTLE FUCKING TURD HURDLER, YOU MUST HAVE A TON OF TIME ON YOUR HANDS, BECAUSE IT SEEMS AS THOUGH YOU JUMP INTO EVERYONE OF MY POSTS CALLING ME NAMES, ALTHOUGH YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ME...I THOUGHT WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION A FEW DAYS AGO WHERE YOU APOLOGIZED PROFUSELY AND SAID YOU WOULD STAY OUTTA MY THREADS? Guess you have more time on your hands then you thought...now go and hop back on mommy's lap..its feeding time at the zoo I hear.....and BTW..stop harrassing all the girls on this board. There are several others that are creeped out by you.

Because he most likely thought there was a chance he could get laid. He prly just didn't want to come out and say it and scare you off.

because women do it
only dif is they want $, not sex

I hate to say it, but most of us guys that have dicks will eventually want to use them at one point w/ any female friend - its just human nature no? If it is a non sexual male freindship you are looking for wouldn't you be much better off w/ a gay male. I know a ton of chicks that hang out w/ gay guys and goto gay bars w/ them just so they dont have deal w/ guys hitting on them

First off, i am offended at the fact you generalize men in such a way...

Why are women money hungry, slit your throat in the middle of the night to get at your loot kind of people?
Why are women such sluts?
Why do "WOMEN" cheat on guys?

Did you lead this guy on? Did he think he had a shot at going out with you? Did he maybe think you'd like him more than a friend?

There is a difference between being with a friend and being with someone you want to be more than a friend with. Generally people tend to put more effot into things when it has the possibility of becoming more...

So, because a guy wants to be more than a friend and you tell him you're not interested in being more than a friend with him and he decides that maybe he doesnt want to put as much effort into things you get all pissy pissy?

Get real...


IF i was interested in becoming more than friends with someone and that person decided they had absolutely no intentions of travelling those roads, ever, you're time right that my attention would shift elsewhere

Are you stupid? You got fat because you were too nice and so you could use it as a way to filter people out of your life?

That my friend is extremely sad.

Honestly.....It may be to much to ask. You're a hot chick and even your best male friends would most likely not pass up the chance to sleep with you.

The difference is if they base there friendship with you on the off chance of bagging you or if they like you for who you are and what you are willing to offer....as a friend only.

And you know, you are absolutely right. I should NOT have generelized you all. I have met a ton of guys that are really "just friends" that I have been platonic friends with for years, never tried anything funny. The thing that really gets under my skin, is that we have been strictly ICQ friends for a long while..when it was brought out in the open that I would NEVER sleep with him, he comes out and starts telling me totally different story...most of the things that I thought were "true" about his life, were absolute and utter lies. Its funny how someones story changes at the drop of a hat.

who do i harass. besides you? no one. you beg on icq to stop calling you names cause people will here them and think bad of you. oh please. miss drama queen 2004. take a chill pill and do some "adult marketing"

When it comes to relationships I tend to feel the same way...
WG

What's your beef, fris?

I have never seen Sarah treat anybody with disrespect so why n the hell would you treat her in this way?

ask her how she was going to lookup my info in slickcash database and make threats asking me where i live.

people suck :(

Now this is starting to make sense... Let's see if I can help you decipher what happened before you go shoot this guy for being a possible dick.

Either this Guy did open up to you or either he didn't. So, let's get the easier out of the way first which is...

Let's say it was all bullshit:
He didn't open up to you and he was just talking shit to try and score with you. Sad but it could be the truth. Lots of guys do this and if this was what he was doing then you'll be better off without him, even if it hurts a little now.

Everything he said was NOT bullshit:
Let's say that you guys have been talking for a long time and that you guy
got pretty personal over ICQ...Maybe you told him things you've never told anyone or he told you things he has never told anyone...Either way this guy felt an emotional bond to you, a kind of closeness which he hasn't had with many people (so I'm guessing). Doing such a thing as opening up to a person can leave a person feeling vulnerable and open to attack. He possibly being rejected put him on the defensive side of things which would be to deny everything and hope that you believe it was all a lie. Guys are not like women in the sense they like to talk about personal issues which others...For us to open up we need to have a connection with someone! And what we hate more is for someone to know our biz especially when the connection doesn't exist anymore.


What it comes down to is which side of things do you feel he is on...was he in it just for the sex OR was there more to it?

I think i answered your "why" question but left you with another question only you can answer.

tuesday is cheap ticket night for movies maybe she got good comissions this week eh sarah. maybe you and jordan can go on a hot date :)

maybe have enough for mcdonalds too

Good for her. If you disrespected me like that then I might be tempted to do the same thing.

People do not make threats like that unless you have pissed them off.

So again.....What's your beef?

Hey Sarah, I completely understand you and know what are you talking about..... I met so many assholes,but hey not all of them are this way.......,just take your time.........
ladies party? it's always helped me:winkwink:

I feel sad for you guys...If you cannot trust someone i doubt you'll ever have the chance to experience true and unconditional love.

Sometimes you get hurt...sometimes you dont....but to give up entirely is such a shame...there ARE people out there who are NOT out to fuck their partner over..

you are hilarious....did you already take your lithium today?

Actually i am not stupid quite the opposite...I was being somewhat sarcastic..but i can tell you this, I spent all of my teenage and young adult life being gawked , hit on and used by men or I guess I should say boys who just liked the way i looked..Now men actually get to know me first and what is inside. that is all I was getting at.

That's rather low...
WG

Care to explain the whole story??

I'm rather interested in hearing this one too. Sarah is one of the coolest people I've met.

her spamming shitty program in my inbox thats what.

Ouch

I'm playing the odds here, 2 times been cheated on. If the right lady came along, I probably would give her the chance, but for the most part, I want to know someone really well first.

WG

Wouldnt that be total abuse of the affiliate system and the position she has at the company?


I would love to see
"If you piss us off we will use all information we have on your to come after you, even if it is in regards to a personal issue with one of our employees" in their Terms and Conditions

Uhmm... this isn't exactly the best way to make a good impression.

Ah...sooo.....Her doing her job justifies you treating her poorly.

OK...Thanks for the clarification.

It's official...fris is a fucktard.

Back to work I go.

Funny, the spam I get for most programs is from a bot, not from its marketing team. Having difficulties telling which is which? Jeebus, just delete it and go on with life.

If that's how you treat someone for sending you info about her program, how do you treat all other spammers out there?

WG

That is not what happened at all FRIS..you know that just as well as I do...the last time this happend, you hopped into one of my threads calling me a whore, or slut or something of the sort, and one of my fellow GFY'ers (who shall remain nameless) posted in the thread to STOP NAME CALLING, and that he also knows other girls that you have "stalked" and threatened. I simply said to you that it would take no time at all to find out where you live, if you continue to stalk and harass us women here. It had absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH SPAM IN YOUR INBOX...so get your story straight...and by they way, DID YOU SAY YOU HAD SIMPLY "NO TIME" TO READ GFY...

I totally agree...Trust is earned and not given but sometimes you need to give people the benefit of the doubt.

I've been with my GF for 3 years now and AFAIK she has never cheated on me but the first time she does this relationship would be over...I'm sure it swings that way for her too.

Lets say she did eventually cheat on me...having 20/20 sight after the fact, I rather get hurt than not to experience the things i have in the last 3 years... i think it has made me a better person and i've grown from it.

but thats just my :2 cents:

That decision apparently cost me over $10,000 (not talking about romantic relationship here, business one). You would think you could trust someone you've known for over 3 years...

WG

Sorry about that. I really thought the world of you until you told me we were not going to sleep together.

I sent you the roses along with my room key in San Diego, when you didn't show up at 3am, I guess I just got a bad feeling about things.

Sorry.

Sarah, just drop fris in your iggy box and ignore him. He's a simple mind who is only out to bait you, and if you stop giving him the satisfaction, he'll eventually go away and spare us all the insanity. Don't let him get to you, hon, he knows nothing about you or of you. :)

I must honestly say, I really appreciate your honesty. I agree with you, that its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all.

trolls are like teeth. Ignore them and they go away.:thumbsup

stop replying to him..he wins cigarettes from everyone else in the psych ward when you do

I have a great guy, had to have a few bad one's first but I found him.:)

I hope one day you'll say the same.


:thumbsup

While most people would tend to agree with this, I'm really against getting hurt, even if it makes you stronger in the long run. Just me though...

WG

Benefit of the doubt when it comes to personal relationships but when it comes to biz it's a whole different story imho... I'm not sure of the details on how you lost 10k although i have heard the usual GFY Drama over it..

Ok, so you took a 10k hit and im sure it hurts..maybe not a lot but still, 10k is a nice chunk of change...BUT how much money have you made working with people and through your other biz relationships?

One other way to look at it is that you should be lucky it was only 10k and not 50k or 100k.

Did you really LOVE this guy?

How long were you guys chatting for?

NO hun..didnt love him at all. I was just really hurt and dissapointed that most of the things that we talked about over the course of a few months were lies. It just made me realize that everything I knew OF him, was fake.

So true.

Where did you meet this guy?

ya know that philosphy is the true form of Satanism
it's not about worshiping Demons or crap ike that its about self preservation :thumbsup 666 come on Show me some metal :glugglug