Not all guys are assholes dear. Just be patient and don't give up on us all just yet!!

I guess you didnt read my post MORON..I said, we were "friends" online..I never mentioned that he was my boyfriend.

:1orglaugh

sorry for you.... maybe the newt time, it will be best

don't deseperate... we are not all like this

What were your intentions then - to have a straight male friend, that has no desire to sleep w/ you whatsoever?

YES..to have a straight male friend who doesnt attempt to sleep with me. Is that too much to ask?

sorry. i dont have time to read gfy all day.i actually have better things to do so i just skimmed through it. nice that you can ask about your social life to strangers you dont even know cause you have no real life friends to consult with you little skank.

but anyways. carry on.

I'm not aggre <ith you.. i found my last girl friend by the internet...
like five years ago

I just don't deal with guys anymore, except for in a friendship type of way, other than that your just wasting your time and energy on this trivial shit.

This is the truth.

More times than I can count, a girl will come to me with this same sob story, a girl I'd know for years and it would end with "why can't I find an honest guy like you?"

and I'd be sitting there going "uhm... HELLO!"

but the truth is... what they want and what they need is 2 different things. Girls need an honest and responsible guy... they know they need this. But what they WANT is the rebel who'll treat them like dirt.

And when it falls apart... they assume that all guys are assholes.

name the guy so other girls don't get the heart broken by this.. dog...

:angel

i cant believe you are outing me on the boards like this

gheesh


lol

jk


dont worry..a dime a dozen remember:)

I hear ya sister...I am way to nice and get shitted on by way to often! I have taken some steps to change things for me

1. Got FAT..If they like me , they truely like me
2. instead of trusting first i assume that you are lying to me until
you prove me wrong!

THATS FUNNY YOU LITTLE FUCKING TURD HURDLER, YOU MUST HAVE A TON OF TIME ON YOUR HANDS, BECAUSE IT SEEMS AS THOUGH YOU JUMP INTO EVERYONE OF MY POSTS CALLING ME NAMES, ALTHOUGH YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ME...I THOUGHT WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION A FEW DAYS AGO WHERE YOU APOLOGIZED PROFUSELY AND SAID YOU WOULD STAY OUTTA MY THREADS? Guess you have more time on your hands then you thought...now go and hop back on mommy's lap..its feeding time at the zoo I hear.....and BTW..stop harrassing all the girls on this board. There are several others that are creeped out by you.

Because he most likely thought there was a chance he could get laid. He prly just didn't want to come out and say it and scare you off.

because women do it
only dif is they want $, not sex

I hate to say it, but most of us guys that have dicks will eventually want to use them at one point w/ any female friend - its just human nature no? If it is a non sexual male freindship you are looking for wouldn't you be much better off w/ a gay male. I know a ton of chicks that hang out w/ gay guys and goto gay bars w/ them just so they dont have deal w/ guys hitting on them

First off, i am offended at the fact you generalize men in such a way...

Why are women money hungry, slit your throat in the middle of the night to get at your loot kind of people?
Why are women such sluts?
Why do "WOMEN" cheat on guys?

Did you lead this guy on? Did he think he had a shot at going out with you? Did he maybe think you'd like him more than a friend?

There is a difference between being with a friend and being with someone you want to be more than a friend with. Generally people tend to put more effot into things when it has the possibility of becoming more...

So, because a guy wants to be more than a friend and you tell him you're not interested in being more than a friend with him and he decides that maybe he doesnt want to put as much effort into things you get all pissy pissy?

Get real...


IF i was interested in becoming more than friends with someone and that person decided they had absolutely no intentions of travelling those roads, ever, you're time right that my attention would shift elsewhere

Are you stupid? You got fat because you were too nice and so you could use it as a way to filter people out of your life?

That my friend is extremely sad.

Honestly.....It may be to much to ask. You're a hot chick and even your best male friends would most likely not pass up the chance to sleep with you.

The difference is if they base there friendship with you on the off chance of bagging you or if they like you for who you are and what you are willing to offer....as a friend only.

And you know, you are absolutely right. I should NOT have generelized you all. I have met a ton of guys that are really "just friends" that I have been platonic friends with for years, never tried anything funny. The thing that really gets under my skin, is that we have been strictly ICQ friends for a long while..when it was brought out in the open that I would NEVER sleep with him, he comes out and starts telling me totally different story...most of the things that I thought were "true" about his life, were absolute and utter lies. Its funny how someones story changes at the drop of a hat.

who do i harass. besides you? no one. you beg on icq to stop calling you names cause people will here them and think bad of you. oh please. miss drama queen 2004. take a chill pill and do some "adult marketing"

When it comes to relationships I tend to feel the same way...
WG

What's your beef, fris?

I have never seen Sarah treat anybody with disrespect so why n the hell would you treat her in this way?

ask her how she was going to lookup my info in slickcash database and make threats asking me where i live.

people suck :(

Now this is starting to make sense... Let's see if I can help you decipher what happened before you go shoot this guy for being a possible dick.

Either this Guy did open up to you or either he didn't. So, let's get the easier out of the way first which is...

Let's say it was all bullshit:
He didn't open up to you and he was just talking shit to try and score with you. Sad but it could be the truth. Lots of guys do this and if this was what he was doing then you'll be better off without him, even if it hurts a little now.

Everything he said was NOT bullshit:
Let's say that you guys have been talking for a long time and that you guy
got pretty personal over ICQ...Maybe you told him things you've never told anyone or he told you things he has never told anyone...Either way this guy felt an emotional bond to you, a kind of closeness which he hasn't had with many people (so I'm guessing). Doing such a thing as opening up to a person can leave a person feeling vulnerable and open to attack. He possibly being rejected put him on the defensive side of things which would be to deny everything and hope that you believe it was all a lie. Guys are not like women in the sense they like to talk about personal issues which others...For us to open up we need to have a connection with someone! And what we hate more is for someone to know our biz especially when the connection doesn't exist anymore.


What it comes down to is which side of things do you feel he is on...was he in it just for the sex OR was there more to it?

I think i answered your "why" question but left you with another question only you can answer.

tuesday is cheap ticket night for movies maybe she got good comissions this week eh sarah. maybe you and jordan can go on a hot date :)

maybe have enough for mcdonalds too

Good for her. If you disrespected me like that then I might be tempted to do the same thing.

People do not make threats like that unless you have pissed them off.

So again.....What's your beef?

Hey Sarah, I completely understand you and know what are you talking about..... I met so many assholes,but hey not all of them are this way.......,just take your time.........
ladies party? it's always helped me:winkwink:

I feel sad for you guys...If you cannot trust someone i doubt you'll ever have the chance to experience true and unconditional love.

Sometimes you get hurt...sometimes you dont....but to give up entirely is such a shame...there ARE people out there who are NOT out to fuck their partner over..

you are hilarious....did you already take your lithium today?

Actually i am not stupid quite the opposite...I was being somewhat sarcastic..but i can tell you this, I spent all of my teenage and young adult life being gawked , hit on and used by men or I guess I should say boys who just liked the way i looked..Now men actually get to know me first and what is inside. that is all I was getting at.

That's rather low...
WG

Care to explain the whole story??

I'm rather interested in hearing this one too. Sarah is one of the coolest people I've met.

her spamming shitty program in my inbox thats what.

Ouch

I'm playing the odds here, 2 times been cheated on. If the right lady came along, I probably would give her the chance, but for the most part, I want to know someone really well first.

WG

Wouldnt that be total abuse of the affiliate system and the position she has at the company?


I would love to see
"If you piss us off we will use all information we have on your to come after you, even if it is in regards to a personal issue with one of our employees" in their Terms and Conditions