| PrivateIvy |
07-13-2004 11:32 AM |
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Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
WTF Ivy I have had it with you and your little shitty remarks. I DID NOT say anything rude to that girl. I was trying to fucking help her. I was talking to a group of people in the lounge of the hotel in Atlanta, who would like to do business with my boss. We were having a very pleasant conversation when Mary just sat down interrupted us and started talking about herself. She didn't say hi to anyone she didn't even acknowledge the other people. I didn't want to embarrass her so I just tried to introduce her but she was too busy talking about herself. The people I was talking to just looked at me and then looked at her like WTF is this bitch all about. I waited until we were alone and I told her nicely that if you want to meet people and accomplish something with them Mary, don't just talk about yourself all the time, bragging about yourself. Listen to what other people have to say, show them respect and show them that you are interested in them and you might accomplish something with them. She told me she agreed with me and that she hated the fact that she does that. We had a nice conversation about it. She got emotional because she faced something she didn't like about herself.
The same thing happened with you when you were getting your hair done, by Vanilla, talking about how your husband doesn't know how much work it takes to be a webmistress and if you only had someone to relate too. After listening to that bullshit for 2 fucking hours I said to you, VERY NICELY, if you would stop acting like you're the only webmistress in the world you might be able to reach out to someone else and have someone to relate to. For God sakes Vanilla was standing right behind you. Vanilla could have helped you out a lot and taught you a lot but you blew that connection off because you wanted to go on and on about how hard it is for you and how no one understands. I mean come on a person can only take so much listening to someone complain about a problem and have the answer cutting her fucking hair.
You're little catty remarks have touched my last nerve girl. You can be such a sweet person, but when it comes to you trying to make yourself out to be this great thing you will cut the legs off someone else to make yourself seem taller. It's very ugly.
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Being blunt to someone on a forum is the way it is....but telling someone something to their face is a different story.
And since you want to out things on the board, let me say that Aaron and Vanilla apologized for you. They both said how it could have been worded different and not so rudely and condescendingly spoken by you.
The way and tone in which you say something to someone speaks miles beyond what you actually say. If you have criticism for someone, there is a tactful way to do it.
I am of course speaking about in person...we all know that doesn't go for board personalities.
Now, as for your publicizing personal conversations between myself, Vanilla and you while I was getting my hair done by Vanilla and you were drunk, high and doped up in the bed, as you were the entire trip.....I wonder who that reflects poorly on?
Sorry Loryn, I too think you are a really sweet girl, but your own judgements and name calling of me have hit my last nerve as well.
So I was tired that day and venting personally to the two of you...and so I don't think that every female on this board is married and has 3 kids, models and runs websites by theirself ...so sue me
I am who I am....you like me or you don't and it really doesn't matter to me. I don't think I'm better than anyone else and you should know that by meeting me in person, but you choose instead to recall one private conversation had between the 3 of us.
Did we really need to air this on the board?
Ivy |
