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sicone 10-07-2004 02:04 AM

glad I never started the promotion of your site.

I would say good luck but i doubt your even hear to read this

psyko514 10-07-2004 02:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bringer
yep
that's what i thought. but no one here ever said anything.

is midwestmandi still being updated? or was it, until now?
what's up with dormbucks letting start up her own site?

and i wonder what'll happen to midwestmandi. and i wonder if i can use the galleries/freesites i built to promote mandyxxx for midwestmandi.

so many unanswered questions.

boobmaster 10-07-2004 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime
Like someone said... you will be a lot more unhappy when the chargebacks (and associated fees) start rolling in. Has he offered to pay these if you quit like this? If so, then get it in writing (from him) :)


A smarter compromise to the situation at this point might be to leave the site up with whatever archives you have....and post a statement something to the effect of:

"due to personal issues, I do not know when the next updates to this site will occur. It could be days, weeks, months - or maybe never. If you would like to cancel at this point, I would completely understand. Either way, please wish me luck. -MandyXXX "

And then let your webmasters know the same and let them know that you will contact them if/when updates continue again.


THEN tell your boyfriend "See. I've made a HUGE fucking compromise here. Now prove to me that you're not going to have ongoing problems and never let me live down what I used to do"

If he's cool with you for 6 months without any BS.... THEN maybe consider pulling it all... after giving people a good 30-60 day warning.



I swear. People in relationships do crazy things sometimes. ::shakes head::


That's one of the BIGGEST problems with our industry -- all the mom and pop amateur sites run by people who have no clue about how to run a business. Your suggestions make sense but it is clear that Mandy is not thinking things through very well. She's a 20 year old kid in love.

goBigtime 10-07-2004 02:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by sicone

I would say good luck but i doubt your even hear to read this

Don't worry. She'll read it.

Roald 10-07-2004 02:09 AM

mm strange case, but its your live.

You should have warned everyone involved though :2 cents:

newbreed 10-07-2004 02:09 AM

Damn, she just did a promo or something the other day, like 80% or something. Wonder if this had anything to do with the situation w/DB?

Very sudden and hasty decision Mandy. I think some of us understand where you are coming from, but this business as a whole will be much less understanding, especially with the no notice approach...:2 cents:

goBigtime 10-07-2004 02:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by boobmaster
Mandy is not thinking things through very well. She's a 20 year old kid in love.
People do some stupid things when they're "in love".... usually repeatedly :(

SomeCreep 10-07-2004 02:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mandyxxx
I know this is sudden...
and this will be my last post...

It's the love or money complex.
He and I dated seriously for three years.
Both college graduates, he couldn't accept that I wanted to do this... so when I graduated in May, I left him to pursue my site.

And even though the money is good, I'm not happy.
And if I don't try to make things work with him, it will always be in the back of my mind.

So this is it GFY... goodbye ....

Typical woman, oh you're not happy sweetie? :(

Okay, take down your site, fuck over all your members, and fuck all the webmasters who put hours of hard work into promoting your site. All that matters is that you're happy. :thumbsup

Taboo 10-07-2004 02:22 AM

I'm sure there's more to the story. Perhaps her mainstream modeling "career" is taking off due to FHM mag appearance. Maybe she's got a stalker now. Lots of other reasons/factors we'll never know about. But she has burnt bridges that may never be repaired. I was just about to promote her so thankfully I saw this thread. It's sad that she's giving up a potentially lucrative business for a "boyfriend". Maybe if he proposed, it would be a different story. But the worse thing about her exodus is that she's not the one that started this thread to alert everyone. so thanks to JupZChris for the news. Either way, good luck Mandy and hope you won't regret this tomorrow. Whether you know or care, you just told everyone here supporting you to "Go Fuck Yourself".

bringer 10-07-2004 02:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by psyko514
that's what i thought. but no one here ever said anything.

is midwestmandi still being updated? or was it, until now?
what's up with dormbucks letting start up her own site?

and i wonder what'll happen to midwestmandi. and i wonder if i can use the galleries/freesites i built to promote mandyxxx for midwestmandi.

so many unanswered questions.

from what i understand midwest is still being updated with old pictures not yet published on the site
no idea about using content to promote the other site or what exactly happened when mandy decided to start her own site and broke away from dormbucks

deleteduser 10-07-2004 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime
Like someone said... you will be a lot more unhappy when the chargebacks (and associated fees) start rolling in. Has he offered to pay these if you quit like this? If so, then get it in writing (from him) :)


A smarter compromise to the situation at this point might be to leave the site up with whatever archives you have....and post a statement something to the effect of:

"due to personal issues, I do not know when the next updates to this site will occur. It could be days, weeks, months - or maybe never. If you would like to cancel at this point, I would completely understand. Either way, please wish me luck. -MandyXXX "

And then let your webmasters know the same and let them know that you will contact them if/when updates continue again.


THEN tell your boyfriend "See. I've made a HUGE fucking compromise here. Now prove to me that you're not going to have ongoing problems and never let me live down what I used to do"

If he's cool with you for 6 months without any BS.... THEN maybe consider pulling it all... after giving people a good 30-60 day warning.



I swear. People in relationships do crazy things sometimes. ::shakes head::

the best idea so far in my eyes. go for that mandy. we all know you're still reading here.

xenigo 10-07-2004 02:35 AM

This is kinda funny. From the second I saw the text on the Mandixxx site, I had a sneaking suspicion it was a clever way of telling members she's decided to open another site elsewhere and has broken a contract with the current program. Is this not what's going on???

MidwestMandi is still online...

Red Ezra 10-07-2004 03:03 AM

wow - and I thought just porn movie chicks and strippers were flakes now I have to add web girls to the list

MattO 10-07-2004 04:35 AM

Well that sucks ass, I was actually sending signups to that site.
Time to find another use for that traffic.
http://www.germantourist.com/mandy5.jpg
http://www.germantourist.com/mandy8.jpg

Basic_man 10-07-2004 04:36 AM

Where did found that ?

sweetcuties 10-07-2004 05:59 AM

Listen up

I knew she was unstable because of the stuff that happend between her and someone else. I'm not even close with that other person but I ALWAYS felt how she handled herself was wrong! Then you've got people right on this board, that thought she was all that, wanting this or getting signs and shit done, like eveything is ok.

Some of you people don't think at all :2 cents:

Digipimp 10-07-2004 06:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mandyxxx
I know this is sudden...
and this will be my last post...

It's the love or money complex.
He and I dated seriously for three years.
Both college graduates, he couldn't accept that I wanted to do this... so when I graduated in May, I left him to pursue my site.

And even though the money is good, I'm not happy.
And if I don't try to make things work with him, it will always be in the back of my mind.

So this is it GFY... goodbye ....

'

see ya in 6 months when you're tore up and wore out and ready to work even harder for less money

Slick 10-07-2004 06:16 AM

Wow, what a dumb bitch !!! I'm sorry for the comments, but I'm pretty pissed. She can't just get a program going, then leave both the webmasters and the members that joined up to see her hanging. That's extremely disrespectful. At least give us a timeframe of like a month or two to take things down rather than just closing shop. Hell, she didn't even email me to let me know.

I can promise all of you this. In a few months or even a year, when she tries to break back into the business because things went sour with her boyfriend and she's needing money. I sure the fuck ain't gonna promote her.

Shoehorn! 10-07-2004 06:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mandyxxx
I know this is sudden...
and this will be my last post...

It's the love or money complex.
He and I dated seriously for three years.
Both college graduates, he couldn't accept that I wanted to do this... so when I graduated in May, I left him to pursue my site.

And even though the money is good, I'm not happy.
And if I don't try to make things work with him, it will always be in the back of my mind.

So this is it GFY... goodbye ....

WOW.

I hope things work out for you and you end up being happy. :2 cents:

Libertine 10-07-2004 06:25 AM

Anyone remember her saying a few days ago that her boyfriend turned into a stalker-type once when they were together, calling her 70 times when she was at the gym or something?



:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

the_wizz 10-07-2004 06:27 AM

guess I need to pull my links.... damnit.

Digipimp 10-07-2004 06:29 AM

can i at least get a look at some vids of your flapjacks getting greased with man syrup?

pradaboy 10-07-2004 06:29 AM

I understand your relationship means more than your business but this is not only about you but about your members and the affiliates promoting your site too!

This is one nasty decision to make, you could at least leave the members area online or give the affiliates a month notice.

:2 cents:

More Booze 10-07-2004 06:30 AM

wtf, I did put up some links yesterday.

This is some of the most retarded shit I have ever seen.

Digipimp 10-07-2004 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pradaboy
I understand your relationship means more than your business but this is not only about you but about your members and the affiliates promoting your site too!

This is one nasty decision to make, you could at least leave the members area online or give the affiliates a month notice.

:2 cents:

she can't leave the member area online or her sweetheart will give her another black eye

:1orglaugh

More Booze 10-07-2004 06:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Slick
Wow, what a dumb bitch !!! I'm sorry for the comments, but I'm pretty pissed. She can't just get a program going, then leave both the webmasters and the members that joined up to see her hanging. That's extremely disrespectful. At least give us a timeframe of like a month or two to take things down rather than just closing shop. Hell, she didn't even email me to let me know.

I can promise all of you this. In a few months or even a year, when she tries to break back into the business because things went sour with her boyfriend and she's needing money. I sure the fuck ain't gonna promote her.

I could not have said it any better......

Danny_C 10-07-2004 06:35 AM

Damn, there are always simpler solutions. I would have run her site AND been her boyfriend. People always take the most difficult path in life.

wyldblyss 10-07-2004 06:38 AM

Mandy...I hope you read this. Are you NUTS!!! Please listen...I have been there....done that. You are who you are...you are wonderful, you are special....just the way you are. If you need to change to get someone back.....then that isn't the person you should be with.

The person you should be with is the one that loves you no matter what. Someone who loves you for who you are, faults and all. Someone that will be with you through thick and thin. You deserve so much better.....don't sell yourself short.

deleteduser 10-07-2004 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by wyldblyss
Mandy...I hope you read this. Are you NUTS!!! Please listen...I have been there....done that. You are who you are...you are wonderful, you are special....just the way you are. If you need to change to get someone back.....then that isn't the person you should be with.

The person you should be with is the one that loves you no matter what. Someone who loves you for who you are, faults and all. Someone that will be with you through thick and thin. You deserve so much better.....don't sell yourself short.

stalker?

Slick 10-07-2004 06:50 AM

In 6 months, I predict Mandy will be working at McDonalds.

extreme_spaz 10-07-2004 06:51 AM

the legal issues and debt shes going to incur from this move aside. I figure the only way we will see her again is in a few years, once he career stalls because someone sees a mandyxxx image on the internet somewhere and tells her boss, she'll be back doing DAs DVs gandbangs to feed her 6 kids.
How can I be so harsh? I don't know her personally or even professionally, just the pics I have seen posted here. But the bottom line is this course of action tells everyone exactly what they need to know about this very cute girl........ She is immature, rash and makes terrible business descisions. I wouldn't trust her for anything more then 1 or 2 video shoots with an ironclad contract beforehand.

Mandy, understand that what you did here today was fuck over at least 70 webmasters, an untold number of paying members and all without a days notice to prepare themselves. And for what? A man that by all appearances simply must be one very insecure, semi controlling individual. Yeah go and be happy. You shouldn't treat others this way.


spaz

LadyMischief 10-07-2004 06:52 AM

THis is exactly the reason I tell my models that if their boyfriend doesn't know what they're doing, they should turn the fuck around and get the hell out. I feel badly for the people who started to promote the site, and who will loose revenue over this... I liked Mandy but this is pretty lame.

StuartD 10-07-2004 06:53 AM

what she and her bf don't realize is that taking down the site won't stop anything... her pics are out there, and will be forever more... they never die.

Doesn't matter if he saw it and freaked and she did something.... it's done.

This will forever haunt them... the chargebacks and money they're going to lose on this is just the start... he's going to hate her for a real long time... especially when they see a pic of her 10 or 20 years from now.

deleteduser 10-07-2004 06:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by extreme_spaz
the legal issues and debt shes going to incur from this move aside.
but seriously, who pays all that? also: will webmasters get paid?

MattO 10-07-2004 06:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Digipimp
can i at least get a look at some vids of your flapjacks getting greased with man syrup?

Here you go

pradaboy 10-07-2004 06:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by LadyMischief
THis is exactly the reason I tell my models that if their boyfriend doesn't know what they're doing, they should turn the fuck around and get the hell out. I feel badly for the people who started to promote the site, and who will loose revenue over this... I liked Mandy but this is pretty lame.
you're a very smart lady :thumbsup

pradaboy 10-07-2004 06:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MattO
Here you go
ooh that's very nice, do you happen to have more :winkwink:

extreme_spaz 10-07-2004 07:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MattO
Here you go
LOL the corprorate world is calling! & LadyMischief is right on.:thumbsup :thumbsup


spaz

JerseyPuma 10-07-2004 07:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Digipimp
can i at least get a look at some vids of your flapjacks getting greased with man syrup?
See, now I would never have even thought to ask for that. Thanks bro!

PrivateIvy 10-07-2004 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by boobmaster
I speak from experience. Anyone who works with single girl sites has to deal with the possibility that the BF will try to step in and take over.

Hmmm..... All I do is single girl sites - within my own network and that's also all that I promote. NEVER had that happen, so I'd have to disagree with that statement.

There are TONS of single model sites out there run by Serious minded girls/models who treat this as a business and are in it for the long haul.

And of course single model sites convert and retain better:Graucho

:2 cents:

Ivy

candyflip 10-07-2004 07:28 AM

There goes a few weeks spent promoting her. I'm sure everyone will be charging back and all will be for nothing.

LadyMischief 10-07-2004 07:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pradaboy
you're a very smart lady :thumbsup
Thank you, but years of experience taught me that it's better to lay it on the table than have to play games and deal with bullshit later. I shoveled enough of that when I worked on a farm thanks :P

LadyMischief 10-07-2004 07:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PrivateIvy
Hmmm..... All I do is single girl sites - within my own network and that's also all that I promote. NEVER had that happen, so I'd have to disagree with that statement.

There are TONS of single model sites out there run by Serious minded girls/models who treat this as a business and are in it for the long haul.

And of course single model sites convert and retain better:Graucho

:2 cents:

Ivy

Most girls who are doing solo girl sites have their significant others either involved or at least knowledgable about things... I wouldn't deal with a girl any other way, honestly.

Manowar 10-07-2004 07:38 AM

i'd hit it

EscortBiz 10-07-2004 07:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Taboo
I'm sure there's more to the story. Perhaps her mainstream modeling "career" is taking off due to FHM mag appearance. Maybe she's got a stalker now. Lots of other reasons/factors we'll never know about. But she has burnt bridges that may never be repaired. I was just about to promote her so thankfully I saw this thread. It's sad that she's giving up a potentially lucrative business for a "boyfriend". Maybe if he proposed, it would be a different story. But the worse thing about her exodus is that she's not the one that started this thread to alert everyone. so thanks to JupZChris for the news. Either way, good luck Mandy and hope you won't regret this tomorrow. Whether you know or care, you just told everyone here supporting you to "Go Fuck Yourself".
let me sum up where shes going

Either back in this business

On Serious Drugs

To a psychiatrist

To the Dr Phil Show

Please out of all girls on this planet shes becoming a model, come on

Seen this happen 100 times in this business, escorts mostly so I know her future

fuckin stupid

Now before you all get your dicks hard let me just say

If a girl wants to get out of this business ok great do what you want but to do it because of a guy thats something they ALL regret!

teleblade69 10-07-2004 07:41 AM

damn now i have to stop promoting her and deleting some gals


tb

PrivateIvy 10-07-2004 07:49 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by LadyMischief
Most girls who are doing solo girl sites have their significant others either involved or at least knowledgable about things... I wouldn't deal with a girl any other way, honestly.
Exactly..... my hubby thinks it's the coolest thing that every time he walks into my office I'm looking at porn and then I happen to make a buck or two for it :Graucho


Ivy

chodadog 10-07-2004 07:55 AM

The chargebacks are going to fuck her harder than her boyfriend ever could. This is a foolish way to leave the business. goBigtime was right on the money with his suggestion.

Digipimp 10-07-2004 07:56 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MattO
Here you go
nice, hook me up with something full link and why is my god damn windows media codec not working anymore on my mac!

deleteduser 10-07-2004 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by chodadog
The chargebacks are going to fuck her harder than her boyfriend ever could.
:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh


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