Taking care of business :winkwink: Good luck and I'm sure everyone understands.

Yeah . . . well, now that I know there is another, I may have to modify that. I have been contemplating that for the last 12 hours.

Sleepless night.

too personal to reply to :1orglaugh

That's right, lets face it this "personal" issue has cost many a webmaster some $$$. From time putting up/pulling links, bandwidth, time etc. There is so much more to the equation than "Oops a hard drive failed". Personal issues with these types of sites can definitely cause bad business decisions. Webmasters need to think about this with single girl sites. We have seen two of them have problems this week already.

we don't want to get your feelings hurt now do we.... :disgust

it's your traffic and it is understandable. i take a less emotional approach though to business. also, i think highly of newbreed and arika as individuals. i see arika as a young upstart and newbreed as a savvy businessman who will move on to new ventures. it is a learning process for both imho and the personal stuff should not sway the business stuff. give a young woman a break - forgive but don't forget etc... anyway, a lot of top owners of affiliate programs are divorced but you don't stop sending them traffic :2 cents:

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Will this hit 7 pages as well?

Anywho goodluck

good to see things are being taken care of

:thumbsup

sorry to hear that this happened between you and newbreed... although i know niether of you... it sux that stuff like this happens... i've never chatted with newbreed other than to tell him i live about 10 minutes from you guys... (or well, used to i guess)

anyways... best of luck to ya both.

50 !!!



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Can I get a 50?

this thread got big fast

guess not

To be honest, I hate seeing people's private lives posted on a chat board. I am not sure how long payments have been delayed, but I am assuming not so long that she needs to discuss every detail (seeing I hadn't seen a lot of post about it prior to today). A basic "issue happened, checks will be sent out on XX/XX/XX" would suffice.

Our private lives commonly effect our job performance, it is par for the course when you are a human being. I know people love to read all the dramatic exchanges, I just think it is too much information. She said she will pay, you can either live with that or you can't. Judging her personal life really has nothing to do with it.

And for people calling out for who "the other guy" is, take some time away and go enjoy your weekend.

Of course, it is just my opinion, not meant to offend.

I imagine you have been getting hammered via ICQ.

Hi Arika an Newbreed.

Can the resident experts make some predictions?

I'm gonna have to revoke your gossiping pass bro, sorry :( :winkwink:

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Sorry the morality of my post was not the divorce part, shit happens , and I for one understand that (being divorced before myself). However there are better ways to treat people. For example, leaving your husband, finishing the divorce before going on with other people, that is the nice way to do things. Now I can see a bitter divorce between the two which will consume more of her time and probably provide more of a strain on the site. Those are my points. I just hope both parties can come to an understanding without fucking the little guy (in this case the webmasters). I do not promote Arika at all so I am just an opinion, pure and simple. I am just a programmer voicing his opinion.

I very much enjoy my weekend, non the less I want to know who is that "other guy"....not because I care, I couldn't give 2 shits about him, I'm just curious....

Right cause I was being dead serious :disgust

i don't eat pork lol

Yes, thank you. Sorry things had kind of been put on hold with getting you the content needed. I will hit you up this coming week.

reading some of the posts in this thread, i think GFY may become the "Morality Board"

who bangs who, doesnt concern me at all...will the affiliates get paid and will the site remain online, would be appropriate for discussion..

so we have one party saying the site is $600 away from bankruptcy and the other says everyone will be paid. i'm curious to see what comes true.

i wish you both the best. you're both cool kids and people have their differences. its none of my business, but good luck through the transition.

Are you an affiliate of hers?

In essence, you said that she should disclose her personal life because it is effecting affiliates.

If you have big plans tonight, I would doubt you would care so much about what she is doing tonight. I know I don't.

I totally agree.

I may run a filter against the board and only read your post today.

Ok next question, when can we get some fansigns?

I was told a few days ago there was around $600.00 in the account. I don't really know, I have been locked out of it. I think she may have another check or two to deposit, which may bring it up to cover the payouts and expenses. I am only posting this because I am willing to admit that I do not know exactly what is in there, I was only going off of what I have been told, and preparing for the worst.

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I have already shot a few that I had people asking for, have just been waiting to make sure everything is good with the site before sending them out. But I will start a fansign thread at some point soon.

if you eat white girls you do...

well said :thumbsup

damn second page already

sucks being hurt doesn't it? try not doing it to others....

Exactly. Affiliates and expenses are getting paid as I said in my first post.

big plans? hmmm doesn't really matter what sizes are my plans....anyway they did bring it to the boards, therfor now I'm interested, if this shit didn't get her in the first place I wouldn't even know in a million years....

she SHOULD do nothing....again as I said im just interested, and yes I'm an affiliate....

anyway right about now i dont give a fuck who hits what...im done with this drama...bye bye.