You're sick ..sick man .. :Oh crap

Nope, better ways of punishing her than smacking her and having her press charges.

But the woman who said that if she hit a man she would be expecting to be hit back is smart, the person who said that you had to do something to deserve being smacked in the first place seems to me not to have much experience with dating younger women, that throught process is far to logical and women are never 100% logical.

So if hitting a woman makes you less than a man, does hitting a man make you less than a woman? Besides, no marks if you shake her......

ill smack a hoe regardless of if its a reciprocal smack or not

me and my gf don't get physical everytime we will have a fight. she would just do all the nagging.

what if it was an old lady whos daughter and grandaughter you just freaked on top of a table in the middle of a packed resturant?

:1orglaugh

Hmm... I like how some guys feel like the just "can't hit a woman" because they were just "raised that way"... Too bad my bf doesn't feel that way...

I talked about this with my bf and he doesn't believe in all that, he said "why is it always about the woman? Why can't it be about the guy? Who do women always think they can get away with stuff because they were opressed for hundreds of years? It should be equal."

Well, that's his viewpoint, not mine. I never hit my bf put I've yelled at him and pull him back during our intense fights, he never hit me hard, but my bf has the view point that it's "ok to slap some sense into a woman" at certain times, but rest assured I'm not some poor battered woman or anything. He doesn't mean hit as in knock them out, but just lightly slap a bit of sense into "them"... lol

Probably not the healthiest relationship but you can't have it all in a relationship. Some men proclaim they would "NEVER" hit a woman, but then they have other faults such as they cheat, or flirt with other women.

Basically no one is perfect, if it's not one flaw it's the other. I wouldn't be happy with a guy who is perfectly gentlemanly and never cusses at me and gets physical with during fights but cheats... So basically I think it's really difficult to find a man who is perfect, so I accept his flaws.

I never hit him, but I've yelled at him and tried to get attention by pulling him towards me because I wasn't done explaining something... And he has slapped me lightly before in the face too because of that, but it's not anything I'm gonna cry about. It also doesn't happen often.

I just walk out of the house now....

Before I would punch holes in the wall if she ever did something like that....

I broke my hand one day popping 2 holes in my office wall.. Never again..

But I've never hit my bf first, he thinks it's enough reason to push me or something of the sort if I just touch him during our fights, like if he says "leave me alone, don't touch me" and I keep doing it (because I'm a glutton for punishment) he'll react by pushing me hard or something like that.

I have never hit him first because I'm not a violent person, I admit I may be a whiny and bitchy person at times but I'm violent physically. My bf is more hot tempered though and he doesn't believe women should get special treatment "just because they are women".

Also I think it has a lot to do with how a guy grew up and what their parents relationship was like. For example, my ex parents were not violent with each other (as far as I know) and he's real close to his mother and was kind of pampered growing up, and he never hit me or called me names during our fights... I think his upbringing has a lot to do with it. But he DOES have other flaws like lying and a ton of other stuff...

The guy I'm with now grew up in a dysfunctional home his parents were violent, his mom and dad used to throw knives at each other (I heard) and his dad kicked down the door and I think punched the mother in the head till she bled, so perhaps that's why my bf has the views that he does.

I think upbringing has A LOT to do with it.

pussies.. ofcourse i would.

If she has all the reason to do it then there's no need to hit her back.

And you don't think your BF will eventually be as violent as his father was and eventually start battering you?

And you actually LIKE the fact that he pushes you around a bit and slaps u during fights?

:helpme

If she hits you grab her across your knees and Spank her like the little brat she is.

That'll Learn Her

Some woman like to be hit... or at least restrained... it makes for exciting foreplay

.... am I right phogirl69?

I know one of my ex's did.... she would start bothering me and buggin me to get a reaction to the point I would have to restrain her..... then we would fuck like crazy....

..weird..... I adored that girl though... probably the most passionate relationship of my life.

Never...but I would tell her " No sex tonight " ;)

well i aint gonna let her beat the shit out of me, id probly try and restrain her but if that failed....

Evan

Oh, i see a lot of gentlemen here!Of course, better to treat everybody with respect, men or women.

No, not really. He's not violent, just hot tempered, but our fights NEVER got that bad like his parents and we've been living together for over a year already.

Of course I don't like it. I am just saying all people have different viewpoints. There are guys that have that chivalrous attitude like they want to protect women and could never hit them for whatever reason, and then I guess there are ones that think women don't deserve special treatment.

I don't expect to be treated with special treatment to be honest. I don't need someone to open my doors for me and I don't need anyone to pay for me when we go out our anything, I'm the super duper independent type.

My point was that upbringing does have a lot to do with it, but you can't just not go out with someone just because they had a bad upbringing, it's not their fault they grew up like that. Plus I think his mom hit his dad too, so it goes both ways.

I was always the timid type, I'm not the violent type at all, so I would never hit my bf, I just like to talk a lot, or talk back, argue, debate back and forth, whatever you wanna call it.

Are you hitting on me? Is that an invitation? :upsidedow

Are you kidding me?

i would never , ever lay a hand on my girlfriend no matter what..


HOWEVER, if i'm out.. and some girl i don't know starts throwing fists.... you better believe shes going to take one back.

if they wan't to fight like a man, and throw punches like a man..... get ready to take a beating like a man..

because regardless if they are "girls" ... a closed fist to the side of the head still hurts, and you have to defend yourself.

too many girls like to act hardcore like that when they are out because they think "i'm a girl.. noone will hit me back so i can act like a tough bitch"



may take some flaming for this, but it's just my opinion...

please don't think i'm a woman beater, but i don't think girls should get a free pass to walk around a punch/kick whoever they wan't.

I respect that, I would have done the same..... nonetheless I would have found the "real" bully in stead of just picking the best looking guy :winkwink:

Easy for you to say, you're like 8 feet tall.

Absolutely.
I would not use much force but I would scare her.

No, I wouldn't do it. I may throw stuff (not at anyone), hit a door/wall, walk away, throw them out (depending on the situation), but never retaliate with violence.

Phogirl, if you "accept" the flaws you mention then how come you're so defensive about it - saying it's not very often, not that hard, you probably provoked the situation, etc. Sounds to me like you're putting up with it and trying to justify something that's just wrong.

Consensual bedroom play is just that -- "consensual" and "play". It's not violence.




A real man would never hit a woman in an act of violence. Real men block and/or restrain. Period. :warning

that's classic

I'd smack a few exs though.... god some of those bitches deserves!

Well okay then,

A real woman does not take off her clothing for money. Period.

wow, i can insult too!

You're making it sound like i think beating the shit out of girls is okay.. That's NOT what i'm saying.

That can't seriously be your arguement! :laughing-


Domestic violense is a felony in most states. Assault is also an arrestable offense. What I do is a legal job, I'm licensed by the county and state, and I pay taxes. VERY different!

Well how old fashioned is that bullshit?

whos talking about assault and domestic violence? i'm talking about self defense

i have seen some HUGE bitches, who can throw a mean punch...

if some guy wants to be a "real man" and get their entire grill punched down their throat.. have fun... if it was me, i would be pulling some crouching tiger hidden dragon monkey kung fu shit

waaaaataaahhhh!!!!!!!!!

... but that's just me :1orglaugh

BTW, here is a picture of me getting ready beat up little girls and elderly women outside the mall

http://www.shaolinchowka.com/shaolin...and/pose/1.jpg

smack the stupid hahahaha in the fucking face

No and I never will, I promised her.

you promised who?

r2d2 ?