Oh, honey...dunno where ya been livin in OC...but I'd like to find a guy that is actually good at ANY of those things, other than "lifting heavy things"....cuz I have yet to meet any here in LA County that does any of that stuff! Hook me up! lol!!

Fixing Cars - I have the "honda from hell" and I know her intimately...she still runs because its me that turns the wrenches when need be....my fully stocked tool box will attest to that.

Opening Doors - Ya mean chivelry ISNT dead in OC??

Opening Jars - Bash it with a butterknife, run it under some hot water...guarantee ya the bitch will open.

Free Food - Taco Bell or Jack in the Box does not constitute real food! lol!

Dont get me wrong here, guys...cuz I'm faaar from man-bashing! I know that there are some out there that are actually "keepers"...I just have yet to find one! So, in the meantime, I've had to learn to be totally independant and self-sufficient....but it gives me character, and makes me totally unique! I'm like nobody ya have ever met! :cool-as-a

No doubt. :1orglaugh

you just pipe down, sly....
and btw...you followin me or somethin?? roflmao!!

I've been known to stalk, just ask Cheshire!

you too, huh??

Rule #1
Smell like fucken fresh soap or laundry
Rule #2
Ask for anal

Rule #3

Always cum in her mouth

18 year old opinions don't count.

Women who are 23+ know what they want and take what they want.

Haaaaaa.... I just turned 24 on May 3. There's nothing that annoys me more than people who ASSUME things about otheres...and wrongly too, might I add.

My best friend is turning 25, and she would NEVER hit on a guy either. She doesn't even talk to them when they talk to her....just like me... So what does age have to do with anything?

big penis...

indeed..women love the Big Floppy Donkey Dick

[quote]My best friend is turning 25, and she would NEVER hit on a guy either. She doesn't even talk to them when they talk to her....just like me... [quote]

I wonder how you got into webmastering....

If a woman fancies you she'll let you know - stuff all this going over and talking to them - there's more important things to do when you're on a night out - like drinking!
If she doesn't come over or 'bump' into you - she's obviously not that interested.

The age thing is actually quite relevant too - most lasses under the age of 25 don't usually have the confidence to approach a stranger.

So for a lass to come over to you - you must
a) not look desperate - chatting to a few other lasses that you know will ensure you don't come accross as a billy-no-mates psycho and give her a chance to chat to one of them in the toilets to find out your situation.

b)wear clothes you like and feel comfortable in - it shows who you are - lots of designer labels does not maketh the man - if you like a big woolly sweater and feel comfortable in it then wear it.

c)do not hold on to the scenery - you are meant to be fun, confident and considerate - not a combination that's acheivable when hanging drunk.

d)do not stand in a huddle with all your mates around you - it's intimidating

After that - the washing, intelligence, witty repartee, not staring at her tits etc come in to play in varying degrees depending on how mush alcohol she's consumed.
:winkwink:

but if you don't stare at her tits how does she know you're interested in her? :)

*yawn* If thats the case you and your friend sound like losers. I hope you're talking about slimy guys with bad pickup lines - to just ignore your average guy striking up a conversation is sad and pathetic.

Good lord, I can write a book of what I've learned here :winkwink:

Some women are cruel :(


I guess she won't be working at Hooters any time soon either... :p

:321GFY

:) - I don't know if it was an understandable and throwaway line of hers about slimy pickup line guys or whether she really meant anyone not totally "tall dark and handsome" would be ignored.. if it's the latter then yeah thats cruel.. but not so bad.. as if you could bring yourself to want to be with someone capable of ignoring a guy trying to chat.. I'd feel more sorry for her than any guys getting the silent treatment.. but im sure thats not the case and im just reacting to a silly statement.. apologies to phogirl if she was just fucking around or whatever.

I don't know.. I guess i like my sociopaths to follow the usual hermit protcol.. theres something about going out to a place designed to meet people only to ignore them that irks me.
don't get me wrong I don't like "people" either.. :) but common decency and courtesy aren't exactly painful.

I've read this thread and found myself laughing on many occassions and nodding my head a few times to...

I think that certain people are destined to well in those social club/meat market/frat party type atmospheres...I usually find that the trandiest...somewhat superficial...top 40 types do real well there. Not that those people aren't real...they're human like the rest of us...

I honestly had the best of luck when I was out to have a good time...I never went out to get laid...I never assumed that predatory role...I went out to have a good time.

And everytime I was having a great time...laughing my ass off, making people laugh, I'd start to notice a few girls near me with this dear in the headlights type of look...

I think must girls (that you'll pick up at a party, or club, etc) just wanna find a guy that's fun to be around and knows how to have a good time...

And if you can dance and have half a fuckin glass of rythm then you're in...dancing is group sex in public with your clothes on.

my worst nightmare -- hehe

[QUOTE]Originally posted by zip
[quote]My best friend is turning 25, and she would NEVER hit on a guy either. She doesn't even talk to them when they talk to her....just like me...

Quote:

I wonder how you got into webmastering....

WTF does webmastering have to do with anything? If you MUST know, I got my start clicking a link called "webmasters" on a paysite somewhere (don't remember which one) and it started from there.

Just because I sell porn does not mean I have to be super friendly to guys, be flirty, or even LIKE guys or even LIKE sex for that matter. Sex is nothing but a COMMODITY to me. I know how to sell it on-line and make money. It's a good way to make money without working for someone else. I would kill myself if I had to wake up every morning and go somewhere.

As for me being a bit unfriendly.....I admit it, I don't have the best attitude and I can be cruel to men a lot..... But I guess I exaggerated a bit, maybe I would give a few responses but if an ugly dude talked to me, (mainly for safety reasons ; I don't want to anger a psychopath and have him kill me or something, but most likely I wouldn't be interested in him anyways.

But if we are losers, why do we get hit on all the time? I think the GUYS who hit on us are loosers. Gee, I wasn't the one who was turned down.

Hmm, fasinating arguement.
So if you look halfway decent you are automatically not a loser? Keep thinking that phogirl69, keep thinking that.
:thumbsup

I'll show interest by making eye contact, and if he's interested he'll show it. Then it's just a matter of initiating conversation. But I'm not much on pick up scenes, I find they're full of trolling guys, and girls with more attitude than personality (you know the type; they think guys are losers for approaching them, and they think guys are losers if they don't approach them).

My male friends used to be convinced that having me out with them helped them pick up chicks.

They felt that girls were more likely to approach them if they were in the company of an attractive female themselves...they were not sure why. It is either because girls feel safer talking to guys who have girls around them...OR they are catty and think that they are trying to steal someone's b/f away. Which is it?

Muffy

Women approaching guys? I met my girlfriend that way, good thing she did.. Lots of guys sit back and just wait for that shit to happen, but remember.. To women being approached makes them feel sexy, lots believe it's the male's role to approach the woman, just like cutting the grass, or telling them you're sorry, or that she's right, or that her spaghetti really wasn't THAT bad.

But the topic of the thread is why do GIRLS HIT ON GUYS?

WE ALREADY KNOW WHY GUYS HIT ON GIRLS... we are just shopping for a nicely cut, lean piece of meat so we can take it home and butter it up, let that simmer -- then just grab it with your hands, take a whiff, then chomp away and let the juices drip down your chin... Mmmmm! LUNCH TIME!

Being a musician...after a good show girls always come up to you...this is the best one ive found..The girls that hit on you for having cash dont give you as much of themselves as they do when they are fucking you because they think other girls want you...its a competitive deal...Nothing works better than girls seeing you with hotter girls than they are.

typical bitches :BangBang:

seriously..... you guys are sorry! All you have to do is ignore them and belittle them and they will be on your jock like flies on shit. ya ya... some girls arent like this but the majority are. If you pay too much attn to them they are over it. Girls like a challenge, not a sorry ass kisser. Trust.

This is a good text link! Can I use it? :eek2

'nuff said....:1orglaugh

being a musician doesnt necessarily mean that you have to have money, fame, or sometimes even great looks {not directed at anyone...just stating a fact}, and the girls still throw themselves at you!

being a musician often gives the girls the ideal fantasty that you are, somehow, a divine god that has been presented to them, just FOR them, when you are up there on stage under those hot and colorful lights...pouring out your heart thru your music.

being a musician is all it takes, for some dudes...ya'll should consider yourselves lucky! :winkwink:

and how would I know such a thing?? siiiigh, well, I guess ya could say that I used to be a groupie...lol!

quite right, in one respect...we DO like a challenge.

but any guy belittles me, thinking thats the way to win my affection, is risking not only a serious ass kicking, but quite the battle of the wits...which he will lose!

:helpme

your right, if i really like a girl... i wont belittle her. Thats not cool. But some of the unwitty girls I come across, are just asking for it.

ahhh, I knew there was a decent dude in there somewhere...lol!

and, yep, gotta agree, some just DO ask for it....would like to bitchslap them myself! :1orglaugh

Ok...I simply MUST KNOW WHY girls like to be treated like shit. I'm a decent guy at heart and the girl I'm currently mixed up with, I have to act like I don't give a damn about her or what she does...I cannot be good to her (very little, if at all) becuase the second I start to show that I care about her, she bolts. WHY?!

second question..WTF do I do about her?

cuz girls like a challenge. guys flock to women and they get to pick and choose. if a guy seems like hes not interested in a girl, that girl will feel like something is wrong with her and she wants to figure out what the fuck he doesnt see in her..... (game)

I hear ya RMG, sucks doesnt it? Its easy to get girls when you dont pay attn to them. reason is, you really dont like them so you dont show affection or anything. Then you get what you really didnt want but you will take it. On the other hand... you've got a girl that you really like and find it impossible to be a dick to her cuz you adore her and want to be a nice guy. Now, your wondering if your actually going to end up with this chick cuz you dont want to be tooo nice and lose her to some other asshole.

fuck... :helpme

oy vay.....ya'll have really got it all wrong! siiigh!

us guys should stop hitting on girls and make them desparate enough so that they will come to US :D

that would be interesting.. a world where the men get to turn down, humiliate, break hearts of etc of women, like theyve got to do for so long :glugglug

Im calling that on the basis of conversation, an advantage your average guy can't have by superficially looking at someone from across the room.. im reluctant to offend anyone.. and i don't really mean to take potshots at you, but I can't help it, it just sounded so cold to brush someone off like that.. im all for brushing guys off, but not with silence.. some of my galpals pretend they're lesbians and whatnot when they're out for fun and they get hit on.. or at least make idle chat to as you say to make sure they're not going to stalk and kill you for ignoring them.

I had this mental image of your average guy turning to you at the bar and asking how your night is going or whatever, and you just look at him and then turn your head away without saying a word... I realise thats an exaggeration based on your more flippant first remark, but thats what made me have a go at you.
If thats not you, then disregard any and all of my comments.

I don't go to these places for much the same reason (:)) cheshire stated, as well as having already found a partner making these horrible scenes redundant.. give me a good red, a nice resturant and my gal :)
I couldn't think of anything worse than clubbing.. but thats just me.