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Dildozer 07-04-2006 11:44 AM

It's called performance anxiety and it's very common these days.

Personally i've had it happen not long ago, 2 times the 2 times i was with a girl. Seems I would put too much pressure on myself instead of enjoying the moment. Then this girl I'm totally in love with came into my life and I had it only once since (first days) and we've been fucking like bunnies for the past month.

tical 07-04-2006 11:47 AM

performance anxiety! i suppose it all depends on what you're looking to achieve. busting a quick nut, no prob... but when the goal is to make sure she likes it is where the problem can creep in

could also be poor blood flow, condoms (the lube makes me sort of numb), low testosterone levels or something else along those lines

tical 07-04-2006 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dildozer
It's called performance anxiety and it's very common these days.

Personally i've had it happen not long ago, 2 times the 2 times i was with a girl. Seems I would put too much pressure on myself instead of enjoying the moment. Then this girl I'm totally in love with came into my life and I had it only once since (first days) and we've been fucking like bunnies for the past month.

haha woah

ultimatebbwdotcom 07-04-2006 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MickeyG
don't jerk off so often :1orglaugh

Not as silly as you might think lol - I read something about this on Mens health - guy with the same problem.

It wasn't like he was jerking off tons or anything but he had got used to his own touch.

Anyway, the girl couldn't replicate it 100% by hand and it got even worse when he was having sex with her, stayed for a while then got limp - she just didnt feel as good.

So the advice was to "don't touch your cock at all for a week and you'll be fine"

Could be worth a try.

slapass 07-04-2006 12:24 PM

get some viagra or cialis. once the pressure is off you will be fine. I had an icnident where the same thing happened. Too much booze. i was freaked for months after. Got over it once I forgot aobut it.

CIVMatt 07-04-2006 12:26 PM

Stress?

Go have you testostrone levels checked at the DR, they might be a little low, and then get on some Celais...

s9ann0 07-04-2006 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BT
Take some viagra and drink a few beers then go find you a heffer


hahaahahahahahahah

wdsguy 07-04-2006 12:53 PM

could it be you're gay?

madawgz 07-04-2006 03:43 PM

bdjuf what about that girl that was with you when we went to the casino?

she was fucking hot :thumbsup

Doctor Dre 07-04-2006 03:46 PM

You should go see a Doc dude ;) It's free here so why not take advantage ;0

polish_aristocrat 07-04-2006 03:47 PM

50............

NoCarrier 07-04-2006 03:47 PM

Stop sleeping with trannies.. Maybe you feel the competition is too hard for you (no pun intended).

E$_manager 07-04-2006 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bdjuf
its been happening lately...

I can get it up just fine, but for some reason it just dies out on me after a while, and then I have a very hard time getting it up again.

what does that mean? if I am easily able to get it up at first but then have a hard time controlling it?

and it doesnt ALWAYS happen, alot of times I can go on for a while...

it's embarrassing when I am forced to stop fucking and start eating her out instead hoping of getting it up again!

what do you guys think is wrong with me? seriously

oh, and I'm 20 years old, no smoking, no drugs, rarely alcohol

i can hear from many ppl in this business about the problem. This is some subconsciousness thing

polish_aristocrat 07-04-2006 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat
50............

pointless post, i know, i was hoping to beat woj though

maxjohan 07-04-2006 04:22 PM

Groan like a hulk when you fuck her.
Talk dirty to her and tell her to say things... like:

PLz FuCk Me Bdjuf (while you tease her with your cock)

Tell her you are going
to fuck her like mad etc etc.

Still have a problem after all this then you
go visit a doctor and get a new girl.

NoCarrier 07-04-2006 04:23 PM

His sex life is over for the next couple of years. All the girls are going to talk about bdjuf's Mr. Limpy. Especially in the clubs where he's going out.. etc..

He needs to start over in a new city if he wants to gain back is mojo.

E$_manager 07-04-2006 04:34 PM

did you mean age?

Serge Litehead 07-04-2006 04:47 PM

do lots cardio, cold shower, eat sour cream, nuts, mango other healthy stuff.
exercise, lay off sex and jerking for a while till you get real hungry. most likely its a psycholgical glitch, you need lots of different phisical activity for your mind be able to "forget" (unwind) it. see the doc just in case. taking viagra and such at 20 y.o. is a bad idea generally, it's a short term solution which will not fix the roots of the problem and may cause dependancy in future.

E$_manager 07-04-2006 04:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cristie
did you mean age?

POlish? :winkwink:

MysteryWizard 11-26-2008 04:49 PM

this story is getting a HUGE amount of media coverage:

http://www.prweb.com/releases/prosta...web1665994.htm

WallaceW 11-26-2008 05:18 PM

Try Extenze and see if it can help you. You need to boost your self-confidence...


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