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11-29-2006 11:58 AM |
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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
(Post 11415120)
just doesn't make sense in this day and age. sure, its an honor but most people only enter into it because they have little other options. i know it wouldn't be first pick for my daughter or son. i rather them go to school, enjoy being young as it doesn't last long and work towards a career, or do whatever makes them happy. if thats joining the service, then so be it but if it weren't tradition in her family im sure vendzillas daughter would not of joined.
and i have to disagree that religious people give good advice, maybe they do to other religious people but in cases with every one else telling someone god loves them and has a plan for them isn't going to do much. i suppose they could give advice without the sermon but those of religious authority rarely do. though i do agree its 'safer'.
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My son joined after going to college. He honestly wanted a career in the military and when offered a TDY to Quatar, was begging to get it. Granted, that's not Iraq, but still. We have SOME military history but not much. My Dad's father was a career Navy man (then retired and made a fortune working for the TVA) and my Dad spent 2 years as an officer in the USAF in order to fulfill his ROTC requirements from college - that's it. There are a LOT of jobs out there for prior military where they wouldn't even consider a civilian. If you have a high security clearance, you can almost write your own paycheck. On the flip side, the military is offering bonuses to compete with these civilian job offers. There are some that have over $100K signing bonuses. My son saw the USAF as a career opportunity he wanted to pursue. Hell, he loved basic so much I thought he was lying when he made his first phone call and someone had a gun to his head saying "Tell your mother you really like it here!!" :)
Yes, there are people who really wished they didn't join the military after they get in. But my sister just left her job at IBM because she didn't like it - it doesn't mean it was a bad job - just not a good fit.
As far as the Chaplain, at least on the USAF bases, they cater to most every religion imaginable. Even Wiccans have their own services they can attend. Chaplains know this and I see them more as "safe" sounding boards rather than religious advice. My son was homesick and grieving over the breakup with his girlfriend. Really ANYONE could have talked to him about it, but not EVERYONE is available 24/7 - the chaplain is.
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