250 jackasses that ask their wife to fuck other guys then bitch about the repercussions.........

As The Stomach Turns:2 cents:

shit, I'll host it for you...

Donny, your birthday really isn't till tomorrow night.

This thread has crossed the line. Donny you talk about Mark being unrespectfull to his wife. You DO realize that YOU where the one who threatened to write an "open" article about this, do you? It is YOU who forced everyone into this situation. It is YOU who asked him to bang your wife, the day YOU stopped loving and respecting her. Don't talk about respect and love towards your partner if you asked another guy to bang her! :2 cents: After YOU did that and lost your wife YOU are the one who was gonna use the media (yes internet IS media) to put this all in public.

IMHO YOU are the one without respect for your ex, Mark and his wife.

Now go to church and confess till you drop :2 cents:

Jesus suffered for our sins...

... you go and take everyone down with you ...


You're going to hell :2 cents:

this thread makes the baby jesus cry...

http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/bpd.cfm

Borderline Personality Disorder

Symptoms

While a person with depression or bipolar disorder typically endures the same mood for weeks, a person with BPD may experience intense bouts of anger, depression, and anxiety that may last only hours, or at most a day.5 These may be associated with episodes of impulsive aggression, self-injury, and drug or alcohol abuse. Distortions in cognition and sense of self can lead to frequent changes in long-term goals, career plans, jobs, friendships, gender identity, and values. Sometimes people with BPD view themselves as fundamentally bad, or unworthy. They may feel unfairly misunderstood or mistreated, bored, empty, and have little idea who they are. Such symptoms are most acute when people with BPD feel isolated and lacking in social support, and may result in frantic efforts to avoid being alone.

People with BPD often have highly unstable patterns of social relationships. While they can develop intense but stormy attachments, their attitudes towards family, friends, and loved ones may suddenly shift from idealization (great admiration and love) to devaluation (intense anger and dislike).Thus, they may form an immediate attachment and idealize the other person, but when a slight separation or conflict occurs, they switch unexpectedly to the other extreme and angrily accuse the other person of not caring for them at all. Even with family members, individuals with BPD are highly sensitive to rejection, reacting with anger and distress to such mild separations as a vacation, a business trip, or a sudden change in plans. These fears of abandonment seem to be related to difficulties feeling emotionally connected to important persons when they are physically absent, leaving the individual with BPD feeling lost and perhaps worthless. Suicide threats and attempts may occur along with anger at perceived abandonment and disappointments.

People with BPD exhibit other impulsive behaviors, such as excessive spending, binge eating and risky sex. BPD often occurs together with other psychiatric problems, particularly bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, and other personality disorders.

BPD individuals are also a high risk for violence and commonly make up the population of stalkers, along with NPDs.

It is no fun knowing someone like this or being in a friendship or relationship with them and some of them stalk for years on end. This is some scary ass shit.

I ain't trying to play pop psychologist here, but this whole thread gives me the creeps. Somebody here needs some help. :Oh crap

Donny,

I don't know you - only from this board.. After I saw the posts awhile back about you leaving adult, turning religious, etc I thought cool, np but then I saw you still posting and all that and I thought that was wierd.

But I never kick a person usually when there down. When I was younger from jr. high, high school, the army, etc I went through tons and tons and tons of girl friends, steady beddies, etc.

Some broke up with me, others I broke up with. I got hurt a few times just as I imagine many of us have gone through, very normal in life.

If it's over as others have said, move on, drive on and worry about getting Donnie straight...

I would never bring personal drama to an industry board or mix with biz but I know when ppl are hurting - crazy shit can happen..

Drive on, there is always greener grass down the road.

peace

Todd

peeps all love teh drama...

This thread is crazy. Merry fucking christmas. You have a whore living under your roof. When she starts hooking, i will laugh my ass off.

oh, and Donny, happy birthday and have a merry xmas :upsidedow

I guess this bears repeating, Donny get some help.............

http://www.uncrate.com/men/images/amores-perros.jpg
"love is bitch", did i get that right?

It does show the unique board dynamic here though. Does anyone remember when Arika left her husband for another man? This board called her every dirty name in the book, called the guy every name in the book, and basically went on full scale assault. Change the characters around a little and you get a whole new result.

Not taking a side, just thought it was interesting.

what the fuck, I crash for a couple of hours and your still at it?

you said 3 hours ago that you where leaving, gone, notta... ??
then reading the last 3 pages I knew you where a dickhead and you only became even more of a christian dickhead...

you have the title to the house - fine, evict her
you want to try to destroy peoples lives or cause more pain for the situation - well - I think all you did was alienate yourself and the few friends you had :2 cents:

i'm amazed but not at your lack of being an adult much less a person of religion

i recommend that you immediately check your ass into a mental hospital for the good of yourself only, people on GFY are becoming less and less interested in your hypocritial bullshit and whats worse your vindictive attitude towards people that you used to call your friends...

you are in no sense of the word what anyone should consider a friend

I am in no way a friend to anyone who decides it's a good idea to party with my (ex) girlfriend and plan to have sex with her on my birthday. I lost nothing here.

Um... as of 3 hours ago it's the 23rd, which is my b-day.

do this - 10 steps to sanity

1. delete your account on gfy
2. research the closest mental hospital
3. print directions
4. shut down computer
5. pack a few cloths your tooth brush and personal shit
6. go to your car
7. drive to mental hospital
8. check yourself in
9. stay a while
10. get better

the way I always see birthdays is "after" you go to sleep when you wake up on the 23rd that night not morning is the important part!

*Its my birthday and I can cry if I want to*

I don't think he needs that. He's heartbroken, we've all been there. Some just handle it different than others. My 10 steps would include:

1. Calling over friends
2. Drinking lots of beer
3. Going to sleaziest strip club
4. Watching slutty strippers jiggle about.
5. Guilt trip friends into buying you lap dances and whatever else.
6. Drink more.
7. Go home.
8. Puke
9. Pass out
10. Wake up next morning with a hangover so bad that you don't even remember who your ex was.

donny, are there some christian forums that you belong to ?

how about we start posting this gfy thread and show all of your christian buddies just how good of a christian you are - I am sure they already will side with you but just for kicks - what are the forums that you read and post in besides GFY?

I don't think the Christian stuff he is into is really about the person, it's more about $$$$$. :2 cents:

that might work as well but he claims to be a man of religion now
if I had to put my money on things in the future, I would guess that he comes out of the closet pretty soon like Haggard guy - after all he did have some type of thing to watch his girl get pounded by another dick

http://thebosh.com/archives/upload/2...ed-haggard.jpg

yup, that should work.

Shit, this explains why Sleazy keeps on shitting on about letting Belinda move in. He thinks she'll bang him :1orglaugh

Donny, I don't know you from a bar of soap, but as others have suggested - go see a mate/someone close and nut it out with them. Telling us all here is only going to cause bigger problems.

still it would be funny to flood the forums that he watches and participates in - just to see their reaction to this post in particular :1orglaugh

edited......

what your gay?

Wow, this is the single most pathetic thing I have ever read.

You seriously need to re read this and have a good long hard look at yourself. :2 cents:

I really don't care if people here think I've gone crazy or not. Seriously.

Belinda showed the ultimate lack of respect tonight. After all that has happened since August 2005 this tops the cake. Here's the thing: I started talking to her about this early this morning but it didn't make any difference.

If she wanted to start something new with someone else, fine. But why choose to go screw Spannow, who is at the heart of all of this, on my birthday? That's just the ultimate slap in the face.

Yeah, I look nutty in this thread. So what? Really, so what. Do you think I really care what all of you think after this has happened? Seriously now. None of you can do a thing to me that hasn't already been done.

so you don't answer my question - what forums do you post in?

I would love to blanket them with your hypocrtical posts trying to hurt people and damage things that are of your own doing

you are gay - aren't you :1orglaugh

one more question?

are you trying to damage spannow's reputation or get him fired from playboy? is that the purpose of this - I think your very mistaken if you think that could be a result

wow....thats all i can say

Boo Hoo, she's your ex. Get over it.

You are a bitter little man and becoming a Christian obviously hasn't helped you one bit. Nice way to celebrate Christmas as a Christian, posting on an adult webmaster forum and trying to hurt the people you claim to love.

You are one sick pathetic fat fuck :2 cents:

1. You showed the ultimate lack of respect for your relationship with her and for her as a person when you asked another guy to bang her :2 cents:

2. You my friend. You are the starter of all this. First by posing the question to Mark last year in the first place, secondly by threatening to put this all in the open, wich Mark did before you could.

You MADE this situation yourself. It started a long time ago to please your sexual needs and it continues now, again, by yourself.

Think about it and maybe you'll find a spot that knows you are wrong about this whole thing. Accept that and live with it and you have a good chanse this will all be over sooner then you expect and you can start feeling good again and live on.

WOW. Nobody gives a flying fuck what the three of you douchebags are talking about. And please, is you were even half a man you would have beaten the shit out of this Donny faggot. You're both homos. The end. Go kill yourselves you attention seeking pricks. :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY :321GFY

I just dont get why people give this fat clown so much attention.
Fuck this "holier-than-thou" attention-whore....

LOL this thread makes my eyes water

you can say that again.

Playboy manager who doesn't attend Sunday School, doesn't belong to the magazine which is the moral standard for the rest of the world.

Donny,
I am on your side, and I have only one question:
will you reveal your homosexual expereince TODAY or will you waint for another year and do it on your 34th birthday?

There is no point in trying to give this man any sane or sound advice or even an offer to help pay for a doctor if he can't afford it on his own, which is what I was going to suggest, a showing of christian like brotherly love and offering this guy a few bucks so he can see a doctor -- anyhoo, it's all a worthless gesture because anything any of us evil porn people say he is going to reject it because of who we are, he has effectively "split" us into all bad all evil.

His church will be of no help. It wouldn't surprise me if they encourage this craziness. You think the religious right cares about families? Did Donny say he just called that guys wife who has children at home to tell her this stuff? They don't give a fuck about families, all they care about is their creepy political agendas and whatever serves that the best. See -- they are having a real image crisis now with Ted Faggard and all, and they need to destroy the lives and reputations and families of some dirty pornographers to make themselves look more holy.

Donny,
how did Belinda find out about your "experiments" with another man? Despite the popular believes, not every woman turned on by a thought of another man semen in her man's throat.

very christian of you.

From what I've read, it does seem like a lack of respect. When someone you've been with decides to start something with a friend of yours and someone you know, it's a real rough spot to be in. If the individual truly cared about you, they wouldn't want to hurt you like that. It does show the type of "friends" that you hung out with and I can understand your bitterness toward the profession. That is my :2 cents: on the matter.

But I think you're going about it the wrong way and deserving of some criticism. Your postings are out of revenge and spite. You are trying to hurt someone that you claim to love. She may have done a horrible thing to you, but you are dropping yourself down to that level by playing into this game.

You'll regret this some day. Not because you may have hurt someone, not because you may make an ass out of yourself, but because you'll feel that you were above all this as a human being. Seriously, take your lumps, be amicable, and move on with life. There is one thing I've learned about women in this world, don't hold grudges, don't act like a revengeful prick, because when all is said and done, they always come back to the guy who actually cared for them. :2 cents:

this thread is useless without any pics of proof.

I have proof, and Donny knows it, right, Donny? You don't have to scratch your head for long to guess from whom I know the story.

http://ashemedia.com/bangmygirl1.jpg

http://ashemedia.com/bangmygirl2.jpg

Did you miss the part where Donny himself ASKED his friend to bang her? Once that question was posed that was the beginning of the end. :2 cents:

It sounded like she was the one that wanted to and he let her do it to keep her. That should have been his first sign to jump overboard.