That so chews ass o-mighty! Guys get so screwed in situations like this. If it ain't too late and you're looking for a lawyer try Bill Handel's website at www.legalzoom.com or www.handelonthelaw.com

At least they'll let you know where you stand and your choices if any.

It sucks that justice in this country is based on how much money you have in direct contrast to what the founding father's wanted. This happens because lawyers make the rules and rule in their favor.

Dang! If you're black in the U.S. you're guilty automatically of everything from kidnapping the Lindbergh baby to shooting JR Ewing on the old Dallas tv show.

One of the oldest tricks in the book for criminals is to say "A black guy did it."

That has been used since the 1700s easy. It throws the cops off their trail long enough to get away. Black guys I know were getting arrested for making cereal soggy.

The U.S. is still full of stupid people and unfortunately many of them can be cops and prosecutors.

One day black men in the U.S. will get a grip and combine their resources into a powerful legal lobby where they're all covered for legal bills and can fight on fair ground. It shouldn't be that difficult if they have a mind to do it.

got pulled over and almost booked for DUI once when I was stone cold sober..... he said my eyes weren't telling him what he wanted to see....

I should have been more careful.. mouthed off to him a lot.. guess he could have hit me up with reckless driving instead.... let me go home though.

I have never been accused of a crime as such, but back in the late 60's I used to run a fund for paying the fines of people who got arrested at anti-Vietnam demonstrations. That made me really popular with the local police and it became truly astonishing how often I fit the description of someone they were looking for.

I recall being patted down outside a major chain store one Saturday morning and kept in the "spread 'em" position for 10 or 15 minutes, to the intense interest of everyone passing by. One evening I was stopped three times and got home to several police cars waiting outside, all with their lights flashing. All told, I spent several hours sitting in cells and interview rooms. Not a lot of fun.

A few years later I worked for some rather dubious gentlemen in south London, which apparently got me listed as an "associate of known criminals". That got me a couple more question and answer sessions...

I been accussed for bank robbery fortunatly nothing happened.

If I were you, I'd divorce her...If you've stuck by the kids for 11 years, then they're old enough to testify as to what is going on in the home...

Get out now with a divorce...I had a bipolar schizophrenic alcoholic wife...I wasn't going to let that bitch make me miserable for the rest of my life...I got out of the marriage for 7 years...I couldn't IMAGINE still being married to her.

Right on!

Dude you can divorce her and get custody if you prove her bipolar disability is a threat to the safety of the welfare and wellbeing of the children. That shouldn't be too difficult to do.

I've had pleasant daydreams about that.

crime doesn't pay.

Everything i ever got arrested for, i never did

The only time I have ever had a cop even know my name was when I skipped school *once* in the 11th grade and my mom thought I had been abducted and called the police. Good way of making sure I didn't do it again.

being accused of a crime you didn't do is such bullshit...in todays latest technology the authorities couldn't just pinpoint someone for something...

Tell THAT to big oil