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If kids came by and stole the tires and rims off your car two or three times would you jusy say.. "stupid kids I should have parked in the garage". Personally if I had that problem I'd just get a PO box to use for checks. |
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Sounds like these kids are just the type of scumbags that will be trying to enter our business in a couple of years. Hope somehow they reference this thread and say "oh shit!"
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Shit if I was 11-12yr old and stole someone's mail, someone's check! OMG
My mother and father would make sure I'd never forget what followed, they'd take turns giving me a good smack, get me grounded once for the stealing and once for making them look bad. Make me re-pay whatever damage I've caused and have me grounded again - probably no tv, no going out. The brats around here were vandalizing club houses, for which everyone in the home owner association paid for, and the president wrote in the bulletin that their parents were basically fucking losers for not controlling their kids. SOmeone wrote a letter to demand apology and that it hurts the kids' precious little feelings! If it were me I'd take 'em to the cleaners - they'll be repaying the stolen check with fucking interest |
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Also why should we care??? |
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You can tell you come from a former penal colony with an attitude like that. :2 cents: |
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They can't be with the child 24/7. You can ground your kids, but that doesn't prevent them from sneaking out. You an try to teach them right from wrong, and they end up hanging out with a bad crowd. One day my daughter was walking home from school, a kid ran past her, grabbed her musical instrument and him and a few friends stomped it to death a few doors away from our home. Police were called, they knew the kid, in trouble all of the time. His parents should be made to suffer right? Bought damn time they paid for thier kids actions....about damn time they started caring and acting like parents right? He actually had great parents. They lived in a beautiful home, had 3 kids, 2 of which you would classify as damn near perfect (one ended up as a lawyer, one is a dentist). Parents were always involved in their kids lives. They went to the baseball games, they made their kids do thier homework....but one turned out to be an ass. When he started being an idiot, they did the standard stuff, they grounded him, made him do extra chores...he would sneak out...threaten his parents. They put their son in therapy, they also went to family therapy...they tried everything including a summer of "tough love boot camp" that was recommended by the cops. Nothing worked. Last we heard he was in and out of jail, and on welfare. The thing is, you can't automatically blame the parents, the trouble is, given the same environment, some kids will grow up great, others end up bad seeds....genetics? peer pressure? Who the hell knows. |
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The fact that two turned out "perfect" and one an asshole tells me one of two things: 1) the asshole has mental issues that need to be dealt with NOW; or 2) the parents got lazy when it came to #3 because the first two turned out alright. |
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I feel ya, I have had people fuck with my mail in the past.:( In my case no one would do anything, I didn't get it myself but that's how it was. I was happy to move into a house where the mail box is by the door and not at the road and my "office" has two big windows where I can see the mail man. I hate to say it but that mail box was a deal breaker. LOL
Good luck with what ever you do. :) |
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mina, good luck with this. |
I can't believe people in this thread acting like it's her fault for having her mail stolen, or that this is just a boys-will-be-boys kind of thing.
I agree, it is not the total worse thing ever that they could have done. But most fuckin' heathens don't start off doing the worst thing ever. They do stupid shit, and no one makes them pay the price for making a dumbass choice. Then they work their way up to the worst thing ever. |
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Shit that fuckin sucks, hope you get them good
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I say, if the kids think they're smart enough to get away with it....
...and then brag about it to the next door neighbor.... they deserve any punishment that comes upon them the money the stole can be accounted for, and the parents can be sued if there is no other option for recourse if my kids stole something (err.. like that) I would make them pay it back and pro'lly pay it back myself right away first |
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I hate the phrase "boys will be boys"
childish behavior is one thing. check fraud is entirely different. |
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Same with this instance, the example in this thread. She may have had a cheque for $1200 and that kid may have either destroyed it or found some way to cash it. Either way it has to be paid back to her, and if the kid can't pay then it should fall to his parents to cover it. Even if they are asy you say "Great parents" I say tough shit.... someone has to compensate the victim, or should have to. I'm simply no longer accepting any excuses anyone here might be wanting to come up with. Not all parents are bad parents, granted... but that's really immaterial. Their wages should be garnisheed until the damage is covered. |
FILE A COMPLAINT!!! the DA will have to do any prosecuting.. BUT I WOULD do it for sure.. .and if i had any financial loss because of this - I WOULD recover those costs in CIVIL court.
And... theft of all kinds has to stqart somewhere. You will be doing them a favor in the long run to teach them the lesson now - its obvious their parents have failed in that regard. |
Hope they pay for it.
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i'd slap them upside the head with my boots if i knew who they were. nothing says "quit stealing my mail" like getting shithauled in alley...
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You wouldn't need a camera in the box... just someplace that shows who is tampering with it.. |
Catch the bastards on clear cctv.
Make copy and bring in to law enforcement, bug them until they take some action, even if it just is a few hundred hours community service. Bring them and thier parents into small claims with extra tape (name both children and parents since laws vary by state). Sue for any and all damages including cost of having to ad a cctv system. Yes I was also a kid I did a lot of stupid shit, and yes someone finally turned my ass in and that made a big change in my life. |
yeah put those little kids in jail for 10 years, that will teach them.............................................. ......................
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wow...i didn't know how many fags there are on this board!
Mail theft is a federal crime and all little fuckers who fuck around with your shit should be caned! Fuck everyone on here who says anything different! |
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you better make sure to have solid proof of them doing it before you do anything....
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BTW odds are they are also hitting other mail boxes.
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i used to funnel pots of coffee into canada post mailboxes with a friend of mine when we were like 12, had my mother not beat my ass for it who knows what may have come of it? lol
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they need to be punished by their parents. do not get the law involved.. simply take a few pics with a $40 motion sensor cam, give the pics to their parents and let them know that in all fairness, the pictures are proof of a Federal Offense... but you've decided to leave it up to them. Then shake the parents and kids hands and leave politely.
listen for the ass whooping from across town :) |
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I doubt that much will be done to these kids since they are only 11 and 14. You should still file a complaint and see what happens. It will probably scare the hell out of them and they will think twice about doing something that dumb. I doubt they know what a serious offense stealing mail is. |
find a dead animal and place it in your mailbox for a week with a note attached stating "you're next"... should keep the kiddos away...
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At 14 you understand enough. At 11 I'm not sure. The 11 year old was likely just following the lead of the older kid.
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