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Mr.Right - Banned For Life 01-04-2008 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 13604805)
hey Batts, sorry to hear you are moving on - you are correct, it is almost impossible these days for anybody to shoot their own content and run their own sites from a standing start. I should have told you this when we first began chatting but you seemed so optimistic and seemed to have more resources than most of the guys like you I talk to that I decided to let you give it a go. it's no embarassment that you didn't have the success you planned - very few, if any, would have done any better.

because of sonofsam and you, both whom i consider friends, i'm going to stop being so encouraging to newcomers and give them the facts to do with what they like. i fear you were an easy mark for people wanting to make some money off you.

best of luck with whatever your next endeavors are mate :thumbsup

Thanks Mutt, very well said and very true. Thanks for your time on ICQ in the past. You are one of the very small handful of honorable guys in the biz.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life 01-04-2008 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Tam (Post 13604912)
I am sorry you are going thru this Matt. I wish you only the very best in your future. It takes a very big person to admit defeat the way you have and I know full well where you are coming from. It wasn't so long ago that I had to go thru very similar things when my program got way too big for me and health issues arised from the stress and everything snowballed for me..... so I know probably better than most what you are going thru right now and I feel for you.

It takes very little to fail, but it takes A LOT to admit you failed..... kudos to you for being a REAL man, many could take notes from you. :)

Thanks Tam. I hope everything is going well for you now.:thumbsup

Mr.Right - Banned For Life 01-04-2008 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by budsbabes (Post 13604824)
well good luck. i hope you pay everyone out though. i sent you an email requesting payment.

I am not sure where you sent it to but i did not receive it.

If you could kindly send to batts @ battsworld.com that would be great

d-null 01-04-2008 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by StuartD (Post 13604933)
But I know all too well what it's like to have had a really bad 2007.

Best of luck in 2008 and everything you do after :thumbsup

Best of luck in 08 as well, things getting worse and worse spur us onto trying something completely different and that can sometimes be the best thing we do. Riding and relying on a sinking ship isn't a good way to live, and getting out before things get even worse can feel like a great relief.

duff 01-04-2008 08:00 AM

Good luck on your new ventures Batts.

scottybuzz 01-04-2008 08:03 AM

Batts, i was unkind in the other thread. however having seen the first post in this thread. I wish you luck in your future endevours. most people dissapear, but you stood up. right thing to do.

sweetums 01-04-2008 08:19 AM

Sometimes life kicks us in the ass...but, its how you handle those moments that really counts. You did right here, Batts - I truly wish you the very best and hope that '08 finds you on the upswing.

Basic_man 01-04-2008 08:21 AM

Batts, do you quit adult to go mainstream? ;)

teg0 01-04-2008 08:24 AM

good luck in the future

Penny24Seven 01-04-2008 08:28 AM

damn batts. You have given me lots of good tips last year. I see lots saying why not have someone else run the program and maybe there is more to it. Are you going to quit adult or just film. Any plans? Good luck man

Penny24Seven 01-04-2008 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by scottybuzz (Post 13605149)
Batts, i was unkind in the other thread. however having seen the first post in this thread. I wish you luck in your future endevours. most people dissapear, but you stood up. right thing to do.

That happens when you think you know everything. Glad you said sorry. Well almost :)

who 01-04-2008 08:41 AM

All the best Batts and good luck mate.

Elli 01-04-2008 11:59 AM

Your honesty and integrity really comes through in this thread, Batts. I wish you good luck with everything and I hope you enjoyed your time in the industry and found it valuable (if not as profitable as you'd hoped.)

AaronM 01-04-2008 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Bake (Post 13604505)
I would be a bit cautious if you intend buy this programe and it might be wise to ICQ me.


Might also be wise to use the same name on ICQ as you do on GFY.....But apparently not everybody does that. :disgust

Please hit me up. 130823758

pizzaid 01-04-2008 12:20 PM

Sorry it did'nt work out for you:sadcrying..Hit me up let me know what your selling..:pimp

Gordon G 01-04-2008 03:21 PM

wow, did not expect that.

good luck.

Vick! 01-04-2008 03:30 PM

hey Batts, ups and downs are the part of life. You are the man to face them .. work harder dude until you are over it.

Wish you very best of luck.

GAMEFINEST 01-04-2008 03:36 PM

good luck man

_Richard_ 01-04-2008 03:47 PM

good luck with the future!

Sen 01-04-2008 03:59 PM

A man that can admit his defeat is a great man. If u need something it is free to ask.

d-null 01-04-2008 05:14 PM

there's less and less money in porn

AaronM 01-04-2008 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by jetjet (Post 13607689)
there's less and less money in porn


LOL....Yeah...Whatever.

Bake 01-04-2008 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 13606204)
Might also be wise to use the same name on ICQ as you do on GFY.....But apparently not everybody does that. :disgust

Please hit me up. 130823758

Ive used the same ICQ for 10 years your added

Swish 01-04-2008 07:13 PM

Sorry to hear, best of luck

yahoo-xxx-girls.com 01-04-2008 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 13604237)
OK...Now that I have read this.......


Batts has stepped up, acknowledged the position he is in, and cowboy'd up to make everything right on his way out the door.

Newbies take note.......THIS is the honorable way to handle an industry exit. sonofsam could learn a thing or two from Batts.


Good luck, Matt.

:thumbsup

HouseHead 01-04-2008 07:38 PM

Goopd luck Matt 2.. Not everyone is cut out for this enviorment

AaronM 01-04-2008 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Bake (Post 13607919)
Ive used the same ICQ for 10 years your added


And you are added as well...But there is nobody named "Bake" in my contact list.

fatal attraction 01-04-2008 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 13608501)
And you are added as well...But there is nobody named "Bake" in my contact list.

It's mickbake on icq, but if I remember correctly, he's in Australia. So it's a big time difference for you. :)

halfpint 01-04-2008 10:42 PM

Dont know you Batts, but all the best for the future

dial 01-04-2008 10:58 PM

2008 will be the year of this type of announcement

on a batts note: if you had chosen your girls better I think you could have made it, you had the drive and seemed to have a nice enough rep in the biz, you really could have gone the distance for sure, but your girls were below average

LiveDose 01-04-2008 11:13 PM

Sorry to hear that man. I hope 2008 is better for you.

Christina Muller 01-04-2008 11:38 PM

just as a catapiller thinks its life is about to end it turns into a butterfly ,Im sure this is just a speed bump and you will turn out just fine :thumbsup

Mr.Right - Banned For Life 01-04-2008 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by dial (Post 13608858)
2008 will be the year of this type of announcement

on a batts note: if you had chosen your girls better I think you could have made it, you had the drive and seemed to have a nice enough rep in the biz, you really could have gone the distance for sure, but your girls were below average

Thanks mate, but i really dont think it was the girls that were the problem, the problem was the guy (ME) steering the ship.:2 cents:

Shakula 01-04-2008 11:50 PM

Batts, stay with a regular job. Some deskjob.... You will earn your 2000 dollar a month.... and that will cover your food and rent. Thats about it.

dial 01-04-2008 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Batts (Post 13608955)
Thanks mate, but i really dont think it was the girls that were the problem, the problem was the guy (ME) steering the ship.:2 cents:

man, I really don't think so. you seemed to have a good head on your shoulders and were no worse than a lot of guys you see running programs these days

I didn't read the thread, but did you mention anywhere where you think you went wrong? lots of people could learn from it, and maybe you also, that way in the future you, and others, can avoid making the same mistakes

Spunky 01-04-2008 11:53 PM

You gave it a shot and didn't work,dog eat dog world and it's all about marketing..best of luck in the future

The Adult Broker 01-04-2008 11:56 PM

Batts, your honesty is appreciated. the old saying: if you don't try, you automatically fail. If you do try, then you succeed where others have failed.

And handling it in this manner is 9/10th of it all.

Best to you.

frankfortuna 01-04-2008 11:59 PM

Failure is an important lesson in finding success.

will76 01-05-2008 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by marketsmart (Post 13604482)
unfortunately, i have a feeling that a lot more people will be making this type of announcement...

best of luck with future endeavors batts....

i doubt that. I get what you are trying to say, that a lot more people will be quiting because they can't make a go of it, but I doubt many will go out with class. Most will just crash and burn and/or rip people off on their way out the door.


Good look to what ever you decide to do batts. Also I wouldn't say you failed. I am sure you will be selling your sites for something, so thats a plus right there. Also I bet you learned a lot of stuff during the time you ran your sites and shot content, maybe even some things you can take with you to your next venture. One of the best things I ever did was spending a year in network marketing, even though i failed terribly to make money I learned more about business, motivation, goals, public speaking, everything etc.. than I did from 4 years of college. Hopefully you can take some stuff with you from this too that will help you in the future.

the Shemp 01-05-2008 12:05 AM

sorry to hear this...try to get everyone paid off as best you can and move on....good luck to you..

Paul Markham 01-05-2008 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by marketsmart (Post 13604482)
unfortunately, i have a feeling that a lot more people will be making this type of announcement...

best of luck with future endeavors batts....

I think you're right. Don't worry I'm not going anywhere. :1orglaugh

Paul Markham 01-05-2008 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Batts (Post 13608955)
Thanks mate, but i really dont think it was the girls that were the problem, the problem was the guy (ME) steering the ship.:2 cents:

Sorry but I also agree with Dial, or maybe it was you not getting the best out of the girls. A balance of both maybe.

To all the people giving out advice for people to pick up a camera and shoot content.

That's what Batts did and he was liked on the boards and I'm sure a lot of people sent him traffic.

My advice to anyone thinking of shooting your own content for your own site is this. Don't. Unless you KNOW you can crack it.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life 01-05-2008 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 13609315)
Sorry but I also agree with Dial, or maybe it was you not getting the best out of the girls. A balance of both maybe.

To all the people giving out advice for people to pick up a camera and shoot content.

That's what Batts did and he was liked on the boards and I'm sure a lot of people sent him traffic.

My advice to anyone thinking of shooting your own content for your own site is this. Don't. Unless you KNOW you can crack it.

Paul, i respect you, i always have and i am the last person who should be saying anything but i have seen many other sites with girls that were alot different to my models and they are making massive money.

It was me that messed it up, not the models, not the affiliates, not the weather, it was ME

candyflip 01-05-2008 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Batts (Post 13609337)
Paul, i respect you, i always have and i am the last person who should be saying anything but i have seen many other sites with girls that were alot different to my models and they are making massive money.

It was me that messed it up, not the models, not the affiliates, not the weather, it was ME

Why give up? Hell, even partnering up with someone else might be beneficial for both parties.

Egomancer 01-05-2008 03:10 AM

Batts,

You loose some, you win some. No one can forever win and be forever succesfull. Sometimes is better to know when to quit and you feel that now it is time, just do it.

If you apply the lessons you earned here I am sure that you will be succesfull on the next things that you are going to do.

Egomancer

Agent 488 01-05-2008 11:26 AM

just sent you an email requesting $ owed. btw battsbucks is down.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Batts (Post 13605126)
I am not sure where you sent it to but i did not receive it.

If you could kindly send to batts @ battsworld.com that would be great


charlie g 01-05-2008 11:34 AM

Hey Batts, icq me at 151-089-969 for a brief chat. We may be able to help eachother.

Wiredoctor 01-05-2008 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by budsbabes (Post 13610357)
just sent you an email requesting $ owed. btw battsbucks is down.


Maybe he didn't pay his host either?:2 cents:

uno 01-05-2008 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Batts (Post 13608955)
Thanks mate, but i really dont think it was the girls that were the problem, the problem was the guy (ME) steering the ship.:2 cents:

I dunno, I really didn't think most of your girls were very attractive at all.

rogue employee 01-05-2008 12:13 PM

People told you that your sites were shit, but you kept shooting your shitty content.

You are stupid.


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