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stev0 01-09-2008 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoyAlley (Post 13631204)
Apparently you've not done a very good job building trust in your relationship.

Perhaps not going, and not making a big deal out of not going, would be a good start to demonstrate your priorities to her.

From there, you can work on building mutual trust so things like this aren't an issue in the future.

That is assuming, of course, she is actually a priority to you, and that you are actually trustworthy. :2 cents:

Fuck that, do what you want to do and if she has a problem with it tell her to take a hike :2 cents: The only thing that will build is a control relationship in her favor.

L-Pink 01-09-2008 09:11 PM

Make sure the next one is properly trained.

NinjaSteve 01-09-2008 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by camgirlshide (Post 13631194)
and I can't seem to convince her to just come with!

There are billions of women in this world and only 1 internext this Jan! Go!

DaddyHalbucks 01-10-2008 12:50 AM

If you knuckle under on this, it's only the beginning of your emasculation.

Mr Pheer 01-10-2008 12:55 AM

tell her to just go with you or get over the fact that you're going by yourself.. you extended her an invitation, not your fault if she choses not to accept it

she will still be there when you get back, trust me on this

Steve Awesome 01-10-2008 01:04 AM

She won't come with you. She won't let you go. Either she had something else in mind, she's a controlling person, she's jealous, or some variation of the three. Oh, wait there's a fourth -- she heard about the anal troll bukkake party.

Violetta 01-10-2008 01:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 13631350)
There are a couple of ways to handle this.

First off.....Do you like the relationship and think there is a long term future there? If not.....Fuck it....Go to Vegas.

True... dont bother going if you wanna spend more time with her.

Danny B 01-10-2008 01:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by camgirlshide (Post 13631194)
and I can't seem to convince her to just come with!

So you start a thread, get 45 reactions, suggestions, tip and questions.

How about a reply buddy?

Ycaza 01-10-2008 02:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DatingGold (Post 13631568)
a girl turns 18 every minute.

Every, fuckin, second.

honestly if she does that and you cave you always will and she will get better at making it happen. do whats right for you, in the end the most divine thing is thine owns salvation.

D 01-10-2008 02:03 AM

I'm thinking the relationship has larger issues.

Sounds like you have some choices to make.

dav3 01-10-2008 02:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Danny B (Post 13632196)
So you start a thread, get 45 reactions, suggestions, tip and questions.

How about a reply buddy?

His gf probably found this thread and took his internet away from him.

mrwilson 01-10-2008 02:46 AM

Just tell her you are going with or with out her, the choice is her's
If she stays and says she leaving, help her pack, she will soon change her mind.

They always do..

mrwilson 01-10-2008 02:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dav3 (Post 13632350)
His gf probably found this thread and took his internet away from him.

lol if this is the case, i suggest you get yourself some adult baby clothes and be her bitch for life :thumbsup

Buzz 01-10-2008 02:56 AM

That's a business trip, isn't it?

A girl messing your business activities for fun/ego/self-affirmation/whatever won't last long.

Either make her obey or dump her.

Even if she agrees to go with you now - don't take her, I bet she'll do her best to ruin the trip and twist it up to her needs.

all above is just my assumption though.

lbc213 01-10-2008 04:17 AM

Controlling women are no good.

Just go to vegas, if she is not there when you get back then so be it.

ADL Colin 01-10-2008 04:28 AM

How can this POSSIBLY end well?

But we could all give better advice if we knew:

1. How hot is she? (pics would help)
2. Does she like anal? (pics would help)

V_RocKs 01-10-2008 04:30 AM

If you don't kick her out either way, you are a pussy!

I would never put up with that kind of shit. I used to, back when I was a pussy. Now? Never. The bitch would be gone that day. I'd have a moving van come and move her somewhere else.

yumma 01-10-2008 04:36 AM

stupid bitch

camgirlshide 01-10-2008 05:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ADL Colin (Post 13632605)
How can this POSSIBLY end well?

But we could all give better advice if we knew:

1. How hot is she? (pics would help)
2. Does she like anal? (pics would help)

no pics/no anal

k0nr4d 01-10-2008 05:49 AM

I saw go. The most important person in the world to you should be YOU. Do you feel you will do some good networking at internext? Do you think it will help you make more money and be more successful? There are 100,000 girls just like your GF and 1,000,000 ones that are better. Put your own needs ahead of hers.

Miz_Wright 01-10-2008 06:32 AM

I don't know how long you and your girl have been together, but I have to say: if my partner doesn't support the needs of my career and hampers its requirements... That person isn't my patrtner anymore, unless they want to take over the role of sugar mama.

... and even then, I think I would require some sort of contractual obligation that I would be maintained in the style I was supporting myself in before my career went in the toilet for a piece of ass.

Then again, I am a hopeless romantic :P

themonk 01-10-2008 06:38 AM

find an other girlfriend ..
they will always find something to tell u that is over ..lol

LadyMischief 01-10-2008 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoyAlley (Post 13631204)
Apparently you've not done a very good job building trust in your relationship.

Perhaps not going, and not making a big deal out of not going, would be a good start to demonstrate your priorities to her.

From there, you can work on building mutual trust so things like this aren't an issue in the future.

That is assuming, of course, she is actually a priority to you, and that you are actually trustworthy. :2 cents:

Best answer in the thread!

Emil 01-10-2008 07:14 AM

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Otter 01-10-2008 07:22 AM

good thing your not married

Holly 01-10-2008 07:27 AM

She's obviously very young.

When she matures a little she will learn to appreciate how exciting it is to be left alone and get a break from having to take care of someone.

I usually went out and bought myself something nice to celebrate whenever I was lucky enough to get my husband to go away for a few days. His credit card, of course.

shekinah 01-10-2008 08:25 AM

Maybe she's jealous coz you'll see a lot of beautiful ladies there.. quite a possessive gf huh!:(

Andy Servers4Less 01-10-2008 09:27 AM

To quote Jay Z:

"Money Over Broads, you got it... Push"

CDSmith 01-10-2008 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 13632905)
Best answer in the thread!

I notice that a few ladies here are partial to BA's take on it. Sorry, I've never been a big fan of ultimatums in relationships.

"Do that and we're through"
"Go there and we're done."
"Talk to her again and it's over."

Where does it end?

In some cases it's a trust issue, but in a lot of them it's all about control, usually stemming from insecurity. No thanks. I'd rather be single than live with a controlling shrew.

If her hangup is about internext and the adult industry itself, she's probably with the wrong guy in the first place. Next she'll be telling him to give up his business.

O MARINA 01-10-2008 10:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly (Post 13633000)
She's obviously very young.

When she matures a little she will learn to appreciate how exciting it is to be left alone and get a break from having to take care of someone.

I usually went out and bought myself something nice to celebrate whenever I was lucky enough to get my husband to go away for a few days. His credit card, of course.



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BoyAlley 01-10-2008 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 13633479)
In some cases it's a trust issue, but in a lot of them it's all about control, usually stemming from insecurity. No thanks.


I think you'd find that insecurities tend to subside with a relationship has a solid foundation of mutual respect and trust.

By reading the many responses to this thread, it seems very clear to me that the women involved with the various people posting here, had absolutely every reason under the sun to be untrusting and in turn insecure.

:2 cents:

King Adam 01-10-2008 10:41 AM

Any gf that wants to control you like that should be set free.

baddog 01-10-2008 10:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dav3 (Post 13632350)
His gf probably found this thread and took his internet away from him.

That is precisely what I was going to suggest.

BoyAlley 01-10-2008 10:48 AM

I would also like to point out to camgirlshide that the vast majority of the people in this thread are single and/or multiple-time divorce's.

Not exactly a pool of people to be taking life advice from. :2 cents:

Personally, I think the fact you posted details about your relationship on GFY of all fucking places is just another example of why your GF might be right about her trust issues.

The personal details of a relationship shouldn't be broadcast to the world, much less to thousands of pornographers. If you truly needed relationship advice, you could have gone to some close friends. Posting it to make a spectacle of your girlfriend is just downright disrespectful.

CDSmith 01-10-2008 10:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoyAlley (Post 13633682)

I think you'd find that insecurities tend to subside with a relationship has a solid foundation of mutual respect and trust.

By reading the many responses to this thread, it seems very clear to me that the women involved with the various people posting here, had absolutely every reason under the sun to be untrusting and in turn insecure.

:2 cents:

Mutual respect isn't about cowtowing to ultimatums, and trust can't be forced out of someone through control. It's either there or it isn't, you can either trust the person or you can't. And there are two sides to trust... the other person being trustworthy, and you being able to trust them.

Quite often someone is completely trustworthy but their partner still cannot seem to find a way to trust them. This is the insecurity I was referring to.

The question in THIS thread is... is the problem stemming from him being untrustworthy, or is it from her having insecurities? He's perfectly willing to have her accompany him so you decide.

JUSTB 01-10-2008 10:49 AM

ultimatums never have happy endings

BoyAlley 01-10-2008 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 13633742)
The question in THIS thread is... is the problem stemming from him being untrustworthy, or is it from her having insecurities? He's perfectly willing to have her accompany him so you decide.


He's posting details of his relationship on GFY which, predictably, led to dozens of pornographers bashing and insulting his girlfriend, and hundreds more reading about the spectacle.

That's at the very least, disrespectful.

You tell ME if he's trustworthy? I think this thread is a perfect example of what the problem is, and it's not her. :2 cents:


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