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Wow man that story gave me the shivers. Sorry to hear about your friend. All you can do now is do exactly what he said to do. Something we should all be doing and thats living our lives to the fullest. All the best Jace.

I always travel cheaply, haha...but I have been saving for a while, plus I have a few paysites that fund a lot of my adventures and life

don't feel shitty!!!! it was completely my fault, i fucking disappeared

and hell yes I will worry about the money, you paid so you deserve to get it back

haha, I assure you it isn't, if you want I can send you a naked fan sign from every stop :1orglaugh

i still wanna work on what we talked about, gotta get a new hard drive first though, hahaha

will hit you up tomorrow and try and move on to the next step

oh, for sure man, i will be in philly for at least a month or so before we head out, let's hook up for sure

I have money man, been saving a while now, my shit for sale is just being sold cause I can't take care of it

dude im serious, holla on icq....ill shoot you my cell #....im up that way 2x a week

we'll do sushi & then some 2am cheese steaks after a little partying

(btw i dont drink anymore, so other "partying" will have to be arranged) :pimp

haha, oh man, no drinking????? i am not quite sure what to do in a case like that....:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

nah, seriously, i am not a huge drinker myself, only when out at clubs or shit like that, but sam's sister is up there and she is into other "partying", so she can help out...and she is HOT as hell, haha

btw, my ALWAYS # is 404-461-9924....it is a grancentral # that I use as a voicemail, so it doesn't ring any physical phones, but I check it once or twice a week, so if anyone ever needs to get in touch with me, that is the best way other than my cell

my google "grandcentral" actually rings my phone

did you opt out of that?

and how do i get it setup to JUST do voicemail?

p.s. i'll take you up on sam's hot sister! hahaha....does she like chubby webmaster tan men? hahaha

Good Luck .............

:thumbsup:thumbsup

You owe a few hundred bucks here and there, promise that (someday somehow) those who are owed will get it back, mention having money saved up (really? why not just pay those people back then?) and talk about traveling the world (which is not cheap, even on the cheap)?

Hmmm. Interesting.

Nice story, though. What's the friend's name? I'd like to google it. Sounds like there might be some interesting stories online from a trusted news source judging by the dramatic turn of events you mention him having in his life.

the first Sensible in this thread.:2 cents:

Sorry about your friend.

Have a great time traveling the world!

Good luck Jace

The only thing I didn't hear was "Donny" and "The Church"

well damn, good luck with your travels... if you want to get wasted in austria, let me know ;)

I always like these posts...

"I wont be checking ICQ, I owe people MONEY and WORk, but hey, I'll still be around"

My advice is to stay clear of people like this. The only reason they keep coming back and taking your money and running and offering you web sites instead of the work they owe is becuase you idiots keep epassing them money.

ps: there is no friend.

It's not our job to investigate and question people. The ones that are owed money should be doing that. I just wish him good luck from person to person and I think others are doing the same thing.

Good luck man. It sounds like you've been dealing with a lot.

Will you be in the industry still, or are you out for a while but letting some sites run?

If i was a shrink, i'd say something has gone wrong with you, and you might be going into depression. Since i'm not, good luck.

Since you have saved money, and owe only few hundred bucks, you should pay that back instantly, before doing anything else.

Wow, I got goosebumps reading that shit :) Good luck ;)

Incredible story Jace, best of luck on your adventures.

Good luck..

Jace I really understand what you are going through. You made a good decision and need some time off to get back in balance with yourself and do the things in life that you always wanted to do. Hey, you only live once... It is sad that your decision was influenced by such dramatic turn of events but it is all for the good. Go, Live and have fun with it ;)

On the other hand, if you ever have a chance, please hit me up on ICQ, we talked about doing sitedepth customization before and I am curious whether they have responded yet. I assume you no longer need it for yourself, if you are just letting your sites run it selves, it will probably be fine as it is. But i would appreciate having a quick word with you. Thanks.

Sometimes it just takes a massive slap in the face for you to realize that you really aren't doing what you WANT to do and time is too short to postpone it. My time came a little over 3 years ago. You really look at the world and your life in an entirely different manner. If your journey is anything like mine has been, I can guarantee you're making the right decision!!

Enjoy.

holy shit.

"Go. Live." Is pretty rock solid guidance. Godspeed, Jace!

well, I have it set up with my phone in there, I just unchecked it in the settings and set up a voicemail greeting

Travelling Europe is really not that expensive..
That's why all my broke friends are over there right now..

Good luck on your Journey Jace, we all need to live it up and changes are good. Especially if you make the changes positive for you and your wife.

I am digging up his full name and obituary for you, give me a few. as for paying people back, everyone wants epassporte, and as you know, epass takes a friggin week to "load". yeah, in the almost 10 years I have been in the adult industry, working with EVERY company from Vivid to Hustler, from Genesis to TCG, I am going to ruin my rep and skip out on the entire industry for $450....LOL...if I was going to do that I would have done it, not stayed and posted and cleared shit up. the money I have saved is in a non-linked savings account, which can't be accessed except to go into the physical office, I have had my identity stolen twice, so I am very careful with my bank accounts, but I did go in yesterday and transfer a bunch into checking, then came home and "loaded" epass, it just takes for-fucking-ever

I seriously doubt there will be any "new stories" about a hippy ex-doctor that is bipolar, but you are welcome to join us at the memorial service on Thursday and do your own investigating because it is obviously THAT important to you. email me privately if you really want to come and make sure I am not lying, as it is at a private residence and I don't want to post the address on this board

I am here, I am NOT going anywhere for at least 1.5 months, I want everyone to be happy before I leave, so that if I do come back to do this as a daily routine one day I can pick up where I left off

gfy is never sensible....sorry, but bashing those you don't know or never worked with is disrespectful, not sensible

everyone I owe money or work to has my phone #, i even posted my voicemail in this thread...come on dude, you have known me on here for AGES, when have I ever been known to scam people?

but thanks for the well wishes asshole, 10 years in this biz along side you and you still come off looking like a troll

haha, as soon as I get the correct spelling of his last name I will post it here so the GFY police can do their job

it was a tricky last name and I always got it wrong, but from what I can remember it was Dr. Robert Vartarian

he was known as Dr. Rob in the circles he frequented, so his last name wasn't used much, that was just the way our friends were

as I stated earlier I am waiting for epass to load, when I loaded it yesterday it said
Loads initiated today will be available Wed Jun 25, 2008 03:30 PM (PDT).
but in the past the load times were actually shorter than it said

i am not here to scam anyone, never have in the 10 years I have been in this biz, why would I now and stay to talk about it?

actually, since I will still have my paysites running it wouldn't be a bad idea to get that done before I take off...I will email ya

I am still planning on getting our project done before I leave, still wanting me for it?