love will tear us apart

-joy division

That also works in reverse. All the girls that attended my highschool and college that everyone was chasing that were hot as hell are now all overweight, have grandma hair and bad skin from all the hours in the tanning booth/sun. It's simple.... Genetics and how you take care of yourself over the years. I'm going to dig up photos of me 15 years ago, they were rechid. Not that I'm a shiny prize now, I'm just saying.... age will actually better some people to an extent... but I also realize that there is also the mid-life turn around point where even the best of the best will start to show their years.

Anyhow, I don't think ppl should just on looks alone, it's just a part of a bigger picture. I've dated people beaten by the ugly stick and some models and to be brutally honest.... I found them equally attractive after I got to know them.

eye of the beholder.

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nice guys may finish last, but they also finish best. When a girl realizes that the dumb jocks she liked in highschool and college are emotionally shallow and just generally not fun people for the long term, they realize that the guy that tutored them in biology probably is good bf material.

You've read my mind :1orglaugh!

thats a great song! i love to dance around the house singing at the top of my lungs to that song...

thank goodness for great music. maybe that is what saves us instead, huh?.

and joy division is such a clever name for a band too, don't you think?

they have lots of great songs to sing along and dance around the house too...or in my case usually a hotel room...

going to catch some late afternoon sun on the beach. make the most of what remains of the day.

money is nice and be attractive is nice as well but what of love and passion and soul?!

thomas payne said it best--give me liberty or give me death!

i am glad we have freedom of thought and choice.

may you be an individual among the masses.

Gotta love the ex-girlfriends who come back after a few years and say " I should have stayed with you. Once they were super hot but now they put on a few years and they lose their tudes. :1orglaugh

Unless said female is either a stripper or a RN
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Keep telling yourself that.

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