All parts.....great beaches here...Bali in Inodnesia, Boracay in the Philippines, Sipadan Island in Malaysia....and Hua Hin in Thailand....this just a few that I can name....people here are friendly.....and cost of living is real cheap....with USD1,500....u get to rent a house with your own private pool in Pattaya....:thumbsup...hit me up if you wanna chat more....my icq - 330-177-935

gf killing me here.. making me feel very very bad.. shes been crying everyday.. wtf do i do

I'd cut the cord. I mean, even if you end up staying she'll just resent you down the line for even thinking about leaving her. You probably should have kept it to yourself till you made up your mind really.

What I would say to her to shut her up for a bit in the mean time though is that all this crying and whining is unacceptable and is really making your decision easy for you.

promise her you will call sometimes and try to stay friends :)

That SE asia stuff sounds like a good idea for next year's rainy season. :-)

Bro, don't sweat the gf stuff. That guilt trip isn't going to get better, only worse. Just explain to her that you're going off to live your life the way that she and the rest of both of your friends wish they could. Tell her that you'd like to keep hitting it while you're there and that she can visit you wherever you're living if she gets a passport and can afford the ticket.

hehe yeah Z.. THe SE asia does sound like good idea for rainy season.. yeah shes making me feel guilty but i gotta do this.. im not gonna sit here with her in NJ.. not worth it

Colorful thread.

ya nice thread.. page 4.lol

LEAVE!!! What the fuck??

yeah i will bro.

i know i wont regret it.. i gotta do what i gotta do.

Tell her you are only 22...and you need to see the world. If is fated that both of you should be together, eventually you guys will be together. Woman are always like that when it comes to not being together. :thumbsup

Good luck with your search man. And as for the GF situation that can be a tough one. You know what they say though...If you love someone set them free, if they come back charge em rent. Do what ya gotta do because life is too short for regrets.

yeah... im almost set to move.. gonna have to break up with the GF.. i do feel bad though.. how do you guys leave girls that love u and not feel bad.lol

I don't want to see another post from you until you have your flight booked....This shit is ridiculous....

You sound like bausch who keeps talking about getting his pus filled zit popped but instead of doing it, he looks for video after video of OTHER people getting their pus drained from their body...

http://i88.photobucket.com/albums/k1...Just-Do-It.gif

haha ok BRO.. Ill update the thread when i have my flight booked :thumbsup

Your posts helped me alot. I am 22yrs, have the chance of a lifetime, and i am gonan take it

Good thread.

Good luck on whatever you decide to do, but the thing is since your young and can afford it (ok you have the gf issue) and are uncomfortable with your current situation...it depends totally upon you to change that.

Once again good luck and don't sell your own plans and ambitions based on other people's "needs".

i have a flight to panama in a month..

then ill stay there till thanksgiving and come spend it here with my family, then back off again to panama ....

wanna spend a little time there, rent a place, see how i like it, etc.

I need change..

im doing it.. yay

feeling like life passing you by at 22?

holy fuck do you have some major anxiety coming when you're 38.

let me tell you something. you don't know anything know. wait till 30 when your third eye opens up.

you will learn so much between 30 and 35 that you'll swear you didn't know shit at 22.

i speak from experience and many of my friends since childhood would tell you the same.

stop worrying. just breathe.

Ok so what happened?

DO IT!
sell everything, leave it all behind, go live your life now that you're young and able to do it

yea, an update would be interesting

I was just thinking about this poor kid the other day.

agreed...curious what happened. bump..

Dude, if I were you, I'd take 3 years off and just go traveling by bus or train. Since your business is online you can update your sites remotely. Just set up a system where your checks are deposited straight to your bank account and travel. There's so much to see and experience.

Sorry to disappoint but things are much the same no matter where you go. Most people work during the day in every part of the world. Unless you're a millionaire you will have to work too. Different scenery, maybe different culture but its all just people, buildings, streets, etc. It might be cool if you can stay once place for a month, and then somewhere else another and so on but otherwise, you will more than likely just fall back into the same situations and routines. Just my opinion anyways. Of course I'm not saying not to do it, just that many people have such great expectations.

ahahah well update:

I DID move to panama in end of october.. i live here NOW.. Im happy.. Z helped me out a lot.. i have an apartment here.. its warm.. you can bribe your way around... chics are ez cuz im americano..

Plus panama is cheap.... so yea this beats NJ 1000x

Im still learning espanol, but once mi espanol es bueno en uno o dos anos i can get more chics :P

So how is your day to day life there, assuming you dont knew many people there when you moved.

BTW congrats on going forward with your plan :thumbsup

I should be there sometime next month.

lets meet up then!!

well i work during the day.. some evenings i meet some girls.....

weekends i go clubbing..

BUT ill have MORE fun once i learn spanish.... the problem now is i dont know spanish so i cant make friends with 99% of the people here.. but that'll change in a year.

so no worries.. its easy to make friends here..

ok....I'll make a post about it a couple of days before I leave...It will be sometime between the 15th and the 30th.

You already got +- base social network there though? If I were you i would try to focus on that rather than just the work, cause thats a sure way to get burnout and "sick of things" :winkwink::thumbsup

he earns $6k per day now

this thread is all the BVF screaming HELP.

Were you the "G"? :helpme

This post is all about Adultmix finding a way to be on my nuts regardless of who the original poster is....

Sorry for you that you can't travel or even begin to think about relocating but maybe one day you'll have that option chump.

Stick to going to Dean and Deluca and making threads about it......This thread is for the big boys.

BVF - saving lives.