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moeloubani 09-04-2008 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14709471)
everyone saying dump the gf and move on.. how ez is that

lol well fuck dude there are only 2 options

you say fuck her and you bounce

you say fuck bouncing and you stay

how long until she can take off too? why dont you just move to like a local ghetto and youll have tons of excitement

MaDalton 09-04-2008 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by punker barbie (Post 14663540)
u were 16 when u registered on GFY? LOL

as if you had been 18 at that time :winkwink: :error :1orglaugh

xxweekxx 09-04-2008 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by comeplay (Post 14710210)
Its funny how very few (one maybe) people mentioned education. You said you were fine where you are and the people you knew while you were in college. I think a good temporary solution would be to continue college? Why not? You never said you didn't like school or the work involved. Just because your degree is finished doesn't mean you HAVE to be done.

yeah college is fun but expensive.. i could go for my MBA but why spend $40k/yr for a degree i most likely wont use.. my bachelors so far is still not useful..$100k later and it hasnt helped me make any money so far..

RTP 09-04-2008 11:53 PM

here is a quick bit from someone who has been there before...when i was 20 (30s now) i simply just got on a greyhound and said i'll figure it out, better then sitting around in a state of stagnation (i lived in a small college town in the midwest)

do what you want man, whatever it is do it...doesn't matter if anyone thinks it sucks or you might not like it or you might fail, don't hold back. explore, live life and just enjoy it while you can

you are young and can take chances and makes moves without major problems and other factors that you need to consider. if you are considering something do it or one day you'll be sitting at the bar sipping on your 5th saying i "could have" and "should have". i know many that are in that situation.

if i never took risk i would not be where i am today, literally just doing whatever i want to do now without financial consequences because the chances i took paid off, it all started with a duffel bag and a bus ticket.i am sure you are in better shape. your opportunities in life may only come once and a single act can change your outcome or path

xxweekxx 09-10-2008 09:52 PM

yeah im gonna go down to panama next month and "settle" there.. basically live there a bit and try and travel and see the world..

I love internet biz.. u can work from anywhere with internet access.. pretty amazing..

klaze 09-10-2008 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Z (Post 14680255)
You're out of your mind and so is anybody else discouraging this guy from doing what he wants to do. I did it at 27 and have never regretted it, not for one minute. If you all love the sit in traffic, stand in line, be quiet, know your place, get gouged on everything you buy, wait for the jackbooted thug cop to smack you around for whatever nitpicky bullshit this time and big brother watching your every move and word life that is living in the US today, enjoy. By the way, enjoy that depression and the coming world war too. If you treasure your illusions and are comfortable in your denial, have a blast.

Some of the rest of us are courageous enough to strike out, explore and see that the world DOESN'T revolve around the US and that there are NO dragons outside "the colonies". Just like those who went West, the sailors who got on ships going to nowhere and discovered new worlds and every other person brave enough to drop the status quo and think for themselves, there will always be sacrifices and fear of the uknown. But the rewards, the experiences and the wisdom of a life well lived are worth the change that some of you so desperately fear.

You know what you call somebody who speaks one language? American.

Panama is the fastest growing country and economy in Latin America, the #1 real estate market in this HEMISPHERE and one hell of a party country. There's every imaginable water sport in two oceans an hour away from one another with a strip of mountains down the middle that add all of those options too. It's 85 degrees every day, we've got the same rainy season that Florida does and there's no natural disasters here. The US, Central and South America and the Caribbean are a couple hours flight away. There's non-stop flights to Canada and Europe and there's commuter flights all over Panama, Costa Rica and COlombia. The cost of living is great and the quality of living makes up for the stupidity of the people. I haven't washed a dish or cleaned my house in 3 years. I barely touch the kitchen and if I want to go out to eat with 4 or 5 friends, I don't have to budget in advance like you do in a decent restaurant in the states.

There are tens of thousands of foreigners from every country in the world here because there's $140,000,000,000 (that's right, BILLION) in foreign investment pouring into this country and it's a wild west, entrepreneur's dream. Unlike the US, Canada, Europe or most of the rest of the world, here you can be a big fish in a little pond and the money is just as good as it would've been 100 years ago in the US. There's opportunities everywhere for somebody with a brain and the ability to innovate. The "good 'ol boys club" can be circumvented easily with a little brain power and some payoffs. The corruption here is the good kind that helps you, not the kind that keeps you poor and scraping in the US or the kind that shoots you and kidnaps you in Mexico or Brazil.

Did I mention the women? Forget all of that feminist, "Why are you looking at me?", "You don't drive a ferrari, so fuck you" nonsense. The women here are amazing. They're gorgeous, they fuck like animals and best of all, they're actually WOMEN. They enjoy being feminine and all of that idiocy that American guys have to put up with doesn't exist. The Colombianas, Venezuelans, Dominicans, Ticas, Chinese girls, Russians and yes, even Americans, Canadians, French girls, Dutch, German...on and on. They're all here for the same reasons you are and they're a blast to party with in this place that loves to party.

Stop thinking so small and THINK FOR YOURSELF!

I think what he's doing is great and I encourage him and anyone else who isn't tied to WalMart and Applebees for existence to consider it too. There's nothing more freeing, more gratifying and more amazing than to live out of a backpack.

The world's waiting and if you're here, you can most likely work on a laptop. WTF are you waiting for? :pimp

Thanks for the novel response but you took what I said completely out of context.

Completely missing my point. You also put words into my mouth reading deeper into what I said than what I actually did say.

Who the fuck do you think you are? Bill O'Reilly? No.

I said what I said as simply and as blunt as I could.

I'm not going to argue with you.

Slutboat 09-10-2008 10:34 PM

I have a beach front crib in Miami $350 per week
 
right on ocean dr.. forget the gf you will get more pussy here than a truckload of maxi pads


PS I'm serious about the vacation rental, and if you are cool you can assist me shooting naked chicks

klinton 09-11-2008 01:05 AM

i have similiar dillema (move or not) , except that i'am alone :)
hmmm

xxweekxx 09-11-2008 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by klinton (Post 14737821)
i have similiar dillema (move or not) , except that i'am alone :)
hmmm

where are you now and where do you wanna move to

xxweekxx 09-11-2008 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Slutboat (Post 14737478)
right on ocean dr.. forget the gf you will get more pussy here than a truckload of maxi pads


PS I'm serious about the vacation rental, and if you are cool you can assist me shooting naked chicks

not bad at all.. do u have ICQ though, might swing by miami sometime

cherrylula 09-11-2008 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Young (Post 14676079)
I'm 27 years old and at your age I had to make the same decision. I had the perfect opportunity to move with a free spirit girlfriend of mine at the time. Loved that girl to pieces. We broke up over my decision to stay. My decision was based on not wanting to leave friends and family behind.

Months and eventually a couple of years passed and I got stuck in the hometown/homebody mentality, content with the Boston scene and comfortable with the same old places and friends. Bought a car, accrued bills and got stuck in my ways. And as my friends started to move away, get married, and family started doing the same I came to the realization that I made a huge mistake.

And now 5 years later I've finally worked my way back to a place where I'm financially and mentally comfortable to make the jump again. As I'm typing this the ex that I said no to is traveling the globe as a traveling nurse with her fiance.

The moral of my story is that opportunity's only come once in awhile. Take it when you can.

You're in Boston??

Get the hell out! :1orglaugh

My cousin from So Cal tried to live there, he said its the coldest place in the USA and sucks assholes. He has so many stories about how bad it sucks, its hilarious.

cherrylula 09-11-2008 03:48 AM

some of you guys could be roomies, good luck!

Sands 09-11-2008 04:01 AM

I was born in NJ, and lived there while I was young before moving to NY here where I've lived for most of my adult life. I can sympathize with you 100%. For the past year or so I've been constantly nagged with this painfully persistent notion that there is so much more in life and I'm not going to find it in the tri-state area. It's a deep feeling that's beginning to permeate every aspect of my existence and dominate every sector of my mind, and I feel it will do so until it will somehow materialize and tear me from this computer chair.

I have an impending surgical procedure, and once I've recovered from that and have found a steady, full-time, telecommute job, I will sell off all my shit and head West. It will pain me to leave my friends and family behind, but they'll only disappear from my daily life, and not my life in general, and the promise of undiscovered territory is one that is too powerful to ignore.

I hope you make the decision to follow through with your desires.

moneybiz 09-11-2008 05:11 AM

Find a a cheap condo for 120k and pay it off really fast. Then go around and travel do what ever.

klinton 09-11-2008 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14738026)
where are you now and where do you wanna move to

Poland -> South America/North Africa

third option is some smaller city/village in Europe (even Poland)

MrAwesome 09-11-2008 05:42 AM

do absolutely everything you can while you can!!

xxweekxx 09-11-2008 06:50 PM

nice.... klinton its sucks

CrystaliZed 09-11-2008 09:26 PM

I'd love to move out and go back to Minneapolis or Seattle or some
other big city. Maybe somewhere warm, down south.
One huge problem tho... Finances.
Normal jobs in South Dakota don't pay enuf to do the whole "rent + bills" gig
and #2... the freelance graphic design gig doesn't get u far...
especially in the conservative, local scene that I'm in.
And most friends are outa state or are married/with kids so
that illiminates an option for trustworthy roomates. LOL!

klinton 09-12-2008 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14742335)
nice.... klinton its sucks

:) hm ? / why ?

Manowar 09-12-2008 04:40 AM

i think I want to move to panama now

CherryV 09-12-2008 04:48 AM

I have homies in Panama... They live there in the winter for teh windy season and then move back to Dominican Republic in the summer for teh wind season.

I hear amazing things about Panama.

Fuk the whole Caribbean is an amazing place to hang your hat if you work online. Cheap food, beer, rent and easy chicks all day long!

Good Luck Mate!

mister_nobodie 09-12-2008 05:46 AM

you'll end up resenting your gf if you stay.

xxweekxx 09-12-2008 07:04 PM

yeah but shes making me feel X100 guilty..

She cries every night.. she keeps calling/texting me and sending me cards,

saying stuff like I dont know what ill do without you. my life will never be the same..etc,etc.. i feel very very very bad.

klaze 09-12-2008 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14748183)
yeah but shes making me feel X100 guilty..

She cries every night.. she keeps calling/texting me and sending me cards,

saying stuff like I dont know what ill do without you. my life will never be the same..etc,etc.. i feel very very very bad.

:1orglaugh Introduce her to one of your friends.

xxweekxx 09-12-2008 07:19 PM

heheh my gf is cool though u know.. shes one of those understanding, sexy, loves to have sex kinda gf.. sometimes she acts immature but ill def miss her..

she takes care of me more than anyone else...

eh this suxxx.

BTW i still miss fucking other chics.lol

mister_nobodie 09-12-2008 08:26 PM

wow so she's exactly like ever other girl.


before the wedding.


the guilt trip is bullshit.
if she cared about you, she'd care about your happiness and not just HER OWN.

and if she doesnt know what she's going to do without you, then she's needy and a loser who definitely needs to learn.

hopefully you're smart enough to be wearing a condom

Z 09-12-2008 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by CherryV (Post 14743756)
I have homies in Panama... They live there in the winter for teh windy season and then move back to Dominican Republic in the summer for teh wind season.

I hear amazing things about Panama.

Fuk the whole Caribbean is an amazing place to hang your hat if you work online. Cheap food, beer, rent and easy chicks all day long!

Good Luck Mate!

Who do you know down here that does that? I've been thinking about doing the same thing and would like the scoop on the DR.

Hit me up.

xxweekxx 09-12-2008 09:15 PM

Z i tried hitting u up.. im coming down there in a month.. i need your help buddy

sitesurfer70 09-13-2008 01:20 AM

Come to South East Asia, and I gonna show u around....need a partner in crime :thumbsup

xxweekxx 09-13-2008 01:21 AM

what part of SE asia.lol

sitesurfer70 09-13-2008 02:20 AM

All parts.....great beaches here...Bali in Inodnesia, Boracay in the Philippines, Sipadan Island in Malaysia....and Hua Hin in Thailand....this just a few that I can name....people here are friendly.....and cost of living is real cheap....with USD1,500....u get to rent a house with your own private pool in Pattaya....:thumbsup...hit me up if you wanna chat more....my icq - 330-177-935

xxweekxx 09-13-2008 10:30 AM

gf killing me here.. making me feel very very bad.. shes been crying everyday.. wtf do i do

AOJ Brian 09-13-2008 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14750690)
gf killing me here.. making me feel very very bad.. shes been crying everyday.. wtf do i do

I'd cut the cord. I mean, even if you end up staying she'll just resent you down the line for even thinking about leaving her. You probably should have kept it to yourself till you made up your mind really.

What I would say to her to shut her up for a bit in the mean time though is that all this crying and whining is unacceptable and is really making your decision easy for you.

klinton 09-13-2008 12:20 PM

promise her you will call sometimes and try to stay friends :)

Z 09-13-2008 12:26 PM

That SE asia stuff sounds like a good idea for next year's rainy season. :-)

Bro, don't sweat the gf stuff. That guilt trip isn't going to get better, only worse. Just explain to her that you're going off to live your life the way that she and the rest of both of your friends wish they could. Tell her that you'd like to keep hitting it while you're there and that she can visit you wherever you're living if she gets a passport and can afford the ticket.

xxweekxx 09-13-2008 12:29 PM

hehe yeah Z.. THe SE asia does sound like good idea for rainy season.. yeah shes making me feel guilty but i gotta do this.. im not gonna sit here with her in NJ.. not worth it

Stellar 09-13-2008 12:31 PM

Colorful thread.

skinnay 09-13-2008 02:17 PM

https://youtube.com/watch?v=zlfKdbWwruY

xxweekxx 09-13-2008 02:20 PM

ya nice thread.. page 4.lol

BVF 09-13-2008 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 14750690)
gf killing me here.. making me feel very very bad.. shes been crying everyday.. wtf do i do

LEAVE!!! What the fuck??


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