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AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 10-25-2008 11:32 AM

So whats happening here? Jay posted some shit then its 3 pages? About what?

Iron Fist 10-25-2008 11:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeCreep (Post 14950160)
Yo Jay, you shouldn't post less here. Whales and other smart people still read this board. It may not seem like it though, because it's the newbies, flamers, and haters who post the most. That's the reason why I pretty much never start business threads anymore. You always get some newbie who makes like $300/month in adult coming into the thread talking like he knows shit, thinking he knows everything of course, when in fact he has no idea who he's talking too or the company he's in.

That's not fair.. I make at least $350... well okay.. maybe $400. :thumbsup

Phil 10-25-2008 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 14950673)
Thanks. I am going to have a tour page added. The original designer didn't leave much room for a tour.

is it the same designer who did this crap?
http://www.desertcuties.com/welcome.htm

His name is Greg eh?

Jenny, with all the money you're making (hik) I would think you can hire a real designer.. or at least someone like Headless..

Manowar 10-25-2008 11:59 AM

awesome post

JustDaveXxx 10-25-2008 12:04 PM

Wow. I learned a lot about a lot in this post. Great read and a great xxxjay contribution. and good contribution by everybody else.


Carry on.

JaneB 10-25-2008 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CAMOKAT (Post 14950787)
is it the same designer who did this crap?
http://www.desertcuties.com/welcome.htm

His name is Greg eh?

Jenny, with all the money you're making (hik) I would think you can hire a real designer.. or at least someone like Headless..


Why do you always bring up Greg in a thread? You don't know him at all and he is not a designer. He also did just have that site rebuilt, but he does not like how the designer built it. I have a different designer then he does. Mine built and shot the pictures for Private Glamour.

The new designer he is using is from here. He made a posting a few weeks ago and a few designers from here contacted him. You seem to worry an awful lot about what I do. Perhaps you should take that energy and focus it on your own work. :2 cents:

marketsmart 10-25-2008 12:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CAMOKAT (Post 14950787)
is it the same designer who did this crap?
http://www.desertcuties.com/welcome.htm

wow, that site is horrible.. even spelled members wrong...

for $200 you could get that site cleaned up...

i would be embarrassed to have something like that online... :2 cents:

Phil 10-25-2008 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 14950965)
Why do you always bring up Greg in a thread? You don't know him at all and he is not a designer. He also did just have that site rebuilt, but he does not like how the designer built it. I have a different designer then he does. Mine built and shot the pictures for Private Glamour.

The new designer he is using is from here. He made a posting a few weeks ago and a few designers from here contacted him. You seem to worry an awful lot about what I do. Perhaps you should take that energy and focus it on your own work. :2 cents:

what are you talking about? when do i "always" bring him up. the only reason I mentioned his name is because he even named files with his name
http://www.desertcuties.com/images/g...up_r02_c06.jpg
.. oh and I can tell he's not a designer.

b the way, whats "memembers"? Does he studder or what?

JaneB 10-25-2008 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marketsmart (Post 14951040)
wow, that site is horrible.. even spelled members wrong...

for $200 you could get that site cleaned up...

i would be embarrassed to have something like that online... :2 cents:


A friend of ours did the design a while ago. Greg just had it rebuilt, but the designer made it look like a teen site. It has flowers and stuff like that. So the designer is reworking the design. Yeah I hate the look of that site. That is why I told him to have it rebuilt. Plus he added all of those damn banners on it, which will not be on the site when the new design goes up.

seeric 10-25-2008 01:09 PM

FACT: People whining on message boards reduces your traffic by 0%.

Fuck the world. Get yours. Its the way of the industry. Always has been. Always will be.



The End.

JaneB 10-25-2008 01:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CAMOKAT (Post 14951233)
what are you talking about? when do i "always" bring him up. the only reason I mentioned his name is because he even named files with his name
http://www.desertcuties.com/images/g...up_r02_c06.jpg
.. oh and I can tell he's not a designer.

b the way, whats "memembers"? Does he studder or what?

This is the third time you have brought him up in a thread. He does not do anything on my website except edit and logo video's for me. I own my website, I picked the designer who built it, and I do everything on it but the video's. Any time my website is mentioned in the last few weeks you bring up Greg. My site was built by Phil Weber. He will be making some changes on it to make it how I want it to look. As for Greg, he did have that site rebuilt but the new design needs some things changed. If you want to know why he names his files the way he does, ask him. He also did not do the design that is on there now. A friend did it. As for as I know Joe who did that design does not studder. You can e-mail your questions to [email protected] and I am sure he will be more than happy to answer them.

xxxjay 10-25-2008 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 14949556)
better hope TTBoy doesn't wake up one day and realize he might make more money on his own from his vast content library with a legal tube site with all exclusive content upselling cams, dating and other crap.

we will see that model tested - somebody with their own high quality exclusive content will go the tube route - legally - it's the way the Internet is going whether anybody likes it or not. I don't think the model will support somebody going out and producing expensive content for tube sites but for those that already have a big catalog - it might.

I agree with that somewhat. How many dating and Cams sites are people going to buy? I think the key to making that business model work is getting mainsteam (ie: mens products / "edgy stuff") to accept adult traffic. If that happens we can just do away we members areas and put everything out in the open and porn will be free.

Just like network TV.

It's a log way between here and there though.

:2 cents:

xxxjay 10-25-2008 03:15 PM

Wow...this thread had it all -- actual business talk, flames, drunk people, hot chicks, points, counterpoints, SEO tips, trolls, fights, and stats.

I'd hate to see it end here. There is still plenty of meat to bite on.

Just Alex 10-25-2008 03:19 PM

good reading Jay. few good points.

Warren 10-25-2008 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay (Post 14951724)
Wow...this thread had it all -- actual business talk, flames, drunk people, hot chicks, points, counterpoints, SEO tips, trolls, fights, and stats.

I'd hate to see it end here. There is still plenty of meat to bite on.



I was just thinking the same thing.


Do you have any Jokes Jay? Im sure you have a few I have not heard, exclude Irish ones :1orglaugh heard them all.

xxxjay 10-25-2008 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Warren (Post 14951790)
I was just thinking the same thing.


Do you have any Jokes Jay? Im sure you have a few I have not heard, exclude Irish ones :1orglaugh heard them all.

Guy walks into a bar, and sees a sheep sitting there, a rather good looking sheep.He sits down next to the sheep, and they hit it off.
Weeks go by and the sheep says "hey, i thought you were married?"
The guy says "yes, but im not happy, she disgusts me"
The sheep says, "i dont believe you, she cant be that bad?"
So they go to the guys housse, where the wife is asleep in the bedroom
The wife sits up and says"Dear where have you been?"
The guys says "See this is the pig i screw when im not with you"
The wife says "Dear, thats a sheep"
The guy says "Thats who i was talking too"

Phil 10-25-2008 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 14951265)
This is the third time you have brought him up in a thread. He does not do anything on my website except edit and logo video's for me. I own my website, I picked the designer who built it, and I do everything on it but the video's. Any time my website is mentioned in the last few weeks you bring up Greg. My site was built by Phil Weber. He will be making some changes on it to make it how I want it to look. As for Greg, he did have that site rebuilt but the new design needs some things changed. If you want to know why he names his files the way he does, ask him. He also did not do the design that is on there now. A friend did it. As for as I know Joe who did that design does not studder. You can e-mail your questions to [email protected] and I am sure he will be more than happy to answer them.

you are mental. I have no idea who greg is. show me those threads where I "brought" his name in?

BobG 10-25-2008 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay (Post 14948684)
I spent about an hour composing this for another board about why I'm reducing my posting here. I think it's pretty clear and concise, and if you actually have a brain - it gives you something to think about. Not that I care what the trolls have to say, but they are good at making your day stressful with their nonsense. This is not drama, it's a drama-killer and should fall of the first page quickly for sure!

1. Don't tell me how to run my business and I won't tell you how to run yours (if you have any). Somebody bitched about nudity on the OCCash.com page on another board. Does pornhub have a warning page? Go bug them. Fight the real fight.

2. As was stated in another thread earlier by my business partner: We've been tweaking the xsales for the last 6 months...above the submit, below the submit, and variety of text schemes. It made 5% difference overall. 5%!!! After all of this fussing on the boards - IT WAS 5%! Now, they are clearly above the submit and with the prices! Surfers get emails with a username, password, cancel links, and number for our support (and always have). Even if they are drunk and didn't see them, we have 24/7 support and gladly will refund without question!!! END OF STORY! Did it ever occur to anyone that people that some surfers take the free offers for other sites, check them out, and then cancel? Belive it or not, it does happen...MORE TIMES THAN NOT! REPEAT FROM LAST THREAD: Look how are xsales are set up now...that is how they will be set up from now and ever and ever. AMEN! This is a dead issue.

3. Did it also ever occur to you guys that you can't fight every single fight you disagree with? It is impossible to separate yourself from everything you find distasteful in this very small industry! The best thing you can do is run your fucking business the best you can and try not to worry too much about what everyone else is doing! I REPEAT: THERE IS NO WAY TO ENTIRELY REMOVE YOURSELF FROM EVERYTHING YOU DISAGREE WITH!! I don't care if it's AFF, zango, xsales, popups, or content that offends you! This is ADULT! This is not a chairity. This is an impluse transaction. This is, "Hey do you want to go in the VIP room?" type shit. IE: Adult Entertainment! It is amazing how many people forget that! There is one processor that is refusing to do business with people that have merchant accounts. It's their world, are just just living in it - FINE! BUT... at the same time they do transactions for programs that own tube sites, steal content, and use it to create sales and traffic for their own sites. I could pull a George Bush and "You an either you are with the terrorists or against them?" Sure! If I wanted to scream and whine that what they are doing isn't fair I guess I could, but rather than tell them how to do their business, I just do what I can to control the flood of our content onto the tube sites and do business with their competitor.

4. Do you know what the #1 thing that has stunted OCCash's growth over the years? The fact that we've remained revshare for so long! After hearing just as much screaming and whining about the revshare model, we finally went PPS. To go PPS and pay $35 on a 1$ trial we needed xsales. Remember, we are paying our 35x what your initial transaction is (actually 70x when you take our processing). We update with exclusive content twice a day. We have higher than normal content costs because we actually have product, but wait...here is the really funny part...FAST FORWARD TO 2008: OPEN UP THE LATEST AVNONLINE AND READ "THE THE GOSPAL ACCORDING TO..." SECTION: OCCASH IS IN THE TOP 10 EARNERS OF ALL PROGRAMS FOR EVERY PERSON THAT POSTED THEIR STATS! That?s because they were patient and didn?t make a run for the fast money and let the rebills grow! Adult online is all about the rebills!

The way this industry is set up: IT IS BUILT TO FAIL! Everybody wants the highest payout, but they don't want you to actually be able to make money in order to pay them. As programs, we are at the top of the food chain, if we aren't making money, how can we be paying it?

Jesus?THINK, THINK, THINK!

All that aside, if it were up to me, this is how adult online will work:

1. All the illegal tubes site would go away.
2. Xsales would go away.
3. Payouts would be 50/50 revshare.
4. People would be go back to paying for content like they used to!

That's a business plan that is built to succeed and that is what I'm in favor of. Till then you just have to adapt and do what you can to get by.

If you actually read this whole post...congratulations: YOUR IQ JUST WENT UP 10 POINTS!

IF NOT: Now flush a 20 dollar bill down the toilet!

Just my 3 cents!

Jay

Amen :thumbsup

xxxjay 10-25-2008 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BobG (Post 14952014)
Amen :thumbsup

Tony Testa actually recommended you guys as a sponsor. I'm going to check it out.

JaneB 10-25-2008 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CAMOKAT (Post 14951936)
you are mental. I have no idea who greg is. show me those threads where I "brought" his name in?

Haha. I am mental because you talk about a person you don't know. If you don't know who Greg is then why do you even bring him up at all? You can go and look up the threads yourself where you mention him. It will give you something to do since you are so bored you have to always to put your nose into what I am doing. Damn you are a GFY stalker. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Porno Dan 10-25-2008 05:42 PM

Well said Jay.

I have some German Jager for you when we meet up next.

DWB 10-25-2008 05:49 PM

I agree with everything you said in that post Jay.

Fuck the haters man. Don't let any of them get to you. You are very successful and if you let them they will try to make you fail, as many of them are right now.

The time you have spent dealing with drama you could have spent it better suiting your company to earn more money. Don't let these people drag you into the shit again. You owe NOBODY an explanation of how and why you do things the way you do. If they don't like it, they can take their 1 sale every few days (if any at all) elsewhere.

Rock on with your bad self Jay!

DWB 10-25-2008 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeCreep (Post 14950160)
Yo Jay, you shouldn't post less here. Whales and other smart people still read this board. It may not seem like it though, because it's the newbies, flamers, and haters who post the most.

That's the reason why I pretty much never start business threads anymore. You always get some newbie who makes like $300/month in adult coming into the thread talking like he knows shit, thinking he knows everything of course, when in fact he has no idea who he's talking too or the company he's in.

:thumbsup Well said.

BobG 10-25-2008 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay (Post 14952032)
Tony Testa actually recommended you guys as a sponsor. I'm going to check it out.

Right on, glad to hear it man. Testa's the man, too bad to see him go (to Conneticut not dead). Let me know what you need to give us a good test Jay, I'll rig up whatever you need and put together a special little package of content/creatives... plus a little insider tip that some of my affs are using that my site convert like crazy :)

Penny24Seven 10-25-2008 06:16 PM

all we ever do is 50/50 and i have people that send 5 sales a month and get 15 rebills a month still. I am worming on pps so people can help me make more money too lol

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 10-25-2008 06:19 PM

Almost 4 pages of stupid shit.

I read 3 posts so far in this thread and even those 3 that I read I regret it.
I am just posting here because no one can get enough of Jay and what he has to say.

I'll do a shot tonight for ya man! Way to kick in face Jay:) 1 post = 4 pages!

So here's to Excellent ratio's!

Adam X 10-25-2008 06:25 PM

more jokes more jokes.. ;)

The Duck 10-25-2008 06:52 PM

Am I supposed to fold the 20 before I flush it? Mine just go around in circles in the bowl like a tiny paper surfer.

Phil 10-25-2008 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 14952133)
Haha. I am mental because you talk about a person you don't know. If you don't know who Greg is then why do you even bring him up at all? You can go and look up the threads yourself where you mention him. It will give you something to do since you are so bored you have to always to put your nose into what I am doing. Damn you are a GFY stalker. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/e...21/Dumbass.jpg

wyldblyss 10-25-2008 07:09 PM

The issue is there are a lot of webmasters that have no idea how sponsors earn money, the cost involved in running a program and paying webmasters. Many are so eager to jump on the bandwagon and bitch simply out of boredom or in an effort to gang up and feel they belong. Ignore the haters, they will always be there.

JaneB 10-25-2008 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CAMOKAT (Post 14952351)

Wow you just summed up perfectly what most people think when they see your postings. Isn't there some major drama thread you should be posting in right now? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

topnotch, standup guy 10-25-2008 10:24 PM

Here's a quick yes or no question for you.

There are some people here who insist that you, in fact, greased up your butt cheeks and went squealing to the mods to ban Franck's most recent nick.

Meanwhile, there are others who would have us believe that you do indeed have a pair of balls and that you would, therefore, never do any such thing.

Now, for he record, yes or no, which one is it??

DWB 10-25-2008 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by topnotch, standup guy (Post 14952761)
Here's a quick yes or no question for you.

There are some people here who insist that you, in fact, greased up your butt cheeks and went squealing to the mods to ban Franck's most recent nick.

Meanwhile, there are others who would have us believe that you do indeed have a pair of balls and that you would, therefore, never do any such thing.

Now, for he record, yes or no, which one is it??

Who cares either way? If some asshat was giving me a hard time non-stop and I had the ability to have him canned, I'd do the same thing. It's called business. If OC Cash is an advertiser here and someone is attacking them, the board is going to protect its advertisers. End of story.

GFY is a business. It earns money by selling ad space. If they have to ban some shits here or there to protect those advertisers, so be it.

topnotch, standup guy 10-25-2008 10:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DirtyWhiteBoy (Post 14952774)
Who cares either way? If some asshat was giving me a hard time non-stop and I had the ability to have him canned, I'd do the same thing. It's called business. If OC Cash is an advertiser here and someone is attacking them, the board is going to protect its advertisers. End of story.

GFY is a business. It earns money by selling ad space. If they have to ban some shits here or there to protect those advertisers, so be it.

I suppose it all depends on what sort of image you want to present.

Then again, we don't know that the guy wussed out... maybe he didn't.

What say he?

Jens Van Assterdam 10-25-2008 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by topnotch, standup guy (Post 14952791)
I suppose it all depends on what sort of image you want to present.

Then again, we don't know that the guy wussed out... maybe he didn't.

What say he?

Franck,

your english has been a way better before :upsidedow :1orglaugh

GUNNER 10-26-2008 11:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDoc (Post 14949150)
The tube argument is an excuse, and it's bullshit. Piracy has been around far before tubes, and the real piracy ring, is still larger than tubes.

Tubes provide something surfers didn't have before, saying you need to adapt isn't about dealing with tube piracy. It's about learning....

Have you not noticed these programs pushing hard xsales, lots of upsells, really don't offer one-on-one member love, most have crap support.
These are the programs trying everything right now before they finally shit out.


Like many others, I also read your blog and agree with a lot of what you have to say. It's very informative and I learn something every time I visit. Thank you.


No offense, I just wanted to respectfully disagree with this one point. I was completely with you on this post up until the tubes and piracy comment. Tube traffic/sites are most definitely a problem and although their certainly not the only factor contributing to a decline in sales, I do think they are a valid reason - not just an excuse.

Yes, it's true piracy has been around far before tubes, and it was rampant in many different forms. However, what tubes have done, in my opinion, is remove ALL of the technical barriers from accessing pirated content, and made the delivery method equally or even more attractive than conventional paysites.

Before tubes:
Downloading and installing a file-sharing program or a newsgroup reader, and then spend hours learning how to operate said programs or system. Risk getting infected, bogus, or low-quality files. Risk being targeted by some piracy sting operation or have to worry about taking your PC, laptop in for repairs because you have illegal software installed. Very difficult to organize or access the exact type of files you're looking for because so much of the content is incorrectly named or intentionally mislalbeled.


After tubes:
Click play - watch high-quality porn for free - shoot yer load

GUNNER 10-26-2008 11:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GUNNER (Post 14953921)
although their certainly

they're certainly

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE 10-26-2008 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DirtyWhiteBoy (Post 14952774)
Who cares either way? If some asshat was giving me a hard time non-stop and I had the ability to have him canned, I'd do the same thing. It's called business. If OC Cash is an advertiser here and someone is attacking them, the board is going to protect its advertisers. End of story.

GFY is a business. It earns money by selling ad space. If they have to ban some shits here or there to protect those advertisers, so be it.

Wrong, he did go crying to mod/admins to have Franck banned, he did the same to me, except i wasn't previously banned and on another nick so they wouldn't ban me... I hit Jay harder and stronger then Franck did, its just he is supposed to be banned, so they banned his other nick also.

tony286 10-26-2008 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GUNNER (Post 14953921)
Like many others, I also read your blog and agree with a lot of what you have to say. It's very informative and I learn something every time I visit. Thank you.


No offense, I just wanted to respectfully disagree with this one point. I was completely with you on this post up until the tubes and piracy comment. Tube traffic/sites are most definitely a problem and although their certainly not the only factor contributing to a decline in sales, I do think they are a valid reason - not just an excuse.

Yes, it's true piracy has been around far before tubes, and it was rampant in many different forms. However, what tubes have done, in my opinion, is remove ALL of the technical barriers from accessing pirated content, and made the delivery method equally or even more attractive than conventional paysites.

Before tubes:
Downloading and installing a file-sharing program or a newsgroup reader, and then spend hours learning how to operate said programs or system. Risk getting infected, bogus, or low-quality files. Risk being targeted by some piracy sting operation or have to worry about taking your PC, laptop in for repairs because you have illegal software installed. Very difficult to organize or access the exact type of files you're looking for because so much of the content is incorrectly named or intentionally mislalbeled.


After tubes:
Click play - watch high-quality porn for free - shoot yer load

Well said, my grandma can use a tube.

TheDoc 10-26-2008 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GUNNER (Post 14953921)
Before tubes:
Downloading and installing a file-sharing program or a newsgroup reader, and then spend hours learning how to operate said programs or system. Risk getting infected, bogus, or low-quality files. Risk being targeted by some piracy sting operation or have to worry about taking your PC, laptop in for repairs because you have illegal software installed. Very difficult to organize or access the exact type of files you're looking for because so much of the content is incorrectly named or intentionally mislalbeled.


After tubes:
Click play - watch high-quality porn for free - shoot yer load

Thanks for reading and the support :)


The overall statistical drop we have today, is no worse than it was before tubes, meaning it is just about the same since 2257 came out. Only recently has it started to increase, and that is explainable by the eco since every industry in America is feeling it.

Online porn is NOT recession proof, simply because the Internet isn't recession proof. If a person can hardly afford net access, I wouldn't ever expect or think, they would pay for porn. Since that is a factor of reality we can't ignore.... I choose to take the branding. Being so, I expect MILLIONS of views for a trickle of sales.

Other very common factors for major drops in sales, rebills, money, new members - ect.. is VISA/MC re-issuing "1 hundred million+" North America cards the first few months of this year. Globally each year, this is massive. They have re-issued cards 4 times that I know of this year alone. Or that banks aren't allow high risk transactions to go through without voice auth... and hell, I could go on for days. Or if they cancel your card, and your balance is to high, they lower your balance until you pay off part of the card.

Let's not forget that 200+ of the largest programs in our Industry "ARE" screwing surfers offer. That's a major % of the sales EVERY day, being circle jerked for MONEY and not just for porn!

Piracy is big today, it was big yesterday, and it was as big then as it is today.

And again... not every paysite is dropping. Just because things slow down, which is logical, they haven't really noticed a 'problem' like most. And if they do, they know it isn't Tubes doing it.

Just a small list of what we had before Tubes.

Backdoors to everything.
Open and private forums by the 1000's.
Most of the first paysites was all stolen content.
Password sites that used to do zero minute hacks on request.
Password sites used to sell memberships to your pirated content.
IRC was once a monster, everyone had it, and it had everything.
EasyNews, or web-based news sites that were the first tube sites.
Crack, warez, serial number sites used to have major pirated porn on them.
File Sharing wasn't a technical jump, it was just software, that even kids did use.

That's basically ignoring the other known factors, normal newsgroups, basic one-on-one trading, entire torrent like warez/porn servers wide open for free access, ftp up/down exchange systems, and this list can go on too.


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