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AaliyahLove 01-03-2009 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 15278785)
Off topic but how can I get ahold of you.

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JP-pornshooter 01-04-2009 01:26 AM

i have done both, it really kinda depends on the model.
if she is new, a little insecure and i can hear she is relatively professional then i have no problem with them bringing a friend. if i feel they might be trouble i tell them that they can drop off the model, come inspect the place but they cant stay as i do not want to be responsible for any "lost items"from the room they would be waiting in.
generally speaking i would always recommend a model to bring a friend along, at least until they develop a pool of trusted photographers to work with..

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 02:12 AM

What many here don't realise is what works for one shooter in one location does not work for another shooter in another location. I don't know Simon but I agree with all his The secret of simon rules except one. Never had a problem adjusting a girls clothes, putting her in the right position or touching her. Met other shooters who I would not like to touch me, let alone a girl.

In fact not touching a girl is totally creepy if the girl is in the wrong position, has her clothing wrong and you're not able to communicate to her what is right. If you can't just walk over and put it right without her thinking you're a creep you have a problem. And she will notice it.

If you're the right guy with the right approach you can get away with tons of stuff that the girls like. In fact they feel more appreciated if you do. I tell girls there's no film in the camera, never have sold my work, a total pervert doing this to look at naked women and can not be trusted from the start. They think I'm kidding and relax.

I also tell them this is porn and I expect them to act differently than they would punching the till in the local super market, I also tell them I will treat them like a porn model and not a supermarket check out girl. In fact I don't have to tell them anything, my approach and attitude tells them everything.

And that's the key. It's not what you do the girls pick up on, it's who you are that influences what they think of you.

It's not down to the model, it's about the shooter. A bad model with a bad attitude should not be working.

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 02:28 AM

Here's another thought. Who watches the escort while he's sitting in the next room?

Maybe you have a make up artist you can trust, maybe like me staff, but do I want him or her sitting in the office? Maybe he can sit outside and she will worry about how long it's taking and if he's getting bored.

No this is porn and if you want to earn in a day what your sister earns in a month you have to accept it's not the same kind of job. The problem is today too many shooters think it is. In the 30+ years shooting I have never ever encountered more un professional, poorly taught and fake models as today. That's because they're in front of guys who think they should treat a porn model on $1,000 a scene the same as they treat the check out girl in a super market.

This is the Golden Rules all porn girls should learn.

You are only here because men like to fuck attractive girls and you're an attractive girl men like to fuck.
Don't blame us if we think you're hot. If you weren't you would not be here.
And you would be earning in a month what you will earn today, tomorrow, next week, next month and if you're still hot in a years time and guys still want to fuck you, still be earning in a years time.
The door is not locked and you're in no danger, but you're hot so don't blame me.

The real problem is creeps who try to act like non creeps.

After Shock Media 01-04-2009 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279649)
This is the Golden Rules all porn girls should learn.

You are only here because men like to fuck attractive girls and you're an attractive girl men like to fuck.
Don't blame us if we think you're hot. If you weren't you would not be here.
And you would be earning in a month what you will earn today, tomorrow, next week, next month and if you're still hot in a years time and guys still want to fuck you, still be earning in a years time.
The door is not locked and you're in no danger, but you're hot so don't blame me.

The real problem is creeps who try to act like non creeps.

Yeah really works well when your trying on purpose to shoot average girls, bbw girls, whatever else. It is far from any golden rule. This is often why I drop out of almost any thread once you begin posting in it. Most of the shit you post only fits into your small little reality bubble and anything outside of it must either be wrong, or of no significance to your decades of "experience" shooting.

The real problem is when people lure models in saying one thing and then trying to surprise them or have them do other things when they actually get there. Then trouble starts, bad things get spread etc.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 01-04-2009 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279628)
What many here don't realise is what works for one shooter in one location does not work for another shooter in another location. I don't know Simon but I agree with all his The secret of simon rules except one. Never had a problem adjusting a girls clothes, putting her in the right position or touching her. Met other shooters who I would not like to touch me, let alone a girl.

In fact not touching a girl is totally creepy if the girl is in the wrong position, has her clothing wrong and you're not able to communicate to her what is right. If you can't just walk over and put it right without her thinking you're a creep you have a problem. And she will notice it.

If you're the right guy with the right approach you can get away with tons of stuff that the girls like
. In fact they feel more appreciated if you do. I tell girls there's no film in the camera, never have sold my work, a total pervert doing this to look at naked women and can not be trusted from the start. They think I'm kidding and relax.

I also tell them this is porn and I expect them to act differently than they would punching the till in the local super market, I also tell them I will treat them like a porn model and not a supermarket check out girl.

In fact I don't have to tell them anything, my approach and attitude tells them everything.


And that's the key. It's not what you do the girls pick up on, it's who you are that influences what they think of you.

It's not down to the model, it's about the shooter. A bad model with a bad attitude should not be working.

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279649)
This is the Golden Rules all porn girls should learn.

You are only here because men like to fuck attractive girls and you're an attractive girl men like to fuck.
Don't blame us if we think you're hot. If you weren't you would not be here.
And you would be earning in a month what you will earn today, tomorrow, next week, next month and if you're still hot in a years time and guys still want to fuck you, still be earning in a years time.
The door is not locked and you're in no danger, but you're hot so don't blame me.

The real problem is creeps who try to act like non creeps.

Damn Paul, by your own definition, YOU are a TOTAL creep!

http://www.paulmarkham.com/temp/eva-paul.jpg

ADG

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 15279657)
Yeah really works well when your trying on purpose to shoot average girls, bbw girls, whatever else. It is far from any golden rule. This is often why I drop out of almost any thread once you begin posting in it. Most of the shit you post only fits into your small little reality bubble and anything outside of it must either be wrong, or of no significance to your decades of "experience" shooting.

The real problem is when people lure models in saying one thing and then trying to surprise them or have them do other things when they actually get there. Then trouble starts, bad things get spread etc.

Yes I only shoot average girls. You obviously never read properly what I said. It always relates to the little bubble of reality that is the shooters, model and day. It's a professional shooters jobs to effect and create that bubble of reality and not let the model effect or create it. Whether that model is a top Penthouse model or an average BBW girl, the shooter is always the boss. Any shooter who allows a model to be the boss is a fool.

Have you ever thought you can't do what I can do when you're shooting? Like I said there are more un professional girls around today than there has ever been. Because of all the unprofessional shooters. Maybe you have a problem with models that I don't.

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 15279679)
Damn Paul, by your own definition, YOU are a TOTAL creep!

http://www.paulmarkham.com/temp/eva-paul.jpg

ADG

Thanks for posting proof that girls don't see me as creepy. If I was that picture would never exist.

And seeing as Eva fell in love with me when she was 20, I was 47, we are still together 11 years later, still happy and still very much in love. It's obvious what you and After Shock Media think of me is irrelevant. And only a fool would think it matters.

It's what the model thinks of you on a casting and shoot that counts. Not what a few post board warriors think. Only they think their opinion counts in effecting a model. Some think posting proof girls don't think you're a creep is proof you are. :1orglaugh

After Shock Media 01-04-2009 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279680)
Yes I only shoot average girls. You obviously never read properly what I said. It always relates to the little bubble of reality that is the shooters, model and day. It's a professional shooters jobs to effect and create that bubble of reality and not let the model effect or create it. Whether that model is a top Penthouse model or an average BBW girl, the shooter is always the boss. Any shooter who allows a model to be the boss is a fool.

Have you ever thought you can't do what I can do when you're shooting? Like I said there are more un professional girls around today than there has ever been. Because of all the unprofessional shooters. Maybe you have a problem with models that I don't.

What in the hell is the thread link for? I never said you shoot average girls. Nor did I attempt to make some GOLDEN RULES that models should follow, one that does not lend itself to non hot girls. Nobody but you also brought up that the model should be the boss.

I know I cant do what you do shooting. Would not even begin to think it, and why would I? I am sure somewhere in your head you would want or expect others to think that way or compare maybe but no, what you do does not even enter my head outside of threads you post on here.

Is there more unprofessional girls around today than before? Not really sure as I have not worked with them all. I rarely have problems myself. I would also reason to think there are perhaps a hundred or more models entering each day in comparison to the number that was entering the business a decade ago and more than likely five hundred time or more when going back fifteen or twenty years - So I really think it would average out.

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 03:21 AM

And that's the proof that there is no golden rules, other than this is porn and you have to accept to earn the money.

If ADG and AFS acted like me maybe they could not get away with it, maybe they have a way that works for them that would not work for me. In the 30 years I've been shooting I've shot stars at the top of their game, newbies who went to the top to average girls who never got past a casting. I never changed my approach or rules for any of them. My rules fit me.

And they fit me well enough to of married a girl who came on a casting and dated a few of the girls I shot.

Maybe some shooters are so edgy on a shoot they are in danger of putting a girl off, maybe with some shooters an escort is the best way, maybe some shooters are best not touching a girl and maybe with others the girl is relaxed and never dreams she needs and escort. Or thinks twice if the shooter moves her into the correct position.

Shooting porn is not a "paint by numbers" job. It needs the personality of the shooter to take control of the situation and effect the outcome. Sometimes that is an easy and positive thing, seeing some of the replies here it's obvious others have problems.

And yes over the years I've had to change as I get older, but not a lot.

After Shock Media 01-04-2009 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279684)
It's obvious what you and After Shock Media think of me is irrelevant. And only a fool would think it matters.

It's what the model thinks of you on a casting and shoot that counts. Not what a few post board warriors think. Only they think their opinion counts in effecting a model.

I do not think you are irrelevant. I think you are stubborn, hard headed, and antiquated to the point of perhaps being antediluvian when it comes to business outside of your perceived beliefs. You also are very prone to self promotion and spamming the hell out of places while trying to act like it is not spam.

Glad to know that myself and ADG are suddenly post board warriors though. Especially when making posts on topic and in a business orientated thread and we just happen to dissagree with you and your "rules".

hypedough 01-04-2009 03:31 AM

I think there were more unprofessional girls years ago than now. Maybe the girls you deal with aren't mature enough to show up prepared for a shoot, but most of the ones I've run into lately have been consistently on time and professional. It might be because I work in Porn Valley where it's a job for these girls, not a quick buck because they've already gone through taking the plunge into adult. Don't get me wrong, there's always the complete hooker out of the bunch so watch out. But when I was shooting back in 2004-2005, there was a way higher cancellation rate due to the girl than there is now.

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 03:34 AM

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What in the hell is the thread link for? I never said you shoot average girls. Nor did I attempt to make some GOLDEN RULES that models should follow, one that does not lend itself to non hot girls. Nobody but you also brought up that the model should be the boss.
To show the range of girls I shoot. From the top to the bottom the same rules apply. This thread is all about girls laying down the rules of bringing an escort. Go read it.

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I know I cant do what you do shooting. Would not even begin to think it, and why would I? I am sure somewhere in your head you would want or expect others to think that way or compare maybe but no, what you do does not even enter my head outside of threads you post on here.
I also know I can't be you when I shoot and have said so. What I do works for me and not you and I said so.

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Is there more unprofessional girls around today than before? Not really sure as I have not worked with them all. I rarely have problems myself. I would also reason to think there are perhaps a hundred or more models entering each day in comparison to the number that was entering the business a decade ago and more than likely five hundred time or more when going back fifteen or twenty years - So I really think it would average out.
Yes there are more unprofessional girls around today than a decade ago or two decades and I would know. How long have you been shooting?

Whether there are more models around or not I think depends on where you are and what you're shooting. I never brought up the numbers, I was talking about how professional the models were. Why did you bring up numbers?

Why are you arguing without having a leg to stand on?

I'm finished with you.

After Shock Media 01-04-2009 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279727)
Why did you bring up numbers?

Why are you arguing without having a leg to stand on?

I'm finished with you.


I never had a leg to stand on anyways, that is pointless to even bring up. You have been shooting much longer than I. I have less than 20 years of experience doing it, getting close to 19 if I recall correctly. I only brought up numbers to go with your thoughts that there are more unprofessional girls today than before in the past. The numbers was just a way to say percentage wise I doubt the number that are professional versus those that are not has not changed or may have actually gone down due to there being so many more models today than there was 10, 20, and 30 years ago.

Paul Markham 01-04-2009 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by hypedough (Post 15279721)
I think there were more unprofessional girls years ago than now. Maybe the girls you deal with aren't mature enough to show up prepared for a shoot, but most of the ones I've run into lately have been consistently on time and professional. It might be because I work in Porn Valley where it's a job for these girls, not a quick buck because they've already gone through taking the plunge into adult. Don't get me wrong, there's always the complete hooker out of the bunch so watch out. But when I was shooting back in 2004-2005, there was a way higher cancellation rate due to the girl than there is now.

Comparing 2008 with 2004-2005 I would completely agree with you. Then the girls were getting far too much work thrown at them. Today with less work around they are better at turning up and more willing to work our way. I was thinking back a few more years. I was also thinking of more than just time keeping and arriving as an indication of how professional a girl is. Those things are simple manners and a newbie can turn up on time. What makes a girl a professional model is an entirely new thread and has little to do with turning up on time and the numbers of newbies.

Juilan 01-06-2009 03:18 PM

Fuck no spectators, they can steal things when I'm not looking that's my main concern.

pocketkangaroo 01-06-2009 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15279012)
pansies I tell ya

Funny, the ones that seem like pansies to me would be the ones who are afraid to have someone else watch what they are doing. With all the shady characters working in this industry, is it smart for any girl to show up to a shoot without an escort (unless she really knows the guy she is shooting for)?

pocketkangaroo 01-06-2009 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by simonsyinister (Post 15276604)
Usually the model wants to suck and fuck me, so obviously they want to play to get pay. I've had a few girls , ask can BF or hubby or manager come... I politely tell them, fuck no..and if they insist..I follow up with...shoot cancelled and hire another one million models.

It's simple... NO MATTER what you shoot.. a girl will NEVER act the same w/ a friend around as she would by herself.. that's a fact and u can take it to the Bank.

I give them references, they see past works, they can google me.. I tell them I shot over 200 models and I haven't killed anybody in the past 5 years...Yet * MUHHAAAHAHAHAHA*


They laugh and come over to suck my dick and fall in love with my southern charm and hospitality. I treat models as if they are my girlfriend for a few hours ( I listen to their dumbass stories with a smile)...the attention and kindness they receive, translates into cuteness, shyness, happiness and horniess..I get new girls no one has shot...half of the battle is total transparency. The model knows everything about me, before I book the ticket..then they become "intrigued" with working for me..I slam in the salami, bang I gotta another model looking to leave her hubby or dump her boyfriend just so she can stare in my soft blue eyes...I only pull out the full MAGIC when I know a girl can be a true money maker..because I still need to pimp this bitch for my money... if she likes me..oh my , how the money rolls in.

I also get model releases signed BEFORE shoot and I pay AFTER shoot

It also helps to have a big mainstream past...

**special note to photographers***
1. If u are fat..go to the gym
2. If you are old...act young
3. Buy clothes from this decade
4. watch MTV get to learn the lingo..relate to the models on their level
5. wash your ass dudes..I put vanilla baby powder on my balls..Im clean and girls like that
6. do not "adjust girls clothing" I only touch them after they touch me

7. Stop being a fucking creep and never force or command a model to do anything. My sets are fun and it shows..If a model feels she can't do what is required in the shoot..send her packing, simple..I always lay out everything I need them to shoot before I get the ticket..some girls change thier minds or feel guilty about BF..so that's cool They take a cab home, asap

8. A nice car really goes a long way..doesn't have to be totally expensive, just a cool car or truck..models get wet faster

9. GUM or TIC TACS ..always

10. steps 1-9, rinse and repeat

Reading your post, you come across as the kind of shooter who is in it to get laid (albeit paying for it) and not to make money. You would precisely be the person that a girl should have an escort with at every shoot.

Mr. E 01-07-2009 01:31 AM

I dont allow escorts, ever. In fact, I work with alot of agency models who would be dropped or in alot of trouble for bringing somenone along to a shoot. Its only been recently with these internet girls playing model that escorts have even become an issue. Real models working for agencies come alone. Here are 2 fantastic reasons you shouldnt allow escorts either, both of these happened to a friend of mine.

Model shows up with escort friend who drove her. He spent an hour setting up, she spent 2 hours getting ready and another 90 min driving to the shoot. 15 min after they show up, the escort's mother calls and tells her that her 10 month old baby was having a severe allergic reaction and needed to be taken to the hospital. So because they drove together, bye bye model, no shoot and alot of wasted time.

Another time model brings b/f who is standing over his shoulder while he shoots taking pics on a point and shoot they brought. Then everytime the photographer has to make minor adjustments to the lights or his camera, model runs over to sit on b/f's lap and kiss him.

If any model questions why I dont allow escorts, I tell them to contact one of the hundreds of other models I have shot for a refference. If thats not good enough, they can shoot with someone else, end of story.

ExLust 01-07-2009 01:45 AM

As long "escorts" don't ruin the shoot. Model should put into consideration that shooters needs focus.

fuzebox 01-07-2009 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 15279727)
Why are you arguing without having a leg to stand on?

Now that's just funny :1orglaugh

After Shock Media 01-07-2009 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox (Post 15292124)
Now that's just funny :1orglaugh

Few will even get it and I really think it was also accidental by Paul. Would of been better if on purpose, but well I can not associate him with a sense of humor.


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