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BusterBunny 02-01-2009 10:39 PM

fiddy...........

DannysReviews|com 02-01-2009 10:46 PM

Good luck.

Robbie 02-01-2009 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15421029)
man, I have been a part of 3 industries now...music, restaurant and porn

there is NO industry that parties as hard as the porn industry...sure there are elements in every industry that get out of hand, but beer for beer and hit for hit, the porn industry can't help but let loose any time 5 or more people from within it get together, PERIOD

partying IS a huge part of this industry, and combine that with free love and constant nudity and sex surrounding you, it is just fuel for the fire

You should have been on the road with me in my band from 1978 to 1998. I have to tell you that no, the porn industry doesn't party all that hard. I do party pretty hard and I have to say that the partying I have done and still do with people outside the industry is a lot funner and more intense. Most guys that I personally know in this biz and party with at night at conventions are pretty normal in their intake of party goods. No more than my friends that are doctors, lawyers, cops, etc.

Now when I get together with other musicians and a roomfull of strippers...that can turn into a 3 day binge. lol

But most in this industry are like me. We work hard. Hell, that's just about all I do is work. And when I get the odd weekend night to escape my work and responsibilities...then it's on and I play hard.

Personally I think Donnie took things a little too much to heart from keyboard haters on here. He's a nice guy, and he's only in his 20's. He hasn't had time to really do anything good or bad. He's just young and learning. :)

Juicy D. Links 02-01-2009 11:01 PM

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dav3 02-01-2009 11:09 PM

good luck 2 you

fris 02-01-2009 11:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by riddler (Post 15421000)
haha, hopefully you die next time, you are a waste of skin.

best quote ever

MikeSmoke 02-02-2009 12:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15421029)
sure there are elements in every industry that get out of hand, but beer for beer and hit for hit, the porn industry can't help but let loose any time 5 or more people from within it get together, PERIOD

Every summer, a group of "serious webmasters" who've been friends for many years get together in Vegas for 4-5 days, to talk business, and of course eat, gamble, and have a few drinks --- but we don't "let loose" "beer for beer and hit for hit" --- we compare notes and ideas, have some fun, and go home.
Not telling you what to do...just saying that the party is there if you want to find it...and not everyone wants to, or does.

MikeSmoke 02-02-2009 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbie (Post 15421041)
You should have been on the road with me in my band from 1978 to 1998. I have to tell you that no, the porn industry doesn't party all that hard.

In a previous life I was also in a music-related industry, and you're absolutely right :winkwink:

kmanrox 02-02-2009 12:08 AM

where's quickbucks or was it makingcoin that denounced him the other week?

DWB 02-02-2009 12:23 AM

Good luck Big D.

XX_RydeR 02-02-2009 12:47 AM

Good luck getting back on your feet dude.

doridori 02-02-2009 01:05 AM

honestly only 1% of ppl i've talked to and done some transactions are serious ballers here. some ppl with 10,000 posts i discoverd theres a good reason why the've been here the longest, they dont work they jsut spend all there days here....trying to sell their sigs and pay their rent...shit is a joke (of course there are real pros with those post counts) people who act instead of posting senselss shit all day, and epic this epic that. rest are all fucking posers. so post less, and work. i think action speaks the loudest. and some retard will of course reply to this, and be like who are you to say this and that. honestly, fuck it not worth time arguing.

jscott 02-02-2009 02:49 AM

Remember alcohol can fuel your depression, fix your alcoholism and it could probably help your depression, good luck man

BAKO 02-02-2009 03:05 AM

Find jesus

xsabn 02-02-2009 03:43 AM

alcohol is good, quit weed.

hope you are ok now Donnie.

Sabin

StuartD 02-02-2009 04:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xsabn (Post 15421541)
alcohol is good, quit weed.

Stupid :2 cents:

tranza 02-02-2009 04:23 AM

Wish you luck!

pixovore 02-02-2009 06:03 AM

Wish you the best and a quick recovery!

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Nicky 02-02-2009 06:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kmanrox (Post 15421190)
where's quickbucks or was it makingcoin that denounced him the other week?

Makingcoin

pornguy 02-02-2009 06:53 AM

OK. I read part of it.

ThumbLord 02-02-2009 07:50 AM

hmmmmmmmmmm interesting.

dial 02-02-2009 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MikeSmoke (Post 15421177)
Every summer, a group of "serious webmasters" who've been friends for many years get together in Vegas for 4-5 days, to talk business, and of course eat, gamble, and have a few drinks --- but we don't "let loose" "beer for beer and hit for hit" --- we compare notes and ideas, have some fun, and go home.
Not telling you what to do...just saying that the party is there if you want to find it...and not everyone wants to, or does.

I am not speaking of the typical shows that every webmaster can be a part of. I am speaking of the 4-5 private shows that are invite only and cost a LOT of money...I see "bro club" guys up for 3 days straight on all kinds of substances, hookers everywhere, etc etc etc....and then come to GFY and preach about the dangers of drugs

shit, I know one HUGE program owner that is a cocaine dealer on the side...he stocks up and goes to these private shows and becomes the cocaine guy for a few days and makes a couple grand selling $200 8balls to out of control bro club idiots

Altwebdesign 02-02-2009 08:36 AM

get well!

Agent 488 02-02-2009 08:43 AM

shit happens. take care.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life 02-02-2009 08:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big_D (Post 15420539)
Why do I always lose focus? Well over the past 3 years I have had a constant battle with either drugs or alcohol. I've never had anyone in my life to care about or anyone that cared about me since my divorce and the only way I have been able to cope with that is by self medicating myself to the means of forgetting.

That's pretty gangsta. You're cool in my book. :thumbsup

Tom_PM 02-02-2009 09:30 AM

I wish you the very best of luck wrestling demons. They get all of us to some degree at some point.

Industries dont party; some people do though.
Weed and beer dont send you into spirals; they only keep you in them.

notime 02-02-2009 10:23 AM

Good luck getting back on your feet. Good to see you have your familly helping you out.

Imortyl Pussycat 02-02-2009 10:57 AM

stick with your fam and stay clean and the rest will follow donnie. best of luck on your long road ahead.

tony286 02-02-2009 11:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbie (Post 15421041)
You should have been on the road with me in my band from 1978 to 1998. I have to tell you that no, the porn industry doesn't party all that hard. I do party pretty hard and I have to say that the partying I have done and still do with people outside the industry is a lot funner and more intense. Most guys that I personally know in this biz and party with at night at conventions are pretty normal in their intake of party goods. No more than my friends that are doctors, lawyers, cops, etc.

Now when I get together with other musicians and a roomfull of strippers...that can turn into a 3 day binge. lol

But most in this industry are like me. We work hard. Hell, that's just about all I do is work. And when I get the odd weekend night to escape my work and responsibilities...then it's on and I play hard.

Personally I think Donnie took things a little too much to heart from keyboard haters on here. He's a nice guy, and he's only in his 20's. He hasn't had time to really do anything good or bad. He's just young and learning. :)

musicians much harder partiers by far. lol I think you could cut the down the drinking at the shows by 75 percent if you did away with open bars.

Kron 02-02-2009 11:11 AM

Good luck dude

_Richard_ 02-02-2009 05:56 PM

best of luck.

MaDalton 02-02-2009 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MikeSmoke (Post 15421179)
In a previous life I was also in a music-related industry, and you're absolutely right :winkwink:

i am with you, in 10 years of music i have seen much worse things than i ever saw at a porn convention - lol

dial 02-02-2009 06:25 PM

it is completely amazing the shit that you all are oblivious to that goes on in our industry

granted, musicians might do a much wider variety of drugs, therefore fucking them up harder, but the subtle constant use of drugs in the porn industry is crazy

shit, half the female talent is constantly on meth or cocaine
I know of one particular group of webmasters that meets up every friday night and parties until monday morning, doing everything they can find and then some...and these are guys ON GFY that preach about how bad drugs are
I have personally witnessed 6 adult webmasters hit rock bottom using meth, and come to GFY saying they are moving on to better things, all along just so broke their internet is about to be turned off and they are going to be evicted....all the while having everyone on GFY fooled into thinking they are doing great and just diversifying

JFK 02-02-2009 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15426160)
it is completely amazing the shit that you all are oblivious to that goes on in our industry

granted, musicians might do a much wider variety of drugs, therefore fucking them up harder, but the subtle constant use of drugs in the porn industry is crazy

shit, half the female talent is constantly on meth or cocaine
I know of one particular group of webmasters that meets up every friday night and parties until monday morning, doing everything they can find and then some...and these are guys ON GFY that preach about how bad drugs are
I have personally witnessed 6 adult webmasters hit rock bottom using meth, and come to GFY saying they are moving on to better things, all along just so broke their internet is about to be turned off and they are going to be evicted....all the while having everyone on GFY fooled into thinking they are doing great and just diversifying

you seem to have an insight into some serious shit. Is it true or you just trying to be a "bro" ?

Ozarkz 02-02-2009 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15422050)
I am not speaking of the typical shows that every webmaster can be a part of. I am speaking of the 4-5 private shows that are invite only and cost a LOT of money...I see "bro club" guys up for 3 days straight on all kinds of substances, hookers everywhere, etc etc etc....and then come to GFY and preach about the dangers of drugs

shit, I know one HUGE program owner that is a cocaine dealer on the side...he stocks up and goes to these private shows and becomes the cocaine guy for a few days and makes a couple grand selling $200 8balls to out of control bro club idiots

There's "private shows" ??? When the hell do they have time for private shows? Their is a public show once or twice a month... :1orglaugh

Porno Dan 02-02-2009 06:50 PM

Good Luck Donnie, Take care of yourself.

Niktamer 02-02-2009 06:50 PM

Good luck

now can i see pics of those tattoos

baddog 02-02-2009 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RedShoe (Post 15420837)

I can count how many 'bong loads' and beers I've had in the past two years... on one hand.

It shows.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Profits of Doom (Post 15420972)
http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/j...08/cocaine.jpg

As for Donny, trust me man I've pissed away a ridiculous amount of money due to drugs and alcohol, probably more than most people on here have ever seen.

Yeah.

seeric 02-02-2009 07:00 PM

there is a fine line between successfully partying and partying successfully.

the problem is that the line is invisible. for many, it is different places.

i liken it to running through the dark knowing that there is a drop off to a certain death with any coming footstep further into the dark.

partly not knowing where the line is makes it exciting, but also muy dangerous.

i consider myself very lucky. i was woken up before i fell off the cliff.

good luck D.

seeric 02-02-2009 07:11 PM

i disagree that the porn business parties the hardest. i was in the night club business for 12+ years and by far the music business is far more crazy partying wise. i won't go into some of my adventures in other countries, or how many days they went on, but hands down, the music/nightclub/restaurant industry is the most crazy. shit i had a chef that would work from 5am to 2am wasted every day for years, and sleep 3 hours a night max, sometimes in the restaurant. i held residencies in damn near every club in san diego and from wed night to sunday night it was a giant party, after the club, you gather up the go go dancers and allt he straggler girls that wanna after party and you go after the club till god knows what hour. i guess everyone has a story, but in my experience, music biz wins hands down.

MikeSmoke 02-02-2009 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15422050)
I am not speaking of the typical shows that every webmaster can be a part of. I am speaking of the 4-5 private shows that are invite only and cost a LOT of money...I see "bro club" guys up for 3 days straight on all kinds of substances, hookers everywhere, etc etc etc....and then come to GFY and preach about the dangers of drugs

No, what you said was...

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15422050)
if a couple of beers and a bong hit sends yoou into a downward spiral than this is definitely NOT the industry for you

"The industry" isn't the same as a few "bros" getting crazy.

Robbie 02-02-2009 08:03 PM

Yeah, Dial seems to know a lot of HUGE program owners and webmasters personally who are off the chain! lol Yet, I've been in the online biz since the 1990's and partied with most of them and haven't yet met the program owner who deals coke on the side for $200 an eightball like he said(which I would never pay that much anyway lol )

And the crazy, crazy bunch of webmasters who party from Friday to Monday EVERY week! Wow! Heh-heh...you just described MILLIONS of blue collar workers.

Man, I have no idea what point you're trying to make. But I must be completely in the dark on all of this. And I thought I knew pretty much everybody that partied.

Point is, everybody has to blow off a little steam. And no, after owning a content company that shot tons of girls from 1998 to 2002...and fucking countless strippers for the last 25 years...I've seen plenty of girls in the adult biz that partied, but personally never any that were "addicted" to meth. I'm sure they're out there. But I haven't run into them so I don't think it's as common as you make it out to be.

I have seen and heard the rumors of TWO girls that were disclosed last year on this board. But other than that? Nope. I'm aware of all the girls who like to party when the time is right. And I don't see a damn thing wrong with that.

And I'm also aware of everybody that likes to party at a party. Hello, the conventions have PARTIES. lol If a guy can't let loose and have some fun with their friends and get a little drunk and loose at a PARTY, then when can ya?

Lighten up there dial. I've partied with cops, District Attorneys, done coke with a judge, doctors, you name it. People like to have a good time and let their hair down every once in a while.

Big difference between that and a heroin junkie laying in the streets. :)

Si 02-02-2009 08:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ManuteBol (Post 15420562)

:thumbsup:1orglaugh:thumbsup

xxxjay 02-02-2009 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dial (Post 15421029)
man, I have been a part of 3 industries now...music, restaurant and porn

there is NO industry that parties as hard as the porn industry...sure there are elements in every industry that get out of hand, but beer for beer and hit for hit, the porn industry can't help but let loose any time 5 or more people from within it get together, PERIOD

partying IS a huge part of this industry, and combine that with free love and constant nudity and sex surrounding you, it is just fuel for the fire

That's true. Good luck D. I'm glad you could step back and see everything for what is was. I hope you get better bro!

VicD 02-03-2009 02:00 AM

Welcome back and be good :)

V_RocKs 02-03-2009 05:31 AM

Shit happens.

CaptainHowdy 02-03-2009 09:59 AM

And I tought marihuana wasn't addictive...

Phoenix 02-03-2009 10:03 AM

stay hungry!!!! feed the fire... get healthy man

im sure there are still many opportunities for you in adult

you are young:)

seeric 02-03-2009 10:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbie (Post 15426949)
Yeah, Dial seems to know a lot of HUGE program owners and webmasters personally who are off the chain! lol Yet, I've been in the online biz since the 1990's and partied with most of them and haven't yet met the program owner who deals coke on the side for $200 an eightball like he said(which I would never pay that much anyway lol )

And the crazy, crazy bunch of webmasters who party from Friday to Monday EVERY week! Wow! Heh-heh...you just described MILLIONS of blue collar workers.

Man, I have no idea what point you're trying to make. But I must be completely in the dark on all of this. And I thought I knew pretty much everybody that partied.

Point is, everybody has to blow off a little steam. And no, after owning a content company that shot tons of girls from 1998 to 2002...and fucking countless strippers for the last 25 years...I've seen plenty of girls in the adult biz that partied, but personally never any that were "addicted" to meth. I'm sure they're out there. But I haven't run into them so I don't think it's as common as you make it out to be.

I have seen and heard the rumors of TWO girls that were disclosed last year on this board. But other than that? Nope. I'm aware of all the girls who like to party when the time is right. And I don't see a damn thing wrong with that.

And I'm also aware of everybody that likes to party at a party. Hello, the conventions have PARTIES. lol If a guy can't let loose and have some fun with their friends and get a little drunk and loose at a PARTY, then when can ya?

Lighten up there dial. I've partied with cops, District Attorneys, done coke with a judge, doctors, you name it. People like to have a good time and let their hair down every once in a while.

Big difference between that and a heroin junkie laying in the streets. :)

Amen, brotherman.


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