we are nothing but 1/2 retarded baboons doing what we are genetically programmed to do... find food, find shelter, find a mate, fuck and have babies. we have a lot of ways of rationalizing and explaining these simple innate driving forces inside us... and a lot of ways to make ourselves feel secure in the relationship by coming up with concepts like "we were meant to be together"

what is "love"?

love as a noun, is simply the fulfillment of personal selfish emotional needs. nothing more. it might include the need to be abused emotionally or physically. it might include the need to find a co-dependent drug addict so both of you support each others drug habits or whatever.

love as a verb.. i.e. "to love someone" is nothing more than the emotional manipulation of another. you behave in a certain way and do certain things, hoping those actions and behaviors will be reciprocated and the cycle can continue. its nothing more than that.

we are all the best liars we know... and all this is one of our greatest lies.

I was in love with 2 movie stars, then I met a girl who looked like one and her name rhymed with the other. Then it got pretty weird, she worked at Henzells which sounds like a place to pick up chicks, hen sells, so I just assumed it was all a sign. But she hates me, maybe if I get rich I'll have a chance.

btw... i'm not anthropologist... but what is the purpose of a HUGE wedding with all family and friends there?

why is it SOOOOO important to a female?

Simple...

its a simple matter of going on record in front of everyone thats important in your life that you're going to fulfill a certain promise... which of course greatly increases the odds of you doing that. its like announcing that you're going to lose 20 pounds to as many people as possible for example. you do that crap to put more pressure on yourself to go through with it. same principles at work here.

a guy DOESN'T want that because he's programmed to fuck all the women he can

a women DOES want that because she's programmed to fuck only one guy

a guy is immediately thinking about the fact that he'll be expected to be with only one girl for the rest of his life. a woman is thinking "he's mine", "i made him mine" etc.

if your plan to get rich is to go around over-paying for domains with no clue on how to monetize them, then i would say there is a greater chance of you dying by electrocution while playing with a power saw in the shower than in getting rich.

:2 cents:

the whole soul mate thing is silly. common interests, good friendship, not arguing much, enjoyable sex... that's about as good as it gets. compatibility...

"Soulmate" is probably one of the most mis-used and also over-used terms in the world right now. With a lot of girls I've spoken to over the years it seems every other guy they hook up with is their "soulmate", for approximately 2-5 weeks until they break up and go looking for their next so-called "soulmate". They think a soulmate is someone who thinks like they do and who likes all the same things they like. "Oh you like Cradle of Filth? I LOVE Cradle of Filth, we must be soulmates!" Yeeah.

But do I believe in the concept in it's proper usage? Sure, why not. But as to the notion that there is only one for each of us? Utter hogwash.

Most people need to clear their mind of all this soulmate crap and just look for someone they like and are attracted to who ends up liking them back and let nature take it's course. Why? Because sometimes you can be with the same person for many years until it hits you square in the face -- that you ARE with the closest thing to a soulmate you'll ever have, want or need.

yawn yawn

yeah... you're a proven genius.

the only thing your going to succeed at in life most likely, is winning a Darwin Award.

you'll be that guy who was so convinced he had it all figured out that he decided he didn't need a parachute when he jumped from the plane.

those who knew you will often reflect that it was analogous to your business life and really not all that surprising.

there is soulmate, but you will call sexy bitch too

That doesn't surprise me coming from you. :1orglaugh

this thread delivers

Great analogy, think that up yourself?

Don't think positive, think you're a half retarded baboon like PP.

think positive?

is that all it takes in business?

in life?

Warren Buffet is just a great positive thinker? One of the best positive thinkers in the world?

if i think positive about walking through a huge forest fire... is that all i need to make it? ... or would it require some careful planning, experience, consultation and making the final determination as to the feasibility of the act?.. determining whether or not its within my abilities, could be, or within scope of competence?

you see... everything you've ever said has made it painfully clear that the $350,000.00 you paid for camgirls.com wasn't your money.

... i mean, it might have been your money. but you didn't earn it. you didn't work for it. you didn't start from zero, make a dollar, then two.. then set a goal of 100.00 and then 1000.00 and so on. you didn't put in the 14 hr days and the 80 hour weeks and you have never ran a business or managed large numbers of people.

... so come clean... whats going on?

i think it must be one of the following

1) your family has money. you're so dumb and so annoying that your father gave you 350,000.00 just to watch you crash and burn, knowing that the domain can then again be sold for at least something.

2) you inherited money.

3) you were given a house by your parents that you sold and were able to pocket mid six figures from the sale


you mentioned being in love with movie stars. a connection to the industry might explain how you can be retarded and still have money to spend on a domain like that. your family own a production company? did you get a writers credit while real writers wrote and you alternated between sleeping in the corner and masturbating? were you an "associate producer" or some other dumb title where you basically did nothing but run your mouth and pound your chest, forcing everyone to work around you to get things done and you got paid for it?

i know i'm close. i know there is no possible way in hell that you actually earned the money by working for it in business. it was given to you or you came into it very easily.

you don't even talk like your older than 25. you're probably a bit younger than that.


:2 cents:

duplicate

nice essay. please continue.

well said! :thumbsup

I don't know if this is true because I haven't meet my soul mate yet.

I do believe in it and have been blessed to find it when I wasn't even looking. That doesn't mean you still don't have to work at your relationship. But I know without a doubt that my husband truly completes me, as cliche as that sounds. I genuinely wish that everyone's heart could be as full and happy as mine.

Danke!:thumbsup

Bitte:thumbsup