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SleazyDream 09-21-2009 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346682)
:throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup :throwup

thanks for proving my point!

I had hoped for a better response than this.... for or against me..... just figgured you had more in you that that is all..

I'm getting used to being disappointed though....

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346641)
But I am not going to come out in public and start throwing shit, just because I feel hurt like a wounded bambi.

thinking about this slam....

how's that really any different that coming to public message board sucking someone's cock cause they stroked your ego when you needed it?

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346641)

But I am not going to come out in public and start throwing shit, just because I feel hurt like a wounded bambi.

So in your world if someone fucks you around say nothing, keep quiet and don't be a wounded bambi, but it's ok to go in public and stroke ego's and cocks in a look at me i'm cool fest?

webgurl 09-21-2009 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346536)
I'm happy for you Dan. And I have nothing against you.

Having gone though hell the last 2 years myself loosing everything I own and this person is one of the ones responsible honestly I feel JEALOUS - honestly JEALOUS, as the person who I THOUGHT was my friend abandoned me and then only showed up once ON MY DIME at HIS request to MILK me more and make it worse for me. It hurts me to know he was helping you and considered me just a fucking MARK to use and abuse. (he told me this too)

Sometimes I'm a small man. I have trouble forgiving someone who I was VERY good to that tells me no one will ever hang out with me unless I'm paying them. That line alone told me everything I needed to know about that piece of GARBAGE. That only took from me and never really gave anything back. That lied to my friends behind my back about me to hurt my business to further his greed and his own self righteousness. That I offered 2X what he put in to make the deal right after all that too and was spat on for offering it. I was pushed too far and I need to get past it, but it's VERY hard. I will in time, but it takes time. I wish I was a better man and could do it faster. I'm sorry to burst your happy bubble here. I have NO LOVE for that piece of human garbage. Seeing posts about how great he is sickens me. It's very hard to stay quiet with what he did to me. Yet I don't really ever do it off here. GFY has always been a place where I vent and hold nothing back. I am what I am.

That being said, do not judge someone by dealings you have nothing to do with. Judge them solely by your own experiences with them and if they are positive make your own conclusions. We're all entitled to our own opinions and in the end they are just that, opinions.

If he was here i would spit in his face.

Holy Cow , I have known both of you for very long time that is really
nuts to hear that you guys had a terrible fall out :(:disgust

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346769)
thinking about this slam....

how's that really any different that coming to public message board sucking someone's cock cause they stroked your ego when you needed it?

keep proving my point Scott

some people are men, and some are ... well not

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346793)
keep proving my point Scott

some people are men, and some are ... well not

exactly. some can defend themselves and some can't

NickB. 09-21-2009 09:06 PM

jman = good people

Jman 09-21-2009 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by webgurl (Post 16346790)
Holy Cow , I have known both of you for very long time that is really
nuts to hear that you guys had a terrible fall out :(:disgust

Always 2 sides to a coin, unfortunately for GFY I am not one to wash my dirty laundry online.

:2 cents:

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by »Rob Content« (Post 16346787)
So in your world if someone fucks you around say nothing, keep quiet and don't be a wounded bambi, but it's ok to go in public and stroke ego's and cocks in a look at me i'm cool fest?

i was actually thinking of your earlier post, and this is the best thought I came up with

if someone fucks me over, I usually was stupid enough to let it happen

two people in my internet career fucked me over so hard thus far, and in both cases I have continued to speak to both of them and even had meals and drinks with them

they were both business partners and work mates, and yeah it hurt like hell when they fucked me

but you know what - life is short... i was stupid for letting them fuck me, and not once have I mentioned their names on a board

I was too stupid to not set things up from the get go so they couldnt fuck me over

i mean ... its only business ;)

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 16346807)
Always 2 sides to a coin, unfortunately for GFY I am not one to wash my dirty laundry online.

:2 cents:

yeah , you do it privately with people like the fucking coward you are. :2 cents:

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346812)
i was actually thinking of your earlier post, and this is the best thought I came up with

if someone fucks me over, I usually was stupid enough to let it happen

two people in my internet career fucked me over so hard thus far, and in both cases I have continued to speak to both of them and even had meals and drinks with them

they were both business partners and work mates, and yeah it hurt like hell when they fucked me

but you know what - life is short... i was stupid for letting them fuck me, and not once have I mentioned their names on a board

I was too stupid to not set things up from the get go so they couldnt fuck me over

i mean ... its only business ;)


business is one thing - don't give a shit about that. Done that a dozen times too.

when someone who you called a friend tells you they were only your friend cause you were buying them stuff - whole new ballpark. :2 cents:

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 16346807)
Always 2 sides to a coin, unfortunately for GFY I am not one to wash my dirty laundry online.

:2 cents:

spoken like a man - congrats mate

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346816)
business is one thing - don't give a shit about that. Done that a dozen times too.

when someone who you called a friend tells you they were only your friend cause you were buying them stuff - whole new ballpark. :2 cents:

oh for shits sake - your like a bad case of the clap that's infected my hemorrhoid, and smells so bad my dog wont lick my balls anymore

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346826)
oh for shits sake - your like a bad case of the clap that's infected my hemorrhoid, and smells so bad my dog wont lick my balls anymore

sorry i had trouble understanding what you said there. Please stand back, take the dick out of your mouth, take a few deep breaths and then speak more clearly so people can understand you.

Jman 09-21-2009 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346813)
yeah , you do it privately with people like the fucking coward you are. :2 cents:

Ok lol as I was told to not to get into this and I won't, Scott you can spew all the BS you want... Have fun and hope it makes you feel better about yourself.

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 16346832)
Ok lol as I was told to not to get into this and I won't, Scott you can spew all the BS you want... Have fun and hope it makes you feel better about yourself.

I always laugh at your self righteous attitude. You've gotten into it with more than a dozen people who got back to me about it privately.

you're a lying piece of shit.

You're the ONLY person I'm happy got written off in my bankruptcy.

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346818)
spoken like a man - congrats mate

A real man stands up for himself, and defends himself when put in a situation where they need to.

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 16346832)
Ok lol as I was told to not to get into this and I won't, Scott you can spew all the BS you want... Have fun and hope it makes you feel better about yourself.

You always come across soo pompous and soo self centered it's almost sick. You sucked Sleazy's cock on here for years, now he's not at the top of his game and you have nothing positive to say. Kind of says something about you man.

Jman 09-21-2009 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by »Rob Content« (Post 16346836)
A real man stands up for himself, and defends himself when put in a situation where they need to.

And a smart man takes good advices and don't let an adult webmaster community involved in his private matters :2 cents:

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by »Rob Content« (Post 16346840)
You always come across soo pompous and soo self centered it's almost sick. You sucked Sleazy's cock on here for years, now he's not at the top of his game and you have nothing positive to say. Kind of says something about you man.

oh dear - and here i thought you were just discussing the open system that is GFY, when in fact it turns out you are a hater too, and someway associated with Scott

I can understand and respect you want to defend a friend... but again i say quite clearly, why does anyone have to come in and be a hater in a thread where I am thanking someone for doing so much to help me and my family. A family in crisis in fact.

Scott has come into this thread and posted hateful words, and I find his actions distasteful - as would many others under the circumstance

I just dont understand that Rob....

I mean - read what JF said - he didnt put Scott down at all... quite the contrary

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:34 PM

anyways - Good night Scott.. I am sorry you felt it necessary to hi-jack this thread of mine.. a thread of happiness in a time where there seems so little

and to everyone else, Goodnight... love more - hate less

And to Jean-Francois - Bonne Nuit Mon Ami

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346859)
oh dear - and here i thought you were just discussing the open system that is GFY, when in fact it turns out you are a hater too, and someway associated with Scott

I can understand and respect you want to defend a friend... but again i say quite clearly, why does anyone have to come in and be a hater in a thread where I am thanking someone for doing so much to help me and my family. A family in crisis in fact.

Scott has come into this thread and posted hateful words, and I find his actions distasteful - as would many others under the circumstance

I just dont understand that Rob....

Sorry, not a hater, just having an opinion. Sadly in this day and age if someone has an opinion that you do not agree with they are either a hater or troll. Well, the fact of the matter is simple and that is people can form any opinion they want on another person, and just because you don't agree does not make them a hater, troll, or anything else.

I don't know Scott personally in any way shape or form, never met him, or done any real business with him. Purchased spots on his site in the past, but that was through cybercat.

I find Jean-Jman etc whatever, to be just that. Pompous, and self centered. He's said a lot of things in the past that were very focused on himself, he's bro'ed up with a lot of people, and when questioned on his stance on many topics instead of being a "man" as you guys keep saying, he would just avoid the topic, leave the thread, or say something totally pointless like oui-oui.

Jman was there for you and your family, that's great for you, but why do you think a board even cares about that, I know I don't, and I know others don't as well. If you want to come in and have some sort of bromance, and keep speaking about what type of "men" you are, then be able to take the fucking heat when someone does not like you, or what you say, or the type of person you or someone you care for may be.

Take the love fest to a dating site if you want to suck each other off. This thread has your opinion of Jean, that's great and I am glad he did a good deed for you, but what you are saying is your opinion. Others have opinions as well, and on a public message board, in an industry based on freedoms, a main one being freedom of speech suck it up and understand that the world does not love Jean just because you do, and we are not all ready to erect a 40 foot high statue in his honor.

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346859)
oh dear - and here i thought you were just discussing the open system that is GFY, when in fact it turns out you are a hater too, and someway associated with Scott

I can understand and respect you want to defend a friend... but again i say quite clearly, why does anyone have to come in and be a hater in a thread where I am thanking someone for doing so much to help me and my family. A family in crisis in fact.

Scott has come into this thread and posted hateful words, and I find his actions distasteful - as would many others under the circumstance

I just dont understand that Rob....

I mean - read what JF said - he didnt put Scott down at all... quite the contrary


Sad - you are slipping Dan, you used to be bright. :2 cents:

I don't mean to disrespect you Rob, and I may know you but I can't remember what you look like - I'm not even sure who Rob is. Have we ever met or done business?

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346893)
Sad - you are slipping Dan, you used to be bright. :2 cents:

I don't mean to disrespect you Rob, and I may know you but I can't remember what you look like - I'm not even sure who Rob is. Have we ever met or done business?

Don't know me, we've never done biz directly.

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346872)
anyways - Good night Scott.. I am sorry you felt it necessary to hi-jack this thread of mine.. a thread of happiness in a time where there seems so little

and to everyone else, Goodnight... love more - hate less

And to Jean-Francois - Bonne Nuit Mon Ami

funny - Jman was always worried about thread hijacking.....

usually it's the people who can't defend them self that are worried about such :2 cents:

Evil-Dan 09-21-2009 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by »Rob Content« (Post 16346875)
Sorry, not a hater, just having an opinion. Sadly in this day and age if someone has an opinion that you do not agree with they are either a hater or troll. Well, the fact of the matter is simple and that is people can form any opinion they want on another person, and just because you don't agree does not make them a hater, troll, or anything else.

I don't know Scott personally in any way shape or form, never met him, or done any real business with him. Purchased spots on his site in the past, but that was through cybercat.

I find Jean-Jman etc whatever, to be just that. Pompous, and self centered. He's said a lot of things in the past that were very focused on himself, he's bro'ed up with a lot of people, and when questioned on his stance on many topics instead of being a "man" as you guys keep saying, he would just avoid the topic, leave the thread, or say something totally pointless like oui-oui.

Jman was there for you and your family, that's great for you, but why do you think a board even cares about that, I know I don't, and I know others don't as well. If you want to come in and have some sort of bromance, and keep speaking about what type of "men" you are, then be able to take the fucking heat when someone does not like you, or what you say, or the type of person you or someone you care for may be.

Take the love fest to a dating site if you want to suck each other off. This thread has your opinion of Jean, that's great and I am glad he did a good deed for you, but what you are saying is your opinion. Others have opinions as well, and on a public message board, in an industry based on freedoms, a main one being freedom of speech suck it up and understand that the world does not love Jean just because you do, and we are not all ready to erect a 40 foot high statue in his honor.

and you call jman pompous

this thread isnt about you.. doesn't involve you... and yet here you are giving me shit because i care enough for a friend to tell the many hundreds of people i have had the privilege of meeting in this industry what just happened with me

do me a favour Rob - count the vast majority of webmasters who speak positively of Jean-Francois in this thread, and then count the two of you who gave Jean-Francois shit

The thing I love about GFY, and all the other boards - I can search these threads for years to come to see who I want to do business with, and who are just too painful to bother with

I am done bothering with you

good luck with yuor business... your networking skills rock :1orglaugh

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 16346855)
And a smart man takes good advices and don't let an adult webmaster community involved in his private matters :2 cents:

or a man on a leash :2 cents:

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346901)
and you call jman pompous

this thread isnt about you.. doesn't involve you... and yet here you are giving me shit because i care enough for a friend to tell the many hundreds of people i have had the privilege of meeting in this industry what just happened with me

do me a favour Rob - count the vast majority of webmasters who speak positively of Jean-Francois in this thread, and then count the two of you who gave Jean-Francois shit

The thing I love about GFY, and all the other boards - I can search these threads for years to come to see who I want to do business with, and who are just too painful to bother with

I am done bothering with you

good luck with yuor business... your networking skills rock :1orglaugh

some people think networking is about sucking cock.

I'm not one of those people.

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346901)
and you call jman pompous

this thread isnt about you.. doesn't involve you... and yet here you are giving me shit because i care enough for a friend to tell the many hundreds of people i have had the privilege of meeting in this industry what just happened with me

do me a favour Rob - count the vast majority of webmasters who speak positively of Jean-Francois in this thread, and then count the two of you who gave Jean-Francois shit

The thing I love about GFY, and all the other boards - I can search these threads for years to come to see who I want to do business with, and who are just too painful to bother with

I am done bothering with you

good luck with yuor business... your networking skills rock :1orglaugh

I network quite well actually, I'm not in this thread to network, but am here to speak my mind.

So you are saying that threads you start are only for select people who you want only positive feedback from?

Start your own board then.

=)

»Rob Content« 09-21-2009 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16346904)
some people think networking is about sucking cock.

I'm not one of those people.

Networking is about doing business, and how we can increase profits on both sides of the table, nothing more then that.

If you walk into a potential business meeting and say "oh you said you don't like Jman on GFY, so I'm not going to do business with you..." Well you sort of have a small problem.

And to think my networking skills come into question.....:helpme:helpme

$5 submissions 09-21-2009 09:54 PM

Kudos to JF. I love positive threads like this.

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by »Rob Content« (Post 16346909)
Networking is about doing business, and how we can increase profits on both sides of the table, nothing more then that.

If you walk into a potential business meeting and say "oh you said you don't like Jman on GFY, so I'm not going to do business with you..." Well you sort of have a small problem.

And to think my networking skills come into question.....:helpme:helpme

i would hope anyone would do business based on the merits of the deal - with or without Jman-eese influence.

Ice 09-21-2009 10:10 PM

I was going to write more but fuck it I'll just say...

It sucks to see two people I consider friends end up like this.

I have known both you guys for over 5 years and I hope you two can patch things up one day.

NETbilling 09-21-2009 10:15 PM

Spent some time with Jayman in Montreal. What a fun guy...

Socks 09-21-2009 10:18 PM

I once caught him delivering milk for free, just to bring back that good old feeling.

WiredGuy 09-21-2009 10:29 PM

Eugh... I hate seeing threads with good intentions turn around like this. Best of luck to you both. If either of you need anything, you know how to reach me.
WG

ronin 09-21-2009 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Ice (Post 16346953)
I hope you two can patch things up one day.

me too....

SleazyDream 09-21-2009 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ronin (Post 16347026)
me too....

After the last thing he told me fixing it or gaining his friendship requires paying for him. I don't need friends like that.

quiet 09-21-2009 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 16345327)
for some reason I thought you were in banf (sp) - i know i'm an idiot... sorry

hit me when I saw your sig I fucked up which place it was....

was in BC with my bro - he was selling his house then we did a little driving around...flew home yesterday

fuck I was in Vancouver 2 days go too... fucking new delta asian casino robbed me and my brother... lol

lol, i had quite the weekend up there (Vancouver) too. big party, blah blah blah. you are welcome anytime, just give me a heads up.

CDSmith 09-22-2009 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Evil-Dan (Post 16346859)
Scott has come into this thread and posted hateful words,

I would have to disagree with that. To me he's merely speaking the truth as he sees it. Someone already mentioned in this thread about there being two sides to every story, well this is the other side. Is this the right thread for it to happen in? Probably not but no matter which board you decided to post this one you'd have zero control over what other people say, right?

In light of the size and nature of the business deal that went sour between them I'm rather surprised this hasn't blown up on the board long before this. I've been expecting it for months now. Not hoping for it, but expecting it.

And no need to disparage GFY or the people who post here over this. Anyone who has ever posted here before should know enough not to bring a topic up unless you're prepared to handle the negative as well, because if there IS a negative out there to be had you know that HERE you're damned well going to get it, usually with both barrels.

And people who know them (Scott & JF) say they'd like to see this mess get repaired between them so they can be friends again, well that's never going to happen unless everyone (who is actually involved directly) starts talking about it. If that has to happen here well, personally that's not the route I would recommend but if that's the only way it gets aired out then so be it.

In other words hey, at least they're communicating. :winkwink:


As for the love for Jman aspect to this thread I've had several albeit brief ICQ conversations with him over the years, last one being a few months ago, all of which have been interesting as well as entertaining. If he ever blows back into town and lets me know it I'd go have a beer with him anytime.


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