Thanks for all the replies.

My phone is a cell phone. I don't have a home phone so unless she is very resourceful she can't find out where I live so I'm not worried about that. I could be worried that she might set me up and try to rob me. I have feeling, as some have mentioned, that she will try to talk me into giving her the money. She will most likely tell me that her boss changed her mind and she will be jobless and homeless if she doesn't pay him back ASAP.

When I talked to her today I told her I wasn't sure if I could meet her that I am pretty busy. She told me she wasn't sure what her new shift will be at the bar so she would call me in a few days. If she calls back and makes the offer I will agree to meet her somewhere very public then just have lunch with her. No matter how good looking she may end up being I'm not going to pursue anything. After all she did threaten to either leave the state or kill herself over $400. It is a little bit of a risk, but if it is in public there isn't a whole lot that could happen. I won't tell her where I live or my last name or anything like that and that will be the end of it.

I'll report back with what happens.

if you go your house will be robbed

If I meet her somewhere a ways from where I live (I have no idea where she was calling from), but I won't meet her in the town I live in so if she was going to follow me she would have to do a pretty good job of it.

:2 cents:

You were enough of a hero already-just leave it be. Things can only get messy and complicated from here.

sounds too fishy - she wouldn't do it - her friends would.

cell numbers can be gotten......

yeah if it is all a big scam I can see how her friends could get involved.

In the end, for all I know, she will never call me back.

If she was dumb enough to be 'talked into stealing 400 and gambling it' in the hopes of making more she's too dumb for me I'd have hungup on the retard.

You know just to be safe, why not have a friend house-sit when you go out with her!

I mean we are all soooo suspicious of this girl, she could be awesome for all we know!

Now might be a good time to install that home security system you've been contemplating Kane.

if you havent fucked a cutter once in your life, go for it, its a wild ride!

Why did this suddenly become YOUR problem? This is her life, her decision and now you're getting dragged into it and why? End this dependent relationship now or the next call will be her begging you for cash or she'll threaten suicide. Just stop taking calls and ask her to please cease calling you - you don't need this shit in your life and right now you're getting too caught up in it. Get a better GF or friends

Too weird. Don't do it.

Did she sound Nigerian?

You're insane if you go. That's all I have to say.

LOL. Classic.

Nope she didn't, at least, as far as I can tell.

Guys don't talk him out of it, I want to see what happens next fuckers

At this point I still haven't heard back from her. She may never call me back. If she does and it seems legit I'm going to meet her. If she sounds like she is going to ask me for money or something seems off I probably won't meet her.

A friend of mine made a good suggestion. He told me when she suggests a time and place I tell her I am going to be busy and out running around that day and I suggest another place. If she is cool with a last minute change and meeting on my turf it might be a sign that she is legit and not trying to scam me.

It is odd though. All day today I have gotten calls/IM's/Texts from friends with their opinions of what I should do.

If you don't mind waking up with your dick chopped off laying next to your pillow, then you definitely should go.

I am in agreement with those who say its a scam! She will ask you for money in person! Good call on the waiting for her to call you back!

fuck that

You go and meet her and I can guarantee you will be jumped by her guy friends, sounds like a total set up to me.

Yep he is going to get fucked up. Oh well seems he wants to.

Beat me to it. Listen to this guy.

I tell you this really reminds me of the time this prison chick started writing to a friend of mine.

He placed a business ad in a bunch of newspapers around N America and this female inmate in the SF area contacted him, then she started writing to him. She was actually not bad looking either, kind of hot in fact. All seemed well at first, but eventually...

THE FANTASY -- Hot prison chick becomes your pen pal. You write love letters back and forth until they let her out, at which time she's so horny she travels thousands of miles and lets you bang the shit out of her for as long as you'll have her.

THE REALITY -- Prison chick calls you up at 3 am, says they let her out on a 2 day pass and she's gotten herself somehow stranded in a rough part of SF, is scared and is in some sort of trouble, can you wire her some money? Please? She has no one else to turn to! PLEASE!!!


If it walks like scam, talks like a scam, feels deep down in your guts right into your bowels that it's a scam, guess what?... it's a scam.

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