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Zayne E. 10-31-2009 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Boobzooka (Post 16486245)
I don't mean to "troll" here, and I say this with the best of intentions, but I am intimately familiar with the intricacies and idiosyncrasies of Asperger's and your description of your son does not really resemble Asperger's much. While these diagnoses can cover a broad spectrum of attributes, with some overlap, I suspect the original label was closer to correct. One does not graduate from one to the other by working at it. If you prefer to believe your son is Aspie instead of some other label, it's none of my business, but if your (new?) doctor is calling this Asperger's then I recommend you consult other professionals. :2 cents:

I would sooner say his first neurologist (Dr. RobertoTuchman, Dan Marino Center of Weston, FL) was an arrogant prick (IMHO) who got off on telling parents their kids were fucked up. My son's current neurologist here in Charlotte is aces :thumbsup

Likewise, I didn't share my son's personal history here. There is a great debate about what *can* cause disorders under the Autism spectrum, but my son's unique case rather busts out all current theories. There's a reason I have custody...I am not going to bag on his mother but, essentially, my son was born into the actual world just before his third birthday when I divorced his mother and she was removed from his day-to-day existence.

Zayne E. 10-31-2009 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by LexiLexxx (Post 16483715)
Great story!
I can only imagine the thing's you have had to set aside.

It's never ending...but as he grows older, and his skills (social and academic) develop and mature, it makes me having something more resembling an actual life far easier. Only 18 months ago I couldn't go grocery shopping (for example) with him as I never knew what I was going to have with him once I got to the store. Now, by all appearances, he's just like any other kid in public :upsidedow

quantum-x 10-31-2009 07:42 AM

Fortunately no family hardships, etc. One of the msot challenging things physically I've done is ride a bicycle from Ulan Bataar (Mongolia) south through the desert for a week.

Rewarding though :)

datatank 10-31-2009 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Zayne E. (Post 16483363)
Wow...it's been 13 since I did the same. I dropped my last name so my last name is now what was my middle name. But that was easy...

The hardest thing I ever did I am doing day-in and day-out. I am a single dad of a 7-year old boy with Asperger's Syndrome. It's just me and him 24/7, 10.5 months a year and has been since 2005. When he was first diagnosed back in '06 he was labeled hardcore Autistic with Dyspraxia. That was unacceptable to me. I took a long look at other kids his age and started working with him every spare minute to try and get him up to speed. It started paying off almost immediately as 3 months later his neurologist couldn't believe he was the same kid.

He continues to have struggles and challenges but he is learning to read, is very good at math and his speech is "close" to normal. He still has a long way to go and he is struggling in first grade...but the good news is, this year, he is in a mainstream classroom. He gets pulled 2 hours a day for intervention...and I have a tutor for him on Tuesdays and Thursdays. All-in-all I truly believe he will be normal, fully functioning and capable of living as an adult on his own. Most parents want their kids to be this or that when they grow up. I want my son to be able to hold a job, balance his checkbook and pay his bills without assistance.

Put that in your smoke and pipe it.

Very Impressive. Great job man :thumbsup

quiet 10-31-2009 08:31 AM

i guess it would be getting myself out of a life that was almost dictated to me from birth. middle income, never leave your town, boring life. it took a lot of determination.

cyco_cc 10-31-2009 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by potter (Post 16485468)

I came prepared today, I brought a lunch and soda; And I'm not leaving until I see this god damn sail boat everyone keeps talking about.

Cutty 10-31-2009 08:38 AM

read barefootsies pathetic spam 50 times a day

Vick! 10-31-2009 08:44 AM

Making my mind to get married, I am still doing it. :(

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Originally Posted by JenniDahling (Post 16483727)
Wow got some deep stuff in this thread. I think for me it was being pregnant at 19 alone, then putting my baby up for adoption and leaving the hospital empty handed after 56 hours of labor.

She turns 24 on Dec 20th and I still think about her, especially on her birthday and Mothers day.

Hmm .. do you know her now? Have you seen?

Phoenix 10-31-2009 09:27 AM

climbing this bad boy was the hardest thing ive ever done...the person i went up with only made it about 30 minutes above the tree line...i left them there and continued to the top.
took us forever to get down as they had over exerted their ankles and couldnt walk down properly, they spent 2 weeks recovering...i was sore for a few days as well..i did another smaller one while out there as well


http://www.suresoft.ca/Gallery_7/MtRundle_page.jpg

Babaganoosh 10-31-2009 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cyco_cc (Post 16487231)
I came prepared today, I brought a lunch and soda; And I'm not leaving until I see this god damn sail boat everyone keeps talking about.

:1orglaugh

I love Mallrats.

candyflip 10-31-2009 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Babaganoosh (Post 16483423)
I finally had to face the fact that I really wasn't a designer and stop humiliating myself on a webmaster forum every time I tried to get a job designing. Wait...that wasn't me, was it?

He won't respond. He's no fun anymore. :1orglaugh

potter 10-31-2009 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by cyco_cc (Post 16487231)
I came prepared today, I brought a lunch and soda; And I'm not leaving until I see this god damn sail boat everyone keeps talking about.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :thumbsup:thumbsup

I didn't think anyone was going to catch it!!!

datatank 10-31-2009 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix (Post 16487421)
climbing this bad boy was the hardest thing ive ever done...the person i went up with only made it about 30 minutes above the tree line...i left them there and continued to the top.
took us forever to get down as they had over exerted their ankles and couldnt walk down properly, they spent 2 weeks recovering...i was sore for a few days as well..i did another smaller one while out there as well


http://www.suresoft.ca/Gallery_7/MtRundle_page.jpg

How many days did it take you? How many hours hiking per day?

_Richard_ 10-31-2009 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Zayne E. (Post 16483363)
Wow...it's been 13 since I did the same. I dropped my last name so my last name is now what was my middle name. But that was easy...

The hardest thing I ever did I am doing day-in and day-out. I am a single dad of a 7-year old boy with Asperger's Syndrome. It's just me and him 24/7, 10.5 months a year and has been since 2005. When he was first diagnosed back in '06 he was labeled hardcore Autistic with Dyspraxia. That was unacceptable to me. I took a long look at other kids his age and started working with him every spare minute to try and get him up to speed. It started paying off almost immediately as 3 months later his neurologist couldn't believe he was the same kid.

He continues to have struggles and challenges but he is learning to read, is very good at math and his speech is "close" to normal. He still has a long way to go and he is struggling in first grade...but the good news is, this year, he is in a mainstream classroom. He gets pulled 2 hours a day for intervention...and I have a tutor for him on Tuesdays and Thursdays. All-in-all I truly believe he will be normal, fully functioning and capable of living as an adult on his own. Most parents want their kids to be this or that when they grow up. I want my son to be able to hold a job, balance his checkbook and pay his bills without assistance.

Put that in your smoke and pipe it.

:thumbsup:thumbsup

Barefootsies 10-31-2009 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Cutty - BANNED FOR LIFE (Post 16487246)
read barefootsies....

No longer a problem for ye fine sire.


baddog 10-31-2009 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Arnox (Post 16483116)
50 KM ultra marathon, squatting 160 kgs.

Did both, with ease.

If the hardest thing you ever did was done with ease you need to step it up a couple notches. :2 cents:

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Originally Posted by Justin (Post 16483191)
Bury my best friend and three weeks later my other best friend. Both from car accidents. This was 8 years ago.

Not sure how that can be.

thaifan99 10-31-2009 12:50 PM

identifying a close friends body after a bad accident. His family couldnt be contacted.

Matyko 10-31-2009 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by cyco_cc (Post 16487231)
I came prepared today, I brought a lunch and soda; And I'm not leaving until I see this god damn sail boat everyone keeps talking about.

Another Kevin Smith Fan! :)


Babaganoosh 10-31-2009 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 16487441)
He won't respond. He's no fun anymore. :1orglaugh

That's probably the best move for him. He's pretty helpless. :1orglaugh

CyberHustler 10-31-2009 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ahoy (Post 16485602)
Dude.... if that is true, that really does take some self restraint. I know if I were in your shoes, that mother fucker would, at the least, not be walking on two legs right now.

Yes, it's true.

CyberHustler 10-31-2009 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by CyberHustler (Post 16489192)
Yes, it's true.

And the only reason I didn't kill him was because I figured I would get a better satisfaction out of watching him die slow from AIDS. I didn't get to see it, but I heard his last days were pure hell... God, I want to piss on his ashes.

PSSuperstars 10-31-2009 08:06 PM

I think I'm probably going thru it now... the growth of realizing that my marriage probably isn't the best fit for me... losing 60+lbs... training to start doing the mini baby Daisy Iron Woman competitions... just a big time change in life :)

I've not did anything morbid or death related yet. thank god. I've been lucky.

corvette 10-31-2009 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 16483210)
To summon the assorted Doctors and Physical Therapists and seriously, truthfully ask them "What's next" after being told I would be paralyzed for life without letting depression or despair set in.


takes a very strong man...

Killswitch - BANNED FOR LIFE 11-01-2009 08:44 PM

Burying my father.

habs4life 11-01-2009 09:11 PM

seeing the people I love die in front me left and right

Raf1 11-02-2009 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by nakeddutch (Post 16483389)
http://i36.tinypic.com/2is868p.gif

Ok..It wasn't all that hard...It took about a minute....

Coming back for more, she said: "Why don't you shove you
nuts up my ass!"
Shit! .... 30 sec tops.... I got kicked out of the
house for about a week...:disgust

damn, she's gorgeous.

BAKO 11-02-2009 02:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Daddy Big Nuts (Post 16483174)
Get married

:thumbsup:thumbsup:1orglaugh:1orglaugh


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