thank you for the comment, but you don't understand what I'm doing. that's ok, not everyone understands everything.

I apologize for losing my cool and calling you an idiot.

If you want some advice from me I will share it with you. If you don't think I have any ideas that can help you and you have it all figured out, good luck with your project.

You definitely still have that touch of getting people to get hyped either positive or negative for you. This thread is definitely getting the site out there and going to help you get a few people to push traffic to it. Way to work the board :thumbsup

shoot - i'm always willing to listen.

like I've said before - i'm not taking all advise. just those I consider to be good. there are a lot of things I'm aiming for you may not understand and that might be why i'm not taking some advise and using others....

what are you talking man? i dont understand what you are doing?

I was simply showing the website to "surfers" and they dont understand

remember surfers are very stupid, your site needs to make sense and capture their attention.. i have a very high IQ, University Degree, built a website when i was 13, paid my way through college, all my bills, and im still making 6 figs a month

If i dont understand then maybe its NOT ME, Maybe its the WEBSITE/CONCEPT/DESIGN

stop attacking me i am on your side, i feel bad for you i know how it feels to go from top to bottom..

just saying that those videos wont retain members, thats all

i learned a LONG time ago sparking emotion is the MOST important thing in selling ANYTHING.


the weird part is it doesn't seem to matter is it's positive or negative emotion, and i got both LOL

is this what all the hype was about and where everybody who got a sneak preview was so positive about? Or is this a decoy site? It has to be.... :Oh crap



bros really suck :1orglaugh

you don't have to get mad about it - that just shows if you're an idiot or not...

there are some things you don't understand... face it and move on

you may get them later - i'm not here to teach you or do i want to.

i know. I could learn a lot from sites like this

http://www.xxxld.com/

buuuuuhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

the point is if everyone here still has no idea what the site is about how is a surfer going to?

lol so i give you advice then all of a sudden im an idiot that doesnt understand, the website is right in front of me, whats hard to understand?? if I DONT understand imagine the other millions who DO NOT understand either, is that good for you?

and nah i never get mad on GFY whats the point?

end of the day i still make my money, travel around, and live life, so whatever man...

goodluck and ill be bump this for you next year when the alexa rank is still 5,000,000 and it has no sales, only because you are stubborn and don't want to listen to people who can spell better than you

don't get your panties in a bunch....it's just there are some things you dont' understand. come to terms with it and you'll be a much happier person

cause there's a 20 iq point gap difference between a troll and the average surfer.......:thumbsup


trolls don't understand subtle.... it's ok, I already knew that

wtf yea thats a simple adult directory of mine, whats your point :1orglaugh

i dont understand millions of things, heck billions, but there are some i DO understand and i wrote them, ill outline them again amigo:

1. the site is confusing as heck, the average person does not KNOW what it is about.
2. Those videos look very old and dont offer much to be desired
3. You show few signals in a video
4. So why is the surfer joining? if they want porn, your site sucks for it, if they want signals, you offer little to be desired too.

All im saying is you will need more than few vids from 1980 to retain people, i know you think that by showing the "signals" in the crappy videos they will stay, but thats not how it works...

Let me guess your reply? "there are things i dont understand"

Well goodluck im done here, will just watch and see

I just keep refreshing this thread every so often, it's fun. Keep it up, guys.

My advice:

- partner up with someone to shoot your own custom videos. I don't see how using obvious porn videos to show someone how a female shows signals to guys is going to fly. It's a porn video, everyone knows its a porn video. The chick and the dude is being paid to the there. None of those situations will happen in real life. The surfer isn't going to learn how to pick up chicks from looking at a porn video. This will be one of your critical flaws. If you can shoot your own videos, in real life situations, that is common for the surfer to be in, like in the mall, bar, grocery store, etc... then you going to have a very hard time with this site. Show the right and wrong way to approach the girl, make the wrong way ones funny, those will have a lot of viral potential especially if you do R rated versions that can go on youtube and X rated versions for the tube sites.

- Make the videos not only show how to "pick up" a chick, but what to do to her sexuallly. Lot of guys don't know what they hell they are doing, I would do some video shoots of a girl explaining to guys, this is what we like, this is what we don't like etc.. you could have a lot of fun with that. Again its more porn, but also funny and entertaining.

- Who is giving the advice on your site? The first thing I would want to know about an advice site is who the person is giving it. If it is going to be you then talk yourself up about how you fucked 1000's of girls and want to share this info with everyone. Play on the fact that you are fat, ugly, etc.. most surfers are and can relate to that, and if they believe that they can get laid following your methods they might pay for it.

- Make your member's area more interractive. Having a chick do Q & A in the member's area would be a big plus. You can't just have a bunch of text and a couple videos there. Seriously, people who signup will never rebill, unless they forget to cancell. Even if you add a video a day or whatever, they will get enough of that right away unless you provide interraction with them.

I'll stop there. If anyone else wants some feed back or consulting let me know. I can analyze your entire site, give you tons of ideas, suggestions etc... work out an affordable price for a couple hours of work.

Hope that helps you, good luck.

You might be better served to put this statement to work for yourself.

same shit i said too exactly.. the vids need work in order to keep members... simple & short

I predict this will be very successful and can be promoted with porn and non porn outlets. Good for you.
There are mainstream sites out now that make a killing in this niche, i know of 2 already.

ok will76 - i'll respond

- partner up with someone to shoot your own custom videos. I don't see how using obvious porn videos to show someone how a female shows signals to guys is going to fly. It's a porn video, everyone knows its a porn video. The chick and the dude is being paid to the there. None of those situations will happen in real life. The surfer isn't going to learn how to pick up chicks from looking at a porn video. This will be one of your critical flaws. If you can shoot your own videos, in real life situations, that is common for the surfer to be in, like in the mall, bar, grocery store, etc... Show the right and wrong way to approach the girl, make the wrong way ones funny, it has viral potential.

I agree i need better videos LATER, that will come. budget remember. Where it flies is these signals are real, the girls arn't acting the signals in those videos, they naturally did them knowing they were about to have sex. they were shot for another site of mine. That's what's so cool about it - corny or not - those are REAL yessignals from models who knew they were about to have sex with guys they were attracted to.

- Make the videos not only show how to "pick up" a chick, but what to do to her sexuallly. Lot of guys don't know what they hell they are doing, I would do some photo shoots of a girl explaining to guys, this is what we like, this is what we don't like etc.. you could have a lot of fun with that. Again its more porn, but also funny and entertaining.

once again - this are areas I plan on moving into later - with some money. i don't disagree with this - I can't afford to go shoot 20 new videos right now. I'm fully aware of this.

- Who is giving the advice on your site? The first thing I would want to know about an advice site is who the person is giving it. If it is going to be you then talk yourself up about how you fucked 1000's of girls and want to share this info with everyone. Play on the fact that you are fat, ugly, etc.. most surfers are and relate to it, and if they believe that they can get laid following your methods they might pay for it.

i don't think you need to gave someone give advise - in fact i designed it specifically NOT to have that. it's designed to have people see the yessignals, and recognize SOME of them and then realize they don't know them all and spark interest from there. I HATED watching some asshole tell me shit and being cocky. I'm not one to follow the heard.... hey - if i HAVE to later do that to survive i'll go that way , but REALLY not wanting to go down that road. So that advise I totally disagree with. WHo's right - no idea, just not a road i want to go down. i believe the more you THINK stuff in your head - the better chances you'll eventually sign up. I believe sales are about making people THINK. if you tell them everything you don't sell. If you make them ask questions in their head - you have curiously... you can't achieve that with some jerk telling you everything and it just doesn't feel natural. just my take on it

- Make your member's area more interractive. Having a chick do Q & A in the member's area would be a big plus. You can't just have a bunch of text and a couple videos there. Seriously, people who signup will never rebill, unless they forget to cancell. Even if you add a video a day or whatever, they will get enough of that right away unless you provide interraction with them.

i agree with interactive but allowing people to post unrestricted is a NO NO as there are always negative idiots out there. I'll be expanding all the time on it. not just videos but all kinds of pick up information. looking at expanding into a lot of things inside as time goes on and expanding with members I hope will increase retension


I'll stop there. If anyone else wants some feed back or consulting let me know. I can analyze your entire site, give you tons of ideas, suggestions etc... work out an affordable price for a couple hours of work.

Hope that helps you, good luck.





some of it did it help - some, not all - but like I said before I listen and take what i think is valid...... I did appreciate your opinions and I hope I helped you to understand why I'm not taking ALL of your ideas.

holy shit, worst porn video I ever saw: http://www.yessignals.com/movies/movie0015.html (see the end)

Sleazy my only interaction with you in all of my years on GFY was on one occasion when you called me an "idiot".

but I digress...

The site is great...you definitely took a unique approach at something that has been around in one form or another especially over the past few years. Someone is bound to knock it off...actually they are probably working on it right now.

Best of luck with it. I'm sure you won't need much.

thats cool glad I could help.

So, it's not a full blown "how to pick up girls" site. It is specifically on teaching people to look for signals girls give? Other then the signals you are not going to provide any other dating advice ? That is where my thoughts came in if it was an advice site they need to know who is giving it. If it is going to be like an encyclopedia that is different, no need to have a narrator.

You can still "partner" with someone on a budget. My personal opinion is that you need real life situations where girls give the signals for it to have a chance. IMO, that is almost as important as having credit card approval. Surely, you know someone who shoots porn and can partner with you. Even though the girls in the porn videos are really touching their hair, you can't get past the fact its a porn video, and I believe the surfer is going to spot that right away and think it is not realistic, not a situation they would ever be in. I get what you saying, but I don't think the surfer will.

Last bit of advice, something I tell everyone lauching something new. Never try to get affiiliates until your site is up and running for at least 3-6 months and you have tested it completly with your own traffic. Usually you have a one shot deal with most people. If your site has broken links, not setup for visa yet, a non optimized signup page, etc... your conversions wont be good, and niether will your affiliates. They will stop promoting and likely never give you a second chance. I see you say "its a work in progess" "you are still testing, lot of stuff to do"... great, but do it with your own traffic. Most affiliates will not appreciate their traffic being the guinea pig. Square it all away, tweak your pages, work it with your own traffic for 3-6 months till you know what works best, then go after your affiliates. You have a much better chance of keeping them that way and not pissing them off.

I just saw the video
Sleazy youre making a big mistake by putting porn on it.
You should take the porn off and keep it pg-13, list it with clickbank and use paypal as your processor.
then you can get adult AND mainstream webmasters to promote you. ever heard of DoubleyourDating?

Wow, now 100 videos like that I would pay to see, real life stuff, funny stuff. One question though, you really watched all 14 minutes ? He will probably want to edit that out though, unless that is added to the "not to do" section... don't nut in a porn model's pussy without her permission.

i've got over 200 exclusive - some better than others but like that... gona be adding one a day maybe 2 a day later

yep - even bought it. couldn't stand 10 mins of watching him

Watch the last 20 seconds... you have 200 videos like that? if so let me know.

i have quite a few with unexpected creampies, and lots of other funny endings

Well. All I have to add is.. Congrats on launching your new baby. Seems you have lots of fun with it already! Keep it up!

you might be right there - i've never launched a paysite for affiliates before.

but i stepped off the deep end so I guess we'll see if i can swim

Last I heard the site has 80 employees and makes, I think, $2 mil a month.
I think youre missing a huge opportunity by making it a ho-hum porn site instead of an informational site that teaches men how to actually MEET women, and with upsells.
Thats why dating sites are making money now when porn is stalling, because the men want to actually hook up. Your site can teach them how.

i've heard he does well.

and i'm slowly putting together a non porn version for yessignals.net


but i plan on growing and just exploring pick up things i'm interested in with the site over time.....hopefully some people will like it

I love Yes - why haven't they made a record since 2001's Magnification? IMHO one of the Top Ten albums of the decade.

Come back, Yes!!

Not sure if anyone has told you but your webmaster banners all say 60% revshare but when i signed up it only says 25%

Anyways ill be pumping alot of traffic at it for a bit ... Looks like you have a winner my friend... Good deal

Congratulations my friend! Glad to hear Visa approved before the holidays. Lotsa dudes out there needin some pointers for that big moment on New Years Eve. I'm only on page 4 of this novel and still reading. Regardless of your witty banter with some of these well meaning peers, I know from speaking with you that you are considering each and every pearl of wisdom seriously. Not a piece of advice goes unnoticed by you and I think people should know that. As with any new site, there is room to grow and the site will go through a few evolutions before it comes into its own. Most have much more experience than I do in adult but I see the success from the mainstream perspective as well and the rationale behind not making the site too much like your average "porn" site. The passion you have for this project will see it over the hurdles ahead. I love the concept and I believe you have a winner. Prove me right!

really - let me check into that...... new to this and it might take a wee bit - i want you to get 605