you sound insane

Quoted for Truth :thumbsup

The premise of your statement is false... however, if you read what I posted again you will see I wasn't making a generalization... I specifically referred to those that are insecure... You say you have threesomes... hypothetically speaking, if she wanted to have a threesome with a guy would you be cool with that? You have already demonstrated that you are ok with having a threesome with a female. My statement was about guys/girls that want to fuck someone other than their significant other but are not open to allowing their significant other the same latitude. That is insecurity.

Monogamy is a commitment to principle. Anyone that says that they are no longer sexually attracted to other people once they have committed to a relationship is lying. We are all human and it's in our nature.

:2 cents:

you are insecure too. you just want to squash it down and pretend its not there. we all have a bit in there somewhere. just wait until one of her little flings start to call her at odd times and she leaves the room to answer the call or something similar. like i said before, the only way to be completely 100% secure is to have no emotional attachment to the person.

The only cheaters i know are women.

i think a huge factor is whether or not your parents remained faithful or not. you are a product of your environment.

the people i know who cheated always came from a broken home.

i dont care what people say i will never cheat, i am very old school. sex does not run my life and it never will.

honesty is the best policy. people who cannot be honest with themselves and others about their actions are very weak minded people.

some interesting perspectives

i really think about this can be possible...BUT with some rules envolved.
like free-mind to sex, etc.