Why do you assume that an unwillingness to have one's wife fucking other men would stem from insecurity?

people are always going on about trust an insecurity. well, in reality the only way to be completely secure is to have no emotional connection at all and not care if you lose the person tomorrow or 40 years from now. people seem to think the only way to be happy is to be a robot. i just don't get it. you're human, you have insecurities, you can get jealous you can get pissed, etc. be honest withyourself..

Women are different than men. While I agree that "MEN are as faithful as their options", this simply isn't the case for women. If it was, practically NO women could leave the house and come home again without fucking three or four guys. Yeah, they have THAT many options.

Women invest more emotionally into sex than guys do and I believe most of them when they say they wouldn't cheat. Men are another matter.

I must say though, it's refreshing to see guys say that they'll let their women fuck other men. Usually these threads consist of guys talking about having threesomes with their wife and another woman, but at the same time cringe at the thought of their woman with another man.

No. You are wrong. EscortBiz knows the mind of every single human being on the planet better than they do, so you must be. :1orglaugh

:thumbsup well put.

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If always = about 50% of the time then sure

You don't know people as well as you think you do. Seems to me, you're a little too sure of yourself and base your judgements of everyone else on your own morals. I wouldn't cheat on Perrie in a million years. Dude, you have never been in a relationship that meant anything if you have the view you have.

Me and Perrie share other girls together, but we never ever have guys involved. Lucky for me, it's what Perrie wants. The ONLY reason we have threesomes is because Perrie wants them. If one of us did, and the other didn't, it simply wouldn't happen. She was the one who suggested it, and she's the one who makes the final call on girls we fuck. If I was into guys too, I'd have guys involved of course. But I'm not. Perrie just gets the best of both with us doing what we do.

That's a terrible conclusion! It's utterly untrue. Most guys don't want their girl having sex with other guys, much like most girls don't want their guy having sex with other girls. It's not insecurity. It's that most people aren't into it. Simple.

you sound insane

Quoted for Truth :thumbsup

The premise of your statement is false... however, if you read what I posted again you will see I wasn't making a generalization... I specifically referred to those that are insecure... You say you have threesomes... hypothetically speaking, if she wanted to have a threesome with a guy would you be cool with that? You have already demonstrated that you are ok with having a threesome with a female. My statement was about guys/girls that want to fuck someone other than their significant other but are not open to allowing their significant other the same latitude. That is insecurity.

Monogamy is a commitment to principle. Anyone that says that they are no longer sexually attracted to other people once they have committed to a relationship is lying. We are all human and it's in our nature.

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you are insecure too. you just want to squash it down and pretend its not there. we all have a bit in there somewhere. just wait until one of her little flings start to call her at odd times and she leaves the room to answer the call or something similar. like i said before, the only way to be completely 100% secure is to have no emotional attachment to the person.

The only cheaters i know are women.

i think a huge factor is whether or not your parents remained faithful or not. you are a product of your environment.

the people i know who cheated always came from a broken home.

i dont care what people say i will never cheat, i am very old school. sex does not run my life and it never will.

honesty is the best policy. people who cannot be honest with themselves and others about their actions are very weak minded people.

some interesting perspectives

i really think about this can be possible...BUT with some rules envolved.
like free-mind to sex, etc.