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MsCheyenne 01-10-2010 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Fucksakes (Post 16734548)
so my gf moves out, she was on anti depressants, and smoking weed, she is now with some other guy no proof but she sleeps on the couch and he sleeps on the mattress so she says...

now she is telling me she is going ot fight for him.. says good luck winning.. i do porn for a living.. i dont even know where to start to fight over him.

Hit me via email. I've been through custody hell. After three bloody years I did not lose my children...but a ton of money and most of my mind. How relevant the advice I can offer to your case is..well, it is anyone's guess...but I am most happy to talk to you. You should certainly discuss this with folks who have been through it.

Cheyenne

Agent 488 01-10-2010 06:48 PM

dude. get a mod to ban yourself. never post any shit on any board again. get a stable non-porn job. keep your nose clean and get a good lawyer. straighten the fuck up.

MakingItPay 01-10-2010 06:50 PM

Hopefully you will be able to work out custody without fighting in court. You need an attorney for advice. Get a consultation with one, for a couple hundred bucks. You will need to give them a retainer if you have to fight. Remember, she does not own your kid. Courts now understand the need to have Dad in the picture just as much as mom. If you are an involved Dad it really helps your case.

If she has a new man, she only wants your money. She probably does not want the burden of full custody (this will interfere with her new love and lifestyle), she is probably bluffing. If you can afford to, offer her to pay child support as though you are just a weekend Dad, even though you want 50% custody. If you want custody, you need to buy it. You are going to pay either way. If you fight, you pay and you may lose. If you pay enough, you can get the outcome you want and the money actually goes to your kid (or kids mom) instead of buying a new boat for your attorney.

ArsewithClass 01-10-2010 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Fucksakes (Post 16734953)
her side..

I wish I could repeat what she says.. really wish I could.

but yeah maybe she sees things different from her pov.

don't worry thou, I lay here for hours and blame myself for tons of stuff.

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I am not emotionally stable Danny. I? having a hard time but things need to change for real. I don?t like myself and didn?t like myself while I was with you. I must of made myself that way. I do miss you and did miss you while you were gone. I have a lot of anger towards a you and I resent you for a lot of things. I cant, we cant continue to have a bad relationship. Honestly Danny, WTF do you miss?? Tell me please,..

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Its really hard for me to take you seriously Dan, honestly, you made sure that I knew how bad of a person I was. Like im mentally disabled and blind like not seing how much you do for me..and stuff.. I made myself believe that I was crazy and that I needed anti depressants to make sure I watch what I do and say so I don?t get you mad, or even upset.. also, we had trust issues big time.. not that I can take away the things that I have done but you need to understand that you, also, have played with me. Several times you have threatened to leave, some other times you left, made me cry, made me beg for your forgiveness.. How?s it that LOVE?




I got thousands of emails.. good and bad ones.


End of, forget this crap, she is attention seeking. Lots of women do this. She would threaten to do this and do that, if you do not bite, nothing shall come of it.

I have learnt an important lesson in life over the past 4 or 5 years.

Love yourself, love your wife, treat everyone around you fairly. Then let what ever happens around you happen unless you can prevent anything bad happening without controlling any situation.

If she threatens anything to you, either say nothing, or "ok, if thats how you want it"


You shall either lose her and your child for a short period or more probably everything shall be resolved as you are not creating an atmosphere.

If you want her, tell her. Good luck with your troubles..... Always here for advice or to listen man :thumbsup

MsCheyenne 01-10-2010 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Agent 488 (Post 16734968)
dude. get a mod to ban yourself. never post any shit on any board again. get a stable non-porn job. keep your nose clean and get a good lawyer. straighten the fuck up.

You do not need to change occupations. Make NO apologies for how you support your family!!!!! Forget completely about being on the defense. You should stop posting here. Seriously. See if you can get this thread deleted. Unless someone has been through this, they do not know a donkey's ass from a hole on their face. Again, contact me privately. [email protected], 401-640-2446.

Cheyenne

Fucksakes 01-10-2010 07:10 PM

how do I get a thread deleted... dont see this making anything worst thou.

dav3 01-10-2010 07:18 PM

invite her over for a drink to discuss the situation. when she finally pisses, scoop some of her piss out of the toilet into a cup. kick her out and laugh in her face while you package up her piss to be sent to a lab.

18teens 01-10-2010 07:51 PM

The best advice I can give is get a good attorney right away. Stand your ground and don't let her bullshit threats intimidate you. Best of luck.

Waddymelon 01-10-2010 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fucksakes (Post 16734953)
her side..

I wish I could repeat what she says.. really wish I could.

but yeah maybe she sees things different from her pov.

don't worry thou, I lay here for hours and blame myself for tons of stuff.

---

I am not emotionally stable Danny. I? having a hard time but things need to change for real. I don?t like myself and didn?t like myself while I was with you. I must of made myself that way. I do miss you and did miss you while you were gone. I have a lot of anger towards a you and I resent you for a lot of things. I cant, we cant continue to have a bad relationship. Honestly Danny, WTF do you miss?? Tell me please,..

---

Its really hard for me to take you seriously Dan, honestly, you made sure that I knew how bad of a person I was. Like im mentally disabled and blind like not seing how much you do for me..and stuff.. I made myself believe that I was crazy and that I needed anti depressants to make sure I watch what I do and say so I don?t get you mad, or even upset.. also, we had trust issues big time.. not that I can take away the things that I have done but you need to understand that you, also, have played with me. Several times you have threatened to leave, some other times you left, made me cry, made me beg for your forgiveness.. How?s it that LOVE?




I got thousands of emails.. good and bad ones.

this is exactly what I meant by, "keep your personal business off of GFY"

Agent 488 01-10-2010 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by MsCheyenne (Post 16734984)
You do not need to change occupations. Make NO apologies for how you support your family!!!!! Forget completely about being on the defense. You should stop posting here. Seriously. See if you can get this thread deleted. Unless someone has been through this, they do not know a donkey's ass from a hole on their face. Again, contact me privately. [email protected], 401-640-2446.

Cheyenne

he's making hardly any money in adult anymore anyway by his own admission. he needs to get a steady income. what looks better to the judge - working full time at home depot or whatever or begging for piecemeal internet porn work off gfy?

anyway good luck.

fatfoo 01-10-2010 08:18 PM

Having a child - what responsibilites.

I don't want to have a son or daughter.

Not only that, I never want to be with a nasty cruel woman that calls me a fag.

I'd rather be with a good woman that does not call a straight man a fag.

POed-poster 01-10-2010 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Agent 488 (Post 16734968)
dude. get a mod to ban yourself. never post any shit on any board again. get a stable non-porn job. keep your nose clean and get a good lawyer. straighten the fuck up.

Buckle down shut the fuck up, and don't let off any steam. Hide your feelings and play perfect. Wow! Awesome advice. What purpose do you actually serve here, BTW? Have you ever made a business related post? Or are you just here to fucking troll and play Doctor Phil?

Agent 488 01-10-2010 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by POed-poster (Post 16735095)
Buckle down shut the fuck up, and don't let off any steam. Hide your feelings and play perfect. Wow! Awesome advice. What purpose do you actually serve here, BTW? Have you ever made a business related post? Or are you just here to fucking troll and play Doctor Phil?

i'm telling him to not implicate himself on the boards and make his life look kosher for the judge fuckface.

or he can keep posting and jeopardize his custody for the entertainment of gfy.

Fucksakes 01-10-2010 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Agent 488 (Post 16735090)
he's making hardly any money in adult anymore anyway by his own admission. he needs to get a steady income. what looks better to the judge - working full time at home depot or whatever or begging for piecemeal internet porn work off gfy?

anyway good luck.

hey thou you are right.. 30 days ago I deleted every site/page/post/blog I have ever made over the last 10 years because my gf hated what I did for a living even thou thats what I did when she got involved with me.. at the time I was making 20+k a month.. things got worst as time went on.. mostly cause I fell in love, had a family and spent more time not working. I begged for work cause I needed soemthing FAST.

But 30 days of hard work and dedication I can promise you I am now making more than what I was before I took off to thailand.. both in adult and mainstream. Just goes to show you thou that the #1 secret to this biz is hard work.

I have also had a full time job since I was done college, always paid my bills.

my ex has a part time job which she has had for the last year.. which is why she feels so fucking proud of herself.. i wish her the best with that.. really do.

BVF 01-10-2010 09:29 PM

you're fucked....sorry to to say so....That is if you actually shoot the content...If you're just a webmaster, she can go fuck herself.

Fucksakes 01-10-2010 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by BVF (Post 16735237)
you're fucked....sorry to to say so....That is if you actually shoot the content...If you're just a webmaster, she can go fuck herself.

I am just a webmaster on a single laptop.. I dont do phone calls.. faxs.. just get ccbill checks, everything else is on my computer bookmarked in roboform, a single folder etc.

It would be no worst than someone watching porn and jerking off every night.. I probably see less porn than the avg household.

Spunky 01-10-2010 09:51 PM

Good luck with that,hope it works out to your favor

BlackCrayon 01-10-2010 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Fucksakes (Post 16734573)
shes going to fight and take my son from me.. in case the post didnt make sense.

if she does play hardball. it doesn't sound like it would be too hard to pin her in being unstable.

Choker 01-10-2010 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Platinumpimp (Post 16734659)
No you are the retard selling cheap ass domains. :pimp

Your the one ripping people off thief, why don't you shut the fuck up and pay your bills you piece of shit


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