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all i was saying is that a lot of good relationships have been ruined by a one time alcohol induced mistake.. i believe in a no regrets philosophy and why ruin a great (if thats what he has) thing over one lapse in judgement that could have been avoided.. a wise man once told me that if you hang a piece of meat on a fence and let your dog out unattended, ultimately it will eat the meat.. its not that the dog doesnt know right for wrong or wants to disappoint you, its just in the dogs nature... now, if you keep your eye on that dog while its outside and correct it when it gets too close to the meat, does that mean you dont have control over your dog? or that your dog doesnt love you? |
I think you should let her go and buy yourself a long sleve shirt
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Anyways, some interesting points for sure man :) |
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if you could fuck any woman who would it be? ask your gf if she could fuck any guy, who would it be? |
i realize i have no physical control or power, but i can support if she goes or not.
and she did invite me, and wanted me to, and at first i hesitantly agreed and she was happy i was going. my biggest concern is that she'll be blackout drunk, by accident, and someone would take advantage or someting else bad would happen. we all know not the best quality people go to mardi gras, point proven by all the shit we see online. thats what i've tried to get across to her |
So when does cheating become cheating? Is it when she sees a guys penis (by accident of course), or is it when she flashes her tits, or is it when some guy grabs her ass, or is it when she kisses someone else, or is it when she parties with a group of guys and has sex in the hotel room?
Give an inch, take a mile... why not, your not around... and what you don't know won't hurt ya :) |
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I think you should allow her to go. This event will either strengthen your relationship or reveal underlying problems that can end it. Ultimately, the future will erase all uncertainty so move head and let the chips fall where they may.
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If I couldn't go my GF would not even think of going without me. But that is the relationship we have. You might have a relationship where you all do things more independent.
So I would suggest follow what ever your first thought was. That was your gut feeling and if you are one that pays attention to your gut feelings then follow them. |
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If she's going to be flashing her titties for beads and you're not there....well, that's just a bit fucked up, imo.
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honestly, people do things due to alcohol..
on a trip to costa rica, a little small beach town.... so i went to the local club, was dancing all night with this chic.. shes ok, maybe a 7/10.. she doesnt know how to dance so im basically having fun, teaching her how to do moves, shes drinking, and we are basically fucking on the dancefloor.. anyway later on we go outside to talk, she kisses me, and is basically trying to fuck me but her friend was cockblocking me... later on this girl starts crying hysterically and reveals to me that shes been married for 8yrs(shes like 27), got married at 19.. never EVER cheated, a good girl.. but her goofball bf left her at the club and went to the beach to hang out with his friends, so there I was, basically so close to fucking his wife, just because he left her alone... anyway after that day, i lost all trust i had for girls.. if you have a gf who is a perfectly good girl, and she somehow goes clubbing in a beach town, and some guy is dancing with her, having fun, joking, teaching her moves, and sweet talking to her, im pretty sure she'll cheat..... sometimes all you need is right situation.. i got kissed and almost fucked a married woman(only thing stopping her was her friend kept dragging her away from me and crap) |
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If your woman looks at another guy, she's cheating on you. If you fuck another woman in the same bed you share with your woman, you're cheating on her. (That's why I sleep on the couch) |
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The good news with her being the only girl is the guys would probably protect her and keep the other dudes away.... however, if she is ever going to cheat on you, it would be on that trip. She will be drunk, with millions of other drunk people, 99.9% of the guys there are looking to get laid, even the guys she will be with. Guys will be grabbing on her, trying to get her to show her tits, buying her drinks, grinding against her in the street etc... Then she goes back to a hotel room after all of that and shares a bed with a bunch of "drunk" guy friends who are all horned up looking at tits all night. If just one of those guys has a thing for her, and maybe she was always attracted to him but nothing ever happened... they both drunk, etc... you know what is going to happen. It just takes a little alcohol and opps... did we do that last night... If you can really trust her to be honest with you and she doesn't cheat, then marry that girl. I would say better than 50% chance she will at least kiss, fool around or worse. And a 90% if she fooled around but didn't have sex she wont tell you about it. Have fun thinking about what she is doing 24/7 while she is gone. The party really is 24/7 non stop. Do yourself a favor, get off of work and go. Have a good time and don't beat yourself up worry while she is gone.... which you should be worrying. :Oh crap I grew up in new orleans, went to mardi gras / french quarter every year from 16-24... trust me. either go or worry your ass off that you have an angel of a girl friend. |
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It's bad enough in this day in age when more than half people go LOOKING to cheat in their every day lives. Whether it is a co-worker or they meet some out at their local bar, or they go online looking to cheat. She could be a great girl who would never do the things i mentioned above, but put in the wrong place at the wrong time, with more tempation then she has ever had to cheat, with her judgement impaired, hell she could be 1/2 way conscious, and have some hot dude come on to her, a million miles from home, with her pussy dripping wet from all the attention she got all night flashing her boobs stuff she has never done before all her inhabitions coming out, knowing he would never find out about it and she wouldn't get caught.... come on. she wouldn't be looking for it but she would opps, slip and her tounge would land in some guys mouth and then she would likely roll with it. Most people cheat. The ones that don't, most of them don't because they have never been pushed to the brink of tempation. VERY VERY few have had pussy fall into their lap, out of town, drunk, and turned it down out of morals and principles. And most of the non cheaters wont know if they will continue to be non cheaters until they are put into that position. |
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Her tits are gonna be all over the net... I'd have problems with it :2 cents:
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Yes let her go.
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if she cared about your feelings she wouldn't go to Mardis Gras with a group of guys when you can't go. She would wait till next year and go with you. This whole "don't you trust me?" vibe they put off is just an evil way of throwing it back in your face and making you feel guilty, when the fact of the matter is a caring partner would not go on such a trip in the first place. |
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And I don't give a fuck if this is 1950 or 2010 guys cannot be "just friends" with girls. Yes there are very rare exceptions to this rule but for the most part YOUR GIRLFRIENDS "FRIENDS" WANT TO PUT THEIR PENISES INTO HER VAGINA. I bet your GF still keeps in contact with many of her ex boyfriends and booty calls. Am I right? |
Can you show us a picture of her? I'm heading down and looking for a sure thing.
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Just remember, "women" test you with this kind of crap all the time. |
i would love to hear a womans perspective on this. So women on gfy, speak your mind and dont lie.... be honest. What would you do and what do you expect other females to do who are in this situation? Im taking the chance of visiting my backpacking gf in a few months after alot of thought, from 'fuck this im not going shes fucking other people' to 'well maybe i can trust her' so i have a personal interest in this aswell. Now im at the stage 'I think i can trust her but dont know, but i need to get out of my daily boring life and a pussy is waiting for me there so why not.' And ill see how it goes from there.
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Now back to the original poster..... If this girl might be "the one" for you then get on CL and find some local New Orleans dude to follow their group around with a video camera. I bet you she will do something that is cheating such as kissing someone or letting them feel her boobs. Without even knowing your GF I would bet money on it. Sorry but she has already disrespected you by even considering going to Mardi Gras with a group of guy "friends" so why would she not disrespect you further once she gets there? |
Oh shit, you are in Miami right? Dump this girl and find a nice Brazilian girl. They don't put their men through this type of shit :thumbsup
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I would be really nice to her and when it comes up again say baby you can do whatever you want cause I trust you and know you would never do anything to risk our relationship, when she is gone bang as many whores as you can then when shit comes out later or she can't look you straight in the eye what do you care you waxed half of the chicks in town, I think trust is good but honestly mardi gras and a group of dudes would scare me, get time off from work and go with or just super glue 3 holes shut before she goes. http://redtube.com/6142
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I look forward to putting up her flashing content
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LOL! This is getting funnier by the moment ... You see those Girls Gone Wild videos? For every Girl Gone Wild, there's a fucking thousand girls who DIDN'T go wild for the camera. It's because not all girls are the same. How fucking insulting is it to all the faithful committed women here on GFY that most people in this thread are branding them unfaithful because they're tarnishing them with the same brush. Pretty bad if you ask me. And pretty terrible that every guy here who has this view that ever gets into a relationship will be insecure, and probably demean and put down and try and control his future girlfriend. I pity her when she gets with you! lol.
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Send me a pic of hers and $500 and I'll test if she'd be a cheater :)
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And I don't know if those facts were from 1955 either! :D heheh |
Guys can't be friends with a pretty girl without wanting to fuck her. Some will say they can but it's rare. They are all waiting for their time patiently because they have 0 game in the first place.
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Let her enjoy but not too much.
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Is she a serious gf? If your afraid something is going to happen to her I wouldn't let her go. Especially with a bunch of dudes. If she passes out you can bet your ass one of them is gonna be on that.
On the other hand she is going to think your insecure and controlling for not letting her go which isn't a good. It's a shitty situation. The fact she wants to still go without you though is kind of odd. |
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Personally, I am of the opinion that if you do not trust her then it is you that has the problem remaining faithful, not her. |
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