Until you put a ring on her finger you have no business not letting her be her best or worst self. If she misbehaves deal with that then.

Huh? Not sure what you are referring to.

she is very sexy

you are fucked dude. she probably thinks you are no fun and always want to work. she wants to have fun and obviously has other guys for that.

the shitty thing is, how do you know if she did or did not?

Tell her she can't go because you have an important job for her. When she asks what the important job is say "bitch make me a sandwich" :1orglaugh poll shows more than half are insecure so far and yes I would be one of them.

EVERYONE has insecurities. I've said this before and I'll say it again everyone can feel insecure and vunerable regardless of the level of trust in the relationship. If you are really honest with yourself you have to admit you are human and can be succeptable to jealousy and insecurity from time to time. The only way to feel 100% secure in a relationship is if you don't care. If it ends tomorrow or 40 years from now, it wouldn't matter. I for one trust my girlfriend a lot but I also know she is human, has the ability to break that trust at any time, as do I. I also value our life together and would be sad if she or I did something that would end the relationship. The idea of the bulletproof totally secure man is total shit. Just people lying to themselves.

omg i cant believe some of the responses. let the girl go.she'll most likely flash and get drunk but let her have a good time. its not like she is gonna jump on some other guy.

yeah anyone that doesn't trust their significant other, whether girlfriend or spouse is just plain pussy. Cheating is very uncommon and only happens in 3rd world countries. What is wrong with guys here worrying about a girl cheating, girls never cheat. :upsidedow

cheating in couples happen more often than not. When something happens more often than not don't you think it is NORMAL to worry about it? You don't need to freak out about it, you can "trust" t he person and let them go, but if you don't at least have some doubt in the back of your mind then you are a neive idiot, not a pussy. :2 cents:

now that is an intelligent response, not what baddog or twisted dave is spouting.

First of all these guys who think you shouldn't have to worry about someone cheating... well its obvious they must have never cheated themselves. They must be in long term relationships, for years and have had temption thrown at them left and right, pussy fall in their lap and they turned it down every time. That is the only way they could be soo sure someone wouldn't cheat because they would have had to at least know they wouldn't do it, under the worst (most tempting) circumstances.

No. Easy. All the right reasons have been said already. The guys going with her, if she's hot, always want to fuck her no matter how good of a friend they are. Second is opportunity brings trouble. She might never ever cheat you, or even think of that in normal situations. People tend to do stupid shit if circumstances present itself. Lastly, she should never want to go without you anyway.
People negotiating the "omfg, if you can't trust her dump her" really have it all twisted. It has nothing to do with trust.

I'd put it down to how closed your relationship is. If you guys do threesomes and shit, then no problem. If you're strictly monogamous no.

Actually ... cheating happens LESS often than not. Good fucking lord where do you get your bullshit information from? LOL!

Wow..so apparently any girl who has been let off their "leash" becomes an instant slut? Come on!

"let her go"? God help the guy who ever uses those words about me.

If you don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her. I think it sounds like you need to have a talk with her. Don't speak as if you own her. Speak to her like a human being and be honest about your worries and feelings.

LOL maybe you guys missed my post apage back about the girl who cheated with me


some of you are too naive.. you stay there "trusting" your gf while she comes down to vacation here with her girlfriends and get banged by random guys.. i see it everyday..

girls come down to panama with friends, including married women, then at the clubs they are drunk, some latin guy swoops in with suave shit, all of a sudden she doesnt even bring up her husband anymore.. more alcohol, dancing, and sweet talking and they are making out...

ive seen it happen dozens of times... give someone the right situation/person and pretty much EVERYONE will cheat

You are breaking 3 of Leykis 101 Rules:

- Women, you have no male friends. Every male you call a friend wants to bang the living fuck out of you. If you don't believe me, then as a test...tell any one of your male friends that you want to sleep with them and see if they turn you down.

- Stay away from any women who says the words "All my friends are guys". That is trouble and should be avoided at all costs.

- If your girlfriend or boyfriend is spending a lot of time with a "friend" of the opposite sex (ESPECIALLY an "Ex"), dump that bitch.

This is the first one I came across:

http://www.catalogs.com/info/relatio...n-each-ot.html (50% of women and 60% of men in marriages will cheat)

GF/BF relationship cheating has to be a lot higher than married couples for a million obvious reasons.

I am sure I could find 100's of more articles/stats for you, or you could just google it yourself. I never looked at any of those surveys or articles before now, I just did so I could give you some "proof". I've always based my opinions off of reality and real life experiences. Welcome to the 21st century, it isn't 1950 anymore.

By any chance do you life under a rock ?

just ignore him.. ive seen too much stuff first hand down here in panama that ive lost all trust for women...its incredible.. Heres a test.. think your gf is very faithful?? ok well lets say she goes on vacation to somewhere like panama with her friends..

anyway so i run into her with some of my friends, we talk to them, they dont know anyone so we invite them out, take them out, go to the beach, play with them, im 99.9% sure your gf is gonna get fucked...

bottom line is if a "FUN, COOL" dude with a+ game, comes along, and you are no where near(1000+ miles away) , throw in some alcohol, and ur gf is done..

There are a million reasons why people don't cheat. They may have thought about it but just never acted on it, or they may have never been tempted to the point to really be tested. Just because you don't go online at night while your significant other is sleeping and start trying to hook up with people, doesn't mean you aren't a cheater. You never really know until you have been tested. Guys (and girls) might go out to a bar and be good, not go hit on anyone but what if people hit on you? What if someone really attractive hits on you and wants to have sex with you. How many times has that happened to you, guys especially ? ( yeah I know everyone on GFY is pimps and playas and they can pick up any person they want :upsidedow )

One of the biggest reasons people don't cheat is because there too many "cons" to doing it. For example, they can have enough self control knowing that if they do cheat at the corner bar they significant other will find out etc.... Being at mardi gras, hundreds of miles from home, with a group of people that doesn't know your boyfriend, getting drunk, sex type atmosphere, etc... she will be tested probably the most she ever will be in her life to cheat. All of those "cons" like being close to home he might find out will be gone and the only thing left to stop her will be her conscious... also keep in mind they are not married, sounds like they don't have any kids, not sure if they are even living together and they sound pretty young. The less ties, the better the chance. Not saying 100% its going to happen but a better than 50% that is for sure.

yup.. many people dont cheat because of the cons.. but trust me, if a REALLY attractive guy hits on your girl, and he is smooth, and your girl is semi drunk, its a wrap..

attraction is not a choice..

no. easiest question of the day, next?

oh so she's only gonna show her tits to hordes of drunk guys to be an ultimate attention whore like all the other dumb sluts? thats a relief. :1orglaugh

Where are the photos?

Can you post a picture of her? I would like to pass it along to my cameramen so they..... ah....know who to avoid.....

Exactly what I said. Thank you.

Just for fun let's reverse the situation.

Guy: "Honey, I know you can't go to Mardi Gras but I still want to go. A few of my female friends want me to go with them and I really want to go. Is that okay with you?"

What would most girlfriends say to that?

this was some really funny shit by the way:1orglaugh

you are so bad. i guess thats why they call you baddog. rock on your with your bad self, baddog.

So can we have an update? Did she end up going or what?

If she does cheat there is a better than 50% chance she wont tell him anyway. You probably wont get an update for a couple days. Mardi gras is still kicking as we speak, at least for another 6 hours or so.

its mardi gras thats what you do there.

i went last year with my gfs. we had the time of our lives. due to poor planning this year i was unable to attend. with the saints winning the superbowl i bet its even crazier. oh well, we still have jazz fest :)

Still waiting on an answer. Anyone?

Why would you add all the details? That is not very guyesque. It would be more like,

Guy: "Honey, I know you can't go to Mardi Gras but I still want to go. A few of my friends want me to go with them and I really want to go. Is that okay with you?"

you know the answer to that one, not a women out there would let her man go.

Have to disagree.

She's cheating on you.

Tell her this...
"Hey babe. I'd love to go with you and it sounds like a blast. I really wish I could go, but I have a lot of work I have to do, and already have plans with a few of my female friends during that time. Have fun though. I'll see you when you get back."

Then, go get a hooker when she's gone.

:1orglaugh

yeah, you can pretty much count on it :thumbsup

But really, if my girlfriend asked me if she could go there with some of her guy friends I would be concerned about my relationship.

I hope this thread is a joke.

If not, I hope the reason you're not answering is because she doused your bed with gasoline and set you on fire while you were asleep and now she's showing her tits on Bourbon for some 10 cent beads.

So did she cheat and you broke up ??? Did she come home ??? lol

So if she doesn't have a ring she can get fucked off whoever ??

Wow!


I've been with my gf for 6 years now. We aren't married. So does that mean both her and myself can go fuck around ? Because that's what your comment looks like...